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Candice Alaska @candicealaska.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

CW abuse. Many people do, in fact, believe survivors. They just don't care. It's a traumatic reality that many survivors confront when coming forward to share their stories.

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

these are closely related logically consistent positions--both CSAM (/apologism) and persecution of trans children stem from a sense of entitlement over children's bodies & a drive to shape & mold children according to adult desires & power

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Duck (aka Syd) @theexiledduck.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

“woke pope from chicago” and its a old white dude who covered up multiple abuse allegations. be so fr

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

fandom culture is one of the worst things to ever happen to media literacy

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CLAYFACE: CELEBRITY DIRT #3 out now @judedoyle.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

Francis compared trans people to nuclear weapons, said "gender ideology" was "the ugliest danger of our age," and, not coincidentally, dealt with rape accusations against Catholic priests by calling feminism "machismo in a skirt." I know whoever's coming next will be worse, but this is dishonest.

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sarah jeong @sarahjeong.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

In Vietnam, the war is called "the American War." The Verge's package commemorating the 50th anniversary of the fall of Saigon is now fully live: www.theverge.com/cs/features/...

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American War

A special series from The Verge that confronts the legacy and mythmaking of the Vietnam War, 50 years after the fall of Saigon.

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

it's epistemicide all the way down. the obsession with trans children in particular is not about "protecting" kids, it's about denying children's epistemic authority, their self-knowledge and ability to act as reliable witnesses to their own lives. sexual abuse is a technology of the gendered order

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

i really think that people talking about this book should read some of the old "false memory syndrome"/CSA apologist pseudoscience papers (if you can stomach it) because you will be SHOCKED at how similar the language and talking points are--"victimhood ideology is suppressing scientific inquiry"etc

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Sarah Clarke - Not your doll @damselindystopia.northsky.social · 24/04/2025

Fucking yes, exactly.

When the majority of rape and sexual assault victims know their attacker and must now wait, on average, 800 days to be heard in court, is women's safety from a trans person in a public bathroom really the issue? Or is it just a convenient smokescreen to help society avoid facing up to deeper and more entrenched problems?

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Duck (aka Syd) @theexiledduck.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

Abusers might behave badly in the public eye just so that their victim looks worse by association. Abusers know they are not going to be held accountable as long as their victim is viewed as imperfect, which they are. Everyone is. This is a big part of why abuse is so pervasive and rarely stopped.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 18/04/2025

Abusers will happily contradict themselves as long as it achieves their goal of making their victim look imperfect. Because they know that as long as observers find fault with the victim, even if they also find fault with the perpetrator, then it will obstruct justice for their victim.

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Eniko Fox @enikofox.com · 17/04/2025

i need people to understand "death of the author" means the author can't dictate what you take away from the text, not that you're not complicit in what they do with the profit they make from you buying it in the first place

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Bree 🍄🦇🌿 @breebird33.bsky.social · 16/04/2025

a reminder that "death of the author" is not a balm to assuage your guilt for engaging w/ media made by hateful people it's a media theory that ignores author intent, preferring reader interpretation so sure "miku" wrote it, but you still gave a bigot your money and they're using it to harm folks

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 16/04/2025

For years people have silenced abuse victims by harassing them with the lie that coming forward publicly infringes on due process. Most of those people are silent as the federal government actually explicitly denies the right to due process

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 14/04/2025

This basically translates to “Democrats can abuse whoever they want as long as they don’t call themselves Republicans.” And you wonder why people accept Trump’s abuses? You’re priming them to!

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 14/04/2025

Absolutely incredible that we’re already doing the “you should feel guilty for not supporting Democrats who are abusers” charade before the Democrat in question even wins his primary. Yes, there’s a reason people are fed up with the party loyalists, and it’s in the mirror.

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Myriam Gurba (Serrano through my mom) @lesbrains.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

Classic abuser move: create a crisis and then position yourself as its solution. After the abuser “solves” the crisis, he will expect gratitude and adoration.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 09/04/2025

After seeing how the “justice” system refuses to penalize rape, charges domestic violence victims as perpetrators, and rewards fathers who abuse their children with more custody, it unfortunately doesn’t surprise me that it is enabling fascism

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A Tea Walks Home Alone at Night @teaberryblue.net · 07/04/2025

I’m seeing a lot of posts about how certain immigrants sent to El Salvador are not actually criminals and this is true but I would also like to remind you that people with criminal records shouldn’t be subjected to this, either.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 04/04/2025

