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Katie Tightpussy, Editor-In-Chief @katie.bzky.team · 3h

no dog women are extremely to understand. it's just women that are dogs. dogs that are women.

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I don’t pull any hair. But I’ve gotten into a bad habit since covid lockdowns of twirling it a lot. I’m hoping reading this will help. If anyone else has any advice let me know

Overcoming
Body-Focused
Repetitive Behaviors
A COMPREHENSIVE BEHAVIORAL TREATMENT for HAIR PULLING and SKIN PICKING
CHARLES S. MANSUETO, PHD
SHERRIE MANSFIELD VAVRICHEK, LCSW-C
RUTH GOLDFINGER GOLOMB, LCPC FOREWORD BY JENNIFER RAIKES

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 22h

He's gone. 30 minutes have passed and it feels like the world doesn't even care. The cruel indifference of everything will not notice that my mother-in-law's husband of more than 30 years will not be coming home tonight. That the man my brother-in-law idolized won't be around any longer.

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Shane Ross aka Mr. Snippy-snip 🎞⚔🎞 @comebackshane.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Scottish comedian Daniel Sloss talks about how men need to hold other men accountable for rape and sexual assault.

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😠 Parilani Pie @parilani.sparkle.blue · 01/10/2026

if you're a man that's tired of hearing "all men" then you gotta start tackling the m e n that are giving your demographic a bad name, not telling women they shouldn't be saying it we need more good men. be loudly and undeniably one of the good ones. we literally need you to

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😠 Parilani Pie @parilani.sparkle.blue · 01/10/2026

when it comes to male violence and entitlement under patriarchy, the only ones who can change that system are the men. systemically, they are the demographic that has the power the only thing women can do is warn each other and work to keep ourselves safe

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😠 Parilani Pie @parilani.sparkle.blue · 01/10/2026

sorry ik it's a tiktok he just breaks it down so succinctly "it's all men until it's no men"

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maura quint @mauraquint.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.

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Katie Tightpussy, Editor-In-Chief @katie.bzky.team · 01/10/2026

it is deeply funny (read: extremely not funny) how the spreadsheet that aaron posted about how hard it is to be the head of trust & safety includes multiple (!) examples of him being told to "enjoy the camps" and related expressions. Almost Like That Sentiment Is Always Bad, Aaron.

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caiti midtits !!! @chowdzz.tgirl.gay · 01/10/2026

I show up around a polycule like iron shows up in a dying star

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

For me, the hardest thing about stories like the Cornell gang rape case isn’t reading the initial details—although that is hard. What’s even harder is when men online, especially the journalists and pundits, start trying to combat the feminist outrage by purposefully seeding doubt and victim-blaming

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 01/10/2026

I could really use some advice on how to help a partner through the death of a parent. Bonus points if it's from 1,000 miles away :/

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Katie Tightpussy, Editor-In-Chief @katie.bzky.team · 30/09/2026

stella is the sweetest angel on this entire website and you should help her right now. yes right now. drop everything. run to your computer. turn it on. okay now open the internet. you're doing great. keep it up. alright what was i saying? oh yeah, stella. we love her. help her out.

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 30/09/2026

It feels like there isn't justice in this world right now

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 30/09/2026

well... the call is being made. it's going to be coming soon. I'm beyond frustrated with the initial care team who absolutely fucked this up and put them in the position they're in now. This is all so fucked up

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caiti midtits !!! @chowdzz.tgirl.gay · 30/09/2026

Evil @ashenechoes.bsky.social made this for tgirl baseball and now all of you have to see it

Things to say at tgirl baseball by zelda

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hoots @hoots.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I'm being a little melodramatic by saying "left for dead". That was the plan, but he was caught in the act by two men who tackled him and were so traumatized by stumbling upon Brock Turner actively raping a woman behind a dumpster that they were sobbing when the police arrived.

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hoots @hoots.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Brock’s victim was left for dead behind a dumpster and for weeks she couldn’t sleep at night without piling furniture in front of her front door.

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 30/09/2026

dodie is coming to St. Louis in March omfg

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Kelly @justkelly.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

She was doxxed by a Chi Phi alum who implored his followers to “help a Chi Phi.” Just in case anyone thought that organization was remotely redeemable.

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 30/09/2026

If I could go more than two weeks without a massive migraine that'd be so cool Alas

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 29/09/2026

Really need to internalize this one

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ArtButMakeItSports @artbutmakeitsports.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Circus Performers, by Walt Kuhn, 1978, 📸 via @marisakabas.bsky.social

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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

average man harasses 0 women per year. Spiders Georg, who lives in cave & harasses over 10,000 each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted

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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Btw if you read this and immediately thought “well not all men”… pause for a second. The men I trust are the ones who read what I just wrote and choose to listen, to empathize, to ask questions to better understand. They know they are not the men I am angry about and they don’t need say so.

