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TJ Alexander (they/them)

@tjalexandernyc.bsky.social
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Bestselling author of 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ romances. A LADY FOR ALL SEASONS out now. Rep: Larissa Melo Pienkowski @ Azantian DM's/@'s not checked regularly. Contact me via my website: tjalexander.com

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Jackie Lau @jackielaubooks.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
ok, out of curiosity, can anyone think of an m/f romance cover like this?
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I'm giving away 5 arcs of my queer, trans, COVID-concsious cryptid hunter romcom LOVE AND LAKE MONSTERS US only, ends Oct. 16 Enter: forms.gle/KeLWFuFacXsN...
A stack of the advance reading copies on the floor.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
becoming the guy who might wear shorts year round. i get it now, fellas. it's hot out there
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Authors Against Book Bans @authorsabb.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
5 Common Myths about Book Bans
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Jennifer Szalai @jenszalai.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
It was a short call, Carlberg said: All the poet would say was she
was "in Iceland," where she was
"listening to the wind."
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Arden Powell @ardenpowell.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I'm currently reading the midpoint sex scene of my ARC and listen. You want the gruff grey-haired trans man who builds canoes with his bare hands and has a trunk full of kink gear and used to be in a punk band and is still trying to avoid COVID. You also want the giant salamander monster.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
(looking at my problems) nothing that a good nap, a filling meal, an entire series of Taskmaster where the contestants mesh, two aspirin, a weekend at sea, and fifty-seven thousand dollars can't fix
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I'm giving away 5 arcs of my queer, trans, COVID-concsious cryptid hunter romcom LOVE AND LAKE MONSTERS US only, ends Oct. 16 Enter: forms.gle/KeLWFuFacXsN...
A stack of the advance reading copies on the floor.
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Bookstore Romance Day @bookstoreromanceday.org · 02/10/2026
Got plans 10/25 at 6 PM EDT? You do now. You're hanging out with @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social @oliviawrites.bsky.social @oliviawaite.com @mythjae.bsky.social & @chuckwendig.bsky.social w/ @gwenda.bsky.social moderating. Free tix at link. www.eventbrite.com/e/2002761323...
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Halloween Tricks-N-Treats
A special Halloween virtual event with TJ Alexander, Olivia Dade, Olivia Waite, Jasmine Walls, & Chuck Wendig & moderated by Gwenda Bond.
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Matt Binder @mattbinder.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
the tech industry is about to invent books
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We created gyms because modern day work no
longer required physical activity. Without exercise,
our muscles atrophy.
I predict we'll need gyms for our brains too, once Al
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
In this month's free newsletter, I wrote about crafting characters and why you can't rely on bullshit personality tests. For anything, but especially not that. Also, an arc giveaway for Love and Lake Monsters!
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Character Creation 101
Guess what, darlings? I have arcs to give away! Enter here. US only. 5 randomly selected winners will get an advance reader copy before Love and Lake...
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
My books and recs are here if you want to take advantage of free shipping bookshop.org/shop/tjalexa...
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TJ Alexander Bookshop
TJ Alexander is a Lambda Literary Award winner and USA Today bestseller who writes trans and nonbinary love stories. Originally from Florida, they received their MA in writing and publishing from Emer...
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
In this month's free newsletter, I wrote about crafting characters and why you can't rely on bullshit personality tests. For anything, but especially not that. Also, an arc giveaway for Love and Lake Monsters!
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Character Creation 101
Guess what, darlings? I have arcs to give away! Enter here. US only. 5 randomly selected winners will get an advance reader copy before Love and Lake...
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Alex Brown 🇵🇸 (they/them) @bookjockeyalex.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
It's Banned Books Week. My fellow librarians, listen carefully: your book displays should be almost exclusively writers who are alive. Yes, I know classic literature is also being banned, but most of those authors are dead. They aren't suffering financially from bans and challenges.
