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Ella Dawson

@brosandprose.bsky.social
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sex & culture critic. author of BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY. host of the REBEL EVER AFTER podcast about progressive romance novels. she/her. support me on patreon: patreon.com/brosandprose everything else: linktr.ee/brosandprose

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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 4h
been together nearly a year, boyfriend casually referred to his experiences as a former male model(????) who is this man
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gita “the formalist” jackson @xoxogossipgita.bsky.social · 16h
If you haven’t read the short story The Feminist from @tonytula.com’s short story collection Rejection, I think now is a great time to read it www.nplusonemag.com/issue-35/fic...
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The Feminist | Tony Tulathimutte
His friends, mostly female, told him he was refreshingly attentive and trustworthy for a boy. Meanwhile he is grateful for the knowledge that female was best used as an adjective, that sexism harms me...
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
It took me eight or nine months to realize my ex had raped me. It was an incredibly painful and slow process of remembering, recontextualizing, and talking it out in therapy. It took even longer to say the word “rape” publicly, and I still often don’t. It is NORMAL for survivors to need time.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I’m so fucking mad at everything rn
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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Just a reminder that people don’t always realize they were raped in the immediate aftermath. It can take hours, days, months, and even years to realize you were raped, and it doesn’t make it any less true. There are many kinds of responses, including fawning and trying to appease your rapist
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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Fraternity men perpetrate sexual violence at a rate three times higher than other college men. The fraternity lobby is one of the most powerful in DC—and they consistently oppose any bill for survivors’ rights.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
moderating a queer romance book launch tonight and what a relief it is to dress gay, sensible sneakers with arch support, hair up in a bun, bless up
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Zoey is a liquid now
Ella’s black cat has wedged herself into her lap under the lip of the desk
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
We're 5 new members away from me reading and reacting to this terrible propaganda romance about a liberal woman who falls in love with “a big-hearted, truck-driving guy who follows hockey, not headlines"! Subscribe to torture me for a good cause: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
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Evan Urquhart @evanurquhart.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Definitely click through on this story for the quotes from the Third Way spokesperson, who AGREED Democratic candidates should NOT adopt Republican language on trans issues. I was floored - even tried to get Billie to put it in the headline. This is not just analysis, these quotes are news.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
"It is just as easy now to get away with rape on campus as it was when I was an undergraduate. That is not going to change any time soon. I don't know that it ever will." Wrote about grief and the Cornell 7 in this month's newsletter:
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September '26: We're in the Red Zone | Ella Dawson
content warning: discussion of campus rape and the Cornell 7 The majority of sexual assaults on college campuses take place between the star
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kate wehwalt @katewagner.wehwalt.net · 29/09/2026
new mcmansion hell about whatever the hell is going on with ceiling fans right now mcmansionhell.com/post/8291279...
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what is going on with ceiling fans
Sometimes new design phenomena slip past even those of us who are most in tune with the happenings of the built environment. Such is the case with whatever the hell is going on with commercial ceiling...
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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
A truly heinous man has doxxed the Cornell victim on X and the comments are predictably vile. Based on countless interviews I’ve done with survivors, the trauma they are subjected to for coming forward is oftentimes even worse than the initial trauma they experienced. There is no real justice system
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Rebecca Solnit @rebeccasolnit.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Maybe time for those who don't experience this directly to return to this thread (which I posted when PTSD was being weaponized to relieve Graham Platner of responsibility for his actions).
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ryan cooper @ryanlcooper.com · 30/09/2026
oh man you know a small paper did good when the NYT reports on their reporting rather than ripping them off without credit www.nytimes.com/2026/09/29/n...
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Students at Cornell Daily Sun Pursued Sexual Assault Case for Two Years (Gift Article)
The student newspaper, The Cornell Daily Sun, covered the allegations of rape at a fraternity party since they were first made in 2024 and led the reporting on the case.
