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Cate (Your Wife)

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Guitars / Synths / Vocals / Production for kallaipdx.com Co-organizer for Dreamgaze PDX Festival. Doomgazing Mathemagician. Friend of Dax. Hella Queer. Assimilation is futile.

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Coureur de Fembois [Big Bad Bæddel Borg]🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🐔 @droctorock.northsky.social · 4h
nearly every trans woman, if not literally all of us, have seen this. we've seen men in groups, what they say about women and queers, how they treat *each other*, and it's horrifying! it's no wonder why the few I trust personally were never there plenty of men who seem fine become beasts in private
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Metin Seven, Moon Child's dad 🌝 @seven.eurosky.social · 9h
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A black router with spread antennae, placed in a ceiling corner, making it look like a big spider.
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Julie - TrexPushups @trexpushups.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Hi, I'm Julie! After losing my job I moved from North Carolina to be safe in Oregon because I am trans. I am raising money to finish the move. Please share and donate if you can gofund.me/60b1e917 #helpsky #fundsky #MutualAid #MutualAidrequest
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Donate to Help Julie Find Safety in Oregon, organized by Julie Kitchen
Hello, I'm Julie Kitchen! My previous fundraising efforts were able to raise enough mo… Julie Kitchen needs your support for Help Julie Find Safety in Oregon
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @ Persephone Effect out now @benjanun.bsky.social · 1h
57% through in less than 24 hours! Let's keep this up.
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Cate (Your Wife) @kallaipdx.com · 2h
These dumbasses read about the Solarians in Asimov’s robot novels and thought it sounded Utopian.
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Anna Phylaxis @quatoria.bsky.social · 3h
why on earth would i want music that only exists for me, by artists who will never have concerts i can attend, that i can never share with anyone else why do all these AI boosters ultimately sound like they dream of living alone on desert islands surrounded only by their AI?
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Michaela Joffe @joffeorama.bsky.social · 18h
not sure why I made this but now you have to see it
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Jared Yates Sexton @jysexton.bsky.social · 4h
It should be readily apparent at this point that flirting with fascism is what brought us to fascism. Believing you can apply fascistic practices some places or in some cases and coating it in some ideological or "pragmatic" veneer seeded the soil. If you can't see it, I don't know, man...
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Cate (Your Wife) @kallaipdx.com · 11/03/2026
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Dessa - "Fire Drills" (Official Lyric Video)
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Gretchen Felker-Martin PRE ORDER CHIMERA 2.16.27 🍉 @scumbelievable.bsky.social · 17h
God I'm so tired of seeing rapists everywhere. I hate these fucking braindead pigs, I hate watching them gorge on power and money for no reason except that they want it, I hate knowing they're torturing women with impunity, I hate seeing their smug stupid fucking faces on the news.
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victoria scott @victoriascott.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
How the fuck are any of us functional. We’re 1% of the population, give or take, and we have Great Depression employment numbers
But Democrats in Republican-leaning districts are under pressure to respond. One Democratic strategist estimated that fully half of the GOP’s messaging this year has been around transgender issues — about the same time they’ve given the economy, data centers, immigration and crime put together.
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Zoe Tunnell ➡️ NYCC @zoewithasword.bsky.social · 20h
Objectively A Clone Saga adaptation where you can't use *Peter Parker* is impossibly funny
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Katra Ariello, Golden Apple Audio 🏳️‍⚧️ @katrafiy.bsky.social · 22h
Hey everyone, I'm really in a bind. I was just told earlier today that my job will be terminating me on October 13th, exactly one day before my upcoming requested paid medical leave to recover from bottom surgery. I intend to fight this in court, but I could really use some help in the meantime.
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Donate to Support Katra Through Bottom Surgery Recovery, organized by Katra Ariello
Hi, my name is Katra, and I’ve just been notified that I’ll be let go of… Katra Ariello needs your support for Support Katra Through Bottom Surgery Recovery
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Riley Black 🏳️‍⚧️ 🦕 @restingdinoface.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
🎧 “I'm hungry like a wolf I bleed like a wolf I'm lost and I'm lonely I hunger for you only Don't leave me now Don't break the spell”
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Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Wolf (Official Video)
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Iron Spike @ironspike.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I have literally seen dudes tailspin because of a super-casual "Pretty rapey/racist/weird/etc., dude." from a friend. Fuck some girl/brown person and their dumb opinions, they don't care about us. But they are 100% not prepared to hear it coming from you.
