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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they)

@theautisticcoach.bsky.social
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I build neuroaffirming communities by empowering my fellow autistic humans with advocacy & self-care tools for navigating a productivist society AuDHD ♾️ 🌀 דזשענדער־טרייף #POTS #Dyspraxia ♿️ EN/FR theautisticcoach.com Also @autisticrabbi.bsky.social

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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
If you spent decades learning to override hunger, pain, exhaustion, sensory distress and discomfort than you didn’t simply “lose touch with your body.” You were TRAINED not to trust it. Relearning that relationship takes time - and sometimes it’s fucking scary.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 4h
the divine is found in the space between two authentic humans relating to each other on their own terms
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Autism doesn’t look like one thing and I don’t know how it’s possible that this needs to be repeated daily - but it does
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 8h
Indeed, for some, your surroundings can help you feel “less disabled” in certain contexts. That’s what access and accommodations are all about. AND, for many of us, those things alone will barely scratch the surface and deny the idea of inherent capacity issues with our disability.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 8h
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 11h
Buy lots of books Start reading all of them Finish none of them Shame Buy more books
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 22h
I'm an AuDHD peer-support coach working in the community since 2006. This workshop isn't selling to sell you anything - it's pay as you can. We work on tools and strategies for seeing the world thru a new lens and advocate for ourselves. www.theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-...
the audhd experience workshop - starting november 10 - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
If you’re exhausted all the time, get curious about the exhaustion. Who were you around? How much did you mask? How much sensory input was there? Were you eating? Were you switching tasks constantly? Were you doing things you enjoyed or things you endured? Exhaustion always has context.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Not all autistic people mask
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Elisa 🌶️🥔 @spicytater.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
This right here. My child was threatened with rape by a middle school boy last year. We had to get a protection order. The school didn’t follow the order. The school failed to follow their own Title IX plan. They placed the onus of my autistic child’s safety completely on her. We must do better.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I'm an autistic peer-support coach and educator - working with our community since 2006. My 6-week group helps bring people together to develop new ways of moving thru the world, building grace for ourselves, and seeing forward. www.theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagno...
creating an autistic life workshop - 6 weeks long - starting november 11 - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Autism doesn’t look like one thing and I don’t know how it’s possible that this needs to be repeated daily - but it does
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
"just go on holiday" won't "fix" your autistic burnout
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
some of the most ableist people are those who are abled "experts" of disability.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
People don’t like hard stuff. I can understand why. And, it can often be rewarding. What’s difficult is drawing the line between hard and helpful for growth + hard for no reason that just crushes you.
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Hayley Stevens @theghostgeek.com · 02/10/2026
unless you're autistic in the non-aesthetic way
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I'm an AuDHD peer-support coach working in the community since 2006. This workshop isn't selling to sell you anything - it's pay as you can. We work on tools and strategies for seeing the world thru a new lens and advocate for ourselves. www.theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-...
the audhd experience workshop - starting november 10 - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
If you’re exhausted all the time, get curious about the exhaustion. Who were you around? How much did you mask? How much sensory input was there? Were you eating? Were you switching tasks constantly? Were you doing things you enjoyed or things you endured? Exhaustion always has context.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
If you spent decades learning to override hunger, pain, exhaustion, sensory distress and discomfort than you didn’t simply “lose touch with your body.” You were TRAINED not to trust it. Relearning that relationship takes time - and sometimes it’s fucking scary.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Did you learn something really important from that autistic educator on Instagram? Did an article on Substack give you new perspective? The autistic person who helped you do that is probably struggling. Help autistic public educators wherever and however you can.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I'm an autistic peer-support coach and educator - working with our community since 2006. My 6-week group helps bring people together to develop new ways of moving thru the world, building grace for ourselves, and seeing forward. www.theautisticcoach.com/newly-diagno...
creating an autistic life workshop - 6 weeks long - starting november 11 - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Autistics - share with your family, friends, and colleagues. If you want to support autistic person, don’t scroll by.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
when was the last time you had a good hug?
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The Autistiphobia Industry is heavily funded in the UK and US. Who is behind it?
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
If you're a late identified autistic adult looking to connect with others, develop tools, and share your experience with people who get it - consider joining my upcoming group. It's open to all autistics and offered on a pay-as-you-can basis. www.theautisticcoach.com/late-diagnos...
becoming who you've always been - late identified autistics workshop - theautisticcoach.com - starting november 12
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
believe it or not, you're still autistic if you don't find loops helpful
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
our lives as disabled people are inherently political.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I'm an AuDHD peer-support coach working in the community since 2006. This workshop isn't selling to sell you anything - it's pay as you can. We work on tools and strategies for seeing the world thru a new lens and advocate for ourselves. www.theautisticcoach.com/audhd-group-...
the audhd experience workshop - starting november 10 - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Stop legitimising rape JFC
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
"just go on holiday" won't "fix" your autistic burnout
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The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) | Mati [he/they] @autisticrabbi.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
The Jewish Autism Network hosts a FREE support & discussion group for all autistic Jewish adults 3x per month October 11: Q&A on all Autism, Life and Jewish Topics October 18: Autism & God October 25: Maintaining Friendships, Family, Romantic Relationships theautisticcoach.as.me/jewish-autis...
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Transmasculine people are often ignored in the conversations in the autistic trans community - let's talk about it. My monthly support & discussion group for autistic trans folx is coming up on October 19 www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
When one tolerates antisemitism and makes excuses for it, one becomes part of the very problem. I shouldn’t meed to say this, but - don’t read into this anything that I didn’t say. Opposing Israel and its action’s need not be antisemitic at all. Plenty of us do who are Jewish.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
i'm pretty good at my job - I have hundreds of positive reviews from actual autistic people who have met me and worked with me. they're public for all to see. if you're looking for some autistic-friendly support from an autistic peer-support professional, let's chat
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Autistic folx often called aggressive when we are simply being assertive.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
good morning everyone.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Autistic masking and unmasking are terms that are often thrown around - very often different people have different conceptions of what they are and how we each experience them. Come discuss in my free monthly discussion circle. www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I'm teaching a two part seminar on inclusion in the Jewish community and I'd love for you and your leaders to participate! www.theautisticrabbi.com/seminars
blue bacground with green letters - beyond inclusion: disability,  neurodivergence, and jewish leadership 