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Emma R. Alban @eraofemma.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
It's the last day of Sapphic September! Celebrate by joining me and @brosandprose.bsky.social tonight at The Ripped Bodice BK to discuss my Hot Ghost Mom Romance, HAPPILY EVER AFTERLIFE!
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
We're 5 new members away from me reading and reacting to this terrible propaganda romance about a liberal woman who falls in love with “a big-hearted, truck-driving guy who follows hockey, not headlines"! Subscribe to torture me for a good cause: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A man replied to this saying in earnest that women need to get organized and fight for our rights and men will follow. We did that. We do that. We mobilized the largest single day protest in global history on every continent and yet I have fewer rights than my mom did at my age.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
USE DISCOUNT CODE “REBEL” FOR 15% OFF, PROCEEDS GOING TO FIGHT BOOK BANS!!!!
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Stacked day for new releases in romance! I rounded up books published today by Ashley Herring Blake, Martha Waters, Bel Banta, Emma R. Alban, Bei Lin and more: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com/item/7CVBe6A...
Romances published today!
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
BROOKLYN! I'm in conversation tomorrow night at the Ripped Bodice with sapphic romance icon Emma R. Alban! Come hear us talk about the logistics of queer ghost fucking and why she's obsessed with the Dakota building!
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Emma R. Alban Brooklyn Event for Happily Ever Afterlife
Shop The Ripped Bodice, America’s first romance-only bookstore, featuring new releases, signed books, and curated picks across every subgenre.
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Lydia! ⭐ @lydiastaremoji.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
liberty mutual advertisement induced psychosis
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
logging off, staying off, please come to my benefit for authors against book bans next week if you are in NYC
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I posted on Instagram about my experience with sexual violence on campus and this was the first comment I got.
“Why do you think you dated a man who had the willingness and interest in beating a woman?”
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nora "the tea kobold" rude (they/them ze/hir) @nora.zone · 28/09/2026
the camouflage mostly functions by giving institutions (school administration, in this case) an excuse to avoid scrutinizing the orgs in question. its already in their best interest to do that bc dealing with the rapes you enable takes time, effort and money
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
There is no good fraternity. No matter how much noise they make about being the good guys, about doing community service, about wanting to be the safe alternative on campus, it’s all camouflage that protects the predators among them, whether they think it does or not.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Big same. If I may add: Don’t pay for your sons to join all-male Greek life. No fraternities. If they’re determined to pledge, make them pay the dues.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
NYC! Celebrate banned books week with your favorite romance authors! Tickets are still available to my romance read-in at Book Club Bar on 10/5:
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Romance Read-In to Benefit Authors Against Book Bans
It's Banned Books Week - so we're calling on romance readers to support Authors Against Book Bans and fight back against censorship!
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Georgina Kiersten @ingloriousgigi.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I am the type of person who will write bigotry into my stories for the sole reason that I want my main characters to completely decimate the bigot. It's so satisfying to see my Black vampire drain a M@GA dry.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
It’s been over a decade since I graduated from college, but these fraternity SA stories always make me feel 21 years old again, watching as men I considered my friends cover for my ex when he is accused of beating another woman because they are all in AEPi together.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
(currently) My 9 Games! It's brought me a lot of joy to break the chokehold The Sims franchise had on my gaming.
My 9 Games:
Fallout New Vegas
Fallout 4
The Long Dark
Balatro
Stardew Valley
Fields of Mistria
Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom
Zelda: Breath of the Wild
Tiny Book Shop
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
NYC! Celebrate banned books week with your favorite romance authors! Tickets are still available to my romance read-in at Book Club Bar on 10/5:
eventbrite.com
Romance Read-In to Benefit Authors Against Book Bans
It's Banned Books Week - so we're calling on romance readers to support Authors Against Book Bans and fight back against censorship!
