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previously: fatuglyorslutty.com 🪦 lately: o11y and street dance and wtfff is going on honestly i probably shouldn't be here 🫠 she/her/hers

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grace @grace.lol · 20/09/2026
i started a new Hades 2 save and i beat Chronos with a +65% damage-to-me Eris “blessing” lol. i used to be such a button masher, this is cool
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holographic liberal @transliberalism.substack.com · 14/09/2026
Hey y'all. I'm in a really bad place financially and really need help. If you can donate anything, it'd be appreciated. I and my husband are struggling to pay for food, hygiene products, and medicine. I'm working two jobs right now, and it's still not enough. gofund.me/a7cadcf04
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Donate to Help Sophia and Ezra with Rent and Essentials, organized by Sophia Hottel
Our names are Sophia and Ezra. We are a queer couple living in Richmond,… Sophia Hottel needs your support for Help Sophia and Ezra with Rent and Essentials
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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 15/08/2026
Hey everyone. 

Last night, to my great surprise, I received a long email from Saber Interactive CEO Matt Karch. He apologized unreservedly for the awful way he spoke about me in the press. The email’s full text will stay between us; I’m not that kind of girl. But I have confirmed it was from him. 

Matt said he regretted escalating, and how people online were speaking about me. I’m not worried about being called slurs by random commenters—I’m a trans woman, that’s every day for me—but it stunk to have my skill and reputation built of 20 years in games publicly maligned by someone with institutional power. One thing I saw people saying about me, and that Matt fueled the flames of too, was that this is not my first time calling a former employer out, so I must love drama or be hard to work with. The truth is, bad treatment is everywhere in games; I’m just more willing than others to call it out. And I call it out so maybe others will be willing, too, when it happens to them.

 I’ve been firm from the beginning that I was telling the truth; I think we can all now agree that’s been borne out. Matt expressed a desire to make it right with me; at this time I don’t really know what that looks like for me, and I’ll have to take some time to sit with it, but I do at least accept his apology. None of this changes my stance on AI. Matt and I obviously differ on this, and as a CEO the consequences of its use fall on him, and unfortunately also on his employees.

Apologies are simply in too short a supply these days to spurn one when it’s offered. 

God willing, this is the last statement I’ll need to make about this.

