Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 15/03/20269:49 PM -- Okay, snow is starting to actually accumulate beyond just dusting the ground. Husband says the roads are pretty rough but navigable. I wouldn't call it blizzard but it's supposed to get much much worse after 10. I'll be staying up til husband makes it home safe, but he gets off at 2. 030
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 15/03/20268:03 pm — what is this, like, an inch of snow? I thought we were supposed to get hit like the fabled Halloween Blizzard of 1991 I’ve heard so much about. 000
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 14/03/20264:51 PM -- snowmageddon (allegedly) begins I couldn't find a ruler so I grabbed a 12 pack, emptied out the rest of the cans, put something heavy in it, and set it down outside. Will continue to report. 140
Reposted by CeejMicah @rincewind.run · 13/03/2026fundamentally a big part of growing up is realizing there’s nothing special about being an asshole it doesn’t make you superior, it just makes people not want to spend time around you because you suck 740652
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 13/03/2026I’m still alive I have a cracked tooth that needs to be pulled so that’s fun Also I guess we’re getting a fucking blizzard this weekend Idk, world is on fire and I need a fake tooth and I’m trying to clean the house before I go out of town next month and it’s a lot. 040
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 24/02/2026So the good news is my ear surgery fully restored my hearing on the right side. The bad news is now I’m acutely aware of the far less severe hearing loss on the left. 010
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 19/02/2026So right after my surgery I ordered a bunch of shit off Temu while still in a post anesthesia haze. I promptly forgot what I ordered, and it all arrived yesterday. Did I need a light up phone case? No, but now I sure do have one 080
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 15/02/2026Thinking about how much of my childhood was influenced by Canadian bands. Our Lady Peace and Barenaked Ladies were my jams in the 90s. I do keep thinking about moving to Canada these days. Hell, one of my best friends lives there. But I am poor and I also don't want to abandon ship just yet. 140
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 10/02/2026Age verification? I had one of those unbreakable Nokia phones with the swappable faceplates in high school, and the only game on it was Snake. 150
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 10/02/2026I just don’t want to deal with anything right now except recovering from having my ear drum surgically breached. Unfortunately for me, I am a discord mod. 030
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 10/02/2026Day 5 post-op: No longer need to wear a dressing on my ear. Hearing still super muffled. Still dizzy sometimes and still VERY mad that I did not get to see my fucked up ear bone!!! I even ASKED! 010
Reposted by CeejTasha Suri @tashasuri.bsky.social · 08/02/2026there's so much disrespect of romance writers and romance readers baked into the idea that AI-driven production of novels is 'better'. as if writing romance isn't skillful, hard and joyous work. as if romance readers aren't discerning, loyal and savvy. 5601154
Reposted by CeejIan @theadmiral.bsky.social · 08/02/2026It’s fascinating charting the journey of The Beatles from ‘music dismissed by 60 yr old men’ to ‘music gatekept by 60 yr old men’ 322223
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 09/02/2026Also I just had my first “I didn’t follow this, why is this on my fucking feed” moment with a kink that actively squicks me out. Nobody reposted it. It was just THERE AND I DID NOT WANT IT????? 100
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 09/02/2026No energy for a shower yet but I did get cleaned up and put on fresh PJs. Feeling a bit more functional. Fewer dizzy spells today. 010
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 08/02/2026My ear is so damn itchy post surgery I am practically ready to cut it off 010
Reposted by CeejNBC News @nbcnews.com · 07/02/2026“Renee was not the first person killed, and she was not the last,” Becca Good said. “You know my wife’s name and you know Alex’s name, but there are many others in this city being harmed that you don’t know — their families are hurting just like mine, even if they don’t look like mine.”nbcnews.toRenee Good's partner addresses Minneapolis immigration crackdown one month after killingBecca Good has seldom spoken out since Renee Good was shot and killed by an ICE agent in Minneapolis on Jan. 7. 132124793893
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 08/02/2026Look I don't care about sportsball and I haven't heard a single track from Bad Bunny (to my knowledge) but I love how tweaked these yokels are about him performing at the Super Bowl. Since when does American citizenship matter? Oh right, when the performer is brown, got it. 250
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 08/02/2026I had a giant operation ten years ago that took out multiple major organs but somehow replacing a tiny ear bone has me way more fucked up afterwards 000
