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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 08/05/2026

“The problem with two neurodivergent friends was, sometimes, it was impossible to find someone willing to do the talking.” (And fkn forget trying to get one of them to make a phone call 😱😭🫣)

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Trako @trako.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

Hey everyone. A very close friend of mine needs help. Unemployment benefits have run out and they need help covering food, rent, and utilities. If you can help, even if it’s by sharing this, it would be appreciated. #mutualaid #donation #donate #funding #support gofund.me/66dc98bb2

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Donate to Urgent Need: Help Me Stay Afloat During Job Search, organized by Anthony Jurjonas

Hi, thanks for reading this. I urgently need help. I've been worki… Anthony Jurjonas needs your support for Urgent Need: Help Me Stay Afloat During Job Search

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Mike Drucker @mikedrucker.bsky.social · 01/01/2026

This year I’m going to be kinder, more positive, work harder, and put more faith in myself until the very first minor obstacle throws me off for the next 350+ days

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Lovette 🏳️‍🌈 @lovettejallow.bsky.social · 21/12/2025

🚨 ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨 Introducing my next patented design: the Butthole Washer™, engineered for MEN who want to be clean while needing reassurance that cleanliness can still look serious & not make anything gheyy or weird. Yes, it’s black & aggressively industrial. 1/2⤵️

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a cartoon opossum says " you 're welcome " while giving a peace sign

ALT: a cartoon opossum says " you 're welcome " while giving a peace sign

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 02/12/2025

hello RSD my old friend 🙃🫥🫥🫥 been a while, didn’t miss you one bit

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Colin 🏳️‍⚧️ @transplantman.bsky.social · 27/10/2025

Trying to remember to upload more of my photos that people can download for free. Not everything has to be monetized. Download whatever you like and use wherever you want! www.pexels.com/@c-m-3363041...

Closeup of bright red Japanese male leaves on thin branches, silhouetted against a bright, overcast sky:.

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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 26/10/2025

when you're autistic you think everyone is the same age as you.

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aslynn is just a ghoul 👻 @aslynnromano.com · 26/10/2025

Victor Hugo knew in 1862: Valjean: all I did was steal some bread Javert: my duty’s to the bread

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

#TIL that it’s pronounced bio-pic and doesn’t rhyme with myopic 🙃

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 09/09/2025

people will seemingly go to great effort to avoid using the word disabled, no matter how disabled they or their loved ones are i don’t get it

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

i’m not low support NEEDS i’m low support GETS 😑 (credit to fabulous autistic comedian on ig whose name i can’t remember 🤦🏻‍♀️)

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

i’m not low support NEEDS i’m low support GETS 😑 (credit to fabulous autistic comedian on ig whose name i can’t remember 🤦🏻‍♀️)

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Lovette 🏳️‍🌈 @lovettejallow.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

1/3 Small talk is not always harmless. For autistic + ADHD people, it’s a test we never agreed to take. “How are you?” (but don’t want the truth). “Where are you from?” (but won’t take the answer). “What do you do?” (so they can measure your usefulness). #Autism #ADHD

Why Small Talk
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ADHD People
Vagueness isn't harmless it's often a tool for control, extraction, and gaslighting towards neurodivergent persons.
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"For many of us, small talk isn't small-it's a flood of noise, shifting tones, darting eye contact, and unspoken rules to decode in real time. Remember the questions from the start: "How was your weekend?" "Where are you from?''
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Why Small Talk Exhausts Autistic and ADHD People
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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

most autistic adults will benefit much more from practical “life coaching” *from a fellow autistic person* than psychiatric or psychological therapy of any kind fin

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

most autistic adults will benefit much more from practical “life coaching” *from a fellow autistic person* than psychiatric or psychological therapy of any kind fin

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 16/08/2025

people who say you shouldn’t treat anyone differently are telling you what they think about difference, that it’s automatically bad or less 👉 one should of course treat people differently, depending on their situation, preferences, needs…because different does not inherently mean better or worse 🌈💫

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 16/08/2025

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 13/08/2025

the tyranny of the GODDAMN EMOTION WHEEL IS OVER!!! ***I*** get to name and define my own emotional experiences and if you don’t want to learn *MY* language 1/100th as well as i know yours? then fuck right off i’m not picking out splinters from your wheel for your benefit anymore bye now

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 11/08/2025

having a bite of pickle separately with each bite of sandwich >>>> having pickle slices on the sandwich

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

listen autism deniers and/or instant infantilisers: just because i don’t CARE doesn’t mean i don’t understand. i KNOW why you do it, i know allll the reasons, i just don’t care about them anymore. JUST DON’T TELL ME I’M NOT AUTISTIC OR START INFANTILISING ME THE MOMENT I DISCLOSE TO YOU 🗣️🗣️🗣️