Honestly, this is what "freedom of speech" has always meant to many people, not even those who proudly identify as conservative. The right to be abusive without repercussions--with social approval, even!--above all else.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 04/04/2025

The white men fantasizing about the return of American manufacturing don’t actually think they or their kids will be working in the factories. This is their American individual idealism at work: they believe there will always be someone else working hard for their benefit

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Imran Khan @imrankhan.bsky.social · 28/03/2025

The Ghibli thing is particularly egregious because the reason you love Miyazaki movies is that they’re unabashedly human. He admits to not even knowing what it all means, he is just putting thoughts and feelings of the human experience on the screen and letting people relate.

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

🗣️ Trumpian aesthetics of domination are taken from pornography.

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 27/03/2025

Pornofascists

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 23/03/2025

the anti-MeToo backlash has apparently literally erased everyone's memory of literally decades of hard work deconstructing notorious well-known rape myths bc i cannot think of any other reason why anyone (other than pro-rape right wingers) would be repeating this nasty shit in 2025.

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 23/03/2025

"she changed her story over time!!" oh you mean like countless rape victims do as they come to understand and come to terms with what happened over the course of years of internal turmoil?

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Radical Graffiti @radicalgraffiti.bsky.social · 22/03/2025

"Everything for Everyone. No one is illegal. Fuck Trump" Seen in Mexico City

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Mallory Moore @sexabolition.blog · 22/03/2025

This isn't just about "stereotypes". It creates a situation where protection for cisgender women from violence is restricted only in a narrow heavily segregated space confined to those PERFORMING GENDER ROLES NORMATIVELY. That is: the price of safety for women becomes performance & submission.

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Sarah Clarke - Not your doll @damselindystopia.northsky.social · 22/03/2025

You cannot defeat transphobic ideology by logical traps or debate or by proving you fucking love science. It's not a logically consistent view of the world, it's a series of justifications for power.

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Heba Gowayed هبة جويد @hebagowayed.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

Friends from Gaza feel unprecedented levels of isolation & desperation. A reminder to the rest of us that Palestine is not your passion project. It's not your political medallion. It's a place with a people who are being killed & tormented by their oppressor, a bully funded by this nation.

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

seeing the replies and realizing liberals genuinely believe that anti-genocide protests under biden were conspiracy to get trump elected, & accordingly have made up a fantasy alternate reality in which the protests stopped as soon as trump won. literally incapable of imagining caring about genocide.

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themboy insomniac @riotliturgist.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

"sip ☕️" you are fucking despicable.

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spooky dickgirl @eigenvectrix.northsky.social · 20/03/2025

Liberals are like "these are the consequences of disobedience :)" and then wonder how everyone else is able to correctly identify them as fascists

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

This is such a satisfying headline and subheading to read www.teenvogue.com/story/vivian...

Headline: Vivian Jenna Wilson, Elon Musk’s Estranged Daughter, Is Not Afraid of Her Dad
Subheading: “He’s a pathetic man-child,” says the 20-year-old.
Article by Teen Vogue Staff on March 20, 2025

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Scarey!! (they/them)🍉🦇 @scareymulligan.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

This final piece of a 3 part series for @spitfirenews.com is a must-read analysis of abuse and manipulation in the digital age. Having known multiple victims of online smear campaigns, I really appreciated the discussion of perfect victims and the misconception that if it’s online it’s “not real.”

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daily alucard ⚰️ @alucarddaily.bsky.social · 20/03/2025

Castlevania: Symphony of the Night was released 28 years ago today 🦇

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Spitfire News @spitfirenews.com · 19/03/2025

The smear campaign tactics used against actresses Amber Heard and Blake Lively have already been weaponized against everyday women, too. I spoke to a single mom who has been harassed by the manosphere for years over viral TikToks her abusive ex-husband posted. spitfirenews.com/p/there-will...

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There will be another Blake Lively

All women are vulnerable to smear campaigns that run on misogyny.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 18/03/2025

I see people struggle to wrap their head around the level of gaslighting and institutional betrayal happening at the national level. It’s the same pattern of denial, abuse, and reverse blame that abuse victims face from their abusers, people around them, and justice systems

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 18/03/2025

I want everyone to know what DARVO is. I explain DARVO to people multiple times a week. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. Created by scholar Jennifer Freyd to describe the pattern of gaslighting abuse victims face, it applies to so much happening in politics, too

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