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evelyn maguire @evelyn.fyi · 04/10/2026

I failed out of university because of domestic violence and rape. It took me 12 years and 70k in loans to finish a 4 year degree from three universities. Being suspended for A SEMESTER? Fuck off forever. What about the potential of women like me? I was top of my high school class and a star athlete.

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Misandromeda @misandromeda.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

hey @jessiegender.bsky.social I know your video was about the F&B adaptation, but I liked this post for underlining my inherent issues with the GRRM source material. Also thank you for writing your newest post about JG, there have been some truly awful takes around www.reddit.com/r/asoiaf/s/f...

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[Mature Content] From the asoiaf community on Reddit: (Spoilers Extended) My hot take is that "Dance..." is GRRM's "Titus Andronicus" and I couldn't care less that HOTD went haywire with it

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Another thing about fraternities is that the hazing rituals where slightly older young men would physically, mentally emotionally and sometimes even sexually abuse slightly younger young men have always disturbed and upset me greatly. And it’s really telling that I’ve seen men defend those too

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John W @jcwill324.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

There should be a law that the prompt is embedded as metadata in anything generated by AI.

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claudia 🕸️ @claudiiiii.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

clocking back in for my 2 am shift at the zverev hate watch factory

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Feloni Macaroni @felonimacaroni.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Waking up to a Zverev loss is a decent start to the day. #tennissky #atp

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(っ◔︵◔)っKrauli McKraul @graetschie.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

na sascha zverev du ekelhaftes ekelpaket hat’s wieder nicht geklappt wenn mal nen guter gegner kommt du versager und Schande für den tennis sport

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🔳 Izzy’s Little Death 🔲 @isabellesogay.northsky.social · 07/07/2026

i am out of sympathy and patience for people who couldn't figure out a guy with a nazi tattoo who bragged about murdering people in the middle east and willingly taking a job with blackwater who had domestic abuse allegations was in fact bad and who are now attacking another of platner's victims

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Misandromeda @misandromeda.bsky.social · 07/07/2026

no clearer indicator that they haven’t actually rid themselves of their grandiosity and need to be atop the hierarchy. like they’re fantasizing about ordering people around bc it’s cognitively impossible to them yo imagine that anyone else could have ever thought of what they thought of

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(っ◔︵◔)っKrauli McKraul @graetschie.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

ich koche aber ned wegen heiße wetter sondern vor Wut weil morgen wimbledon mit dem ekeligen ekelpaket genannt zverev beginnt

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Cory @evilmam.bsky.social · 22/06/2026

hey I, female, have enthusiastic sex with my male partner but that doesn't change the fact that the overwhelming majority of sexual attention I've gotten from men has been uninvited, unwelcome and pervasive, starting with fully-grown adult dudes back when I was 12

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(っ◔︵◔)っKrauli McKraul @graetschie.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

gleich sind wir alle amis wenn taylor fritz das ekelige ekelpaket genannt zverev beim unbedeutenden rasen turnier dem terra wortmann cup vom feld fegt

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Misandromeda @misandromeda.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

tennis 9/11 happened ppl like “first diabetic domestic abuser gs winner 🥰” #zverev i hate your fugly ass mug w/ the fire of a thousand suns but at least i found the #1 most devoted zverev hater, best days since i’ve learned of your miserable existence you sorry mid ass abusive piece of shit loser

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(っ◔︵◔)っKrauli McKraul @graetschie.bsky.social · 30/01/2026

zverev ist einfach so ein ekeliger hund ich tobe vor wut

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taz @taz.de · 08/06/2026

Alexander Zverev wird von zwei Ex-Partnerinnen schwere körperliche und psychische Gewalt vorgeworfen. Statt vor Gericht steht er auf dem Tennisplatz und lässt sich als Sieger der French-Open feiern. Wenigstens haben weibliche Tennis-Fans nicht vergessen, dass Zverev kein Held ist.

Alexander Zverez liegt erschöpft auf dem Tennisplatz, er hat die Arme und Beine weit von sich gestreckt und hält den Tennisschläger inder linken Hand.

Darüber folgender Text: Nicht „unser Sascha“
Die deutsche Presse feiert den French-Open-Sieg des Tennisspielers Alexander Zverev. An die Gewaltvorwürfe gegen ihn müssen andere erinnern

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The Isaac Who Came In From the Butler @isaacbutler.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Just a reminder that Zverev has more DV accusers than he does grand slam trophies.

