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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 27/09/2026

when i actually lived in "the country" country music was, if anything, a class signifier of business owners, landlords, "farmers", oil sands workers with mcmansions, and their trust-fund kids with personal 4-wheelers but. alright.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 21/09/2026

cool that they realized they messed up bigtime on every front, but still won't play it again until it works on linux

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 10/09/2026

this guy is trying to weaponize national politics and a moral panic against his ex, for vengeance or control, and somehow there are people who think this is reasonable

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 05/09/2026

this is what a psyop to get people assaulted by ICE, charged, and sent to federal prison for impersonating an officer looks like

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Trans News Network @transnews.network · 21/08/2026

"If trans people want a boycott of The New York Times, where's the call to do so?" Here is a declaration laying out how the NYT is a key driver of trans genocide, why boycotts work and why anyone who gives a damn about trans lives and rights must boycott The New York Times.

transnews.network

Boycott The New York Times

For years The New York Times has relentlessly pushed anti-trans propaganda, playing a significant role in the escalating genocide against us. It's far past time for a call to action: anyone who cares ...

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kiwidolls🔞 @kiwi.doll.tf · 11/08/2026

hey if u need a soul crushing statistic to counter basically any transmisogynistic claim just remember trans women only make 60 cents on the dollar.

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A secret third thing @secretthirdthing.bsky.social · 01/07/2026

Men largely are outwardly transphobic because they see trans women as the way to get the 1950s dating experience again; women who cant get jobs & no one will care if you hit them

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puppet-herder @guardianexchange.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

"tgirl tops will bring you to a room like this" and it's a photograph of a poor woman's room and the joke is that we think it's funny she's poor

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mady castigan✨ 🏳️‍⚧️ @mady.cat · 11/02/2026

Jayme Poisson of CBC's 'front burner' podcast has brought on an associate of the Epstein-backed Edge Network, Jonathan Haidt, for an interview about "the case" for banning social media. Reach out to the podcast and CBC with these emails to send your thoughts: frontburner@cbc.ca Ask@cbc.ca

Front Burner
with Jayme Poisson
The case to ban kids from social media, with Jonathan Haidt
33 mins
Feb. 11, 2026

Jonathan Haidt, best-selling author of “The Anxious Generation”, is our guest today. He’s been on a global mission to educate parents, the media, and government officials about the harms that social media companies inflict on children.

He believes that the world ran a huge uncontrolled experiment on kids in the 2010s by giving them smartphones and social media accounts. And now, there is clear evidence – often through court case disclosure – that the experiment has harmed children, and that it’s time to call it off.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 12/11/2025

got incorrectly reassessed by the CRA and they're claiming i owe them over $1.5k of my canada worker's benefit payments back, except i have clear evidence that they're wrong lmao. wonder how many months it'll take to clear that up 🙄

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 19/10/2025

no kings seems to have no theory of change, just "if we get millions of people to call trump fat and gay the government will stop being mean" "everyone is 12 now" theory remains undefeated

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 29/09/2025

can't wait for the "dismember 50 asari journalists" quest in mass effect 4: the war for neom

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 08/09/2025

a whole bunch of twitter right-wingers going inactive after the cables in the red sea getting cut is certainly not making me less confident that saudi arabia is a major player in the global fascist conspiracy, for the purpose of ensuring their continued profit from oil.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 22/08/2025

the heterosexual regime must be destroyed (hetslop song with creepy patriarchal vibes came on at my job again)

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IllCaesar @illcaesar.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

Michael Bailey is a rapist. He used his position to force trans women to perform sex acts on him in exchange for healthcare with the threat of vandalizing their medical file so they could never get care from an actual doctor if they didn't.

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Assigned Media @assignedmedia.org · 03/08/2025

3 Aug 25 - New study shows vast "over-representation of trans boys" turns out to be vast _under-representation_ of trans girls bec. they: a) come out ~10 years later; b) start puberty later; & c) delay transitioning longer because of deep social animus towards AMAB femininity. tinyurl.com/yrwvmxws

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eva (^_^)/ @eva.computer · 26/07/2025

this is who visa and mastercard lets decide what you are permitted to buy

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Myth: "What consenting adults do is up to them"

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nora "the tea kobold" rude (they/them ze/hir) @nora.zone · 24/07/2025

i want to note that the christofascist attack on "porn" isn't actually an attempt to make the internet or the world child safe in any real way. these people abuse the fuck out of children and oppose sex education largely because it makes children able to identify and name that abuse

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 25/07/2025

feeling vindicated in my consistent refusal to push mastercards on people at work, despite the fact that i can get paid commission from it.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 23/07/2025

Months ago, @aliceinwunderl3.bsky.social and I discussed a paper published in a Spanish criminal law journal that concluded the poor, immigrant trans women it interviewed do sex work for "recreation and a sense of fun", when the trans women were saying "We have no choice." I think about that a lot.

