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Stephanie 🎀

@beamsandbows.bsky.social
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Particle accelerator fan, ace-aro artist, millennial, ribbons and bows, BS ‘23 Physics

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Frank Conniff @frankconniff.bsky.social · 19h
“ME TOO went too far” said the country that re-elected a rapist.
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Physgal ⚛️ @physgal.bsky.social · 19h
Just needs alt-text:
How to avoid sexual assault! A QUICK AND EASY GUIDE* 

sexual violence centre cork 

1 DON'T PUT DRUGS IN PEOPLE'S DRINKS 

4 WHEN YOU SEE A WOMAN WALKING BY HERSELF, LEAVE HER ALONE. 

3 WHEN YOU COME ACROSS SOMEONE WHO IS DRUNK OR ASLEEP, THE BEST THING TO DO IS NOT RAPE THEM. 

6 CARRY A WHISTLE. IF YOU THINK YOU MIGHT RAPE SOMEONE, BLOW THE WHISTLE UNTIL SOMEONE COMES TO STOP YOU.

2 USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM! IF YOU CAN'T STOP YOURSELF FROM SEXUALLY ASSAULTING SOMEONE, ASK A TRUSTED FRIEND TO ACCOMPANY YOU AT ALL TIMES TO STOP YOU. 

5 IF YOU ARE IN A LIFT AND SOMEONE STEPS IN, REMEMBER NOT TO SEXUALLY ASSAULT THEM.

*for perpetrators.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 17h
It’s me. I really do think I’m harassing people when I talk to them. I really do think I’m making a scene and risking disorderly conduct charges when I show any negative emotion in public. I’m convinced I am your average hiring manager’s worst nightmare, and my name echoes in a whisper network.
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Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @drdoylesays.bsky.social · 19h
CPTSD is not primarily about what happened to us. It's about how what happened to us turned us into someone we didn't choose. The "just get over it" people don't understand that. We don't "just get over" who we've become. We have to recondition, rewire, reshape ourselves.
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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 20h
"I understand being consumed with fear & skepticism after being told a medical procedure might have hurt your child. It’s why I’m going to tell you my story of becoming—but then un-becoming—a passionate anti-vaxxer autism parent." At TPGA. thinkingautismguide.com/2024/12/why-... #autism #parenting
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Let's Talk About Why My Autistic Son Is Fully Vaccinated — THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM
If you have concerns about vaccines and autism, please listen to my story of becoming—but then un-becoming—an anti-vaxxer autism parent.
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Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg @theradr.bsky.social · 20h
Please give these journalists their flowers.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 20h
So crying and falling behind on schoolwork carries heavier consequences than gang-raping another student? HAHAHA fuck the system straight into the sun.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Picture of the 1950 Tacoma Narrows Bridge with a cigarette icon sticking out of one tower, and a speech bubble saying “I was built during an earthquake.”
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hot dogs are charcuterie sandwiches @riothobbit.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
future archaeologists will decide we had a goddess of prosperity known as costco and that these were ancient temples of abundance, so that's kind of cool
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CERN @cern.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Happy birthday CERN! 🎉 #OnThisDay 72 years ago, CERN officially came into being, bringing together 12 founding Member States with a shared vision for science and international collaboration. Discover the story behind 72 years of science: home.cern/about/who-we...
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Do not trust the abominable snowman with the pink cheekies. Just don’t.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
When one tolerates antisemitism and makes excuses for it, one becomes part of the very problem. I shouldn’t meed to say this, but - don’t read into this anything that I didn’t say. Opposing Israel and its action’s need not be antisemitic at all. Plenty of us do who are Jewish.
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J. Emory Parker 🏳️‍🌈 @jaspar.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Meta muse saying why would I deceive you?
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The autistic public educator I would like to highlight for support is Dr. Destiny Huff. I follow her on Instagram. If you’re not the type to touch Meta even with a two-mile linac, here’s her website: www.destinyhuffconsulting.com Support her at: buymeacoffee.com/destinyhuff_...
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Destiny Huff Consulting | IEP Advocate
Dr. Destiny Huff provides neuroaffirming special education advocacy, consulting, training, books, and resources to help families and professionals better support neurodivergent learners.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Did you learn something really important from that autistic educator on Instagram? Did an article on Substack give you new perspective? The autistic person who helped you do that is probably struggling. Help autistic public educators wherever and however you can.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Don’t assume you know anything about someone’s disability. Their history. Their struggles.
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
We need to stop calling every autistic person leaving an overwhelming situation “elopement.” Elopement and self-regulation aren’t the same thing. As this term is getting popularised by the influencer crowd, I’m hearing it more and more in spaces I’m in, and being used to describe things it isn’t.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And ALSO. ALSO. Even if there was a link between mental health issues and queerness, that doesn't mean they are WRONG. The way society treats mental illnesses as such a big boogeyman is a HUGE problem.