theautisticrabbi.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
You’re not a bigot cos you’re autistic. You’re a bigot because you’re an asshole. Big difference.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
A course on supporting autistic adults BY an autistic educator. Support the ones who you love in a way that meets *their* needs. www.theautisticcoach.com/allies-autis...
autistic allies workshop - 5 weeks - theautisticcoach.com
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
not every autistic space is going to be accessible to all autistic people. there are not nearly enough autistic spaces that cater to low supports needs folx BUT THERE ARE EVEN LESS AUTISTIC SPACES THAT CATER TO MEDIUM AND HIGH SUPPORTS NEEDS FOLX.
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Sasha Senderovich 🌻 @returnstosender.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Today is 85 years since the massacre at Babyn Yar in Kyiv where over the course of two days, September 29 and 30, 1941, the Germans shot nearly 34,000 of Kyiv’s Jews. The Yiddish writer Itsik Kipnis documented the third anniversary (yortsayt) of the massacre in 1944, when … 1/3
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The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) | Mati [he/they] @autisticrabbi.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I’ve been supporting my fellow autistic comrades thru their spiritual lives, careers, relationships, and more for twenty years. If you’re looking for a spiritual director and guide, I’d be honoured to work with you too.
theautisticrabbi.com
The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student)
Peer support coaching for autistic clergy & seminary students, spiritual direction, disability-accessibility consulting, and speaking from a Neuroqueer Torah perspective.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Jews speaking out against antisemitism and violent rhetoric about controlling the world, the Talmud, demonic sacrifice, and Rothschilds isn't "silencing the voices against genocide" Literally a member of Rabbis for Ceasefire FFS. Ghouls.
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