Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.
![An amazing (horny) painting of Tristan and Isolde by August Heiß (1881). I've ruined it with a speech bubble "don't make everything weird jsut[sic] for this"](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:orrtw7zdygkxksklbcvs4nv3/bafkreicwqw4it7c3mheudt4r6j5ns652rsrwdgdmmobqbyjpzd6dnmgb2m)
