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Joelle Maslak @jmaslak.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

ADHD is a significant disability and people with it benefit greatly from treatment (not always medication, but, yes, including medication). ADHD is not laziness, is not moral failure, and is not “minor”.

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Lauren Thoman @laurenthomanwrites.com · 15/08/2026

I’m so tired of genAI apologists telling me I only hate it because I don’t understand it. I hate it *because* I understand it, you absolute toenail.

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Brooke @brooklynmarie.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

Who else is still up partying* *Adding libraries to my Libby app

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Vagina Museum @vaginamuseum.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

Another terrible AI-generated image of the gynaecological anatomy. It must be a day ending in a Y. Let's take a closer look at this wholly cursed illustration of a menstrual cup via @pzmyers.bsky.social

An awful, no-good AI illustration of the position of a menstrual cup. The cup is full of something that looks like strawberry milkshake and positioned firmly inside the body cavity with its stem poking out, It is labelled uterus (endometrium). Another arrow says menstrual cup (silicone, sealed). Above the menstrual cup floats something pink that looks rather like a brain with a screw hole in it. There is a bladder-shaped part beneath it which the stem is poked through labelled "vaginal rugae". The stem of the cup is once again labelled menstrual cup (silicone, sealed). Beneath the bladder-ish thing is a tube rather like the vagina labelled pubic symphysis, then bladder, then sacrum. It is painfully anatomically incorrect and it was really hard to write this ID.

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 11/06/2026

Taking notes is such an underrated fidget. It helps with focus, yes, but it also can help us process information, remember things, and make connections to other information. And it works even if we never look at our notes again. Even if we can't read them. Even if the notes "don't make sense"

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 25/04/2026

Habits are triggered by environmental cues, either internal or external. Willpower, especially for ADHD'ers, isn't a sustainable cue! To give our habits the best chance to stick, we need to use cues that are consistent, sustainable, and relevant to us or we don't stand a chance

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⭐️eunnie⭐️ @eunnieboo.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

happy lesbian visibility week to them

bonus panel from eunnie's 2023 pride comic. eunnie sits in the foreground, slightly out of focus. her face is partially out of frame, but her expression looks like she's dead inside. her shoulder angel and shoulder devil can be seen behind her, passionately making out.

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 21/04/2026

A major accommodation that autistic and ADHD people can give themselves is reducing the number of decisions we need to make. This could look like is automating decisions, relying on random chance, or drafting standard operating procedures for ourselves, such routines or checklists

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Ygrene @ygrene.bsky.social · 22/03/2026

the human body was not designed to know what the worst person in the world is doing every fifteen minutes

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Queer Liberation Library @queerliblib.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

HELL yes. we’ve got unlimited(!!) copies of #1-6 of Nghi Vo's singing hills cycle audiobooks available at QLL if other folks also want to read these: libbyapp.com/search/queer...

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mankrik's wife guy @byelacey.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

there NEEDS to stop being news

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Youngles 🇰🇷🔜PAX Unplugged @youngles.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

Hey. Tell people when they do good job. When you like the stuff they make. When you like the characters they’ve created. The stories they’ve told. Nobody hears it as often as you think bc everyone thinks everyone hears it all the time. Trust. They don’t. Tell. Them.

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LGBTQReads @lgbtqreads.bsky.social · 20/02/2026

Exclusive Cover Reveal: With All My Haunted Heart by Isabel Sterling Today on the site I am so delighted to welcome Isabel Sterling and reveal the cover of her debut adult Romance, With All My Haunted Heart, releasing September 8, 2026 from Berkley! Here's the story: A witch hired to ethically…

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Exclusive Cover Reveal: With All My Haunted Heart by Isabel Sterling

Today on the site I am so delighted to welcome Isabel Sterling and reveal the cover of her debut adult Romance, With All My Haunted Heart, releasing September 8, 2026 from Berkley! Here's the story: A witch hired to ethically haunt a small-town B&B instead finds herself spellbound by her non-magical client in this cozy and enchanting sapphic romance.

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Toadking @toadkingstudios.bsky.social · 17/02/2026

How I look vs How I look in selfies in candid photos

Same white dog but now looking unhinged, caught in motion

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marafish @marafish.bsky.social · 01/02/2026

relevant to many of yalls interests.

a red and pink cross stitch on blue fabric. "everything I love causes carpal tunnel" surrounded by hearts, a needle and thread, and a skein of embroidery floss.

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geoffrey 💀 (scary now) @parsnip.bsky.social · 17/01/2026

discovered a pretty critical coding error in The Human Body where sometimes the way to feel better when you feel too bad to work out is to work out. this is suboptimal for user experience of The Human Body

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mankrik's wife guy @byelacey.bsky.social · 12/01/2026

drawing is a fine motor skill and will fuck up your muscles and tendons if you don't stretch and the cool thing about tendons is that once you fuck them up they take anywhere from months to years to never to unfuck. so stretch

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Victoria Duncan @victoriaduncan.bsky.social · 30/12/2025

Wow so they truly have no idea what to do with this technology huh

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hux | aka Lizzie Huxley-Jones @littlehux.bsky.social · 21/12/2025

For the sake of clarity, if you see someone listing a number of diagnoses and think huh that’s quite a lot, can I interest you in the word “comorbid” — many disorders impact others, and currently we diagnose them separately though we’re starting to recognise they’re all highly linked