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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Stop telling women what to do. Stop telling us to do all of the work. Stop acting like you know more about our struggle than we do. Stand up for your fellow human being without any reward because that’s what we’re supposed to do. Ffs.

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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

A man replied to this saying in earnest that women need to get organized and fight for our rights and men will follow. We did that. We do that. We mobilized the largest single day protest in global history on every continent and yet I have fewer rights than my mom did at my age.

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Kat Abughazaleh @katmabu.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I literally don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been raped, stalked, groped, harassed, or sexually violated in some way at some point in their life. If you choose to doubt and dox survivors, just know every woman in your life is disgusted by you.

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Rose Schmits @roseschmits.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Ooooh lovely cups available on my website! Hope my making of video helps appreciate these unique cups even more x

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

You know when public attention can reverse a prosecutorial decision like this you almost get the sense that the decision to shrug it off in the first place was not based on an assessment of the quality of the evidence so much as an assessment of the seriousness of the crime.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

One of the Cornell students accused of gang rape, Scott Kretzschmar, denies it and says through his attorney that they are going to “confront” the survivor through the court system. I can already tell you that means victim-blaming, DARVO, and smears. She is going to need a lot more of our support.

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Trans+ Solidarity Alliance @transsolidarity.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Today is Andy Burnham’s first party conference speech as PM. We’ve taken your messages from the mass lobby on tour to Labour conference in Liverpool, with our friends at @transactualuk.bsky.social and @scottishtrans.bsky.social We aren’t going anywhere.

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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

this is the rape culture btw. the one women have been warning you about, and were told we were hysterical and over-sensitive and couldn't take a joke, and that rape allegations ruin men's lives, and now we live in a meritocracy where the only "merit" is who has hurt the most women

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A.R. Moxon @juliusgoat.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Hard to imagine what that would be like

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 28/09/2026

I wish I could go more than two weeks without a massive migraine 😭😭😭😭

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Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

the cornell case has me thinking about christine blasey ford and how she so bravely testified in 2018 about how future supreme court justice brett kavanaugh had sexually assaulted her. i'm thinking about what i wrote at the time and how nothing has changed:

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Marisa Kabas @marisakabas.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

the horrific cornell gang rape case has me thinking about emma sulkowicz who alleged she was raped as a student at columbia in 2014 and never got any justice. it has me thinking about the physical and mental weight young women are forced to carry while their safety is subsumed by male potential.

Emma Sulkowicz carrying around a mattress on the Columbia campus in 2014 to raise awareness of her alleged rape and the university's inaction.

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Caroline Litman @alicemydaughter.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

“Alice took her own life in the fledgling years of a decade that I believe may come to be recognised the most hostile in the history of modern trans existence, at least in the uk” From the epilogue to Her Name Is Alice. This report ⤵️ shows I was right and demonstrates how we got here.

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SWOP Behind Bars @swopbehindbars.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

We try to post threads because we know not everyone will click links. This is one of those threads, please read it, but please also click the link and read the entire piece. We have been watching this story unfold but haven't seen much media traction. There is a serial killer in Philadelphia.

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Dr Abeba Birhane @abeba.blacksky.app · 24/09/2026

over the past few weeks several AI evaluation/cybersecurity experts have explained how what's happening is a result of human incompetence rather than "AI going rogue". I'm begging the media to show a shred of journalistic integrity and stop parroting what altman or amodei say

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🎩 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐇𝐋𝐎𝐁𝐀𝐃𝐎𝐎𝐊 🎩 @eldergodchloe.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

i know things are really hard, now and always, but you’re alive and i’m proud of you.

chloe selfie smiling in her pajama shirt right before taking her make up off.

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Paul Bernal @paulbernal.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

No, BBC, he has not been arrested over the video of dinghy slashing. He’s been arrested over the dinghy slashing. Words matter.

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Uncut Femmes @juliagiantrat.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

gavin newsoms vetos in the past year have genuinely impacted my life in ways that have caused immense damage and stress to me personally so if in 2 years some lib tries to convince me to vote him into the presidency im instead going to write in vote for hilary clinton

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Élise @4elise.northsky.social · 22/09/2026

"Gavin Newsom has done so much to protect u trannies!!!! Can't wait to see you vote for him in 2028!!!!" - some braindead lib who already ordained him president because he's mean to trump

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 20/09/2026

The other day I used an otherwise empty women’s restroom at the movie theater and as I sat down a male employee opened the door very loudly and yelled “BATHROOM CHECK”. He was just trying to clean. But for the first time in many years I panicked and got scared. It should not be like this.

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 20/09/2026

Too many have forgotten that the civil rights movement was fought over, among other things, bathrooms and locker rooms

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 20/09/2026

The liberal notion of acquiescing to reduced-to-removed rights by fascists so everybody else can I guess defeat fascism with the power of the ballot betrays their perception of us: that our identities and sexes and genders and lives and loves are a choice and that we have been humored long enough

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