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Cayce

@thrice-burned.bsky.social
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She/they autistic internet transsexual I make little poems and crude tees (Including the Only Knives Left shirt!): bonfire.com/store/thrice-burned/ Currently writing Hi Trans, I'm Dad! - a short story collection about weird dads linktr.ee/thrice_burned

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sheer spite press @sheerspite.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
OTTAWA: i'll be doing two launch events for The Politics of Lonely, both on Saturday, October 24: ✨ signing at @octopusbooks.ca ✨ launch/reading/convo with @alexisshotwell.bsky.social and Adrienne Row-Smith at The Grove (location changed for capacity reasons!) sheerspite.ca/blog/2026/08...
saturday October  24 11 am - 1 pm - Ottawa Book Signing  
I'll be sitting out front of Octopus Books (116 Third Avenue at Bank St.) to sign books and chat.  Come say hi! Rain date Sunday October 25, 11-1. 

saturday October 24, 5 -7 pm
Ottawa Book Launch & Friendship Forum with Alexis Shotwell & Adrienne Row-Smith      
NEW LOCATION: The Grove,  18 Louisa Street Unit 280
fundraiser for the Ottawa Trans Library 
registration not required to order the book or anything else for pickup,  use code OTTAWALAUNCH at sheerspite.ca  :) Alexis Shotwell is a queer SF nerd, functional potter, teacher, and writer, currently living on unceded Algonquin land. Author of Against Purity: Living Ethically in Compromised Times (about why purity won’t save us) and the forthcoming Liberation is Other People (about getting together to solve big problems in which we are complicit), she is also finishing a book about Ursula K. Le Guin’s anarchism and why it’s so great.Adrienne Row-Smith (she/her) is a Queer Black visual specialist based in so-called Ottawa, working across photo and video to create bold, impactful imagery. Rooted in a deep commitment to authenticity and accessibility in media, she co-founded The Grove, which is an interdisciplinary art and community space offering affordable rentals and sliding-scale events. Through both her creative practice and community work, Adrienne aims to build a space and working body that reflects the elements of care, resistance, and belonging, where disenfranchised voices are not only heard but celebrated.Lee Arden  is the author of The Politics of Lonely: Why Is Friendship So Hard?, a book that takes friendship out of an individualistic context and argues that we’re struggling with our friendships because we live in the decaying ruins of colonial capitalism. Lee also runs the small press and zine distro Sheer Spite Press and has written lots of zines, including PALS: The Radical Possibilities of Friendship, which formed the basis for this new book.
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sheer spite press @sheerspite.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
did you know it is so fun to be on Gender Reveal podcast & that @tuck.bsky.social personally mails guests stickers? it is quite hard to get press for a book in this bedraggled media environment & i am even more than usually grateful for queer & trans media 💜 🔊 gender.libsyn.com/bonus-lee-ar...
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Gender Reveal
Welcome to Gender Reveal, a t4t podcast that began as a deep dive into what exactly gender... is? Since 2018, the show has evolved into an excuse to chat with a bunch of smart, funny, hot people about...
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Once again I'm looking at a dead computer. Any friends in Ottawa have a spare PSU? I'm pretty sure that's the problem. At least I *hope* that's the problem.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
@mlys.bsky.social Here's a link to the movie I was talking about! archive.org/details/the-...
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The Clan's Heir Is A Trans Woman
The head of the Tatsumi family falls ill and dies after requesting that his son, who disappeared 15 years ago, takes over. The Tatsumi family, including the young head Ryu, decides to search for his s...
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Dr Rehaminator's Monster Cock @drrehaminator.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
If Wizards of the Coast actually *does* collaborate with Harry Potter, people should rightfully boycott it, and Magic as a whole. But look. Folks. People are speculating hard about a Brandon Sanderson collaboration. That should be met with the same energy as a JK Rowling one.
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Margaret Killjoy @margaret.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
for anyone who followed my episodes about the Drug User Liberation Front, and their canadian supreme court challenge... well, good news
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Dear friend @sheerspite.bsky.social I'm listening to you right now on Gender Reveal and everyone else would be so lucky to hear you too!
Cropped screencap of a podcast player with the Lee Arden episode of Gender Reveal playing. The bottom half of the show's logo is visible, a series of illustrated legs and hands of varying colours overlapping each other and creating different colour blends.
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sheer spite press @sheerspite.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
if you would like a take on why our relationships are suffering and we struggle with loneliness when we could be reaching for solidarity and interdependence, that is not written by a vile TERF i have one of those lol bookshop.org/p/books/the-politics-of-lonely-why-is-friendship-so-hard-lee-arden/
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The Politics of Lonely: Why Is Friendship So Hard?
Why is it hard to make and keep friends as an adult? Even if you finally find time to see each other, can you connect more deeply than just catching up over coffee? How many do you count as ride-or-di...
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Wagatwe Wanjuki @wagatwe.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I have a feminist theory book from the 1970s and even back then they knew "sex-based rights" is a trap and doesn't help women. Praying folks don't fall for it 🙏🏾
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Parenting is fucking hard but that moment when your kid is still upset but knows your love for her is unconditional? And she just lets all of her weight go into a hug and just be held? I feel like mom of the year right now.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
why are you trans? wrong answers only We didn't go to town that much but when we did I went to see this beautiful woman and she had these long red nails and this peroxide blonde hair and my mother said "Ooh she's trash! She's Dolly Parton!" and I said "well that's what I wanna be when I grow up".
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Tim Gaedke @timgaedke.com · 10/09/2026
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Girl, same.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
People say Ottawa's boring but Elgin Street has its own public-facing cuck chair so
Cobblestone sidewalk in front of a pub window with the words "Lieutenant's Pump British Pub" on them. In front is a red police box with windows and a backless stool inside.
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Mark Copelovitch @mcopelov.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
The Man Who Saved The World. May his memory be a blessing.
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Night of the Living Red Durkin @daedsider.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
"Are you a man or a woman?" I'm a T Girl Large Large Large Large Large Large Large Large Large
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Haus of Decline @hausofdecline.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Carney is truly the Reagan of Canada. A calming, paternalistic figure in a period of apocalyptic uncertainty who galvanizes the economy with short-sighted right wing fiscal policies. And like Reagan, every disaster that Canada encounters in the future will be traceable to his administration.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Dear Ottawa perverts (mutuals). I had a great dream last night about a kink collective and I want it to be real. Get at me ♥️
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An Unofficial Hugo Book Club Blog @hugobookclub.bsky.social · 18/11/2025
Comic strip showing a stand-up comedian under the title "The Ones Who Bomb In Omegas"