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mankrik's wife guy @byelacey.bsky.social · 18/12/2025

no one enjoys snow like this guy

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heyspaghetti @heyspaghetti.bsky.social · 30/11/2025

hi @littlehux.bsky.social I just moved houses and am fighting for my life installing living room blinds while listening to Make You Mine This Christmas (for the 3rd time since 2022 I think), and I love it just as much as I did the first two times 🎄🦌❤️

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mankrik's wife guy @byelacey.bsky.social · 27/11/2025

just got an email that read "BLACK FRIDAY ENDS SOON" and i think we all need to take a beat, because it is thursday, which last i checked is the day before friday,

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 26/11/2025

Supporting neurodivergent communities means taking our accommodations seriously, even if you don't understand them. By all means, it's okay to learn more and try to understand, but your understanding and comfort isn't necessary for making my world more accessible to me

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Kelly J. Baker (she/her) @kellyjbaker.bsky.social · 23/11/2025

Just a friendly reminder as we go into the holidays: Folks don't have to explain to you why they don't drink. If you offer them a drink and they decline, don't ask them why. It's not your business. Just offer them something without alcohol to drink instead. And move on.

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Lady Emily ☄️ @ladyemily.nebula.tv · 19/11/2025

Riding the bus to see the movies is like a fuckin mix of my autistic hyperfixations, like this is the closest I’ll ever get to meditation

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Victoria Duncan @victoriaduncan.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

The autism tax is when it takes me 30 minutes to write a short email because I'm weighing how much information to include and my autistic brain is screaming ALL OF IT

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ADHD Jesse @adhdjesse.com · 21/11/2025

I am REALLY GOOD at convincing myself a boring task is actually a really difficult task because for my brain that’s literally true.

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 23/11/2025

For autistic folks, it can look like being consumed by wholehearted, embodied enjoyable sensory experiences. It could be zen-like repetition of actions or routines. It could be deep, wide-eyed engagement with treasured interests or activities, including reading, creating, archiving, or researching

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 23/11/2025

Neurodivergent joy looks different for different people and different neurotypes. For ADHD'ers, it could look like passionate idea creation or problem solving, or it could look like excitedly flitting from one activity to the next. It could look like eager spontaneity or zealous hyperfocus

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Katie Mack @astrokatie.com · 20/11/2025

Can’t believe the whole country has to suffer through the return of Dickensian childhood diseases because the worst, most ignorant attention-demanders decided other people’s expertise makes them feel bad

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Zef ⏾ comms open ִ ࣪𖤐 @kzef.bsky.social · 13/11/2025

Stop using chatgpt adopt an autistic with special interests TODAY this deal wont last forever mostly cause they get overstimulated pretty fast but hey great for the environment amirite

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Catieosaurus @catieosaurus.bsky.social · 11/11/2025

Practice your scripts ahead of time: 💠 "Oh wow, that's an inside thought, Uncle Jerry" 💠 "Mom, it's 2025 we don't comment on people's bodies anymore" 💠 "My doctor and I are happy with my weight." You don't owe anyone an explanation.

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Davis Bickford @davis.social · 07/11/2025

10/10 take. No notes.

divergentcoachkelly on Threads * 2h
ADHD is knowing exactly what you need to do then watching yourself not do it like you're a scientist observing a very dumb experiment

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Victoria Duncan @victoriaduncan.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

"In the real world no one will accommodate you" is trauma talking. It's true that people aren't falling over themselves to help me but my adult life is way more accommodating than my childhood was, because adults get to make choices. I'm accommodating myself.

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selfcaregamer @selfcaregamer.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

stop telling your neurodivergent child that in "the real world" people won't accommodate them, so they should suck it up. this is the real world and you shouldn't be your child's first bully

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Amber 🦁 @sndlstudio.bsky.social · 07/11/2025

i don't respect the grind. some of you need to go to bed and take it easy this weekend

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Milena McKay 👠 @reallymckay.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

OUT NOW! Meet Rhiannon, Prudence and the Crowhart sisters in WINDBURN, the first book in Crow's Coven Quartet. A return to Dragons Island and yes, Magdalene Nox makes an appearance, it's her island, after all 😁 Cover by the most amazing Jenifer Prince. mybook.to/Windburn

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 29/10/2025

I think that the autistic community would happily co-sign this

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Boo!-per Lund @cooperlund.online · 22/10/2025

Someone should make overhead lighting for offices that doesn't make you feel bad

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Victoria Duncan @victoriaduncan.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

I said: "Most people unconsciously assume that if their colleagues had chronic illnesses or conditions, they would know. They would see it somehow. But chronically ill and disabled people walk among us every day. We pass them on the hall. They're our bosses and coworkers."

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sarahquaint @sarahquaint.bsky.social · 04/02/2024

The great thing about living with another neurospicy is that you can yell: “Ahhhhh sudden burst of executive function! Get out of my way before it vanishes!” and they immediately comply

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Eric Michael Garcia @ericmgarcia.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

Just got my autism topped off with a double shot of Covid and Flu shot

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unangbangkay @unangbangkay.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

*tosses another example onto the comedically large pile of examples showing how replacing spelling and grammar checkers with a statistical engine to find the -likely- word rather than the -correct- word and training said engine on everything everyone ever wrote online produces Not what's needed*

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