xo
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Giant Bomb @giantbomb.com · 13/08/2026
And now, a lesson on CEO-ing from Matthew Karch, CEO of Saber Interactive:
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Micah @rincewind.run · 13/08/2026
this is one of the most ridiculous and unprofessional things I've ever seen and I've been following video games for my entire adult life
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Zoë “Baddie Proctor” Quinn @unburntwitch.com · 13/08/2026
I don't know what's more damning, the possibility of some guy with one of the worst cases of CEO brain typing "who is Stella" into Claude because his grey matter is too rotted to remember who he hired or him thinking its a sick own on a former employee to lie about having done that in the press
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grace @grace.lol · 13/08/2026
aaaabsolutely true, what an insane choice who? never heard of her. also here are some specific third-hand details. as demonstrated with my clever AI disclosure strategy, obviously I did not run any of this by HR or legal
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Lupita Nihongo @otsumamiboy.blacksky.app · 09/08/2026
I don’t like when people think Being A Dick is the same thing as Having Balls. It’s not. Not even close. In fact there’s a Vas Deferens between them.
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grace @grace.lol · 09/08/2026
so close to the goal! ✨
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grace @grace.lol · 06/08/2026
finally picked up one of these and sometimes having decent o11y is both Better And Worse. 😰 surprised the wildfire smoke is lower impact than I expected, surprised transit is so high, and not enjoying the experience of slowly observing workplace CO2 increase 📈
a chart of CO2ppm from the aranet4, depicting ~750ppm in the morning, outdoor dips of ~500 with spikes to 1200 on morning transit, and a steady increase indoors from ~650 to nearly 1200 during the workday, and climbing
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grace @grace.lol · 29/07/2026
dance homework snippet: robot mannequin no music, no/min arms
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skeeter devilpenis @guypussy.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
CIS PPL LOCK IN, his surgery is on THURSDAY and he needs your help to get the care he needs to survive!!!! 👇👇👇
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Courtney Milan @courtneymilan.com · 21/07/2026
Hi all, @ingloriousgigi.bsky.social's kid desperately needs our help to keep her out of the prison pipeline. She deserves the break she would get automatically if it were not for the inherent misogynoir in our system.
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Evil Jemma "Buy my books" Topaz @jemma.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Okay, something slightly new. I wrote a story in anger. It's heavy and it made me cry. It is about UK trans stuff. There isn't much plot; it's mostly conversation. There's a lot of talk of suicide. If this doesn't sound like much of an advert, it isn't. write.as/inclusions/a...
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A Huge Problem for a Sane World
\[A Short Story…\] Emma worried the whole ride down that she would get in trouble. She had never really skipped school; I mean, sometime...
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Gillian Branstetter @gbbranstetter.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Very thankful for this letter to Becky Pepper-Jackson (the 16 year-old trans girl SCOTUS ruled against yesterday) from James Dale, a gay man whose expulsion from the Boy Scouts was upheld by the Supreme Court in 2000.
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To the Trans Girl Who Just Lost at the Supreme Court: So Did I 26 Years Ago
A letter to Becky Pepper Jackson about her trans sports case defeat at SCOTUS yesterday
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The Trandalorian @charliejaneanders.com · 21/06/2026
I've seen Hailey deal with some really tough shit over the years, and survive being trans/travesti in Brazil. I've seen her run for public office and build some incredible resources for others. Now her mom has cancer and it's a huge challenge. Can you spare a few bucks? <3
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grace @grace.lol · 17/06/2026
today I went thrift store shopping on behalf of a possibly unhatched baby goth trans egg. 🏳️‍⚧️ 🐣 hoping something helps them feel more like themselves, or at least steers us in any useful direction beyond The Same Hoodie Every Single Day
thrift store checkout screen showing a list of purchased items, including women’s sleeveless tops, skirts, tanks & tees. 
Item Count: 45
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Dylan Wilbanks is not a Halloween person @dylanw.social · 01/06/2026
Reminder that Klingons say TRANS RIGHTS BRING HONOR TO YOUR HOUSE
DS9 scene: Kor, a Klingon, greets Dax as Curzon. Dax corrects him as the host is now in Jadzia, a Trill female. Cor immediately responds, "Jadzia, my beloved old friend" without missing a beat. 

Right: Two tweets from 2019: "This Pride Month, never forget that Klingons had trans rights"; "No hostility, no confusion, no clumsy excuse-filled justification, just a quick self-correction and the exact same amount of love and respect before and after. Cis allies: Be like Kor."
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grace @grace.lol · 14/05/2026
years ago I was going thru a tough time and Lily’s Garden was part of how I coped. what I’m saying is it’s important for my mental health to hire @antlervel.vet to write dialogue DLC for Hades 2 and you can bet I will run down every branch of that narrative tree @supergiantgames.bsky.social
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grace @grace.lol · 17/04/2026
tried out a neon effect in a colouring book, it’s fun!
a colouring book page depicting a bedroom with space theme decor, telescope, bed, stuffed toys, side table, and a window out to the stars. the page is mainly coloured in black marker with neon-effect outlines with paint markers in pink, yellow, green, blue
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grace @grace.lol · 05/03/2026
hades 2: is athena a mean girl? i’m not done this arc yet but goddess of wisdom what is going ON here lol
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Rachel Gilmore @rachelgilmore.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
Tonight, two of the white nationalists I reported on in this piece showed up to attempt to intimidate me on a private night out at a small music venue. I’ll have more to say tomorrow. I’m safe. They also didn’t pay cover 🖕
Image of the white nationalists I reported on, Shawn Beauvais-MacDonald and Giulio Zardo, attempting to intimidate me at a small local music venue.Image of the white nationalists I reported on, Shawn Beauvais-MacDonald and Giulio Zardo, attempting to intimidate me at a small local music venue.Image of the white nationalists I reported on, Shawn Beauvais-MacDonald and Giulio Zardo, attempting to intimidate me at a small local music venue.
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grace @grace.lol · 01/03/2026
looked up schedule details for an upcoming event and saw a new flavour of Not Logged In, Cannot See (cc: @jennschiffer.com) browser version of a 3-img IG post only shows the 3rd image, and zero of the post caption. no “click to expand” — just no text. after the “view in IG?” prompt first of course
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Karlito P @litop12.blacksky.app · 01/03/2026
Jayme Lawson from Sinners hit the nail on the head and said how I felt with the whole BAFTAs situation.
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Robert "The Bobby Yaga" McNees @mcnees.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
There's a "is anyone even reading this" sort of honesty you get in the software update release notes from a project that's been around for a long time.
The screenshot of the release notes reads:

