Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeLaura Chapin @laurachapin.bsky.social · 1hFriend of mine was the lobbyist for anti-sexual violence organizations in Colorado during the Kobe Bryant trial. His attorney said her name in open court multiple times. Rape crisis hotline went silent for 6 mos. When it started again, 1st question was often "will I be named like she was?" 0326
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 2hIf rapists actually faced consequences for their actions we wouldn’t have nearly as many rapists. In reality many rapists actually benefit from their actions 71312169
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 2hSeeing people post about how unfair the “mob justice” against the Cornell rapists is doesn’t really move me when there is no justice for survivors. The system doesn’t work; it enacts further punishment on the victims. Society is even crueler. So spare me the “mob justice” rhetoric about the accused 91491185
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 2hA truly heinous man has doxxed the Cornell victim on X and the comments are predictably vile. Based on countless interviews I’ve done with survivors, the trauma they are subjected to for coming forward is oftentimes even worse than the initial trauma they experienced. There is no real justice system 452634549
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeRebecca Solnit @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social · 1hThe jackals are out, as they usually are for a woman who speaks up in a way that challenges patriarchy. (And a lot of why victims don't come forward or withdraw--as a Weinstein victim did--is because the misogynist public and legal system launch their own punitive assaults.) 225152
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeRebecca Solnit @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social · 1hA nice parody of all the advice, much of it bad, some of it ridiculous, given to potential victims while normalizing perpetrators into a malevolent miasma it's on you to filter. 11494
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeRebecca Solnit @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social · 1hTime for this classic again. 101689510
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeDom Ervolina @dominicervolina.com · 42mNo bear has ever doxxed a rape victim 211519
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeLibby @libbystigaard.bsky.social · 8hGood 🧵. My conversations about consent with my kid were kicked off by him REALLY wanting to pet other people's dogs. He understood having to ask first, but wanted to ignore anything other than an outright no. ("He's not really friendly.") We had a lot of convos about recognizing soft no's and 314543
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 7hHow you teach your kids to treat animals is really important! In our society, animals are one of the only groups with less power than children. If they learn they can punch down, that’s a lesson that will do a lot more damage as they grow up. 39621
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026To put it another way, you can’t just tell your sons they need to take accountability—you need to hold them accountable. Start with small stuff. Don’t shield them for the consequences of their actions. Walk them through the process of doing the wrong thing and turning it into the right thing. 1668123
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Researchers find that one-time trainings about consent can actually increase perpetration. In my interviews with young men, they told me that they knew no one believed what they were saying because it hadn’t come up before—and no one actually held men accountable anyway. 251467
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026A lot of parents already know they need to talk about sexual violence and consent. And you do. But that’s only the tiniest piece of the puzzle. And if you don’t situate that conversation in a broader focus on gender equality, then you might do more harm than good. 352947
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026I’m seeing a lot of posts about talking to your sons in light of the Cornell article. And yes. Talk to your sons. Here are some things you should say, based on anti-violence research about what they need to hear: 81014492
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safe Farm Goth 🇵🇸 @poemsandfungus.bsky.social · 7hWhen I was teaching, so many white parents were raising "gentle/sensitive" but selfish sons by asking for special treatment. "He was sad you didn't call on him today, could you call on him first tomorrow?" Always a lesson about using words, but never a lesson that sometimes it's other people's turn. 3414
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 7hThere are a lot of parents focused on getting gentleness *for* their sons, but not expecting their sons to show gentleness to anyone else. And that’s just male entitlement in liberal window dressing. 010329
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 10hThis is genuinely true. Epstein perpetrators had a heavy hand in developing today’s campus sexual violence response.nwlc.orgJeffrey Epstein Loved Trump’s Changes to the Title IX Rule. That Tells You All You Need to Know. - National Women's Law CenterContent warning: reported sexual violence, reported homicide As an attorney who focuses on gender-based violence, I wasn’t surprised that the “Epstein files” confirmed what my gender justice comrades ... 05316