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👁️🍄🪸 @bloomfilters.plus · 15/07/2025

at a time where the scary spectre of the transfeminized is being used wholesale to build nationalist fascisms around the world it's like reason #27283 people are constantly being lapped by reactionaries 24/7 and progressive movements are utterly unequipped to deal with stuff

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 12/07/2025

unsurprisingly for a federal judge, this still accepts the fantastical premise that large-scale immigration enforcement could ever occur without racism, and violation of people's legal rights. it's ignorant of how cops (incl. ICE) have always worked, particularly in massive drag net operations.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 09/07/2025

preventing people from reading the bible themselves is something christian authorities did for centuries. they killed people over it. you can't just go around claiming that anytime a christian does something bad that they're not christian. they've done evil for the entire history of the religion.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 09/07/2025

it is 2025 and i am currently engaging with asoiaf for the first time. never watched game of thrones. finished the first book this morning.

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Sage Deviant 🏳️‍⚧️ @trans.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

with alt text for accessibility. the New York Times has a long history of Nazism & a fascistic editorial bias.

"By bating Hitler and trying to fight back, Jews are only increasing the severity of his policies against them.

"If Jews throughout the world try to instill into the minds of Hitler and his supporters recognition- of the ideals for which the race stands, and if Jews appeal to the German sense of justice and the German national conscience, I am sure the problem will be solved more effectively and earlier than otherwise."

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 03/07/2025

do you think there were Germans in 1933 who were like "we're gonna destroy these guys in the parliamentary election"

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 25/06/2025

free buses? preposterous. a pie-in-the-sky fantasy. we could be sending that money to israel instead

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 22/06/2025

this race is like avengers: endgame for rapists

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 20/06/2025

liberals aren't wrong that a relatively small amount of mostly peaceful support *can* contribute to a change in government, the problem is they act as if reaching a magic number will just cause it to happen, and that having a mechanism to channel that support into action is irrelevant

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 19/06/2025

i'm not saying somebody *should*, but if somebody in NYT management got Luigi'd you certainly wouldn't see me complaning.

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Julia Carrie Wong @joolia.bsky.social · 19/06/2025

An honest accounting might look like, “How the Alliance Defending Freedom bet on the latent bigotry of NYT masthead editors to launder religious intolerance into ‘concern’ about safe and effective medical practices … and won.”

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Queen Mob💣 @irontoothedhag.bsky.social · 18/06/2025

we need less "if you don't let me transition I'll kill myself" and more "if you don't let me transition I'll kill you"

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mcc @dryad.technology · 18/06/2025

Something the Skrmetti decision drives home: "Puberty blockers" should be abandoned as a goal; the goal should be HRT for any minor that wants it; puberty blockers should be a tool for minors who choose themselves they need more time to decide and *nothing else*. Compromising achieved nothing, here

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 18/06/2025

"the republicans say they're for parental rights and yet they're overriding supportive parents of trans kids. so hypocritical!" yes, this is how patriarchy works. the hint is in the "-archy" children are ruled by the patriarch of a family, and that patriarch is ruled by the patriarchs of a state.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 18/06/2025

People should stop appealing to "Jesus' teachings" or "What Jesus did" to claim that Christians are being "bad Christians". While a Jewish preacher named Jesus probably did exist, any teachings or actions attributed to him were written by anonymous authors decades after his claimed death.

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 18/06/2025

lots of replies to this are functionally like, "if you see someone getting abducted by an unidentifiable SS agent, call the Gestapo to stop them" i don't think that's likely to work!

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👁️🍄🪸 @bloomfilters.plus · 18/06/2025

very often you'll see reactionaries like openly state on the net that they can't wait for [trans women] to be undergrounded again from public life so they can get back to just getting off to our bodies as 20 diff porn categories & physically+sexually abusing us in the semi privacy of "male spaces"

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Lydia Hekataia @frogmother.net · 18/06/2025

neither political party in america considers trans people to be people. act accordingly.

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