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Circ @tinyicecat.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

This news is important because all the fucks out there actively attempting to wreck the world want you to think that the work is hopeless and just mitigating the worst case scenario. It's not. Fucking keep going.

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It's Abby. Yep @itsabbyyep.bsky.social · 29/07/2025

Shout out to my neighbor who never emerges from his place except to take selfies with a sword

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 5h

I'm actually so lucky that sometimes people who don't even know me warn others of my abuser, but of course I had the dubious "luck" that he not only reoffended but for a while made his whole personality about his desire to reoffend

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 5h

we should be more careful with our language when we say a rapist is outed "against the wishes of the survivor" when we really mean "without knowing the wishes of the survivor"

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im nicebat 👼🦇 SURVIVOR WARRIOR MODE @nicebart.bsky.social · 8h

pictured btw, last I heard he skipped town and headed for Portland OR. One of the few people I’ve met where myself and others were completely taken advantage of by the sociopathy. WOMEN & ORGANIZERS BEWARE !!

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Legal battle between CoreCivic, City of Leavenworth has town residents talking

Leavenworth residents are usually in agreement when it comes to making their community a better place.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 11h

Nicole is a leading expert on the issue of campus sexual violence. I am floored that USA Today would do this to her. I find this kind of journalistic behavior unethical and morally reprehensible, twisting an interview with a renowned advocate for survivors into a hit piece against a survivor.

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 10h

in some ways it's hard for survivors to find support because there are simply too many of us, where to even start a support network if almost everyone alive is eligible to join it? an unmanageable number the huge population also means a lot of sifting to find other areas of affinity

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 10h

I would be a lot more fun if the world was less awful

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JUCIFER🗑 @jucifer.blacksky.app · 22h

idk who needs to hear this but when you're in your 20s, 30s and sometimes your 40s you'll think you're old by the time you're in your 50s you probably know you were actually young in those early decades +by your 70s, 80s see 50yrolds as babies the stereotypes constraining u are bullshit BE FREE🖤

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JUCIFER🗑 @jucifer.blacksky.app · 22h

u probably still feel uncertainty, selfdoubt, +desire to become a new self the WHOLE time in fact u can reinvent your perspective, pursue entirely new paths at any age some of us are very late bloomers some of us will never bloom in a conventional sense but fuck a conventional sense life is YOURS🖤

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The Loch Ness Monster @nessiopeia.space · 02/10/2026

A reminder that queer spaces and progressive spaces are full of people who want to forgive the people they like more than they care about their victims. A reminder that the lexicon of progressivism is easily co-opted. A reminder that no one and nowhere is safe.

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yaoi gagarin @mel.bzky.team · 02/10/2026

you can immediately tell who's safe and who isn't based on if they still think something is the same amount of wrong depending on whether it was done by someone they like or not

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 18h

The disproportionate concern with “rehabilitating” abusers and rapists (nearly always code for maintaining their position and recovering their social status) is actually part of the problem.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 18h

The person who needs to be intentionally restored to the community in the aftermath of intimate violence is the victim of that violence. To do that often requires attacking the perpetrators’ power/access to victims. Asking “but how can we fix their heart?” as a bystander is deeply inappropriate.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 18h

If the first thing on your mind after hearing some popular figure you admire is a rapist is about what you can do to help the rapist I don’t trust your intentions and never will.

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Alexis Rippen *️⃣ Flamecon C14 @theswordwizard.bsky.social · 18h

its also fascinating that this is one of the few cases where its confirmed without the survivor themselves speaking up or being known at all. we'll hopefully never know how they feel but its interesting how people make certain assumptions that are convenient to the rapist.

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Olivia Cash @lesbotheosis.bsky.social · 17h

i'm assuming that's why he admitted it publicly in the first place. so his fanbase would assume that he's rehabilitated now and one of the good ones

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Pookleblinky @pookleblinky.bsky.social · 01/05/2025

www.oupress.com/978080614210... Did you know that the the Washoe described *their* history of the Donner Party? They tried to help them multiple times with food and offers to guide them back, and kept getting shot at. They stopped offering after a while.

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An Archaeology of Desperation - University of Oklahoma Press

The Donner Party is almost inextricably linked with cannibalism. In truth, we know remarkably little about what actually happened to the starving travelers s...

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Pookleblinky @pookleblinky.bsky.social · 01/05/2025

This wasn't the only time you get the indigenous side of the story being "these starving fucking pale creatures staggered out of the forest and started trying to attack us like rabid animals" A *lot* of the first encounters with white settlers sound like something out of a Romero movie.

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The Get More Smarter Podcast 🧠🏔️ @getmoresmarter.com · 17h

Vote no on this misleading bullshit put on the ballot by right-wing dark money losers Advance Colorado, and vote yes on Amendment 87 instead to jack up taxes on their main funder to pay for public schools, healthcare and child care.