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Meg Elison @megelison.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Please remember that for every VE Schwab and Stephen King, there are a lot of banned Black, queer, and POC writers you've never heard of, to whom it is maybe not a badge of honor but a denial of their voice. Being banned is not a marketing opportunity, unless one is already rich.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
When I first posted this I still thought I had a fall 2026 pub date but my editor had not informed me it had been pushed back 👍🥇🫠
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Maggie Tokuda-Hall @maggietokudahall.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
It is the start of Banned Books Week and as such it's an EXCELLLLENT moment to donate to @authorsabb.bsky.social. We are laser focused on tbe single issue of fighting book bans. It's hard work, and we've done it with all volunteers for about 3 years-- and now we finally have a program manager.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
I cannot recommend enough, if you are someone who likes to read scary stuff in October to get into the Halloween spirit, reading The Haunting of Hill House. I'd reread it every year if I had the time
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ceej @ceej.online · 09/11/2024
pacino in dog day afternoon
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Maia Kobabe @redgoldsparks.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
For my New York friends, the deadlines are based on boroughs and the soonest deadline is Brooklyn on Oct 11, the latest is Staten Island which won't open until November.
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Olivia Dade @oliviawrites.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Aaaaaaand I'm going to force Emma to talk about her own amazing upcoming book, YOU, ME, AND THE CONSPIRACY! 🎉
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Sandy Ernest Allen @sandyernestallen.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
JUST can’t emphasize enough how … unbelievable … it feels that this piece is finally live. I hope folks will read and share.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
still going!
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Remember a few years ago when it was trendy to get those silly portraits of your pets dressed up in, like, Victorian clothes or similar? How can I find an artist that takes those commissions without involving any ai nonsense?
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E.K. Johnston @ekjohnston.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I've had friends whose books were pushed back by MONTHS and their publisher didn't tell them. Instead, they find out randomly from a reader asking about preorders or something. We (frequently) get paid on publication. Moving it and not telling us can cause financial disasters.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Paid subscribers, the winners for the arc giveaway have been picked. check your email : )
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Gemma Clark 🧿🕯️ @gemmaclark.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So sad to see this happening again. Here is their crowdfunder for shutters and window repairs. Let’s give them some support 🫶 www.gofundme.com/f/categoryis...
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Donate to Help Category Is Books Get Shutters!, organized by Category Is Books
For the past eight years, Category Is Books has been able to comfortably oper… Category Is Books needs your support for Help Category Is Books Get Shutters!
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I've seen a lot of authors sharing links to their @buttondown.com newsletters that include both a link to an individual post AND a bonus add-on at the bottom of the link preview that gives an option to view the publication as a whole. Does anyone know how to turn on this feature?
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Laura Kendall @bookendedbyowls.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Haven't been this excited for an ARC in a minute. LOVE anything @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social writes.
A 30-something person with fuschia hair geeking out about an ARC of Love and Lake Monsters by TJ Alexander.
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
and folks, I'm a swing
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Periodically I remind you I have a newsletter. If you like my books or jokes, it's like getting a free 1k of those every month. Kind of.
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TJ Alexander's Newsletter
A newsletter about queer, trans, and nonbinary romance from your friendly neighborhood author, TJ Alexander. Coming in 2027: Love and Lake Monsters. Out now: A Lady for All Seasons & A Gentleman’s Gen...
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
lmaoooo actually as an elder millennial I remember this being a thing! Before social media or robust chat room infrastructure some of the only places to talk with other kids was in the message boards of corporate brand websites. whole ass communities on jnco jeans dot com
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
my wife and I had our 13th wedding anniversary recently and I think about our 1st anniversary all the time when my MIL gave us a HUGE framed photo she'd taken at the ceremony. my wife looked amazing, the most photogenic person in the world, BIG beautiful smile. I had my eyes closed.
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Books Yuuto @ozuyuuto.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Finally had some time to sit and blast through the rest of this ARC! This was a wild ride, hunting the elusive cryptid while flirting shamelessly with the hot shut-in in the mountains. Also bless @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social for a Covid conscious character, I feel that on a deep personal level. 👏
Cover of the upcoming novel Love And Lake Monsters by TJ Alexander. Releases February 2027!
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
that's THEM that's those men!!!
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Sonido Reyes @sonidoreyes.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Happy book birthday to meeee 🎵🎶 To Our Untamed Core is OUT NOW! This book is incredibly special to me. It’s my first book with a trans protagonist, and my first book releasing with my new name. It’s terrifying and so so special. I am so grateful to finally be able to share this one with all of you💛
A selfie of Sonido Reyes with two braids in their hair smiling and holding their book, To our Untamed Core
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Lee Mandelo @leemandelo.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Thinking again about @nathanburgoine.bsky.social's careful (and very gentle given how frustrating this shit can be!) essay on "who gets to tell their own stories, who profits the most from them, and what that means for queer men in these spaces/the culture" apostrophen.wordpress.com/2021/01/03/t...