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 07/02/2026If I see one more of these fuckass AI social media profile pics I’m going to yeet myself off Minnehaha Falls I swear 010
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 07/02/2026Apparently I need to eat more food while I'm healing. I used to be very good at eating more food. Now I am very bad at eating more food, with my diabetes and ADHD both properly medicated. So I basically have to force myself to eat every 4 hours so I don't get dizzy while I heal post-op. 030
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 06/02/2026The dizziness has arrived. Not sure why it took a few days but here we are. 020
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 05/02/2026My surgeon yesterday warned me I might end up with a fibro flare after surgery and goddamn do I feel it today. They had me in a less than great position it seems. Worth it. 160
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 05/02/2026I can hear myself speaking in my right ear this morning, though it’s still plugged with surgical packing (and will be for a few weeks). This is still huge!!! 050
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 05/02/2026Earlier I plugged my left ear and turned my right ear to the PC speaker. It’s muffled with all the post surgical stuff in my ear, but I heard the speech well enough to understand it. This is huge for me. 1110
Reposted by CeejDoug Mack @douglasmack.bsky.social · 05/02/2026Suddenly realizing that in 10-20 years, the MN Historical Society will have an exhibit about *all this* and there will be a whole wall showing different types of whistles 191201169
Reposted by Ceejonion person @junlper.beer · 05/02/2026it’s genuinely reassuring to me that this is the most miserable and paranoid person in the entire world 2277425876135
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 05/02/2026I hear my heartbeat through the cotton balls and surgical packing in my right ear. For five years I heard nothing but tinnitus. 160
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 04/02/2026Survived the surgery just fine. Been home for about two hours actually but I spent them sleeping off the rest of the anesthesia. My ear doesn’t feel fantastic but it’s not particularly bad compared to some of the shit I’ve been through. 060
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 04/02/2026Off to bed way too early to be at the surgery also way too early 010
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 03/02/2026Do people just expect all adults to only write adult tropes? Do people think children's books for preschoolers should only be written BY preschoolers? What the fuck is going on here 050
Reposted by CeejMara Wilson @marawilson.bsky.social · 24/01/2026I guess I am a bit of a chaos bisexual but it’s in less of an Ilya Rozanov way and more of a “Beaker from the Muppets” way 632431249
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 03/02/2026The nurse who called to do my pre-op check asked me if I had any advance healthcare directives and I let out the softest, high-pitched, nervous laugh. I'm sure I'll be fine and I know that question is just routine but goddamn did my anxiety go into overdrive. 140
Reposted by CeejJonathan Edward Durham @thisone0verhere.bsky.social · 03/02/2026I am still shocked at just how much emailing is involved in being evil 20797104
Reposted by CeejMega👻Thee🎃Tron @valarmordollars.bsky.social · 02/02/2026So mad i didn’t think of this first. 1123
Reposted by CeejIlhan Omar @ilhanmn.bsky.social · 02/02/2026Abolish ICE. There’s no reforming it. There’s no compromise. There’s only one way to rein in ICE’s terror campaign. Abolish it. 784403948996
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 03/02/2026The last surgery I had was my hysterectomy in 2017. I woke up post-op and told the ICU nurse I had to pee. She said I had a bedpan. I slurred out the words "I still have my fucking dignity" and passed out again. Friends, I did not, in fact, have my fucking dignity. 060
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 02/02/2026When I moved here 10 years ago I had no idea the twin cities would be at the heart of political revolutions based on racism and oppression. Twice. I’m glad to be here but goddamn can Big Things please happen in somebody else’s backyard for a while 090
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 02/02/2026My ear surgery is on Wednesday and I can’t wait because I have horrible tinnitus in that ear now but because I can’t hear anything in it I can’t drown it out with white noise. 030
Reposted by CeejGus Squawks @gussquawks.bsky.social · 01/02/2026What do you MEAN the president audibly SHIT himself live on camera and they immediately cancelled the press conference and rushed everyone out of the room like it's a fire drill, and it happened two days ago, and I'm just hearing about it NOW? 214122483606
Reposted by CeejRyan J. Reilly “paints a vivid and urgent portrait of… disarray” @ryanjreilly.com · 01/02/2026thesis: we’re in the best protest music era since at least Iraq. 3129126
Ceej @stellaphilia.bsky.social · 01/02/2026My parents made a big donation to MONARCA, a group helping resist ICE here in the twin cities, in my name. I am still not over it days later and just thinking about it brings me to (good) tears. 090