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NoFirstName Harcourtdalovic @samstennis.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

Wish this queen was in attendance for the final

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vennegoor of hesselink @baklavabob.eurosky.social · 07/06/2026

keine sorge zverev wir hassen dich trotzdem

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pee or ¬pee @baroquemindvirus.bsky.social · 10/05/2026

As an intentionally childless millennial who feels pretty pessimistic (not fatalistic, hopeless, or resigned) about many aspects of the world at large, I simply don’t trust myself with the substantial responsibilities of parenthood, based on 3+ decades of experience with myself.

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WeirwoodTreeHugger @weirwoodtreehug.bsky.social · 10/05/2026

We don't need to counter this. It turns out when women and girls have access to contraception and receive decent sex ed, we don't want to constantly go through the painful and dangerous process of pregnancy and childbirth. Stop trying to make us be babymaking machines.

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Mudkip Paulista @jaderafa.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

"mas não é contraditório você ser uma mulher trans e ter essa visão sobre gênero?" não, eu tenho disforia sexual e continuo enxergando feminilidade como uma prisão EU SOU ABOLICIONISTA DE GÊNERO

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Aparna Nair @disabilitystor1.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

"I remember smoking in the 90s. It was divine" "Im my 20s, smoking was sexy." GIRL, SHUT UP. Shut up. Shut up. SHUT UP. First off, you smelled like ashtrays. It was gross. And forced people serving you/around you to inhale your disgusting smoke, too.

I certainly remember smoking in the ’90s — it was divine. Before we stood around staring down at our phones, we used to stand around staring at each other. Talking and talking while we blew smoke in one another’s faces.
In those early years, I was a student at an artsy Brooklyn high school in Midwood. We were “teens” in chronology only — we worked jobs, we went clubbing, we rode the subway at all hours of the night. And generally, in varying degrees, we smoked. The serious smokers were committed. You’d find them out in the school courtyard no matter the weather. Often, they were the benevolent suppliers to those of us who merely flirted with the idea of being serious smokers. Happy, if you joined them outside “for a smoke,” to trade a stick of nicotine for some interesting gossip you might have heard. Sometimes, we even smoked with our teachers. Usually, they were from the English department.
The irony of my current jonesing for a cigarette is that I was, in those days, a dabbler at best. Mainly seduced by the smell of a clove cigarette, usually found in the hands of somebody from Park Slope. But I loved the culture of the whole thing: the intimacy of someone getting close to light you up. The matches, the Zippos. The way, over the course of five minutes, small talk could fall into something like deep conversation.

In my 20s, the smoking got sexy. Dive bars and chic lounges, where we’d now have cocktails and ash into ashtrays and steal matchbooks with which to help one another light future cigarettes. Since nobody seemed to care that smoking was bad for us, our paternalistic mayor, Michael Bloomberg, decided he needed to care for us. Public indoor smoking was banned, and, inadvertently, we were armed with a new way to flirt. There was nothing better than breaking off from a crowd of friends with an invitation outside to share a cigarette. I realize now the excitement wasn’t in the cigarette. It was in the possibility that it raised. Would this be a brief excursion to the sidewalk? Or might it end the next morning, in a bed you didn’t really know, sharing smoke-tinged kisses?
Smoking, in this phase of life, went hand in hand with chaos. The kind that is welcome when you are trying to create from your young adult existence something like a life. Every potential mistake was also a potential opportunity. Because maybe you woke up and never saw the person next to you again. Or maybe you fell in love and married them and ended up having kids and getting a few promotions at work and being a big success.

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 23/04/2026

The thing about this insistence that rape victims have some terrifying moral power that ruins men’s lives and compels the public to do anything to avenge them is that it has never once happened. What actually happens is that victims who disclose are ruined and men who are accused gain.

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Caroline Siede @carolinesiede.bsky.social · 20/04/2026

On who Samira Mohan was in S1 of #ThePitt, who she became in S2, and why I was shocked to discover the show was writing her off when it felt like the finale was setting her and Robby up for a major arc in S3

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‘The Pitt’ failed Dr. Samira Mohan

How season two forgot the character it built and then wrote her off

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Kimiko Shibata @eslfairy.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

Just in case you need some good news today: researchers at U of W have figured out how to turn plastic waste into acetic acid (primary ingredient in vinegar) using the sun. This has the potential to really help us reduce plastic waste. uwaterloo.ca/news/media/w...

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Waterloo researchers turning plastic waste into vinegar | Waterloo News

Researchers at the University of Waterloo have discovered a way to turn plastic waste into acetic acid, the main ingredient of vinegar, using sunlight. The breakthrough offers a promising new approach...