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Fight For A Union @fightforaunion.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
AutoZone has reportedly spent $210,696 on managers and lawyers fighting the first union drive in company history involving 11 workers. That's more than $19,000 per worker. The company made $2.5B last year. Apparently the company has plenty of money. Just not for raises.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
We are 7 new subscribers away from me having to read this absolute garbage. Come punish me for a good cause!! rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
We are 7 new subscribers away from me having to read this absolute garbage. Come punish me for a good cause!! rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
The Expanse snubbed once again
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Unbelievable Klaes Ashford
ALT: Unbelievable Klaes Ashford
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
thinking fondly of all the times I brought large diet cokes from mcdonalds to work meetings truly not giving a fuck, what was I thinking anyway I no longer work in corporate
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Emma R. Alban @eraofemma.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
HAPPILY EVER AFTERLIFE comes out on Tuesday! And on Wednesday, the amazing @brosandprose.bsky.social and I will be at The Ripped Bodice Brooklyn at 7pm to celebrate the launch and talk all things ghosts, musical theatre, happily ever afters, and more! Come join us!
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
We're 52% of the way to our goal of 100 subscribers! If you love progressive, diverse romance novels, please join our community on Bindery and help us launch a romance publishing imprint with them: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
Help me publish romance authors who reach for joy and justice, escapism and resistance.
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whet moser @whetmoser.com · 25/09/2026
i want nathan fielder to do undecided voter focus groups
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
oh wow these new tracks... taylor.... taylor please take a break...... please step away from the recording booth..... as soon as you plug your husband's podcast in a song, you need to reevaluate..... taylor.........
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
somewhere in the darkest corners of discord, my ex-girlfriend is sharing the most bizarre take of all time about the Massachusetts COVID-conscious lesbian bar
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
today I learned my therapist does not know who Taylor Lorenz is and that's a pretty good example of why I am in therapy
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I got a few paragraphs into this article and felt like vomiting and had to stop. OpenAI is responsible for these murders.
motherjones.com
ChatGPT helped the Tumbler Ridge school shooter focus on guns, tactics, and terror, our investigation reveals
OpenAI’s chatbot fed the shooter’s violent fantasies and planning up to the massacre.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I’m reading the new Lisa Kleypas novel coming out in October, QUEEN OF LOMBARD STREET. It’s excellent. It’s technically historical fiction and not a romance, but it hits all the notes her romance fans want. I can’t put it down.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
okay genuinely we need to sell tickets and would love your help getting the word out!!! we will be raffling off romance novels, everyone will get a free zine written by romance authors, you can meet a ton of authors there, it’s a super fun and welcoming hangout!!
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Mayor Zohran Kwame Mamdani @mayor.nyc.gov · 24/09/2026
Never been to the opera before? Now’s your chance. We’re giving away 70,000 free tickets to the @metopera at the iconic Lincoln Center. Go to on.nyc.gov/opera to enter the lottery. There’s not a bad seat in the house.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
If 10 more people subscribe on Bindery, I will read and react to the loathed political romance ~across party lines~ PURPLE STATE by Dana Perino, the Fox News host and former White House press secretary for George W. Bush. Please subject me to this hell: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com
The cover of Purple State by Dana Perino, with a blonde woman in sunglasses and a pink dress on the right, a "VOTE" button pinned to her chest," and a white man leaning against a white pickup truck on the left.
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
COME READ ROMANCE AND FIGHT BOOK BANS BY RAISING MONEY FOR @authorsabb.bsky.social AT A BEAUTIFUL BAR IN MANHATTAN ON OCTOBER 5TH! TICKETS: www.eventbrite.com/e/romance-re...
Hey! Are you: 
a new yorker
a romance reader
furious about book bans
free on October 5th at 7:30pm?
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Ella Dawson @brosandprose.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
I've come up with a heinous idea to encourage people to subscribe on Bindery and help me start an indie romance publishing imprint. Force me to read books I already know I will hate!!! Like fundraising rewards but HORRIBLE! Here's how it works: rebeleverafter.binderybooks.com/item/Aj0nqZ1...
It's the "Ruin Ella's TBR" subscription drive! Force me to read these books by joining on Bindery! 

Dana Perino's Purple State
The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks
The Most Dangerous Games by MrBeast and James Patterson
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