He is saying "Hooboy, I should not have brought up the child. This is a tough room, but not the worst room in the city. Am I right?"
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Joel (Thespis-Punk) @thespispunk.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I submit this as another.
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AnalogueTrash @analoguetrash.com · 17/09/2026
SOPHIE would have been 40 today. We were robbed of a musical genius, but she lives on in so many pop tracks in the charts today, and over the last decade - and more. 💔 youtu.be/uERIXLWeik0
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SOPHIE — Ponyboy (Official Video)
YouTube video by SOPHIE
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sheer spite press @sheerspite.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
so grateful to @cohaug.bsky.social at @xtramagazine.com for a lovely conversation about my book! (also sorry if this is how you are finding out that i am soooo tiny like the size of a teacup but i do think that makes the book extra inspirational) xtramagazine.com/culture/book...
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How do we sustain friendships in a world on fire? | Xtra Magazine
Lee Arden’s book “The Politics of Lonely” delves into the structural causes of our loneliness
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Ottawa people! My friend Imogen is playing in her new band Feral Cunt tonight at 8pm at House of Targ and you should check it out!!!
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Gillian Branstetter @gbbranstetter.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
I don't think people really understand the psychic impact of knowing that multiple times a day every day your friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, and everyone who could ever have any power over you is being flooded with agitprop designed to make them hate you
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silas denver 🍎 @sweatermuppet.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
hello! i have one month left to pay off my top surgery!!! ive already received so much support and kindness and am immensely grateful :,) any shares are deeply appreciated <3 ko-fi.com/sweatermuppe...
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Claire Zagorski, PhD, MSc, EMT-P @clairezagorski.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
I made this design in 2019, and it’s been ripped off by countless creepy little Temu shops, as well as by Shein. Seeing it in an AI ad is ruining my day, ngl. If you like it, buy one from me - link in bio. I actually give money to queer mutual aid and medical care groups.
A shitty AI ad on Instagram showing my “you are safe with me” design being sold by a company that is not me.
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LoveThruPoke💜 [commissions closed] @lovethrupoke.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Comfort your 8ft Energyvore Berserker girlfriend <3 Page 1 of 3 #samus #metroid #metroidravenous
Comic Page 1 of 3