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 24/07/2025

i must’ve had some killer masking skills cos as they all get stripped away (honestly i wish i could keep them 😞 fuck my stupid brain) people just don’t like me anymore, or noticeably less in any case

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Diane Porter @dianeporter.bsky.social · 22/07/2025

What’s the “easy” task that gives you SO much trouble to get done that it’s ridiculous? I’ll start: renewing prescriptions, OMG. Please tell me your magic for doing this instead of putting if off so long it’s a real problem #ADHD #adhdlife #makesmecrazy

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 22/07/2025

#til that iv’s are placed with a needle only to insert a fine flexible plastic tube 🤯 wtf?? i’ve had many iv’s & my veins suck so i’m always worried about the gd needle in there…does everyone but me already know this?? i have major vein anxiety (no prob with needles)…maybe they could’ve told me? 😭

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 18/07/2025

the jumbotron would catch me…not, cos i never go out of my house 🙃

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

therapy, every session: psychiatrist: and how does that make you feel? me: disrespected psych: no, but how does being disrespected make you feel? me: DISRESPECTED psych: that’s not a feeling me: psych: me (thinking to myself)…i need to #AskAutistics wtf is happening here??? 🙏🫵❓❓❓

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

so funny haha how whenever i post anything about autism under my real name, no one interacts with it. like i just shit on the floor and they need to scrupulously and rapidly avoid it 😒

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 07/07/2025

so funny haha how whenever i post anything about autism under my real name, no one interacts with it. like i just shit on the floor and they need to scrupulously and rapidly avoid it 😒

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 27/06/2025

people who put your phones down face up anywhere in the presence of other hoomans… …what kind of soft warm cradle of love and kindheartnedness have you been nestled in your whole life?? 🤨

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

five love languages?? and none of them are autistic?! 😤 listen, if you can’t tell i love you by how i remember every little thing you like and spam you with info and memes about it, then don’t be pissy with me for not liking your gd hugs 😑

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🌈Dr. Frizzle @swilua.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

the thing about echo chambers is they are actually extremely effective political organizing chambers that’s why they get mad about the left having its own while the right has had them for decades

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Dominika Noworolska @dominikanow.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

Mhm, everyone knows that sharing links to articles etc. someone might like is the best love language.

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 24/06/2025

i give up…i will literally never understand white hetero/neuronormative culture’s obsession with minding other people’s business. i’d find it amusing in a jane goodall/monkey observation kinda way except it’s actually evil and deadly

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Claire Willett @clairewillett.bsky.social · 24/06/2025

I’m quite fluent in ALL CAPS. it was my first language as a child and it’s what I speak at home. my expert translation of Trump’s chaotic ceasefire posts indicates a man who hates doing his job abruptly realizing in panic that the US getting pulled into war means he will have to do his job every day

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Rory @roryreckons.bsky.social · 23/06/2025

Men will literally marry an LLM before going to therapy.

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 13/06/2025

David Strathairn almost hit me with his bicycle in nyc 😌

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Dr Abolish ICE @pwr2dppl.bsky.social · 13/06/2025

Most of my out loud words are a combination of momentum and threat assessment.

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Kelly Judd @psychodynamiccoach.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

Embracing your actual needs (not just the ones you think are easy to meet) is an act of profound self-love. When you name them clearly and unapologetically, you give others the sacred opportunity to love you well.

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Structured Success @structuredsuccess.ca · 02/06/2025

Most accommodations in school or the workplace are almost entirely free and have little to no impact on anyone else. The fact that we need to ask for them, or formally request them, is often nothing more than an added burden for disabled people

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Dee @addeecee.bsky.social · 25/05/2025

hung up live to tell into the groove la isla bonita like a prayer crazy for you oh father etc tbh

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The Autistic Coach | Mati (he/they) @theautisticcoach.bsky.social · 23/05/2025

Work burnout and autistic burnout aren’t the same thing.

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Kelly Judd @psychodynamiccoach.bsky.social · 21/05/2025

As a former professional B2B writer often hired specifically for my ability to clearly articulate things that other people inexplicably could not, I feel strongly that the notion that autistic people write like AI writes is silly. AI writes like autistic people do.

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Maq @maqusan.bsky.social · 19/05/2025

The thing I hate about this the most is that it's almost always being used to explain away racism and violent misogyny. Like these are somehow abberent behaviours and not the most depressingly common things on the planet. Please go ask someone without a white penis. Stop blaming us crazy people.

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Victoria Duncan @victoriaduncan.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

The difference between autistic people and everyone else is I can make small talk with you if I really want to (watch: "It's raining 😊") but you can never even just sit quietly with me, let alone trade infodumps.

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