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Merry Hadaway

@kindjourneys.bsky.social
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Queer, trans, disabled singer, fanboy, and frustrated outdoorsman. Living by the sea in a lovely Scottish town. He/him. Blocking bigots is good self-care.

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Ryan Estrada @ryanestrada.com · 06/09/2025
Just a reminder to check for your name in this list of books that OpenAI trained from. If your name is there, they probably owe you several thousand dollars. OpenAI cried that if everyone eligible author files, the company will go bankrupt, so I'm alerting every author I have ever spoken to.
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Search LibGen, the Pirated-Books Database That Meta Used to Train AI
Millions of books and scientific papers are captured in the collection’s current iteration.
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autogynephagia @cas.bsky.social · 18/08/2025
Dear all trans women: Whatever you talk about or how you behave is how women talk and behave, because you are a woman who talks and exhibits behavior. You do not need to copy or mimic some kind of headcanon cis woman. Literally *anything* you do is definitionally something a woman does.
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Umbra The Lioness @umbralioness.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
READ. THIS. ARTICLE!
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Somhairle Kelly @eithin.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Most people don't know how to pronounce my name ("SOAR'lyeh" is close enough) but I've never had anyone giggle at it. Let alone a supposed professional. I know Anglophone SF culture has always been parochial, but you would think. You would bloody well think.
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Sam P-F @smhwpf.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Good to see one paper taking a stand.
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Lee Hurley @hleehurley.com · 08/08/2025
I don't know how you can say that blatantly discriminating against trans people is not discrimination, but that's the UK now. Don't think for a second it will stop with trans people. We've been telling you this for a decade.
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QueerAF @wearequeeraf.com · 05/08/2025
6/ Analysis - @jamiewareham.co.uk "This is a rare positive ruling for the Trans+ community - but it only received a handful of mainstream media stories. I'm confident if the ruling had been negative, it would have been blasted across headlines as a propaganda tool against gender affirming care."
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QueerAF @wearequeeraf.com · 05/08/2025
A UK judge has ruled that a private gender clinic was right to get an "outstanding" review from the UK medical regulator the Clinical Quality Commission 🏳️‍⚧️ It's a rare positive ruling for the Trans+ community - let's take a look at it 🧵
A team photo with four people, and the logo 'gender plus' in front of a white wall, with a greyed out overlay
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
UK organisations with trans members/service users: this is the time to:- a) refuse to comply with transphobia b) make it clear to your trans members/service users that you are going to refuse, so they know they are safe. Don't be intimidated into appeasing fascists, please.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
YES. More trans girls everywhere please.
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✨John Carpenter’s BOObies✨ @ourflagmeansbeth.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
I think a lot of people need to realize that they’re not too much to love, that they’ve been loved by the wrong people, and that’s not your fault; it’s their fault for trying to diminish you.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Dear UK govt, You seem a bit confused about this, so I hope that I can make it clearer:- - LLMs are not people. Corporations are also not people. - trans people, Palestinians, refugees, disabled people, and indeed all other human beings *are* all people. Please act accordingly. FFS. Merry
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Robin Hayward 🌳 🏳️‍⚧️ @canopyrobin.com · 08/08/2025
OpenAI doesn't realise that PhD-level expertise has very little to do with the stuff you know and more to do with how you can think. I forget facts from mine all the time! The value in my PhD is knowing how to reliably generate, evaluate, and defend or dismiss information that's new to the world.
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floot the gender woo gerbil 🇵🇸 @flootzavut.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Doomscroll break
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Among so much I don't understand about "gender criticals" (such a misnomer) who still think they're protecting women: if hating on trans women was good for cis women, *Donald Trump wouldn't do it*. They need to look at which men agree with them, and *why they do so*.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Well they should stop pursuing aims that kill lots of people then, shouldn't they.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
If enough cis people and enough organisations refuse to comply with the UK gvt's transphobic bullshit it *will* become undoable. Protect trans women using women's spaces/trans men using men's. Be inclusive. Be kind. Put the safety of trans ppl over the comfort of a tiny minority of bigots.
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National Trust @nationaltrust.org.uk · 08/08/2025
Happy International Cat Day! Put your paws together please for the felines who work hard to keep the places you love running. Fliss makes sure young plants have plenty of heat for growing in the glasshouses at Stourhead in Wiltshire...
