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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

If the first thing on your mind after hearing some popular figure you admire is a rapist is about what you can do to help the rapist I don’t trust your intentions and never will.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The person who needs to be intentionally restored to the community in the aftermath of intimate violence is the victim of that violence. To do that often requires attacking the perpetrators’ power/access to victims. Asking “but how can we fix their heart?” as a bystander is deeply inappropriate.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The disproportionate concern with “rehabilitating” abusers and rapists (nearly always code for maintaining their position and recovering their social status) is actually part of the problem.

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Godspeed You! Woke Moralists @dashwallkick.bsky.social · 09/01/2025

THIS IS THE GREATEST SHOW PREMISE I'VE EVER SEEN

"Cops" the TV show on the streaming service Pluto so it says "COPS ON PLUTO"

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Sean T. Collins @seantcollins.com · 4h

My favorite bit is when she says the counselors let Jason drown because they were too busy "making love." Not just going down on each other on the bottom bunk in the Seneca cabin, *making love.* Generous, romantic, tender love. Can you begrudge them this intimacy, Pamela, truly? Search your heart!

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Sean T. Collins @seantcollins.com · 4h

My kids are goody two-shoeses and if this was the worst they ever got up to I'd consider myself lucky, but try explaining that to the world's most dangerous "middle-aged churchgoer who has a bumper sticker that says 'Keep Christ in Christmas' on her car and brings blondies to the bake sale."

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Sean T. Collins @seantcollins.com · 4h

It's really funny seeing the kind of degenerate sex drugs and rocknroll behavior the doomed teens get up to in this one: playing half a game of Strip Monopoly in the most chaste way possible, having relatively romantic teen sex (in an actual bed!) and then sparking a j afterwards. Oh no!!!

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Sean T. Collins @seantcollins.com · 4h

Last night I saw Friday the 13th, the original, for the first time. The "twist" comes out of nowhere since we've never seen this woman before, and the film looks like it was lit by giving the tallest members of the crew flashlights, but it's always fun to watch murders. Okay let me rephrase that

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Jared Holt @jaredlholt.bsky.social · 3h

Happy Saturday

Michael Tracey: “Go fuck yourself”

Jared: “Buddy I would rather drive off a bridge than live the life you make for yourself”

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Aysha U. Farah @ayshaufarah.bsky.social · 1h

women hold the GUNS and men get the SHOCK COLLAR

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Aysha U. Farah @ayshaufarah.bsky.social · 3h

In Control, women run the business and men go in the CAGE. this is the future that liberals want

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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 3h

also you can absolutely tell when someone views themselves as a temporarily embarrassed sexual assault perpetrator by the way they argue when someone gets uncovered for doing it lol

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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 3h

solidarity among rapists is lowkey the only force of social cohesion more powerful than rich people class consciousness

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　　　the　　　 ghostes @rem.bsjky.team · 2h

i say all this with kindness, having gone through the tendency myself and speaking to you now from the other side of it. i hope it doesnt feel harsh or condescending. it can feel kind of scary. but you are so much more than "a person who likes something". i believe in you

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　　　the　　　 ghostes @rem.bsjky.team · 2h

it can feel complicated but idk. being a fan of something or someone should be a thing about you not a part of you

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　　　the　　　 ghostes @rem.bsjky.team · 2h

PRO TiP: to avoid a crisis of identity after someone you had a parasocial attachment to is revealed to have done something awful, try not making a parasocial relationship part of your identity

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Weed Detective @wolfmanzack.bsky.social · 3h

Instead of saying "I'm hungover" or "all the spicy peppers I ate last night are shredding my asshole apart" say this: "the sins of my past.... are catching up with me." Sounds way more ominous and badass

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illumi @yallchemist.bsky.social · 12/10/2023

sometimes i delete a post because i've grown as a person in those 45 seconds

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Worm Girl @cataclysmtlg.com · 1h

people always forget that almost everything about this movie was completely awesome and it deserved all the hype

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Lyta 🐅 Dangerous Fictions is OUT 🐅 Gold @lytagold.bsky.social · 1h

on-field reporter called Michigan the evil empire but like, even the empire in Andor was minimally competent

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Thor Benson @thorbenson.bsky.social · 18h

"I know writers who use subtext and they're all cowards" meme

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J. L. Westover @mrlovenstein.bsky.social · 3h

take a look at my new book 🎉 kickstarter.com/projects/mrlovenstein/mr-lovenstein-presents-fun

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Angel @discoinferno41.bsky.social · 2h

Just people who do this peace and love progressive bullshit who will harass someone for years because they sometimes get into argument and tell them to do the dishes or have some difference in beliefs real petty shit but will defend their local rapist or pedophile abuser

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Angel @discoinferno41.bsky.social · 2h

Like I am tired of this shit because the people who are doing this whole weepy bullshit about Jacob geller will tear you to shreds for fucking nothing over the most petty shit will they cast you out or call you a abuser I have seen it happen so many times

