Reposted by KJ Scott
Thinking again about @nathanburgoine.bsky.social's careful (and very gentle given how frustrating this shit can be!) essay on "who gets to tell their own stories, who profits the most from them, and what that means for queer men in these spaces/the culture"
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The Shoulder Check Problem
Like a lot of my blog posts here, this one was sparked at a specific time over a specific conversation, but over the years I’ve seen this particular topic come up again and again like waves on a sh…