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The Shoulder Check Problem
Like a lot of my blog posts here, this one was sparked at a specific time over a specific conversation, but over the years I’ve seen this particular topic come up again and again like waves on a sh…
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Adib Khorram @adibkhorram.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Last day to preorder ISN'T HE ROMANTIC?!! If you do get it from Under the Cover here in KC you get some goodies too!!
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Isn't He Romantic? - PREORDER September 22, 2026
This is a preorder for the third book in the Love On The Vine series by Adib Khorram, Isn't He Romantic? Each preorder will be hand signed by the author. Swag to be announced!   To deter his ex, a lov...
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
his campaign is calling this political ad "satire" but it's just a bunch of out of context clips put together to make it seem like people are mad at Hochul. You can find PLENTY of real life people who are mad at Hochul. Faking that isn't satire unless what they're actually satirizing is NY politics
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Book reviewers! This is now available to request on netgalley (and maybe the other one too? I forget what it's called) www.netgalley.com/catalog/book...
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Love and Lake Monsters
NetGalley helps publishers and authors promote digital review copies to book advocates and industry professionals. Publishers make digital review copies and audiobooks available for the NetGalley comm...
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
RE last reskeet, I have real doubts when people say "at least Democrats can be persuaded to be more pro trans at a later date, so vote them in now no matter how transphobic they seem" That's not what happened in the UK. Transphobia just got more acceptable
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Lee Hurley @hleehurley.com · 14/09/2026
This is what has happened with Labour in the UK. Most people don't believe that Labour could be transphobic - they aren't the Tories or Reform after all - and refuse to see it, and they are the most transphobic government of my life. So much harder to fight against, so much more damage done.
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Jessica Ellis @baddestmamajama.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
People will cut out artificial food dyes, spend hours at the gym, drink vitamin infused water…and then go to the airport and rawdog breathing in an airborne pathogen that can disable you permanenty and is basically guaranteed to be there.
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Sam Wilson @samwilson.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
I am amazed that for a few years we had the ability to instantly access information through an almost perfect search engine and the makers of that search engine decided hundreds of billions wasn’t enough profit so they destroyed it
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Ah, mid-Sept. It's practically October. Which, in the US, is basically November. That means Thanksgiving, which leads quickly into December and the winter holidays, so really I wouldn't be surprised if every email to a major publishing house from now until Jan 11 gets an OOO auto response
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
It's Bi Week! I'm bi and so is the cis MC in CHEF'S KISS. In my experience, bi folks are the likeliest partners of trans & nb people simply bc we tend not to spiral about what our partner's gender means for our identity. it's all good! it's ignorant to say being bisexual = inherently transphobic
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
Hey NYC - Katherine Grant and I are hosting another romance read-in to benefit @authorsabb.bsky.social on 10/5! Come hang out, meet some of your favorite romance authors and raise money to fight book bans ❤️
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Romance Read-In to Benefit Authors Against Book Bans
It's Banned Books Week - so we're calling on romance readers to support Authors Against Book Bans and fight back against censorship!
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TJ Alexander (they/them) @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
It's Bi Week! I'm bi and so is the cis MC in CHEF'S KISS. In my experience, bi folks are the likeliest partners of trans & nb people simply bc we tend not to spiral about what our partner's gender means for our identity. it's all good! it's ignorant to say being bisexual = inherently transphobic
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Aaron H. Aceves @aaronhaceves.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
It's Bisexual Awareness Week! Be aware: I’m a bi Latino author who wrote a novel about a bi Latino teen growing up in East LA who tries to get over his crush on his best friend by getting under someone else. It’s called This Is Why They Hate Us, and I hope you check it out!
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Chantzy @chantzy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I'll die on this hill, but it's cruel to accuse people who wear masks of having anxiety disorders. We don't do this to people who wear hard hats, condoms, medical gloves, sunglasses, life jackets, parachutes - the list is long!
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