A new version of TeX Live Utility is available!
TeX Live Utility 1.55 is now available-you have 1.54. Would you like to download it now?
Release Notes:
Changes Since 1.54
• Fix bug 137, homepage link in Help Book.
• First release in a long time, since I don't use TeX anymore and resent the very idea of paying Apple annually for the privilege of giving away free and open-source software. Also, I'm really lazy. Please accept my apologies for all the annoying issues you've encountered in this mission-critical software.
• Updated mirror list, which was three years out of date.
• Added missing legacy mirrors, which was even more out of date.
• Added an alert on startup when user tries Homebrew's lobotomized MacTex, because those lunatics left timgr but removed its database.
Thanks for nothing, guys. Bug 142 and 144.
• Use a custom user-agent to work around the Anubis bot trap on texlive.info. Can't wait to see what else breaks because of this, thanks to the profusion of degenerate Artificial Insemination fetishists scraping websites to feed their models.
• Lists of countries in Repository/Continent are now sorted. No idea how you people let me get away with that one for the last fifteen years.
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Canada's National Observer @nationalobserver.com · 26/02/2026
NEW: The Chinese-language messages that accused non-ABC Vancouver councillors didn't start with Lenny Zhou, who has since apologized for them. They started with the mayor.
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Vancouver Mayor Ken Sim started false claim councillor 'handed out illegal drugs'
Sim on Tuesday had applauded Coun. Lenny Zhou for "acknowledging his mistake" and retracting elements of the claim that Zhou shared on Chinese-language social media, but Sim did not reveal that it was...
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Justin McElroy 🇨🇦 @jmcelroy.bsky.social · 25/02/2026
ABC Vancouver has ruled that Pete Fry's motion saying that Vancouver opposes ICE agents in Vancouver and asking Ottawa to reject deployment during the World Cup is invalid and cannot be voted on. They say it's because they have assurances from the US that they won't be sending ICE agents.
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grace @grace.lol · 14/02/2026
reached a new phase of burnout! normally I’m always moving, even small. (dancers can’t sit still) this week my body still responded to movement signals, but not as much. my hands let a bowl slip out of them. my feet shuffled. I stumbled. concentrating just to walk. bizarre experience
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jenn schiffer 😎 @jennschiffer.com · 11/02/2026
but if you just want to do some mindless play (or mindful - it’s my birthday but it’s your life) take a little break and just make some pixel art make8bitart.com
make8bitart.com
make 8-bit art!
make8bitart.com is a fun free in-browser pixel art tool for you!
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🕯️ bugs rock 🕯️ @bugsrock.online · 11/02/2026
new candles, new bug report 🪻🌲🪲✍️ bugsrock.online/blog/februar...
A photo of two candles on a green backdrops surrounded by amethysts, strawberry candies, a dish filled with green-tipped matches, and a green chrome 20 sided roll to 11 because my birthday is on the 11th. The candle on the left is a green two-tiered cubic pillar candle with a handmade terrazzo-like style green pattern on the tops of each tier. on the right is a periwinkle glass with white wax candle called lavender smoke.
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grace @grace.lol · 09/02/2026
we’re all planning on reduced forethought capacity (I can plan about two days ahead lately) and so for an interesting new sensation, you might “enjoy” reading perspective from one year ago ca.news.yahoo.com/ominous-dona...
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Donald Trump Just Shared A Very Ominous Post, And People Are Calling It "One Of The Worst Statements Ever Made By A Sitting US President"
Um, is anyone else worried?
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Tiff 🏳️‍⚧️ & Eve Comics @tiffandevecomics.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
look, I love my state and its resistance to fascism, but I also know what a beach should be like. #webcomics
(Tiff and Eve at a crowded protest)
Tiff: (Indicating to protest sign behind her that says ‘Minnesota NoICE’) “Hey, Eve, check out that sign.”
Eve: “HA! Cute!”
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Tiff: “Times are tough, but you gotta love how it’s unified the state.
Eve: “And all over! They’re even protesting in Italy and France!”
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Tiff: “Wow! It’s like the whole world is watching.”
Eve: “Hell yeah! All on eyes on Minnesota’s fight against fascism!”
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Tiff: “God, I hope we can go back to being a fly-over state after this.”
Eve: “Yeah, I didn’t move to somewhere with terrible beaches to be noticed.”
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grace @grace.lol · 01/02/2026
so conflicted to know the big picture and still be here bawling with relief. we become haunted whether we want to or not.
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grace @grace.lol · 01/02/2026
they have infinity dollars and like 20k guys stealing children. severe trauma. teargassing toddlers. the cruelty is the point
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Mitch Green @councilorgreen.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
I just got tear gassed along with thousands of union members, many of whom had their families with them. Federal agents at the ICE facility tear gassed children. We must abolish ICE, DHS, and we must have prosecutions. I expect to see enforcement of our city code prohibiting the use of tear gas.
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Doug Mack @douglasmack.bsky.social · 01/02/2026
late-night reminder to get involved in some way and it even counts if you do something small like buying snacks or hand warmers or making cookies take care of your community, bit by bit. it all adds up.
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The Cookie Theory of Collective Action
Build community, bring snacks, and other tips from an occupied city
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Zoë “Baddie Proctor” Quinn @unburntwitch.com · 31/01/2026
For proof, a friend who sat in on that interaction thought it was so batshit he had this made for me
A golf trophy that says “congratulations Zoe Quinn drove GamerGate from 4chan”
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grace @grace.lol · 31/01/2026
TIL Scott Adams decorated his man cave like a college dorm in his garage with traffic cones and a decorative air compressor
Scott Adams’ man cave decorated as a college dormitory inside his lavish mansion’s garage, with a bike he rarely uses, bowling balls, neon green lava lamps, beige wood cabinetry, orange traffic cones, and an air compressor beneath the TV playing Fox news
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grace @grace.lol · 28/01/2026
not the same thing but the street dance community absolutely will not drop Chris Brown. loved Kendrick, but didn’t drop Drake. I doubt it will drop Nicki Minaj. you can be in class learning choreo for 30-40min before the instructor first plays the song and, welp
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Ian Coldwater 🧊🚫 @lookitup.baby · 25/01/2026
I just want people outside of Minneapolis to watch this and imagine listening to that noise over you literally all the time
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grace @grace.lol · 10/01/2026
my therapist recommended the book Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski after experiencing stress, YOU MUST DO SOMETHING to tell your body that it is safe, otherwise you’re still soaked in stress juice (sorry for weird alt text on a columned table)
partial table from The Burnout Workbook