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hWithin a decade, I suspect that millennial calls for “consent training” will look just as out of touch as boomer calls for “rape whistles.” Both interventions were equally as successful. The rate of sexual assault has not changed on college campuses since we started measuring it 60 years ago. 215728
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hIt’s worth pointing out that Cornell students receive consent training. Schools pivoted to primarily informal responses to sexual violence years ago. This gang rape happened because those solutions didn’t work. Survivors and their advocates have been raising an alarm about that for almost a decade. 216727
Why is a woman still not safe @treemuseums.bsky.social · 3hYOU CANNOT EDUCATE SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT RESPECT YOU 👇👇👇👇👇 001
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hAll of these responses are tinged with himpathy, implying that rapists can be healed by empathy and education. You cannot educate someone who does not respect you. Men getting more empathy than their victims is why rape is so common in the first place. 224048
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hThe first requirement of restorative justice is a perpetrator’s confession. He has to admit what he has done and to take accountability. The men in this case are smearing the victim and threatening her with lawsuits. They are not candidates for RJ. They would turn it into a new site of violence. 223349
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hStudies dating back to the 80s have found that men are not just “confused” about consent. They just don’t prioritize consent over things like power, domination, and sexual gratification. Men participating in a gang rape know they don’t have the victim’s consent. 228388
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hI keep seeing people talking about consent training and restorative justice in the aftermath of the Cornell story. I don’t know how to explain to people that those reactions are a part of the problem. 117523
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeNicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 13hConsent training isn’t going to stop a gang rape. 525071
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeAntoinette Lattouf @antoinettelattouf.bsky.social · 4hwww.ettemedia.com/war-of-words... READ: An exclusive data analysis of 42 interviews conducted on ABC’s 7.30 on conflict zones — and what they tell us about the broadcaster's bias. (No paywall) 23525
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeSirius Star 🍉 🍉 🍉 @siriusstar3.bsky.social · 3h“mirrors, amplifies & at times defends the Australian gov’s position at the expense of accountability interviews in pursuit of the truth. This is particularly prevalent with Israeli guests. This signals to audiences, not only whose voices matter, but crucially whose lives matter.“ #Auspol #Genocide 022
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeLiz Schiller #DefundthePolice @lizzzs.bsky.social · 16/09/2026Apropos of Macklemore: a succinct description of how many women and non-white folks are dismissed, and white folks, especially white men, are not. This is why if you've got privilege, a platform, authority, it's so important that you take the risk and use your voice against injustice and harm. 0174
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKate Manne @katemanne.bsky.social · 19/09/2026All the talk of women's overfunctioning papers over the real issue: straight men are underfunctioning on a grand scale and their wives pay the price katemanne.substack.com/p/when-husba...katemanne.substack.comWhen Husbands UnderfunctionWomen’s heavy load equals men’s lightness 15514
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKate Manne @katemanne.bsky.social · 26/09/2026For all we wring our hands about social media use and its ill effects on mental health and use in cyberbullying, the greater crisis is that it sets young boys up for violence. But the Misogynistic Generation is unfortunately never going to be a bestseller katemanne.substack.com/p/your-adole...katemanne.substack.comAdolescent Boys’ Favorites are Alleged RapistsWhat the news about Clavicular says about the dire state of the boyosphere 44512
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeDan Hirschman @asociologist.bsky.social · 4h"what we need to demand from universities far and wide is clear: Cease to be a place where sexual assault is often subject to less punishment than protesting and plagiarism." Cornell philosophy prof @katemanne.bsky.social in The Cut:thecut.comWhat It Feels Like at Cornell Right NowAs a professor at the Ivy League school, Kate Manne has known many, many victims. There’s a palpable feeling on campus, she writes, that this is big. 08124
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKate Manne @katemanne.bsky.social · 4hI wrote for @thecut.com about the Cornell case and what it says that, at my institution and many others like it, protesters are often punished more harshly than sexual assailants www.thecut.com/article/what...thecut.comWhat It Feels Like at Cornell Right NowAs a professor at the Ivy League school, Kate Manne has known many, many victims. There’s a palpable feeling on campus, she writes, that this is big. 301045353
