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Ste Roughley

@steroughley.bsky.social
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Introverted people person, InfoSec and Lean Software veteran. Venting here about work, parenting life, with occasional outbursts about comics, music, and the social aspects of tech

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Dare Obasanjo @carnage4life.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Realizing you wasted all that rime having imposter syndrome only for the dumbest people alive to have the most important jobs in the country.
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Boo-tros Boo-tros Ghoulish @dlbowman76.com · 29/09/2026
If you are a man, and you see another man being appalling to a woman, do at least this. Say to them "Hey, got a minute? I need some help with something." When you get them over to the side, say quietly and firmly "What the hell is wrong with you? Stop it NOW." I've done this and it works.
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Alex Jaffe, DC Comics Expert @alexjaffe.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Can we please cool it on the Transmetropolitan posting until Warren Ellis either makes amends or dies
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Lisa Ventura MBE FCIIS @cybergeekgirl.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
A 2023 study found 86.8% of women had been attacked or diminished for their achievements. Some of the sharpest criticism in cyber security, AI and tech has come from other women. Read my new Cyber Kindness blog on tall poppy syndrome ⬇️⬇️xx cyberkindness.org.uk/tall-poppy-s...
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Hey funky modern web app UX designers... you know this cool 'sign-in-by-email' thing where your fresh new modern app sends me an email link to click on to login? I fucking hate it - I have a password, I have a passkey Stop it That is all
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Greg Pak @gregpak.net · 19/09/2026
“Bitcoin’s value rests on the notion that this digital scarcity—pointless puzzles solved by burning electricity—is worth real money.” just a reminder from @gilduran.com’s NERD REICH of the fundamental garbage idea behind this terrible industry
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Anxiety: "you're going to die" Me: "deep breath! everything is ok because this feeling proves that I'm alive" Anxiety: "yes, and this proves you will die"
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Unsurprisingly the dialect quiz finds that I am from the area closest to England (I live in England but raised in Canada and Australia)
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Introvert Problems @introvertproblems.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Any other introverts hate making plans too far in advance because you have no idea how social you’ll feel that day, but also hate same day plans because that’s way too short notice? There’s a very specific window for making plans with me and I have no idea what it is
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I am officially 'colleague-asked-if-I'm-distracted-by-a-fly-during-a-video-call-before-I-realised-it's-a-floater' years old. Just so you know.
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Miss Winters @bustyboudica.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Hey guys, I’m so sorry and I hate asking but could I get some help with getting some pain relief please? I ran out of my Nefopam & Pregabalin prescription and I don’t re-up until next week 🫤 Tysm PayPal.me/ogsophiegee
Quibit, my black and white cat, laying in the bed looking slightly off to the left
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The Verge @theverge.com · 02/09/2026
As a new Harry Potter trailer makes the rounds, it bears repeating that there’s no way to watch this show without supporting J.K. Rowling’s bigotry and the structural violence she’s inflicting on the trans community.
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There is no ethical consumption of HBO’s Harry Potter series
You can’t without supporting Rowling’s transphobic bigotry.
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C. M. Alongi @cmalongi.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Heh. #vaccines #autism #autisticmeme
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Finally (being forced) to endure Ted Lasso and by fuck it's full of just about every classist trope you can imagine. I don't know what I was expecting but I wasn't expecting this brand of "working class tourism produced by BBC public school producers" that went out of fashion in the 90s 🤢
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Thank you Peter Cullen for making my life that much richer for over 4 decades! #OptimusPrime #PeterCullen
Optimus Prime lies on his deathbed, surrounded by those who loved him and fought for him
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Tbreak Media @tbreakdotcom.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Peter Cullen, the voice of Optimus Prime in Transformers, dies at 85 Peter Cullen, the voice of Optimus Prime across Transformers for four decades, has died at 85. The actor also voiced Eeyore in Winnie the Pooh....
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Peter Cullen, the voice of Optimus Prime in Transformers, dies at 85
Peter Cullen, the voice of Optimus Prime across Transformers for four decades, has died at 85. The actor also voiced Eeyore in Winnie the Pooh.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Peter Cullen - What a legacy, what a gent. He will be deeply missed, yet cherished for generations I am sure.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Some heartening news in these times. Corvids in Japan have been observed using cars to crack nuts at traffic lights spacedaily.com/m-researcher...