In this Comic, Samus Aran is in a sort of Berserker rage and gets comforted by her polycule. Which she has, because I say so <3

Samus walked in with heavy footsteps, covered in green blood, steaming, panting.
She sounded like a wounded tiger breathing heavily with adrenaline fueled unceasing rage.

Lyra, Vega and Trix swarmed her immediately. Each one attempting to make themselves useful, trying to prop her up or comfort her in some way. Lyra stepped in front of her and carefully touched her chest. Samus was dripping blood while she loomed over her.

"Hey!"

she said gently

"calm..."

Samus was shaking but her breathing was becoming more regular, more human.

"Breathe!"

Samus dropped to her knees with a loud clang. Even now she was still a good foot taller than all the girls if she hadn't been hunching with her head hanging towards the floor.

"good!" 

Lyra carefully removed her helmet and placed her hands of Samus's cheeks. She was still panting, mouth agape with blazing red eyes shining through her matted dripping bangs.
Lyra wiped blood off her cheek before resting her finger on her lips. She tucked carefully revealing her sharp fangs.

Samus's eyes lit up. It was a mix of sudden shock at the comfort and shame.

Vega stepped closer to her and placed her hands around her head, kissing he forehead.

"good girl."
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
OMG it's justin bailey Samus!
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Florence Ashley @floralashes.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
“What is cringe but earnestness persevering” is such a metal sentence.
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Riley Black 🏳️‍⚧️ 🦕 @restingdinoface.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I’m a big clocky woman but all eyes are still on me whenever I walk in a room because “big and clocky” is just another way of saying hot as fuck.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
@clueless-lexi.bsky.social we're being called out for no good reason here.
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candlelit gravebird 🕯️🐦‍⬛ @crow.stormsong.org · 08/09/2026
All the astroturfed transphobia isn't having as pronounced an effect as the ruling class wants and they need more scapegoats.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Conflicted with either sticking to writing stories for Hi Trans, I'm Dad, or switching to my latest obsession, a so-bad-it's-good (I hope) story idea about two straight (we'll see) cis men in the trenches of the 2046 Gender Wars.
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Olivia Hill @machineiv.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
The Scooby Doo mask meme. Top is normal, no text, Fred's hand on the culprit's mask.

