iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 26/09/2026

i may be exaggerating slightly

Hanover Fiste from the 1981 animated film Heavy Metal

Judy Alvarez from the 2020 video game Cyberpunk 2077

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 07/09/2026

"where did you get such a cropped soup shirt?" "cropped soup store"

Two women in winter coats, outdoors in an apparent snowstorm. The second woman, with long blonde hair and a red coat, has her long lesbian rainbow-colored scarf wrapped around her own shoulders and the other woman's, whose barely-apparent hair (due to her hood being up) is brown. She asks "where did you get such a long bacon?" to which the second women replies with "long bacon store".

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 04/09/2026

this number hasn't really changed since this time yesterday. what the literal fuck are they doing. i can't go on like this. i mean, I'm in severe autistic burnout and my discomfort was already thru the roof and this is having a negative effect on my recovery #fuckDTE

DTE's graph of how many of their customers have power right now. Mine's been out since midnight, Wednesday night #fuckDTE

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 01/09/2026

What do you mean i can't be a woman? I already am one.

Tenny seated in front of a large cooler that reads "cold drinks" at a restaurant while holding a glass of Asahi Super Dry beer in her right hand. She's wearing a blue mandala-themed tank top with a built-in bra. Her shoulder-length blonde hair falls in a cascade about her neck and shoulders. A blue headband, matching the shade of her tank top, is covering her upper forehead. A black heart pendant on a silver chain hangs from her neck. She's smiling into the camera, maybe a little buzzed, absolutely secure in her own femininity. ❤️

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 26/08/2026

@grudgecat.bsky.social and me at Indigo Girls/Melissa Etheridge one year ago today. Weren't we cute? ❤️

Tenny (left) and Christina (right) at an outdoor concert in 2025

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 14/08/2026

we're still kind of in early august and you know what that means: 30-50 feral hog season that was the last really good meme before from before the covid era began

A TDC card for 30-50 feral hogs. It reads "30 to 50 Feral Hogs" at the top, followed by some gameplay symbols, then reads "Sorcery" in a header at the middle. The flavor text reads: "CHoose a number between 3 and 5 at random. Create that many 2/2/ green Boar creature tokens. If this spell was kicked, choose a number between 30 and 50 at random instead."

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 06/08/2026

in what world is this sustainable? this was for a 10+ year old car, ffs

$70.63 for 16.056 gallons of gasoline in the United States on August 6, 2026

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 05/08/2026

fuck i hate it when this happens

An almost half grown out gel manicure with the coral-colored polish/lacquer missing from the right middle finger

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 05/08/2026

ok I'm a fucking pig 😊

Empty plate that had been full of sushi not long ago

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 04/08/2026

Let's just say it's a special occasion 🍣

A huge plate of sushi and a bottle of Asahi Super Dry beer

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 01/08/2026

this transbian is ready for Ann Arbor Pride this afternoon! a lil early. please please say hi if you see me 🥰

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 29/07/2026

seems correct reminds me of the online purity tests of the 1990s and sharing results on irc www.idrlabs.com/hot-crazy-sc...

A graph showing that after answering a series of questions, Tenny falls into the "Fun Zone" on the Hot/Crazy axis.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 29/07/2026

i don't have a chronic illness, i'm just old

A moderately-sized pile of pills for each evening.

A moderately-sized amount of morning pills.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 25/07/2026

@grudgecat.bsky.social and me, we're about 30 feet from Emmylou Harris right now (!!) ❤️

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 24/07/2026

we all start somewhere ~90 days of transition (left), ~1250 days of transition (right) no pre-transition photos for you

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 16/07/2026

@grudgecat.bsky.social in the moment as Allison Russell performs. Yes, she's crying 🥹 she's so beautiful

Christina in the moment as Allison Russell performs. Yes, she's crying 🥹

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 06/07/2026

coral/watermelon gel mani done at a place new to @grudgecat.bsky.social and me traffic is insane; power is out in a lot of areas nearby but not us. we going NOWHERE tomorrow if it's gonna be like this

coral/watermelon manicure on Tenny's left hand, which is held suspended above an illuminated laptop keyboard

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 04/07/2026

made a new friend! I decenter men from my life but I'll make an execution for Yogi here. he was pretty into demonstrating how much he wanted my omelette 🍳

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 03/07/2026

mushroom swiss w/ bbq sauce + bells oberon for me; BLT and lemonade for @grudgecat.bsky.social

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 03/07/2026

more of my wife @grudgecat.bsky.social looking cute and being a hottie 🌶️

Christina sitting in a restaurant, waiting for our order, looking like a snack in her own right🌶️

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 03/07/2026

i *am* a real pain in the neck, lois. thanks

Ursa from Superman II - early 1980s ur-softmasc

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 02/07/2026

"Meat BBQ" as promised in the name. Says so on the tin! 🥩

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 02/07/2026

Happy birthday to my incredibly hot, incredible wife! we're getting bbq and staying at a B&B for a few days

Christina sitting pretty at a bbq restaurant in Lansing, Michigan on her 50th birthday 🎉

Christina and Tenny on their way to our favorite B&B. Tenny is driving.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 01/07/2026

i'm not gonna pollute the "photo that shows your essence" thread with this, but this has been my essence for months and months i have six days of PTO scheduled starting tomorrow, but i know all too well that it's not going to be enough to pull me out of this

A cartoon of a woman sitting with elbows to knees and covering her face, crying. Below her are the words "autistic burnout symptoms", with arrows leading to word balloons that detail typical autistic burnout symptoms.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 20/06/2026

hey look, it's me 3 years ago today, 4 months and 3 laser sessions into my transition I've come a long way, baby

Tenny on June 20, 2023, three months into her transition

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 15/06/2026

the print in question 🥰

Katie Pruitt (center) and Christina and Tenny, June 13, 2026.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 14/06/2026

thh one of the best concert experiences either of us has had 🥰

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 14/06/2026

@grudgecat.bsky.social (left), Katie Pruitt (!!!), and me! OMFG we're so fucking happy and Katie is such a sweetie, as was the elderly security guard who told us where to find her (and who took this photo)!

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 13/06/2026

@grudgecat.bsky.social and me we're going to see Katie Pruitt tonight!

Christina in braids, too. She did both our braids tonight 😊

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 13/06/2026

I’m a trans woman, and I look like a trans woman, and I’m beautiful. Pass it on.

Tenny seated in her home office. She's got her long blonde hair down, and is wearing a crimson top, black heart pendant, and cat's-eye glasses that gradient ffrom black to purple as they go down. She is smiling beatifically.

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tenny ♾️ @herwife.online · 11/06/2026

this was last night for me. i'm not sure i have slept thru the night for this long with this much REM sleep in literally decades. kinda proud of myself!