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Ida B Wells' Winchester Rifle @dytsras.bsky.social · 20/03/2026

You could say that Rock n Roll was born 111 years ago today in Arkansas, but probably not where you'd think. Before there was a Chuck Berry or Little Richard, there was those who wanted to be like her. Rosetta Nubin better known as Sister Rosetta Tharpe, the godmother of Rock was born on this day

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Mimi @mimimoonpie.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

How is featuring a character who is a racial caricature with no nuance and no interior world serving any purpose other than depicting PTA’s fetish? Hanging a lampshade on it by making lockjaw a fetishist isn’t the same thing as deconstructing or exploring the trope it’s just reinforcing it

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Dolphin Pilot @theamitie.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

ChatGPT: you’re so right, Leto Atreides II. Merging with a worm would give you unconscionable power that you, alone, could wield — you, alone, could be trusted with. You wouldn’t be committing a genocide. You would be saving humanity

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DQ ♐ @dqdoo1.blacksky.app · 13/03/2026

We need to keep the vampires out of the juke joint...

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VaJenell Hugh-Briss @finalgirlboss.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

If you’re a Words person who’s been tutored by a Numbers person or vice versa, you have an idea of what it’s like to be taught by a prodigy. They struggle to explain foundational principles cuz *they* don’t know how they know what they know: they don’t need them to arrive at the correct answers.

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Keith @minguseyes.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

"The men implicated in the Epstein files reinforces that I spend half my life explaining to men that their simplified, optimistic view of other men doesn’t line up with the experience of women and girls trying to dodge sexual harassment, assault and abuse attempts." - Leslie Morgan Steiner

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Chanda Prescod-Weinstein 🌌 @chanda.blacksky.app · 23/02/2026

By the way, the way some white disabled people are responding to this thread by acting as if the N word isn't itself a disability issue for Black people is a great case in point of how it is taken as a given that Black people must simply tolerate everyday racism as the price of being in public

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Chanda Prescod-Weinstein 🌌 @chanda.blacksky.app · 23/02/2026

People commentating on this like racism isn’t a physically disabling experience are being gross

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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

“The two lawyers had reviewed the transcripts of the long-forgotten case and saw Wilkens’ prosecution as a stark example of a justice system that often fails to stop abusers but proves swift to punish those who fight back.”

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Jessica Ellis @baddestmamajama.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

There’s several reasons that business and public figures began immediately associating WFH with laziness and slacking, one is that these are things they already believe about disabled/chronically ill folk, and they hope you do, too.

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Butlerian Jihadist of House Slytherin @shimminykricket.blacksky.app · 21/02/2026

See what I mean? White people are more likely than others to put energy into redeeming, "understanding" and rehabilitating white supremacists/nationalists, facists and the like rather than fighting them because they far more likely to have them as friends and family.

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RDS (formerly shawphd) @rds773.myatproto.social · 09/09/2025

Every. God. Damned. Movie. had a rape joke or a full on rape scene in it And we were just expected to laugh and dissociate ourselves from the female characters experiencing it

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manitoban @manitoban.bsky.social · 09/02/2026

It’s like how Zuck started Facebook really with women being unknowingly compared and commented on.

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Gabi 雪 @gabimccauley.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

You know, it just makes sense. It's like Boy Scout leaders, the clergy, school resource officers, teachers, etc. I cannot begin to fathom the amount of voyeurism, the possibilities for grooming, or the potential for more victims that are tangentially connected. Hang them all.

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Mikki Kendall @karnythia.blacksky.app · 07/02/2026

There is an entire book in how much of higher ed and more broadly society is shaped by the power of rapists

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Jack Scrambo @scrambojambo.bsky.social · 05/02/2026

“(this is how men behave)” uhhhh no it’s really not? what the fuck man, all these disgusting creeps insist on being like “we’re ALL like this right fellas?”

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Piper @the-pied-piper.bsky.social · 31/01/2026

Going on four years as the head of staff for a woman legislator has made “me too didn’t even begin to start going far enough” one of my core political beliefs.

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M. Kelly @emkelly.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

There's a problem with men. There's a very serious problem with men, and we have to start saying so out loud even if it hurts their feelings.

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Acyn @acyn.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Epstein survivor Anouska De Georgiou: The fact that the very people who are meant to lead this country have completely retraumatized us… it’s—I mean—it’s like being raped by the Department of Justice.

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Dr. Emily Friedman @ecfriedman.com · 05/02/2026

I was literally just talking at length yesterday about how I don’t think about my gender much until I run into a wall, usually via a cis dude locked into rigid scripts. It doesn’t even have to be violent, sexual, or extreme — it can be banal & “harmless” exclusion of women from camaraderie & trust.

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Mikki Kendall @karnythia.blacksky.app · 06/02/2026

A big problem in the industry is how many people conflate "Not a danger to me" with "Not a danger to anyone." And I keep seeing the terrible impact of that so maybe stop doing that.

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