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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 20/09/2026
Often, when autistic children are sent to “cool-down corners,” schools fail to see and report it as seclusion. The distinction that’s lost: a space students can retreat to of their own volition when overwhelmed—and leave when calmer—is different from seclusion. www.denverpost.com/2026/09/15/a...
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How parents in Boulder rewrote the rules on autism therapy in school
The Boulder Valley School District implemented what is likely the nation’s first — and only — neurodiversity policy.
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Thinking Person's Guide to Autism @thinkingautism.com · 28/09/2026
The best investment you can make in your autistic child’s future is a commitment to intense scrutinization of support options—especially at this moment in which hateful autism misinformation is having the hateful comeback. We have more advice at TPGA: thinkingautismguide.com/2025/07/iden... #autism
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How Parents Can Identify and Avoid Harmful Autism Treatments — THINKING PERSON'S GUIDE TO AUTISM
When it comes to autism treatments, parents new to autism need to work past their fear & confusion, & embrace their critical reasoning skills.
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Wylder 🏳️‍⚧️♿ $0/$2300 @wylder.myatproto.social · 23/09/2026
It is almost IMPOSSIBLE to get folks housed for less than thousands and thousands of dollars and Jacob has a chance RIGHT NOW to be HOUSED for 1k!! Its been 2 weeks of no progress. PLEASE help us get him housed and not to miss this VERY RARE opportunity!! venmo.com/u/jas042edu cash.app/$louvreaux
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ouinne @ouinne.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
ANNUAL HALLOWEEN REMINDER THAT ANYTHING WITH ACTIVATED CHARCOAL *WILL* FUCK WITH YOUR MEDICATIONS
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I’ve been thinking about this in the context of machine learning algorithms with “point deductions“ meant to “penalize” the computer. At the end of the day, it’s still a computer program running calculations. It’s functionally no different than point/currency calculations in a video game.
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David Harvey @topladave.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
In Case You were Wondering. There are 96 bags of poop on the Moon, and there are very good reasons to get them back. www.iflscience.com/who-exactly-...
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Who Exactly Owns Neil Armstrong's Moon Poop? And Why Is It So Important We Get It Back?
There are 96 bags of poop on the Moon, and there are very good reasons to get them back.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
The higher rate of Black incarceration is rooted in this inability to let go of slaves. So we can all bet our lily-white buttcheeks Black Americans won’t be letting go of racism any time soon.
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Miaganga @miaganga.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
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Areanna @areannathatsall.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Rent is clear thank goodness! Keep going to clear storage 280 for storage Falco has medical devices and belongings that have to be kept safely stored.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Yep. . . . CW // Suicide, violence against trans people . . . Suicide in general is a failure of society to prevent conditions that lead to despair, such as abuse and poverty. Trans folks who receive family and social support and welcoming are SO much less likely to harm themselves.
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Autistic Adam @autisticadam.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Being autistic is knowing I won't fit in with others. Even after years of trying. All it will do is lead to burnout. Is that worth it ? I don't think so. At least with my own space and minimal time around others anyway it reduces the risk of anxiety or anything else for that matter massively.
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hell yea depression is pumpkin flavored now @liminalclown-e.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Agonizing. Just about the worst thing to be allowed to happen. linktr.ee/hiitsbritt #HomelessSky #MutualAid #MutualAidVoid #HelpSky #FundSky #HelpFolksLive #MutualAidDirective 💕💸 #MutualAidRequest #BIPOCMA
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Help us rebuild & rehouse | Linktree
Unhoused 1.5 years. Chronically ill Black femme surviving with my cat. Aid keeps us safe indoors & I hope it’ll help us secure a permanent home too.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
$50 received, bringing me to $595 of $700, thank you so much! Only $105 away from rent which I MUST reach before 11AM today, under 11 hours away. Also need storage help before the 1st, but rent comes first! Please consider sending help, and please keep sharing!
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Help Falco with shelter and storage! paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=EL5EB7BDZ3GTW cash.app/$FalcoSkyWolf #HelpSky #DisabilityMutualAid #HelpFolksLive
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Help support Falco SkyWolf by donating or sharing with your friends.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
$100 received! Thank you so much- this gets me to $235, with $700 rent needed before 11AM on Sunday, and $300 storage due on Oct 1st. Could you please consider sending a bit of support? Every buck counts- and please keep sharing!
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I'm starting late and slow this week, and so far I've only raised $130, with rent AND storage coming up soon. At the very least, I MUST raise rent before 11AM on Sunday. Please consider giving me a hand? Any amount helps- and please keep sharing!
