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The way I worded it until recently was that I'm turned on by a woman struggling. Just a couple days ago Aella used the phrase "deeply, primarily aroused by women in distress" (not describing me specifically), which might actually be a more accurate description of my sexuality than anything I've come up with.
So for instance, peak hotness for me is holding my partner's nose and mouth so she can't breath, pounding her until the haven't-breathed-in-a-while panic response kicks in for her, then holding her down and fucking her a little longer while she's panicking. Super-hot variations on that include:
The game "you can breathe when I'm satisfied"
Ordering her not to physically struggle, and then enjoying the mental dominance as she struggles against herself.
Other fun things which scratch the itch to various extents include choking (either from a hand around the neck or a cock in the throat), making her hold a certain position for a very long time (I usually go for 30 minutes to an hour per round not counting foreplay, so e.g. making her hold her legs for most of that time can do the trick), standard sadism (like hard biting or spanking), standard CNC, squeezing nerve clusters, or just holding/tying her body in a position where she's straining against it.
On a meta note: I think there's a lot of alpha in people talking online about stuff they don't usually share with anyone besides partners or very close friends, IF the person has the writing skills to not make the delivery too cringey AND can handle at least some less-than-maximally-positive responses. That's part of the motivation for this post and the empathy posts, and it's a big part of why I begged that particular question. I've been actively trying to lean more into baring my soul online.
And to be clear, I think the alpha in this is at least as much for the author as for the audience. Something feels healthy about just opening up to the world about everything [...]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:i4tfenpfog244rxry5uz4vtk/bafkreic6ly3y6y6ecny6qmwjak3sirisqvhslp5i4rog7k4etxl3qeh6pm)
