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Stachedaddy👨🏻

@stachedaddy.bsky.social

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another middle-aged mustache-gay, cranky new englander, music nerd, historian, record collector, leatherman, poly, sober, emotional support Top, neurodivergent, Dad 👨🏻🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🖖🏼🧠🌈♾️🦋 (he/him/his) 📍Boston

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Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

Out of hibernation, making some progress.✨

Locker-room mirror-selfie of mustached man in glasses, wearing a black workout tank top.

Locker-room mirror-selfie of mustached man in glasses, wearing a black workout tank top, with one arm raised and hand behind head. He is showing progress he’s made at the gym, but is also being kind of a thot.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

✨🙌🏼✨

A screenshot of drag queen Trinity the Tuck saying “I don’t know what the fuck she’s saying, but gurl I am living.”

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 27/01/2026

Gonna need more rubdowns in 2026. Any good boys with strong hands out there?

Mustached man (me) stands in front of a mirror post-workout, singlet pulled down to his waist exposing his torso. He smirks slightly.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

Sorry to this crab 😔

An iconic moment from a mock polygraph test in which actress and entertainer Keke Palmer is presented with a photo of a person who she does not recognize at all. Her non-reaction leading to a half-hearted apology to the male subject of the photo in front of her: "Sorry to this man"

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 23/09/2025

A still of Kate Bush from the music video to her song “Babooshka” (1980)

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

right?!😭 like, please respect my privacy at this time, I’mma be:

a young man wearing large headphones screams along to his favorite songs with his right arm raised to the heavens, clearly feeling the lyrics in his very soul.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

rapper Megan Thee Stallion sits behind a row of hot sauce bottles, her hand gently touching her upper chest, and a look of mild shock and concern on her face. The caption reads: “Me in 2005 watching Brokeback Mountain for the first time & he's bottoming with no lube after eating beans."

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 25/05/2025

I think it’s a tie between “Burning Up” and “Express Yourself” (the Shep Pettibone video mix, *not* the album version😅)

two stills from Madonna’s 1983 “Burning Up” and 1989 “Express Yourself” music videos. She is iconic in both.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 12/05/2025

Who’s cumming down this weekend to join in the fun?🫀😈

Stachedaddy straddling a wooden chair in a moody red-lit hallway, wearing leather gear and a smirk.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 20/04/2025

Get your baskets ready.🐰🪺😏

Me standing in front of a blue curtain in a studded black leather rabbit mask, black opaque bodysuit, double-wide leather X-harness, spiked leather bracelets and 5-inch-heeled leather boots, looking like I’m caught in the headlights.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

"pretty much I would let Gemma know that she is a ..."

A gloved hand removed an orange fungus from a glass jar. Headline reads "Scientists hear mushroom 'thoughts' for very first time. There was one phrase they kept repeating."

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 13/03/2025

name a show you're positive no one else remembers but you

promotional ad for the mid-90s blink-and-you'll-miss-it prime time soap opera "Models Inc."

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 18/11/2024

#monochromemonday #mcm #leatherman

Mustached leatherman (Stachedaddy) wearing only a Muir cap and studded leather harness, stares off into the middle distance of a shadowy leather bar backroom.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

Always up for a good sweaty hike. If you ever need a 🥾 buddy up here in New England, let me know.✌🏼

Mustached man in a blue T-shirt and blue shorts on a hiking trail pausing to give a two-finger victory/peace sign.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 26/09/2024

Sheree Whitfield from the Real Housewives of Atlanta asking “What happened to, ‘Hello. How are you? My name is…’”

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 11/09/2024

it’s giving:

A still from the 1994 film “Pulp Fiction” where John Travolta and Uma Thurman sit silently in a car after a rough substance-fueled night. They’ve been THROUGH it, and it shows.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 30/07/2024

It’s an inevitable “tiddy tuesday” for Dad as the temp hits 90°F in Boston today.

A middle-aged mustached homosexual in a baseball cap and sunglasses attempts to beat the heat by sitting outside with his tits out.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 01/06/2024

Happy Pride Month 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🧱✊🏽

A meme using a still from the FX television program "Pose" where the character Elektra Abundance-Evangelista (here labelled "me in June") is about to read an insipid country-club karen (here labelled "heteros") to filth. Happy Pride.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 07/03/2024

Quote skeet this with your most dom(me) energy pic

Stachedaddy sitting shirtless in front of a fireplace, wearing leather accoutrements and staring out from under the brim of a Muir cap.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 13/02/2024

and then the promo image was posted, and a friend said Ariana’s dress looked like a pile of shaved ham, and that’s all I can see now 😭

A promotional poster for the upcoming film adaptation of the hit musical “Wicked” starring Cynthia Erivo as Elphaba and Ariana Grande as Galinda.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 24/01/2024

👨🏻😌

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 11/11/2023

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 09/11/2023

share a perfect album that came out when you were 16

the cover art to the band Hole’s second studio album titled “Live Through This”

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 06/11/2023

also:

the cover art to Kate Bush’s 5th studio album “Hounds of Love”

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 06/11/2023

The album cover art/photo for Sinéad O’Connor’s debut album “The Lion and the Cobra”

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 04/11/2023

Repost with a pic of you and your age 4️⃣5️⃣

Standing on a New England beach on a crisp Autumn day wearing a blue puffy vest, blue wool beanie, and sunglasses.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 16/10/2023

this is a thread for all sober gays, queers and theys. reskeet with a pic of your sexy ass sober self.

Stachedaddy at a nightclub, standing with arms gently crossed next to a bright pink neon sign that reads "Please don't do coke in the bathroom"

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 23/08/2023

😏😈😉

a stock photo of the Eiffel Tower at night, used in this particular instance as a euphemism for a sexual position in a threesome.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 23/08/2023

Oh hey, it’s hump day… here’s my butt.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 19/08/2023

Sweaty Saturday workout completed.✨

mirror-selfie of middle-aged mustached man (me) wearing only black & red “workout” briefs.

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 14/08/2023

Reskeet your profile picture

Mustached man with arms crossed wearing a leather vest, leather cuffs, and homoerotic t-shirt

Stachedaddy👨🏻 @stachedaddy.bsky.social · 06/08/2023

Wishing a happy Slutty Dad Summer™️ to those who celebrate.