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Andrew Gurza @andrewgurza6.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Disabled people are allowed to have all the emotions; we’re not just here to inspire you.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Another $50 received, thank you so much! This brings me to $130, kind of a slow start to this week's rent quest. Also need storage in under a week- please keep sharing, and consider chipping in if you can?
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Physgal ⚛️ @physgal.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
🧪⚒️ ⚛️ 🔭
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beka valentine @bekavalentine.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
we OUGHT to live in a world where the general benefit to humanity, the enrichment of human life, and the curiosity and drive of creative people, is what pushes things forward since we do NOT live in that world, it's on us to figure out how to make that world a reality
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Joelle Maslak @jmaslak.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
ADHD is a significant disability and people with it benefit greatly from treatment (not always medication, but, yes, including medication). ADHD is not laziness, is not moral failure, and is not “minor”.
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
$50 more has come in, thank you so much! I had a slow, late start to this week, so this means I'm now at $80, with both rent AND storage on the horizon. Please consider a bit of support? Anything counts! And please keep sharing!
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hell yea depression is pumpkin flavored now @liminalclown-e.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Idk how to get this met. I don’t have access to another bank account. I’m depleted & malnourished. Completely struggling to get shares. Linktr.ee/hiitsbritt #mutualaid #bipocma #homelesssky #marequest #helpsky #fundsky #helpfolkslive
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Help us rebuild & rehouse | Linktree
Unhoused 17 months. I'm a chronically ill Black femme surviving with my cat. Aid keeps us safe indoors & I hope it’ll help us secure a permanent home too.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I’m trying to stay alive… just so immediate family isn’t left behind and absolutely devastated. They’re my lifeline right now as everything seems to be collapsing.
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The Creatively Maladjusted @tyrotcm.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
The banality of evil isn't a threat just because it's insipid. It's so dangerous because it's so *common* - that's what banality is. There's a counterpart, the banality of good. Ordinary people showing kindness in ways that don't attract much attention. Learn to look for those. Food for the soul.
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Stephanie 🎀 @beamsandbows.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
To those who legitimize corporeal punishment: Do not call me weak for wanting a better world than what you had to offer. Do not call me weak for surviving your abuse, the toxicity that drives me to destroy myself. If you take pride in causing pain, you are part of what’s wrong with this world.
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Mother Frog Slut // Steward of Giant Reptiles @toadcialism.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
In light of AI making CEOs and users dumber and insisting kids don’t need to know square roots and long division: Who wants to learn about bib necklace math? I have a formula behind the maximalist joys you all know and love! 🧵:
Black velvet jewelry bust displaying an ornate thistle purple bib necklace with a beaded collar Beige velvet jewelry bust displaying an aquamarine blue bib necklace Beige velvet jewelry bust displaying an scaly bib necklace with a beaded collar in asexual pride colors Black velvet jewelry bust displaying a turquoise blue and gunmetal bib necklace
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Falco SkyWolf @falcoskywolf.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Will you help this disabled queer artist with rent, $700 due Sunday, and storage, $300 due Oct 1st? My survival depends on staying housed, and my mobility tools and other key items depend on storage. #PleaseShare, and chip in if able? #DisabilityCrowdFund #MutualAidRequest #KeepFolksAlive
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Daniel Pomarède @pomarede.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
NASA’s Hubble Space Telescope completed its 200,000th orbit around Earth on Sept. 19, 2026. Hubble has traveled more than 5 billion miles around Earth over its 36-year lifetime, exceeding 1.7 million total observations. science.nasa.gov/missions/hub... #Hubble 🔭🧪
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NASA's Hubble Seeks Lensed Supernova, Marks 200,000 Orbits - NASA Science
Hubble has traveled more than 5 billion miles around Earth over its 36-year lifetime, exceeding 1.7 million total observations. An observation completed on
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Andrew Gurza @andrewgurza6.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Even disabled people you don’t like deserve accessibility.
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tryinghands.bsky.social @tryinghands.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
She has been stalled at 0$ for 3 weeks now, & October is next week. She needs her anxiety and depression meds as soon as possible. Please boost as much as possible. Please send in a donation! She can't do another 6 months without it. #BIPOCMA #HelpSky #HelpFolksLive2026 💸 💕 bsky.app/profile/tryi...
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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Self-advocacy doesn’t mean doing everything yourself. Sometimes excellent self-advocacy is "I can't advocate for myself in this situation. I need someone to help me with this.” Independence shouldn't be the goal - having agency in regards to the support we receive is.
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