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeKate Hagen 🦂 𓋹 🦂 @thathagengrrl.bsky.social · 4h"Meanwhile, Jane Doe dropped out of Cornell and was denied her request to get her tuition refunded so that she could transfer to a different college. She hence faced more severe consequences than most of the men who she alleges gang-raped her." www.thecut.com/article/what...thecut.comWhat It Feels Like at Cornell Right NowAs a professor at the Ivy League school, Kate Manne has known many, many victims. There’s a palpable feeling on campus, she writes, that this is big. 401460506
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeJosh Fruhlinger @jfruh.bsky.social · 4hthey DIDN'T REFUND her fucking TUITION????? 1439561087
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeRicky Davila @therickydavila.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Amid outcry, NY prosecutors have reopened the criminal investigation into the 7 Cornell gang rapists, a case that was covered up 2 years ago. These assholes would’ve been punished if they had written “free Palestine” instead of “free p*ssy.” Cornell leadership should be investigated too. 21279492166
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeIda B Wells' Winchester Rifle @dytsras.bsky.social · 4hThis is arguably the most powerful man in the world right now. And this is a confession 73413
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeJohn Topham @johntopham.bsky.social · 4hCancer? That's caused by genetics, or chemicals or sunburn or smoking, right? Well, actually, not always. New research shows one in eight cancers worldwide are actually caused by infections. Another reason to keep up with your vaccinations www.cbc.ca/news/health/...cbc.caResearchers are discovering more infections that can cause cancer | CBC NewsNew global research suggests 12 per cent of cancers were caused by infections, predominantly caused by HPV and H. pylori 002
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeSanho Tree @sanho.bsky.social · 29/09/2026“Trump’s rush to deport as many immigrants as possible is creating a new family-separation crisis. Whereas his first administration took children from their parents at the border to deter illegal crossings, the second is separating families living in the United States as part of a purge.” 15229
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeJenn Budd @jennbudd.bsky.social · 4hyoutube.com/shorts/fRxYa...youtube.comDozens of men were in that group chat.YouTube video by Monte Mader 0106
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeThe Shovel @theshovel.bsky.social · 5h"I do want to reassure Australians that as soon as we’re in a proper recession and people are pushed into financial ruin, we’ll lower rates." theshovel.com.au/2026/09/30/r...theshovel.com.auRBA Reassures Australians They’ll Stop Raising Interest Rates as Soon as Economy Collapses — The Shovel"I do want to reassure Australians that as soon as we’re in a proper recession and people are pushed into financial ruin, we’ll lower rates" 89638
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safePaul Begley @yelgeb.bsky.social · 5h"The University of Sydney itself is also a defendant, and the Federal Court will be the highest Australian court so far to be asked to determine whether anti-Zionism should be treated as intrinsically antisemitic." @kimwingerei.bsky.social michaelwest.com.au/lawfare-sydn...michaelwest.com.auLawfare. Sydney University academics will finally have their day in court - Michael WestSydney academics John Keane and Nick Riemer have finally been able to file a defence against their accusers. 1107
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeAmante2 AmeliaBee7 @amante2ameliabee7.bsky.social · 5hIn a country governed by an adjudicated rapist, elected twice, despite paying off a porn star and featuring in files linking him to the worst sex trafficker and pedophile in living memory…because 2 infinitely more qualified and capable women weren’t trusted enough to do the job 0117
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeYung En Chee @yungenchee.bsky.social · 5hWould you let the local drug dealers cultivate relationships with school children if they called themselves the Performance Enhancement Club❓️ Right, so don't be fooled by the Petroleum Club name-change to the Energy Club‼️ #FossilFuelPropaganda #BuyingSocialLicense 0227
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeAdmirable Women @admirablewomen.bsky.social · 5hLetitia Chitty (d. #OTD in 1982) was a pioneering British structural engineer & mathematician. A master of stress analysis, she spent her career mathematically determining the "breaking points" of complex structures, ranging from #WWI combat aircraft to major international dams. #WomenInSTEM 4442109
Reposted by Why is a woman still not safeJulie S. Lalonde @julieslalonde.bsky.social · 11hThere are some promising initiatives and approaches to working with *boys* that have been shown to impact the likelihood of them victimizing women but grown ass men in university? The best we have so far is bystander education to challenge social norms of acceptance. 2261