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tenny ♾️

@herwife.online
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🔞 she/her 🏳️‍🌈 late gen-x married lesbian, autist, all-inclusive feminist, good girl and proud stepmama. DMs on for moots ❤️

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 29/09/2026
i'm taking a break from bsky for a while. the more-traumatizing-by-the-day political news that i've worked so hard to curate out of my feeds here just keeps reappearing. I have like 500 & variations of words muted and i'm blocking thousands of accounts via lists. that shit still slips thru. no more.
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Emoria - Aftertaste OUT NOW @emoria.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
"Emoria has created something absolutely iconic within the world of trans+ literature. It's a dark, sometimes-triggering, beautiful, and ultimately life-affirming piece of art." - @setna1312.northsky.social Read the first couple of chapters free on Kindle: www.amazon.com/Aftertaste-T... #booksky
While a hugely difficult read at times due to the content, Emoria has created something absolutely iconic within the world of trans+ literature. It's a dark, sometimes-triggering, beautiful, and ultimately life-affirming piece of art.

It's a book by a woman who has a gift for sharing the hardest of experiences - the daily traumas of being trans today -  while still demonstrating hope. 

Absolutely beautiful.
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 27/09/2026
"this country is a car somebody crashed"
music.youtube.com
The Aftermath
YouTube video by Katie Pruitt - Topic
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 27/09/2026
kinda recently finally figured out that both of my parents are narcissists. i've gone through low/no contact phases with both of them (right now included). about halfway thru an 8-year no contact period with my mom, i got an email asking why i wasn't talking to her. it contained no self-awareness.
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Courtney Love Lies Bleeding 🫦 @hexadecibelle.fyi · 27/09/2026
wonder how much of the autism/adhd moral panic that’s built up the past few years is less due to increased awareness and more… COVID/lockdowns disrupted everything so much that people’s masking behaviours fully fell away, and this is what provoked more to seek out answers (and then a diagnosis).
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Grudge Cat @grudgecat.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Fuck Newsom. Cis white libs I'm begging you, when you vote don't just pick people who shout things at MAGA on social media. Actions speak louder than words; most of the politicians who rise in popularity because of their wit haven't done a single thing to help the people they claim to serve.
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🇨🇦DUNK🇨🇦 (Proud Part owner of Canada) @noofieninja.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 26/09/2026
i may be exaggerating slightly
Hanover Fiste from the 1981 animated film Heavy MetalJudy Alvarez from the 2020 video game Cyberpunk 2077
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 25/09/2026
awwwwwwww ❤️
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The Lexorcist @lexidarlingxoxo.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
dear cis people: there are no trans women in the wnba, and no minors are getting sex reassignment surgery. you are being lied to. these are not real issues and they should not be engaged with as serious debate even hypothetically. doing so only helps legitimize harmful lies. don’t be a chump.
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IAHFY ✦ @iahfy.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
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🌑 @fell.energy · 23/09/2026
election season is such a good time when youre a scapegoated minority thats important enough to decide the result but not important enough that you get a platform to explain why you deserve to live
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 23/09/2026
i'm feeling much better than i was a month ago when my leave started, for sure. getting there slowly. there have been two things that my mind and body can no longer seem to agree on: sleep and food. i've had relatively little of both in the past month, yet i feel, eh, "kind of ok".
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 20/09/2026
pretty much zero here, too. i have my wife and she is enough. i had to explain, again, why travel is unsafe for me this week, and that where i live could become a red state in six weeks. 98% of cis people will never truly care, so they don't ask, and thus they will never know. they don't want to
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 20/09/2026
mmyep. if you aren't on the far left, this is generally your position disgusting 🤬
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Claire Willett @clairewillett.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
every day of my life I think about the people using “she” to describe this computer program who still need to be convinced to use it for trans women
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TekknoNerd - Commissions open @tekknonerd.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Voyager, walking on those tiny legs.
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🎃Kate👻 is 1️⃣3️⃣days from surgery @eternaltsunamisea.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
And lemme tell y'all this as a cis gal: If you truly care and you find yourself interacting with trans people in any way, you pick up real fast why your unwashed cis opinions don't matter. I'll give you an example in terms that you might understand from a Black perspective -
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alyson “end journalism” greaves @badambulist.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
the new gender-conservative movement might have been contained before it gained the power it now has, if cis people listened to trans women EVER.
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 18/09/2026
i have at least 5 such stories, all involving the school pool during high school jesus fuck gym class was traumatic for eggs
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 18/09/2026
Katie Pruitt's new album came out today! i'm getting to know it now. she's one of my favorite people in music 🥰 super cool: she's wearing the same denim jacket she was wearing when @grudgecat.bsky.social and i met her in june 💖 #musicsky #newmusic #katiepruitt #lgbt #americana #folk
katiepruitt.bandcamp.com
Fools for the Fleeting, by Katie Pruitt
10 track album
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Bugs, Yaoist @bugsmaytrix.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
if you say the phrase "transgender ideology" i don't think you should be allowed in polite society. maybe a box? a small box. so you can think about what you've said and done.
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 17/09/2026
extremely impressed, though perplexed why i waited so long to transition. my egg hadn't cracked fully at 20 (that took 5 more years) but i knew i hated being a man. 20 y/o me wouldn't understand a lot of the trauma she'd carry at my age now, & lacked the experience to understand what love or
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Erin Reed @erininthemorning.com · 12/09/2026
The vitriol directed at me and other members of the trans community for having the audacity to declare our votes are not to be taken for granted. By cisgender people who otherwise have called themselves allies. I wish it weren’t so utterly predictable.
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Castertroy911 @castertroy911.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Trans people are the out group that keeps on giving. Y’all are basically the perfect target. It really fucks with them cuz it hits their hatred of women and gay people all at once. Throw in there that they all secretly wanna fuck y’all and it’s perfect storm of chud rage.
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 16/09/2026
insomnia has been so severe lately, i got a prescription for Lunesta. night 1 result: some of the most fragmented, unfulfilling, unsatisfying 3 hours & 51 minutes of sleep i've had in, i dunno, a week? woke at 3am sleep for me right now is an unsolveable puzzle, as it has been for much of my life 🥺
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 15/09/2026
ed sheeran and justin timberlake have to firm a shitty supergroup now. i'm sorry; i don't make the rules
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jeb haus @drjeb.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
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Grudge Cat @grudgecat.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Democrats have shown us since the 2024 election that they won't stand for any leftist issues or protect any vulnerable groups. They only care about protecting their personal wealth and power. A vote for a centrist is a vote for continued fascism.
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𖤐 Evelyn 𖤐 @kissing.tgirl.gay · 12/09/2026
please help, even sharing helps... my mom is talking about forcing me into some kind of christian therapy program for depression and i do NOT want that, they've threatened to put me on the street if i say no, i do not feel safe, please i'm begging... i don't know what else to do
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 15/09/2026
this is exactly how i feel and i will not vote again until changes happen
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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
why is it not enough that vulnerable people must give up their rights for the greater good? why must they also accept their own sacrifice quietly and graciously? ask yourself if you would be so forgiving if you were the one expected to suffer for the greater good
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˗ˏˋ・゚ 𝔶𝔢𝔢𝔫𝔦𝔢 [𝔱𝔢𝔞𝔪 𝔯𝔲𝔟] ˚。⋆ˎˊ˗ @yeeniebeans.art · 08/09/2026
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Walker Bragman @walkerbragman.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
If you cannot be trusted to stand up for transgender Americans when they’re facing what some experts call a genocide, I don’t trust you to stand up for anything.
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Lexi Koren @lexikoren.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
One thing I like to remind TERFs is that trans women vote for the bodily autonomy of cis women at a much higher rate than cis women do.
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Ian Boudreau @ianboudreau.com · 11/09/2026
Pretending the days after Sept. 11, 2001 were some kind of gauzy Hallmark special when we came together as a country is nauseating and ahistorical. The country went completely insane and has not recovered
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Corey Brickley * Blight's Hollow Dot Com @coreybrickley.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
I had this idea from reading the elizabeth holmes mouse post and then I couldn't do anything else until i painted the idea to completion
It is a cartoon mouse, like Jerry from Tom and Jerry, shaped like a wedge of cheese presumably because it has eaten a wedge of cheese. The mouse has Elizabeth Holmes' face. The mouse is saying "Why would I deceive you? There's no reason for me to do that."Nathan Fielder, looking into a fridge where the mouse has eaten a cheese, says skeptically "Okay. Alright."
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 11/09/2026
ok, leave thing sorted out with HR and their insurer. at least, i think so. it's hard to tell when dealing with companies that operate in bad faith by default, which seems to have become the standard. ugh.
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Quest 64 Official @quest64official.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Sleep paralysis but the demon keeps asking if things are shoegaze 