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Tawni Marshall @tawnimarshall.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
This part stuck out to me because a) yeah, gaining critical mass to normalize bigotry has been the goal of the anti-trans side the entire time and b) that's a crazy thing to say anonymously
A Democratic strategist, granted anonymity to speak candidly, told The Sun the breakthrough for Democrats using more anti-trans language came last year, when Rob Sand, now the Democratic nominee for governor in Iowa, was asked by a conservative radio host whether he thought transgender girls belonged in girls’ sports. Sand responded with a simple “no.” The strategist said the moment immediately circulated among party political strategists.

“Rob Sand just did it, and it was fine,” the strategist said. “There’s power in numbers, and all you have to do is tell these people that you have the majority opinion. And then you can just say it.”
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Gillian Branstetter @gbbranstetter.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Lost in the discourse about where Dems are is the fact Republicans know the anti-trans ads aren't helping them but, as Terry here openly admits, hurting trans people is all they have left. They'd use their dying breath to ruin one more trans kid's life.
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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 29/09/2026
The idea that women are given special rights based on sex is a remarkably absurd framing and not how discrimination protections actually work in practice. It can only stem from a thoroughly right-wing understanding of the world that believes marginalized people are granted extra entitlements.
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Elliot Forhan (he/him) @forhanforohio.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Kathleen Clyde and the rest of the leadership of the Ohio Democratic Party @ohdems.bsky.social are apparently incapable of doing two things at the same time: (1) upholding our values and (2) electing our candidates. That’s the job! Chair Clyde should resign. She is a failure.
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Cate (Your Wife) @kallaipdx.com · 29/09/2026
These guys are so old that I taught one of them Calculus.
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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 29/09/2026
(Even then, despite trans athletes being allowed in the Olympics for nearly two decades, no trans woman competing in women's categories ever won a medal, and the overall number of trans women who have won any sports competitions is anomalously low)
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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 29/09/2026
Trans athletes should be accepted, and should be able to win and succeed just like any other athletes, and a trans athlete winning every so often is not evidence that there's an underlying truth in banning them.
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emily blight 🐦‍⬛ @threnody.northsky.social · 29/09/2026
in today’s “not everything is awful,” i’ve been rolling with this album for about a week and am now firmly in the camp of “absolutely rips.”
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IM NOT PRETTY, by NONBINARY GIRLFRIEND
7 track album
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🏳️‍⚧️ Ciara RayneCloud 🏳️‍⚧️ @ciararaynecloud.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Hey all, please read.
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Ethan Pants (he/him) @ethanpants.northsky.social · 29/09/2026
You can write to Kare11 here to complain about the transphobic language: www.kare11.com/contact-us Hey cis allies! This is where you can ally!
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Contact KARE 11
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🎃 Killy Witches 👻 @tillybridges.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
and it’s not limited to news organizations and the like never mind how many times i’ve been told trans characters cannot appear in things i write, and that transness cannot even be spoken to in allegory i have been told i can’t put the word “trans” in a script because it’s a bad word i’m so tired
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hampterland @the-hampter.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Reminder that people won't deny the current hot topic is a slippery slope because they genuinely believe it's gonna stop at where it is now, they deny this because they hope it'll make you shut up. We all knew that queer people in general would be next after trans people, some people just didnt care
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Tawni Marshall @tawnimarshall.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Worth noting that the Title IX rules that were rescinded didn't include protections for trans student athletes, because Biden withdrew that part on his way out of office. That didn't stop McMahon from framing it that way though.
The Biden administration on Dec. 20 withdrew a proposed rule that would have extended Title IX protections to transgender student athletes, acknowledging that public sentiment and legal challenges made finalizing the rule too difficult.“It’s exactly how we enforce Title IX,” McMahon said in a video released over the weekend. “It was boys in boys sports and girls in girls sports, and now the Biden rules and regulations are being rescinded and it is a full return to the Trump administration’s Title IX ruling, as has been upheld by many courts.”
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Emily Zhou @reversibledestiny.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
yeah sure i’ll share another nude picture of ethel cain on my public instagram story. why not
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Leilani (she/her) @glittergremlei.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
On Enheduana, "the worlds first author" and the first human being to whom written words are attributed. One of the first things ever put into humanity's shared written record is a woman's rape in a temple, as an act of political violence and conquest. bsky.app/profile/glit...
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Aleksandra Vaca @transiticsnews.com · 29/09/2026
The Democrat here, Blake Gendebien, is facing off against Sticker Mule CEO Anthony Constantino. Constantino is literally running on "detransitioning America" and generally just hating trans people. Gendebien could've called Constantino out for being insane. Instead, he chose bigotry. Shame.