How to Complete the Cycle
There are lots of ways. Not all of them will work for you, and none of them work for everyone. You probably already know some of the things that work for you, and you’ll recognize them below.

(table column headings)
Cycle-Completing Activity
Defined As
Example
Most Effective When

Moving your body
Physical activity is the single most efficient strategy for completing the stress response cycle.
Any movement at all can help remind your body that it can move you from danger to safety. If it's effective for you, get your body moving enough to breathe deeply for 20 to 60 minutes a day, most days of the week.
Sweat it out by running, swimming, biking, or dancing to Beyonce in your kitchen.
You have access to it, and you need to remind your brain that your body Is a safe place to live.

Sleeping
Your brain practices and completes experiences from the past, helping you process stress among all the other good things sleep does for us).
Probably 7 to 9 hours-in one continuous lump or in multiple chunks, during the part of the day when your body asks for it, depending on whether you're an early bird or a night owl.
You are living in a humon body. If you change only one thing in your life after using this workbook, let it be getting adequate sleep.

Breathing
Deep breathing so that your belly expands and contracts.
Breathe in slowly to a count of 5, hold that breath for a count of 5, slowly exhale for a count of 10, and pause for a count of 5. Repeat 5 times.
Your stress isn't that high, or when you just need to siphon off the very worst of the stress so you can get through a difficult situation, after which you'll do something more hardcore.