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Garry @thegmcconnachie.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
This is why Dolly Parton will be remembered and loved ❤️📚
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Mary Branscombe @marypcbuk.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
People signing letters to support this dude should be clear what they are supporting
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😈Miss Hell Batkeeper😈 @mishellbaker.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
You know, the cliche about the half-full/half-empty glass is actually closer to the truth about optimism/pessimism than any modern discourse about it. The same reality can be percieved in two equally true ways. You get to choose one. It's not "copium" if you choose "half-full." Still true.
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😈Miss Hell Batkeeper😈 @mishellbaker.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
I was always alive. I just didn't realize until a few years ago that being alive is wonderful. That breathing and touching things is wonderful. That the very existence of earth and everything on it is a freaking miracle. That was always true. I just ignored it. I forgive myself.
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austin (eeek!/ackkk! 👻) @thebadcode.com · 14/08/2026
when designing a distributed system, keep removing shared mutable state until it doesn’t work anymore, then put a little back and draw a box around it labeled “this will break first”
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🌸rphaned dutch whore @linuxtrollop.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
that's what's up
Screenshot of a tweet from Entertainment Weekly:
Ally Pankiw, a filmmaker who directed multiple episodes of ‘Black Mirror,’ said that she declined the opportunity to join HBO’s ‘Harry Poter’ as a director to avoid ‘funding transphobia.’
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Miss Winters @bustyboudica.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Heya everyone, I’ve been looking after Edith a little extra lately as August has a LOT of piled up trauma anniversaries all in a row and I could use a little help with just getting some groceries and cat supplies please 🙏 I’m so sorry to ask, I’ve managed the best I can 🫶 PayPal.me/ogsophiegee
Qubit perched on my leg looking directly at the camera
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
I'm not a writer specifically but I have had at least 1 under-6 in my household at any given time for the last 14 years now so I can relate to this aggressively. I don't think bsky is ready for my thoughts on Bluey but they're brewing
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Defenestra Andropov🇨🇦 The Fall of the new Rome is in the air...🗽🍂 @defenestraandropov.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
techcrunch.com/2026/03/02/n...
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A new app alerts you if someone nearby is wearing smart glasses | TechCrunch
A hobbyist developer's new app, which can detect nearby smart glasses, comes amid resistance to always-on recording and listening devices that invade people's privacy.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
Watched Supergirl: Woman of Tomorrow... It was a fantastic adaptation of the comic. It was less chaotic than Superman and by all rights should have done at least as well at the box office. It did not fail under its own merit and anyone who suggests otherwise is holding it to different standards
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
Look, I am not saying Ryan Gosling is not handsome, he very much is, in the way a Borzoi puppy is handsome. I'm just saying he is not handsome in the way you might expect of a lunatic stuntman who forever binds his soul to a satanic demon named Zarathos.
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Dare Obasanjo @carnage4life.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
“The 10x engineer used to have better judgment than the 1x engineer, but by making everybody a 10x engineer, you're taking judgment away.” - Chamath Palihapitiya ~~ The idea that AI makes developers interchangeable cogs is the opposite of reality. It widens the gap between experts and novices.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
Ssssoooo... Microsoft fired everyone senior enough to remember J#... how's that working out for them? Not well, you say? Huh davidobando.github.io/gsharp/
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
The Pallas's Cat looks like one of those goofy medieval cat paintings 🤣 www.discoverwildlife.com/animal-facts...
A picture of a Pallas's Cat - it looks like it has an disturbingly grumpy human aspect to it's facial features, like the goofy paintings of cats from medieval timesA medieval painting of a cat - as typical of the period, this cat has disturbingly human facial features
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merr-itt came from outer space @merrittk.com · 25/07/2026
a good piece of advice i once got is to disregard any despairing thoughts about the trajectory of your life that you might have after 9 PM. those are the night thoughts and we do not speak of them
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Jason @nickmotown.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
One can only imagine the eventful back story which led to this particular amendment.
The back of a red works van belonging to a company called Surrey Paws, where the line "Mobile Dog & Cat Grooming" has had the word "Cat" crossed out with black ink.