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Republican Wins Competitive New York House Primary—and Likely a Seat in Congress—After Running on ‘Detransitioning America’
With Trump’s backing, Anthony Constantino won the primary to succeed outgoing Rep. Elise Stefanik. His repeated calls to ‘detransition America’ must be a warning to us all.
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I Travel Like Sound Dog @chadstanton.blacksky.app · 28/09/2026
It’s been darkly amusing watching people deal with the fact that Trump actually had not imposed a permanent change to our culture and politics that would allow them to be their worst selves without friction. Some are doubling down, hence the neighborhood bar fascination, and others are pivoting hard
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Katelyn Burns @katelynburns.com · 28/09/2026
Also like we're five years into a conservative cultural project to keep kids from learning that LGBTQ even exist in the first place.
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Spencer Koelle @spencerkoelle.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Happy Mariner Monday
Beckett Mariner from Star Trek: Lower Decks, looking resigned as she puts a hand on the shoulder of Rumi from Kpop Demon Hunters. Mariner says "I think we're gonna have to killt his guy, Rumi". Rumi, looking crestfallen, says "Damn"
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Caelan Conrad @caelan.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
That is in fact not what homosexual means lol
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victoria scott @victoriascott.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I don’t even disagree with your original take about AI but perhaps someone getting W2 paychecks from the NYT should realize that they should tread a little more lightly about making fun of trans people
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Crip Dyke @cripdyke.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
So if I ever speak with such gross imprecision as to say, "Men rape and men need to fix that shit" & you feel tempted to reply, "But surely not ALL men!" Please be aware that I have noted you're more worried about rhetoric than women, about internet words than gang rapes. And then think on that.
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Crip Dyke @cripdyke.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
While I disagree with even this version of her statement, you can defend Dworkin further by saying that even the men who might now be willing to examine and challenge rape culture participated in some small way at least a couple times in their lives. And yeah!
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Crip Dyke @cripdyke.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
So Dworkin wasn't saying that every man rapes. She knew full well "not all men." What she was saying was that rape and the threat of rape are woven into our culture in a way that even non-raping men refuse to examine, much less challenge.
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Crip Dyke @cripdyke.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
This. When Andrea Dworkin said rape is the weapon that all men use to control all women, she wasn't saying all men rape. She was saying 1. Non-raping men permit rape to be as common as it is 2. Raping and non-raping men use the fear of "other" men to gain "good guy" status a short thread...
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Corinne Green @ket.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
we need you to understand that the people holding power shape not just the exterminatory policies enforced by the state but also the boundaries of their victims' responses with the same authority. you cannot meaningfully reject the oppressor's policy while accepting the oppressor's terms.
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The Onion @theonion.com · 28/09/2026
Math Teacher’s Duplex Too Depressing To TP theonion.com/math-teachers-duplex-t…
Math Teacher’s Duplex Too Depressing To TP
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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
There’s something to be said for how most of the political spectrum can unite around hounding some lesbians over niche drama in their spaces but huge segments of society are silent about pervasive campus rape impacting a huge population of primarily youngwomen
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sam @samthielman.com · 28/09/2026
MARY SHELLEY: so I was sad after we lost the baby and I wrote a novel. I think you should read it PERCY SHELLEY: [reading] this is about a brilliant scientist beset by tragedy MARY: right, because of his hubr— PERCY: my god he’s so awesome MARY: actually he— PERCY: this the best thing I’ve ever read
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Calvinball Congress @emericanjezebel.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
yall, ig is popping off. the girlies are doxxing every single admin they can find at cornell, plus the cornell 7 and their families. women are (correctly) going scorched earth.
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Trash @trashxdiscourse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Hey man, if you're out there, if your mom wrote this letter to Abigail Shrier about you, please drop a gofundme and we will get you the fuck out of there.
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The J-Card Podcast @jcardpod.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And it alllllllllllll started right here 😎 youtu.be/Qsux1mCWZmI?... @brosaleigh.bsky.social
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Josaleigh Pollett on Building a Creative Partnership To Survive 14 Time Zones | The J-Card Podcast
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The J-Card Podcast @jcardpod.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
ICYMI. Our interview with Darren Hayman. youtu.be/aGwDEm3Z8QU?...
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Darren Hayman and Six Songs That Were Lost (Until Now) | The J-Card Podcast
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Cate (Your Wife) @kallaipdx.com · 27/09/2026
Seriously if there are any craftsy people here in bskyland who would be interested in getting paid to help me make custom band merch, reach out.
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