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Stachedaddy👨🏻

@stachedaddy.bsky.social
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another middle-aged mustache-gay, cranky new englander, music nerd, historian, record collector, leatherman, poly, sober, emotional support Top, neurodivergent, Dad 👨🏻🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🖖🏼🧠🌈♾️🦋 (he/him/his) 📍Boston

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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
This is the perspective I needed to break through the grief of the last several days. Their incandescence showed us the way. It's our turn now to carry that light forward.❤️‍🩹
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
“well, for starters, you have to purify yourself in the waters of lake minnetonka.”
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Looking like she's on her way over to start some hateration at the dancery.👀
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
Out of hibernation, making some progress.✨
Locker-room mirror-selfie of mustached man in glasses, wearing a black workout tank top.Locker-room mirror-selfie of mustached man in glasses, wearing a black workout tank top, with one arm raised and hand behind head. He is showing progress he’s made at the gym, but is also being kind of a thot.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 27/01/2026
Gonna need more rubdowns in 2026. Any good boys with strong hands out there?
Mustached man (me) stands in front of a mirror post-workout, singlet pulled down to his waist exposing his torso. He smirks slightly.
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Constance Boo Chile (he/him) @constancewhewchile.bsky.social · 06/01/2026
When I ask about a new album from Sade
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 25/07/2025
Not some dude bringing a whole-ass pizza onto this 30 minute flight I’m on. 😂
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 20/05/2025
Actual footage of me leaving P'town after an incredibly satisfying and kink-affirming 4 days at the Fascination Retreat this past weekend.🫀🔥 @fascinationkink.bsky.social
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a woman with white hair is walking down a hallway holding a piece of paper
Alt: Madonna runs down a hotel hallway wearing a black trenchcoat and carrying a suitcase. She looks back briefly, laughs, and bites her finger in reaction to all the sexy kinky scenes she's just partaken in. It is in the last moments of her "Justify My Love" music video, released in 1990.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
Who’s cumming down this weekend to join in the fun?🫀😈
Stachedaddy straddling a wooden chair in a moody red-lit hallway, wearing leather gear and a smirk.
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jamie. @jmrgby.bsky.social · 08/05/2025
The new Pope be like
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 20/04/2025
Get your baskets ready.🐰🪺😏
Me standing in front of a blue curtain in a studded black leather rabbit mask, black opaque bodysuit, double-wide leather X-harness, spiked leather bracelets and 5-inch-heeled leather boots, looking like I’m caught in the headlights.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 09/04/2025
"pretty much I would let Gemma know that she is a ..."
A gloved hand removed an orange fungus from a glass jar. Headline reads "Scientists hear mushroom 'thoughts' for very first time. There was one phrase they kept repeating."
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Proud to be a Bostonian today.🏳️‍⚧️✨✊🏼
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
name a show you're positive no one else remembers but you
promotional ad for the mid-90s blink-and-you'll-miss-it prime time soap opera "Models Inc."
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 20/02/2025
🥰👯‍♂️🥰
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Fascination @fascinationkink.bsky.social · 15/01/2025
Greetings Kinksters! Welcome to our new home on Bluesky as we begin our migration away from Twitter. Please give us a share so that folks know where to find us. Leave a photo in the comments to say hello. See you kinksters soon. Woof. 🫀😈🔥
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 29/12/2024
🎯🤭
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Call me FJ @fjulien.bsky.social · 16/12/2024
ngl i’ve always been chill with genders. Like when Shania said "let’s go girls" i knew it included me
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Gay Bitterskeets @gaybitterskeets.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Hey Queer Guys, It's cool to make friends with queer guys you don't want to/can't sleep with. We have good stuff to offer other than sex, like understanding, support, opportunities to socialize, and access to other queer guys you *can* have sex with. Sincerely, Gay Bitterskeets
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Paul Collins @paulcollins.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
I once had a professor ask “Why is there a Business section in the newspaper but not a Labor section?” My classmates and I probably rolled our eyes, but damned if I haven’t remembered that question every few days for 30 years now.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 18/11/2024
#monochromemonday #mcm #leatherman
Mustached leatherman (Stachedaddy) wearing only a Muir cap and studded leather harness, stares off into the middle distance of a shadowy leather bar backroom.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 17/11/2024
100% this. No pressure or expectations. Connection and intimacy are always paramount.
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Ryan ☀️🏖️ @crshort81.bsky.social · 10/11/2024
Seems like Bluesky might be taking off, and I gotta say to the Oldskies how cool that we all helped tend the fire while we waited for our friends to join us at summer camp. And we did it our own ways. Some readied s’mores, others prepared arts and crafts, and others fucked in the lakehouse.
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Daniel Laurison @daniellaurison.bsky.social · 09/11/2024
Trans friends - here's an overview of what to expect/prepare for legally. This is from a lawyer I know well, who specializes in LGBT family law. I trust him to be 100% accurate and careful in his analysis. www.jernerlaw.com/after-the-el...
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After the Election: Things Trans People Should Know Now | Jerner Law Group, P.C.
Following the election, many U.S. policies and regulations may be affected by the new administration. Transgender and gender non-conforming individuals can take steps now to protect themselves and pre...