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paulseesequasis @pseesequasis.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
From ‘Outstanding’ and a good reminder that investing in the arts is a win-win, not a lose-lose, proposition.
From Outstanding and a good reminder that investing in the arts is a win-win, not a lose-lose, proposition.
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M a r c u s 🏳️‍🌈🇧🇧🇬🇧 @marcusjdl.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
Stop terrorising disabled people you fucking scum
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Oh look what happens when you park the bus against Argentina... if only someone could have known 😖🤦‍♂️
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
The moment we allow even the most well intentioned - even the most kind, charming and harmless-appearing - Nobel Prize winning, PhD-waving scientist tell us that a machine is equatable to a human mind and people listen then terrible things are likely to accelerate...
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Grady is actually far too kind. No credential saves you here. Claim we're near AI that matches the human brain and you've just announced you know nothing about neuroscience. Conversation over
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Grady Booch @booch.com · 14/07/2026
I say this with all due respect but simultaneously with a rage that can unmake stars, a software-intensive system that “exhibits all the cognitive capabilities that the brain has” is not “a few short years away”. x.com/demishassabi...
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Demis Hassabis (@demishassabis) on X
https://t.co/PTeDiv1b6L
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 11/07/2026
If you see this, post your comfort characters
Batwoman by JH Williams III and W Haden BlackmanEtrigan by John McCrea and Garth EnnisBatman - specifically Batman as drawn by Kelley JonesSwamp Thing - Specially the Swampy of Lenn Wein and Bernie Wright son or Rick Veitch
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Stéphanie says… 🏴‍☠️🦈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @stephaniejane.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
This👇explains why we’re going backwards; each of these orgs are prepared to sacrifice LGBTQ+ and women’s rights, just to harm trans people. And they do not give a shit.
Amnesty has added 51 gender-critical groups to the report since last year - among them Beira's Place, campaign group For Women Scotland, and policy group Murray Blackburn Mackenzie.
The LGB Alliance, the Seen Network, ADF International, Turning Point UK, and Labour Women's Declaration are also listed.
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Kara Jane Adams @ghostinexile.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
There’s no such thing as trickle down economics. Money doesn’t flow from the wealthy to the poor. What does is racism, homophobia, transphobia, antisemitism, ableism, etc. Trickle down bigotry is definitely a thing.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
The hydration breaks are good actually. Gives the teams a chance to mix up their tactics and has made the games more interesting and lively. Bemoaning the breaks is basically "boo! I want my football to be boring, thank you very much"
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
Happy Father's Day to my dad, Alan, who made me the man and father I am today... by demonstrating literally every single thing not to do, yet who simultaneously revealed the cherished traits we shared that mean I miss him dearly. Life is tediously complex... Idk 🫪
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Théo @tlpavlich.gay · 18/06/2026
Not @cjzero.bsky.social quality, but here it is 😂😂😂
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Ben Collins @bencollins.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
In the meantime, for god's sake, sign up for The Onion while it's on sale. It's $75 for a year's worth of papers. This has been a pain in the ass, and we've gotta pay these lawyers somehow. membership.theonion.com
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Don’t just read the news. Feel it. Be among the first to feel the news.
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chrys scott @chrysscott.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
Human beings were still living in caves when we figured out we need to care about each other to survive. Taking care of each other and cooperating is the reason we have been so "successful" as a species. It's also the only way we can continue to survive.
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Alex Jimenez @alexisrjimenez.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
'It's lazy:' BMO's Milchanowski on AI-related layoffs #AI deployments need to be done with empathy, not with staff reductions, according to Kristin Milchanowski, chief AI and data officer at BMO. www.americanbanker.com/news/its-laz... #FinTech #FinServ #Banking
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'It's lazy:' BMO's Milchanowski on AI-related layoffs
Kristin Milchanowski, the bank's chief AI and data officer, shared some of her AI leadership dos and don'ts at American Banker's Digital Banking Conference.
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Ste Roughley @steroughley.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
Oh sweet suckering schadenfreude
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Cristiano Ronaldo's Iconic Gesture
ALT: Cristiano Ronaldo's Iconic Gesture
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