"Is Holy plains shoegaze?" Asks the demon
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 11/09/2026
just one? uggh this is gonna be tough. favorite song by album would be easier. but i'll go with: plainsong honorable mention: charlotte sometimes
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 10/09/2026
is it weird that my short-term disability leave request is still being processed and hasn't been approved yet? it was made on August 17, the insurer has everything they need, and i'm left hanging in the dark, unpaid, until they notify me of the determination, which i'm now at this point not even
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 10/09/2026
i absolutely love this song
youtu.be
Arlo Parks - Devotion (Official Video)
YouTube video by ArloParksVEVO
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 09/09/2026
definitely feeling yesterday's flu and covid shots this morning. exhausted, but not in a burnout kind of way, and my muscles are all sore and tired oh well back to bed soon 😴
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 09/09/2026
we went together about 6 months after meeting/getting together. photos from then in comments 😊
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 08/09/2026
covid and flu boosters done. the new covid injector is a big improvement, barely felt a thing, compared to the days-long dead-muscle feeling post-injection in prior years ☺️ need head pats and to be told i'm a good girl, pls
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Goth Mommy 🐉 @gothmommyxoxo.com · 08/09/2026
Two young women on a snowy city street at night: one kneels offering a single rose labeled "I'll give you the world" while the other poses, labeled "never received the bare minimum" — meme highlighting mismatched romantic expectations.
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Autumn Wolff | Lesbian Romance Author @autumnwolff.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
"I just don't understand why some trans women act so childish." You mean the women who were denied the childhood they wanted? Those folks? Yeah, hard to imagine why.
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Tyler, from the Internet @tylerfromtheinternet.com · 06/09/2026
one of my favorite pastimes is going to a grocery store and spending 250 dollars on 75 dollars worth of food, and only some of it may kill me, God bless America
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Emily St. James @emilystjams.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
I like how this looks like a movie about three girls in their 20s who just don't get along but all have to live together after their grandmother leaves them her rambling mansion in her will, with Sarah McLachlan as their kooky aunt who's also the mayor.
Rolling Stone cover picturing Chappell Roan (in pale white porcelain doll makeup), leaning her head on Olivia Rodrigo's shoulder, with Doechii leaning over Olivia's other shoulder. Olivia has a daisy in her mouth. Sarah McLachlan is leaning over them like she's descending from orbit. Headline "How Daisy Chain Made History: Inside Olivia Rodrigo's fun-filled, fundraising festival"
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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 06/09/2026
yesterday was one of the best days of my life. not gonna go into details, but i'll just leave it at this: it was desperately needed, and it was immensely healing. rarely, good things drop in my lap or i have a mindblowing experience. had both yesterday, separately
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