Engaging in positive social interaction
Casual but friendly interactions with another person.
Have a polite conversation with your seatmate or say "Nice day" to the barista when you buy your coffee.
Your brain needs a reminder that the world is a safe place.(page 2 of the table)

Showing affection
Deeper connection with a loving presence who likes, respects, and trusts you, and whom you like, respect, and trust.
Specifically, an action-a long kiss or hug-that tells your body that you are safe with your community.
Kiss your partner for 6 seconds.
Hug someone you love and trust for 20 full seconds, while both of you are supporting your own weight.
Pet a cat or play with a dog.
You are looking for an immediate shift from a state of anxiety to a state of safety.

Laughing
Loud, silly, abdomen-aching, helpless laughter.
Belly laugh with another person-or even reminisce about times you've laughed together.
You want to relieve stress in the easiest, most fun way possible.

Having a big ol' cry
Crying may not change the situation that caused your stress, but it helps you complete the cycle.
The crying may just happen on its own, or you can access it by watching your favorite tear-jerker movie.
You are looking to move from feelings of overwhelm and stuckness into a state of release and relief.

Expressing yourself creatively
Making a thing just for the pleasure of making it can move difficult feelings from inside your body out to a safe place-into a song, poem, mural, sculpture, scarf, meal, etc.
Sing, dance, write, recite, build, carve, cook, knit, paint, draw, etc.
You have the opportunity to dedicate time and resources to making things.

Engaging your imagination
Whether you imagine a thing, or it's actually happening in the world, your brain acts very similarly. This means that you can move your body through a stress cycle using your imagination alone.
Read a book, watch a movie, or play a game with the kind of heroic ending that makes you want to cheer and tell people about it! (Just staring at comfort TV is numbing rather than cycle completing.)
You get carried away by stories. Also convenient if you are limited in
engaging in other cycle-completing activities (i.e., you're on a train or you have really low energy).
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Matthew Vinge @mvinge.bsky.social · 23/01/2026
Gotta remind yourself not to cry when you see the kid's signs. It's negative -25°F and tears are dangerous. "LEAVE MY FRIENDS ALONE!" "ICE GIT OUT YA FUCKIN DUMBIES 😡"
Two small children hold signs they made. "LEAVE MY FRIENDS ALONE!" "ICE GIT OUT YA FUCKIN DUMBIES 😡"
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Norm Charlatan @normcharlatan.bsky.social · 23/01/2026
The funniest shit is that I feel like the huge turnout downtown is almost because of the cold not in spite of it. The fact that it’s -10 degrees out led to just more defiance, like thousands out there saying, it isn’t even that bad out.
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just Dave @justdave.bsky.social · 23/01/2026
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Ian Coldwater 🧊🚫 @lookitup.baby · 23/01/2026
This is the real story.
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grace @grace.lol · 23/01/2026
remember when video game journalists learned that women did not want to talk to them after they proved untrustworthy during GG
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John Moe @johnmoe.bsky.social · 22/01/2026
I was already broken and then the Liam Ramos thing broke me again. But the other form of broken is to think it’s fine and at least I’m not broken like that.
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Olivia Waite @oliviawaite.com · 22/01/2026
KIDNAPPED. You don’t arrest a child. The word you’re looking for is KIDNAPPED.
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ceej @ceej.online · 22/01/2026
I guess I do think if you participated in the arrest of a five-year-old you are probably just fundamentally incompatible with society. That you are not a safe person for humanity to be around, generally
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Jason Chavez @jchavezmpls.bsky.social · 22/01/2026
Please help us bring Liam Adrian Cornejo Ramos (he’s only 5 years of age and is currently in pre-K. Yesterday, he and his father were kidnapped by ICE. This will help the family with legal services to help reunite Liam and his dad with their family. gofund.me/be8a1b2ab
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Donate to Help Bring 5-Year-Old Liam Home, organized by sarai Orquiz
Liam Adrian Cornejo Ramos is just 5 years old and currently in pre-K. Yesterday, he and h… sarai Orquiz needs your support for Help Bring 5-Year-Old Liam Home
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