A black and white cat curled up on top of a flower pot, with the stem of the plant in the pot just about visible through the fur.
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- Nicola - 🌸🎀💕 @paneraiwearer.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Trans flag with "Fuck you I won't do what you tell me."
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PinkNews @pinknews.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
NHS announces public consultation into youth gender services – here's how you can get involved
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How to get involved in NHS youth gender service consultation
The NHS has announced a public consultation into changes to its youth gender services. Here's how to get involved.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
The UK for the past 80 years, accurately: Chamberlain was wrong and appeasing fascists is bad. We are an awesome country and we won't do *that* again. The UK gvt at the moment: I know we're Labour but we can have a little fascism (and a lot of appeasing Trump) as a treat.
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Micah @rincewind.run · 07/08/2025
I would like everything everywhere to stop getting worse all the time
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Sending huge solidarity to trans actors and other trans performing arts industry professionals today. It's got to be *horrible* knowing that there are colleagues (actors and directors and writers and crew) still willing to work with Rowling. :(
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
It's such a fricking far-right playbook thing. They put the comfort of the only women they deem acceptable (cis, but let's face it also het, white, abled, femme, thin, and apparently under 5'11" too...) ahead of the *safety* of all other women. It's enraging anyone is falling for it.
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Natalie Bennett @nataliegreenpeer.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
#GoodNews on #biodiversity, because we all need some www.bbc.com/news/article...
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Wild-born chough fledges in Kent for first time in 200 years
The red-billed chough, once a common sight, vanished in Kent due to habitat loss and persecution.
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John Wiswell @wiswell.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Trans rights *are* good. If you oppose them, you need to fix your heart, especially before you run for an office that controls other people's lives.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Autistic humans don’t burn out from being autistic. We burn out from performing something we’re not. Smiling when it hurts. Shrinking so others feel big. Pretending we’re fine. Masking is survival. Unmasking is living with your needs met, truly.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
I'm one of those no longer entitled to a booster, and I'm livid. And worried. :( If you're not at the bare minimum wearing a mask on public transport and in crowded indoor spaces at the moment... please start doing so again. Bringing the infection rate down is even more crucial now.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
I'm one of those no longer entitled to the COVID booster and... yeah. Not good. :( (Also, do the gvt want to reduce the number of ppl too disabled to work or not?! Long Covid is a growing problem, and utterly horrible for those who get it...)
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Senthorun S. Raj @senthorun.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
It’s a queer joy to be in Iceland this week and talk about my new book at the Reykjavik Pride conference. It was energising to be in an atmosphere of sunshine and (painted) rainbows while talking through some of the feelings that shape our struggles for legal and social justice. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🇮🇸
Man takes selfie with his new book in front of a rainbow road.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 08/08/2025
Oh, I've just fallen in love with tenor Nicky Spence's voice! Aaaaah so beautiful. (New album of art songs (by Kaprálová, Dvořák, Bartók, and Křička) he's released with the awesome pianist (and Spence's husband :) ) Dylan Perez. It's called "Sparks and Ashes". V recommended. :) ) #TinyJoys
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Leonoliomonolio @lolrigole.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
The most powerful argument for me was when a blind colleague said that when he found that due to the strong alt text etiquette on mastodon he was finally able to browse through hours of cat pics and viz content, he almost cried. You think blind people don’t look at your stuff but they do. Let them.
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Ligus @greyauk.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Visually impairment is a wide spectrum. Sometimes it's just nice to know the colours, sometimes something needs to be pointed out because there isn't enough contrast, sometimes people just want to know what's in the picture. ALT-text isn't easy, but it helps.
A guide to writing ALT-text
there is a photo of a capybara chilling in the water.
Around it is descriptive text describing the photo (colour, expression, description, identify who, interesting features)
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POST | Aberdeen Culture @postabdn.com · 07/08/2025
Hate groups are planning to gather outside the Links Road Hotel again this Saturday at noon. A counter-protest is being organised to stand in solidarity with the city’s asylum seekers. Share and help spread the word.
Poster for “All Out Against Fascism” protest. Aberdeen events: 12pm and 5:30pm at 213 Links Road on Saturday 9 August. Message reads “Stand against hate, racism and lies” with protest photo and supporting group logos.