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President of the Antifa Hair Club For Men @nachosinabox.xyz · 06/11/2024
If you need to talk to someone.
WARM LINES THAT DON'T CALL THE POLICE
More resources: InclusiveTherapists.com/crisis
• Call Blackline: 800-604-5841
• Centers BI&POC, LGBTQ+ Black Femme Lens
• Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860 (US),
877-330-6366 (Canada)
• Run by and for Trans people
• Wildflower Alliance Peer Support Line:
888-407-4515
• Trained peer supporters
• StrongHearts Native Helpline:
844-762-8483
• Centering Native Americans & Alaska Natives
• Thrive Lifeline: 313-662-8209
• Trans-led and operated
• LGBT National Help Center: 888-843-4564
@Inclusive Therapists
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BullATL @bullatl.bsky.social · 06/11/2024
Sober folks: call on resources if you need to. Reach out to your people. Remember that when the world is going to shit; it isn’t going to be any better if you lose what (seemingly little, to be fair) control you have over yourself. We’ve got this, together.
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rahaeli @rahaeli.bsky.social · 06/11/2024
Right. Here's your to-do list for the next two months to put you in the best possible position to survive what's coming: 1. Renew your passport (or apply for a passport) this week even if it is not expiring in the next four years. Renewing early will give you the maximum 10-year validity period.
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Andy, who is ready for pool season @andydoubleyoo.bsky.social · 06/11/2024
I. Don't. Want. To. Fight. I don't want to take today to be sad so I can fight tomorrow. I just want to live my fucking life. I want to live in a country where I can just do that. I don't want to spend the next 4 years fighting and then the next 4 and the next 4.
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Jake_Vig @jakevig.bsky.social · 31/10/2024
My bad hip is likely due to the fact that I spent most of 1989 in a buffalo stance
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Constance Boo Chile (he/him) @constancewhewchile.bsky.social · 21/10/2024
Mondays, am I right
Tim Curry, Barry Bostwick, and Susan Sarandon behind the scenes filming Rocky Horror Picture Show
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Gabe Ortíz @tusk81.bsky.social · 17/10/2024
Essential “stares in Hispanic” coursework.
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Edith Messy @balambsprings.bsky.social · 10/10/2024
I think for most queer kids, there are moments where getting to 20, 30, 40 etc, feels like luxury we don’t have. So when you post your baby self next to your current (probably hot) self, I hope you hold space for that small version of you and for the defiant acts of survival that got you here 💜
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feral streep @feralstreeep.bsky.social · 22/09/2024
everybody has at least one queer friend like this
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Quinn @leaningivory.bsky.social · 30/09/2024
Your infrequent reminder. Register and check vote.gov
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Mara Wilson @marawilson.bsky.social · 13/09/2024
Hey, if somebody tells you they stopped drinking, don’t tell them they should start drinking again. It doesn’t matter why they stopped, just don’t say it. You sound like one of the shittiest one-off characters on Mad Men.
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James alt @gymbrohimbo.bsky.social · 10/08/2024
It’s a beautiful day to check your voter registration status, especially if you live in a red state! Trust no bitch
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Pup Harke 🔞 @slut.dog · 29/08/2024
When I wear leather gear it gives me a sense of confidence I don't otherwise have. It makes me feel connected to the leather daddies and dykes who fought to defend our spaces when nobody else would. When so much of queer history has been erased, it's one thing that feels bigger than just me.
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Pup Harke 🔞 @slut.dog · 29/08/2024
Kink isn't inherently sexual. Leather and latex aren't just worn for sexual gratification, they're also worn to honor our queer elders who found each other through apparel. Pet players don't wear hoods just because they're hot, they also wear them to be more in tune with their identities.
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 14/08/2024
Recite 80% of a movie and you get $500k. what movie are you picking?
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a group of people are dancing in a hallway with red doors in the background .
Alt: A scene from the 1985 film The Breakfast Club, where the young cast is seen running through the school hallways.
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ᴛᴏᴍᴀꜱ @cinemagay.bsky.social · 12/08/2024
I like being gay. You suck dick and kiss a furry chest and suddenly life is so good.
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Troy @newfiemunky.bsky.social · 11/08/2024
The easy answer to "How are you?" is "fine". How long can you keep pushing that lie though? "Today's a hard day" "I'm coping" "I need a hug", are also acceptable answers. Give your true answers and let the other people be uncomfortable for a moment. It's ok. #StayPositive❤️
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Depression But Sexy @tallgayginger.bsky.social · 06/08/2024
Now that a Minnesotan is on the ticket, we all need to spend a night watching Drop Dead Gorgeous and eating hotdish.
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Luke Ontario @coolhand.bsky.social · 02/08/2024
Orgies as a liminal space
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Curious about sex parties? Here’s what they’re really like
In an excerpt from her book Why Are People Into That?, Tina Horn investigates the culture of kink – including group sex
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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 30/07/2024
It’s an inevitable “tiddy tuesday” for Dad as the temp hits 90°F in Boston today.
A middle-aged mustached homosexual in a baseball cap and sunglasses attempts to beat the heat by sitting outside with his tits out.
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