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Proposition 136: Colorado income tax limit would hinder attempts to increase taxes on the rich

Proposition 136 wouldn’t change current tax rates, but it could undermine a separate proposal to raise taxes on higher earners

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 18h

"should a person lose their whole community or platform because they raped someone?" i lost my community when i was raped. i had to leave my hometown & move to a new country because i was harassed for having been raped. former friends sided with the guy who drugged me. they thought it was hilarious.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 18h

i can't speak for Jane Doe or any of the other victims in the news cycle right now, but before you start calling random survivors online "carceral," "punitive," or "anti-restorative justice" for expressing anger & dismay, get a grip. this is not some hypothetical debate topic for us. it's our lives.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 16h

“This popular rapist brings to mind questions of rehabilitation and repair—“ Shut up!! Shut up. If you’re not the victim, or responding to a victim *specifically* asking for action that centers rehabilitation, shut the fuck up! It’s actually fucked up that this is the primary thing on your mind!

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 16h

You’re not being wise you’re not being radical you are saying more-or-less the same shit that the Christian right says about rapists. You care more for saving the souls of rapists than you care for giving support to their victims.

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Lee Cicuta @butchanarchy.bsky.social · 16h

It’s simply not true that “no one has a good answer on what to do with rapists.” In fact, there is a depth of feminist scholarship on exactly this subject. It’s just that people won’t engage with it seriously since none of it says “nah you gotta be nice to the rapist cause that’s your buddy.”

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shannon//cannon @majorarlene.net · 16h

"Why admit wrongdoing if admission and denial ultimately produce the same permanent identity?" because rape is a horrific crime?

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 15h

when you welcome a known rapist into your spaces you draw a line that inherently is going to keep a large number of survivors out, you say if it's a choice then this is a space for rapists, not survivors

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 15h

sorry to spam repost double digits, but I'm so sick of anyone talking about JG (or any "contrite" rapists) without talking about those things

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

I feel like this article asks a lot of questions to which we actually already have the answers but the answers aren’t necessarily very comforting

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

I don’t really have to care about how restoration looks like for this dude, I do think however that there are a million things you can do with your life, and most of them don’t involve having a big audience. I think if you are a rapist who really wants to change, that’s a… choice.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

we don’t know what the victim wants, sure but I do know victims who had problems with their rapists getting “rehabilitated” by their friends groups, going to events the victim then did not go to.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

so like, I think if you are a rapist, you have the responsibility to make it possible for your victim to avoid you without that being energy intensive and restrictive. I don’t think being a public figure is very compatible with this.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

I think noone is owed an audience and I think past actions are part of what defines us, so we can actually all drop a rapist like a hot potato, he can live an ordinary and boring life somewhere in the middle of nowhere or something instead.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

I also think it’s ok for every victim to never ever trust anyone who did something like this ever again. actions have consequences. I am more interested in how to protect victims than in how to rehabilitate abusers

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

I could of course write endlessly about it but in the end, I guess I said what’s most relevant. I believe in growth and change and redemption and accountability and love and solidarity, in anarchy and a better life and a better world, and that the work is never done

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 19h

and I also believe that my finite energy is always better spent helping a victim than rehabilitating an abuser

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 18h

gonna add, I have read his post now, and like, I have seen similar weaksauce bullshit in the past from men that have not actually grown, who continued to hurt others. I also do not like how much he distances himself from his own actions by talking about it as a past version.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 18h

like babe we can all believe in growth, that doesn’t mean we have to be gullible and take people’s words over their actions. his actual actions are disqualifying.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 15h

gonna say, it actually is a bit weird to me how many people praise the article as very thoughtful because I don’t think it’s thoughtful to pretend no one has ever thought about things if that’s not true. it’s offensively solipsistic and antiintellectual.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 15h

you don’t go around and say “why has no one ever asked themselves why the sky is blue”, because obviously that’s not true. it does however tell me that the people who think this is great have 1. never themselves asked these questions before 2. had to answer them before 3. read anything on it

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 15h

how is it that I have had to repeatedly deal with this in practice and you all have to ask yourself how to deal with a rapist the first time? please ask yourself that question.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 15h

if your answer is “there weren’t any rapists” you are lying to yourself.

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Charlotte @fireantprincess.bsky.social · 15h

I ended (multiple!) friendships with “queerfeminists” over them rehabilitating rapists on the back of victims and you are telling me you never had to deal with this in your non-feminist circles? lol

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Sippy Spoopy Psycho @sippycuppsycho.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

They also mute reports if you report too much hate speech. So my reports are deleted for 7 days. They've basically decided I can't report ANYTHING (and threw in a threat of suspension if I don't stop). So now I can't even report a direct threat because all my reports are ignored as punishment.

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Gwen C. Katz @gwenckatz.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Things Gavin Newsom has vetoed this week: -A ban on secretly recording people with smart glasses -A ban on ICE agents working for the state government -A ban on websites selling your data -A bill giving native tribes more say over water rights -A bill protecting transgender healthcare providers

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Matthew Dowd @matthewjdowd.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Latest WSJ poll: "63% want to pause AI development 61% want a billionaire wealth tax 59% want Medicare for All 57% want a $20 minimum wage 58% want to end U.S. military aid to Israel" This is the center of the country politically. it is time all adjust to this political spectrum, esp. media.

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real nobody @stonerfruit.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

it took befriending an ex-girlfriend of his friend, and being put in touch with another of his former friends, to confirm he'd been doing it on purpose and it wasn't just a fucked up coincidence that made me feel manipulated and coerced

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