Bottom panel, the head is a very eerie looking Ronald Reagan head under the mask. Because it was Ronald Reagan the whole time. Every fucking time.
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Queer Liberation Library @queerliblib.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
queer liberation library mention? in Readin’ Magazine? it’s more likely than you think... www.readinmag.com/community-bl...
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A Guide to Non-Residential Library Cards — readin' magazine
September is National Library Card Sign Up Month. Here’s a list of libraries where you can sign up for a library card . . . even if you don’t live there!
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
2016 gamers: ok but can we pet the dog 2026 gamers: ok but can we fuck the wolf
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Hey all I still have my FFS fundraiser going but bills might make things tight this month so I'd appreciate you buying some silly shirts! www.bonfire.com/protect-the-...
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PROTECT THE BRICKS | Bonfire
Look we know passing affords certain privileges, right?. I mean let's be real we all do, but it's not a huge surprise that the biggest call for protection from celebrities...
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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 07/09/2026
mike pondsmith in the 90s writing Cyberpunk 2020: i created the concept of Cyberpsychosis as a cautionary tale about losing one's humanity through contact with technology openAI: at long last, we have created the Cyberpsychosis from famous role-playing game Don't Get Cyberpsychosis, Idiot
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Riki Wilchins @rikiwilchins.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
@rikiwilchins.bsky.social 2026 Sep Commanders around the world have started receiving notices that trans members of their units are violating Pentagon policy and must begin separation as the Pentagon searches protected medical records and find hundreds of troops who have tried to continue serving.
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Pentagon searching medical records to identify transgender troops | Federal News Network
Military officials are using medical and personnel data to uncover troops with current or past gender dysphoria as the Pentagon moves ahead with separations.
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addaline @hikariposting.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
there are beautiful things in the world
photo of a postage sticker that says "GIRLS KISSING AAAAAAAA" stuck to a light signal pole
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Danielle Froom 🏳️‍🌈 @danifroom.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Morgan said of a trans woman colleague that she was "a gatecrashing male transvestite, an opportunist, an infiltrator, and a destroyer with the mentality of a rapist," — believed to be the origin of the vile "trans rapist" propagandic trope which looms over the entire country today.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I cannot wait to see international news agencies reporting on the most influential poster being a collared 32 year old agender pain pig who draws furry porn of dragons lactating.
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Museum of Twitter @museum-of-twitter.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
@talkwordy

Dear 30-something lady with
license plate M4M4BEAR: I am
sorry MAMABEAR was taken but
you have made a terrible mistake.
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Hot take: Gloria Steinem did a lot of good, AND a lot of bad! I do firmly believe we'd be in a different place if her feminism was informed by class politics instead of literally being an anti-communist CIA plant. I also don't fully believe the backpeddling of her support of Janice Raymond's ideas.
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sheer spite press @sheerspite.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
in one week, on september 10, these will be out on shelves, but for now they are slumbering in boxes and warehouses. wouldn't you agree it's the perfect time to preorder your copy so you can stop by your favourite independent bookstore and pick it up as soon as it drops? bookshop.org/p/books/the-...
A stack of copies of "The Politics of Lonely: Why Is Friendship So Hard?", by Lee Arden. The cover has a riso-style illustration of a french press, coffee cups, and a mug filled with paintbrushes.
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Dave Levitan @davelevitan.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Increasingly convinced this is the most important post
Twitter post from January 24, 2019, from @Merman_Melville reading

"Being a billionaire must be insane. You can buy new teeth, new skin. All your chairs cost 20,000 dollars and weigh 2,000 pounds. Your life is just a series of your own preferences. In terms of cognitive impairment it's probably like being kicked in the head by a horse every day."
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Cayce @thrice-burned.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Being a girl rules.
Chat text with "It's feral girl fall! Awooooooooo!" being sent, and "Awooooo!" as the response.
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pebbles @pebbles.gay · 02/09/2026
babe wake up they're doing "social contagion theory" for cis women now
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A lofty goal, but one that Midi and its competitors' track records suggest is possible. [[In a few short years, hormone therapy for perimenopausal women swung from inaccessible to inescapable.]] Every day, as the number of women taking hormones rises, they join an ongoing treatment group that is [[more experimental than perhaps they know]]. When it comes to doling out estrogen and progesterone, the goal for clinicians is balance. The industry employing them, however, is zeroed in on its growth chart going up, and up, and up.
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Maëlys @mlys.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Every year the numbers increase. By comparison, here's a trans march in Ottawa twenty years ago:
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WALK THE WALK Ottawa's first annual March for Trans Rights
YouTube video by johnnydtractive
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