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Maggie Chapman (she/her) @maggiechapman.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
📢 ABERDEEN AND PETERHEAD: ALL OUT FOR HUMAN RIGHTS Get organised THIS weekend to stand up against the anti-migrant hate that's rearing its ugly head once again. Spread the word. Migrants are not the enemy.
ALT TEXT: A red, green and white poster with black text which reads: "All out in Aberdeen. Stand against hate, racism and lies! Saturday August 9th 12pm 213 Links Road AB24 5EF"ALT TEXT: A red, green and white poster with black text which reads: "All out in Peterhead. Stand against hate, racism and lies! Saturday August 9th 12pm Drummers Corner AB42 1ZP"
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Jennie Kermode @jenniekermode.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
When Nabil's house was destroyed in an Israeli assault, he managed to save his kindergarten graduation certificate. Now he and his brothers long to go back to school. Please help them to survive this war and recover their dream. www.gofundme.com/f/emergency-... @mommunism.bsky.social #MutualAid 🍉
A young Palestinian boy beams as he holds up his kindergarten graduation certificate, which features a picture of him wearing ana academic gown and a mortarboard, holding a scroll.
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Simon Waldman @swaldman.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
The Marks & Spencers thing. So far as I can make out, this is the full story: "A female shop assistant asked a customer if they would like help with anything. She was quite tall." EVERYTHING else is noise and fury about nothing, but with real consequences.
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AK Faulkner 🔜 NYCC @ravenswordpress.com · 07/08/2025
Designed a new sign for my convention table. Might be too subtle, idk, what do you reckon?! No Oxford comma we die like men!
Text reads: NO AI USED IN ANY ASPECT OF THE CREATION OR PRODUCTION OF THESE BOOKS, OR ASSOCIATED MATERIALS

Then the No AI logo, which is the letters "AI" in a red circle with a line through to cross out the AI.

Text reads: I'M PERFECTLY CAPABLE OF WRITING THIS DEMENTED SHIT ON MY OWN. THE PLANET-BURNING PLAGIARISM MACHINE IS FOR FUCKING LOSERS. I HIRE REAL HUMAN EDITORS, ARTISTS AND DESIGNERS.
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Brian @bwianair.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
If you want to stop a large proportion of major crimes, actually doing something about domestic abuse would have a massive impact.
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Michael Marshall @michael-marshall.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Good news in @newscientist.com! We're a step closer to understanding myalgic encephalomyelitis, aka chronic fatigue syndrome (ME/CFS): A big genetic study has linked eight regions of the genome to the condition. loom.ly/EYuHytA
A computer-generated image of two DNA double helices, with the backbones in blue and the "rungs" in red (Credit: BlackJack3D / Getty Images)
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Sophie Molly @sophiemolly.co.uk · 07/08/2025
M&S must be told that we won't tolerate being discriminated against
If you are a trans person or a cis ally, you can contact M&S to demand that they stick up for their trans staff and that they allow trans women to continue to use their facilities on equal terms.
E-mail: retailcustomer.services@marks-and-spencer.com
Phone: 0333 014 855
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Save The Hellfire @savethehellfire.bsky.social · 06/08/2025
Devil's-Bit Scabious blowing in the early morning breeze. #sunrise #wildflowerhour #nature
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Dr Sarah Hewitt @s2hewitt.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Magnificent rock samphire photographed yesterday #wildflowerhour #coastalplants
Photo of rock samphire growing on a sea wall with the beach and town the other side of the estuary in the background.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Autistic liberation isn’t just about ending ableism. It’s about unlearning the shame we were taught. Stopping the scripts we still perform. Seeing ourselves through our own gaze, not theirs. That’s where everything starts. That’s where we begin to live.
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Merry Hadaway @kindjourneys.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
This is *delightful*. :D
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Natalie Haynes @nataliehaynes.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
🚨🏛️ Pompeii news! People returned to live in Pompeii's ruins, archaeologists say www.bbc.com/news/article...
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People returned to live in Pompeii's ruins, archaeologists says
New evidence suggests an informal settlement was established after the eruption that buried much of the city.
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Rhiannon Lockley (she/her) @illdoitanyway.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
Not a new complaint from me but so very tired of reactionary updates of migration measures on BBC news. Drop fed moral panic by the same media which will then - again- report migration is one of top public electoral concerns.
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