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Angel @discoinferno41.bsky.social · 3h

As if so many people don't get away with it scott free and still get a spotlight like think about tom cruise and how everyone adores him and treats him like he's their pal when he is a massive abuser who knew about the scientology slaves and said nothing

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Angel @discoinferno41.bsky.social · 3h

Yeah it's been pretty insane how much discourse is people actually unironically treating Jacob geller as a victim by the evil cop caracel mob going after the sensitive well off white guy they think we live in a world where we always and severely punish rapists and abusers

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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 1h

restorative justice is when nothing bad happens to the guy who did the crime but anyone who talks about how he did the crime gets yelled at

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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 1h

it's really fucked that I've had so many people say "thank you for calling out the bad article defending the rapist, I wanted to say something but didn't want to get dogpiled for criticizing a youtube man" very safe and normal website we have here

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bedeviled and languid @grouchiestmarxiest.bsky.social · 1h

I've decided to revisit my thoughts on this piece because my rambles last night were more charitable on account of exhaustion and alcohol. I think the discussion about rehabilitative justice within the social media landscape is well considered. Deploying it in this way is deeply irresponsible.

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Sean T. Collins @seantcollins.com · 2h

If Anne Hathaway vanishes in a puff of smoke today, I hope every man in his 40s has someone to reach out to. You are loved, you are valued, you are not alone, we will get through this together

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pmamtraveller.bsky.social @pmamtraveller.bsky.social · 3h

The Taming of Sméagol Donato Giancola

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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 3h

posting this ONE DAY after his big oopsie apology is insane. the only reason to write and publish something like this is in an attempt to change the narrative and reframe his behavior before news of it spreads any further

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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 3h

this sucks. you want "restorative justice" as opposed to punishment, but what has he restored? what has he done? what does a youtuber losing his career for admitting to be a rapist have to do with carceral abolition when he has never and will never see prison time, or even actual consequences?

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 22h

You’re not being wise you’re not being radical you are saying more-or-less the same shit that the Christian right says about rapists. You care more for saving the souls of rapists than you care for giving support to their victims.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 23h

“This popular rapist brings to mind questions of rehabilitation and repair—“ Shut up!! Shut up. If you’re not the victim, or responding to a victim *specifically* asking for action that centers rehabilitation, shut the fuck up! It’s actually fucked up that this is the primary thing on your mind!

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

He's made his bed and he can lie in it. I'm a big believer in "if you've done the math, you can show us your work" Walk me through it. Show me on paper how you learned that rape is wrong, Jacob. I want the receipts.

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

I agree that we have to have conversations about rehabilitation if we're to pursue restorative justice. But why do we demonstrate concern and fight for the rapists when we've barely begun the work of supporting victims? Why all the effort for THIS man? ...because you don't know how to let go?

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

So you bought a book of his and now you're bummed. OK? Why do you make intellectual authorities out of dudes who have a YouTube channel? why is it so difficult to read an essay and go "cool, I agree" and move on? why does fandom and admiration become part of the intellectual engagement?

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

It's true that rehabilitation and change and growth and all of these things should be factors in how we gauge whether or not someone deserves to move on from their crime. But accountability starts with taking responsibility, which Gellar sought to avoid for a decade.

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

I would love it if we could spare even an ounce of this concern for the victims who have been forced out of game spaces for speaking up. I have never once seen a writer try to reconcile how we've forced people out through gossip, ridicule and lack of compassion

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

I was fine yesterday but now I'm just annoyed. Spare me the talk of how he "did his time" when he quite literally did not: he got a slap on the wrist school suspension. He did not face justice for his crime.

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Holly Green @winnersusedrugs.bsky.social · 22h

"What to do about Jacob Geller" I dunno, move on? A single person's work is not so integral and sacred that we need to wring our hands about what to do with it. There are a lot of people whose work you could be reading or listening to. Stop making icons out of random dudes. is that so hard

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ceej @ceej.online · 19h

incredible news: we’re having the same arguments over and over for the rest of time

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lex luddy needs a nap @lexluddy.xyz · 4h

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hazel marie @dykeworship.bsky.social · 15h

allies 30 seconds after mild criticism

cardboard box labeled "be quite!® straight power"

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James GHOULizio 👻 @theswweet.myatproto.social · 17h

The same arrogance that led him to pursuing being an influencer despite knowing what he did would eventually come out betrays just as much about his character as the act itself I'd argue

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James GHOULizio 👻 @theswweet.myatproto.social · 17h

He knows about consent, which is why he deliberately avoided letting his peers know about his history, down to obfuscating the college he went to because he was infamous enough that people apparently still talk about him there

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James GHOULizio 👻 @theswweet.myatproto.social · 17h

I'm all for restorative justice but forgive me if after sleeping on I don't exactly think Geller has really learned to respect consent when he knows damn well he never would have gotten where he did if he was honest and forthcoming about the skeletons in his closet, so he actively avoided it

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