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Rupa Jogani

@rjogani.bsky.social
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your favorite vampire | writer & researcher | website: rupajogani.com | author & creator of neighbors.love | co-founder of anigay.io | they/them

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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 16h
I'm part of the way through season 2 of Dawson's Creek and there has not been a single episode where sex and sexuality haven't been 1. Discussed or 2. Shown in some way, shape, or form.
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Frances: Meh and Loving It @francesmeh.reviews · 03/10/2024
on october 3rd he asked me what day it was. i was completely zooted. had no fucking clue.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Flu shot SECURED 😤
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jenn pelly @jennpelly.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I spoke with the legend Liz Harris about the past and present of Grouper, ghosts, nature, going viral, the eternal virtues of DIY and the beautiful new album from her dream-pop band Helen www.theguardian.com/music/2026/o...
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‘It’s rational to fear the music industry’: Grouper’s Liz Harris on virality, streaming scammers and her ‘restorative’ dream-pop trio
When a rarity blew up on TikTok, the solitary ambient artist had fraudsters trying to steal her royalties. It reinforced her DIY mentality – until reforming her band Helen reminded her of the beauty o...
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I cannot remember what it feels like to be well-rested 😭
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Now that I'm in my mid-30s, I finally understand how women could be so full of joie de vivre while eating salads.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Dropped off dry cleaning and a pair of boots to get resoled so I won't slip and slide on the streets of Chicago while wearing cute fits
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Charlie Warzel @cwarzel.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
There is a moment at the very very end of Abdul El-Sayed's podcast with Ezra Klein (book recommendation section) where he talks about the idea of "speaking truth to pain" and this will be staying with me for an extremely long time. www.nytimes.com/2026/09/25/o...
But there’s also something about truth to pain. We talk a lot about truth to power, but I think it’s actually a lot harder to speak truth to pain. I say that as someone who went to medical school, realizing that in a lot of our politics right now, we’ve got to get a lot better at speaking truth to pain if we’re going to get through some of these challenges that we have.

What does “truth to pain” mean?

It’s one thing to look power in the eye and say: You’re wrong about this. But there’s a way in which pain is very difficult to reason with. Because when somebody is in their pain, they’re in their trauma. They see that pain, and they may not see what’s causing it.

I remember just very explicitly being in a trauma ward with a gunshot wound patient and watching this big guy with his hand on his gunshot wound. All the folks are trying to pull his hand off his pain, that point of his gunshot wound, this clear vulnerability.

And this emergency room doctor had the presence of mind to be like: Everyone, stop. And she looks him in the eyes, and she’s like: I get that really hurts, and I’m so sorry that you’re here. You don’t want to be here. We don’t want you to be here. But if you don’t let us fix this, you could die. So I’m going to take your hand, and I’m going to move it off, OK? Because I need to get there so that you can live.

She was speaking truth to pain. He understands he’s at the hospital, he needs care, but he also doesn’t want anybody to touch the wound. Which is a natural thing. And I think it is a really great metaphor for how we think about a lot of these challenges we talked about today.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
*looks out the window* It's wet outside
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I could probably get through Dawson's Creek more quickly if I didn't insist on watching the opening every single episode
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I actually slept at my parents house now that I'm sleeping in the guest room. Being able to control the thermostat is a massive game changer
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
What's in my backpack, you ask? *proceeds to pull out three salads, a sandwich, carton of soup, and a bag of apples*
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I've had four friends get hit by cars this year. FOUR. Cars and irresponsible drivers are the fucking problem!!!!
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I am once again forced to read through another Jung book very quickly before it is due back at the library
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I bought the blazer 😈
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Despite getting shitty news last night that left me in a weird funk today, looking out at this beautiful sky has been restorative
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I think I'm gonna go back to warehouse open hours tomorrow because I can't stop thinking about a houndstooth Barena Venezia blazer I tried on
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hannah 💫 comms open @hannahelatham.bsky.social · 28/11/2023
A Blossoming Friendship print: www.inprnt.com/gallery/oexa... join my patreon for an extra 10% off, early access, HD versions and tons more!
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Muppet Pictures @muppetpictures.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Flights booked for Japan 💅🏽
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Eileen Kai Hing Kwan 🦇 MCM London @whereiseileen.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Devilman Crybaby 🖤🪽 Still love this piece after so many years 🤍
My illustration of Devilman Crybaby. Akira/Devilman breaking powerfully through a thick cloak of smoke, his devil wings spread out and his clawed hands palms-up as he is met with Ryo/Satan gently descending toward him with their eight angel wings and intimately cupping his face in one hand. Their faces are close and staring into each other’s eyes, as if in love, a tear rolls down Devilman’s face to his belly with Satan’s other hand trailing down towards it.
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sweetie π @sixfeetofcandy.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
i saved thousands on my car insurance by returning to the sea
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Prisonculture @prisonculture.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
It's my experience that the men who work directly with younger men in mentorship and other programs aren't online talking about it. They just do it. The ones constantly talking about the 'crisis of young men' online aren't doing anything. Thank you for your attention to this matter.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I've had a very long two days and forgot I have Japanese class tomorrow (I thought it was Thursday) so now I must rally do my homework
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
My friend and I went apple picking in the rain today and were the only two people in the orchard. Happy first day of fall!
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Dragging myself out of the apartment to pick up wine for the plum compote I'm making today
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Playing Fortune's Weave makes time cease to exist. Like, what do you mean four hours passed by? I've barely done anything!!!
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liz pelly @lizpelly.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I know it's a cliche at this point to say but music bloggers were truly the canary in the coal mine for having their work ingested into ai systems that replaced them when echo nest used the whole music blogosphere to create data sets for streaming service rec systems. BuT iT's JuSt MuSiC
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I finally watched Sing Sing the other night and cannot stop thinking about how beautiful it was. I cried a lot throughout the film. Colman Domingo was robbed of his Oscar 😭
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Hoping I didn't wait too long to finally make plum compote with the plums I got from my CSA
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William Gillis 🏴 @rechelon.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Reminder that the primary reason the US does not have singlepayer is Nixon's administration was filled with faith healer Christian Scientists ideologically opposed to medicine who explicitly designed our current system to minimize the amount of people able to go to the doctor. It's on the tapes!
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Chris Kluwe @chriswarcraft.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
If only we had historical records from the most prosperous period in American history when the ultra rich were taxed at 90%+ rates. Alas.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
"Jumbo" by Underworld has a similar dreamy quality for long walks like Orbital's "Halcyon and On and On"
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Matt Emmons @secondatbest.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
The Knight’s Repose, this month’s entry in the riso print club. I’ve been wanted to draw some medieval marginalia for a while now, especially snail-related
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Idk how the contractors doing a renovation on the unit above me knows exactly where I am in my apartment at any given time, because they sure love hammering directly above my head.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 16/09/2026
Mike Johnson cancels votes on Thursday, meaning House members will avoid voting on impeaching Pete Hegseth
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House speaker sending lawmakers home early ahead of US midterm election recess
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John Rain🥇 @johnrain.co.uk · 15/09/2026
Ed Sheeran's tour bus.
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Phil Lewis @phillewis.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Rapper Macklemore has been dropped from Ed Sheeran’s tour after he made a “Free Palestine” speech on stage earlier this month
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Macklemore Dropped From Ed Sheeran's Tour After 'Free Palestine' Speech
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Phil Lewis @phillewis.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Bob Mackie, designer to the stars who dressed Cher and Madonna, and defined '70s glamour, has died at 87
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Bob Mackie, Designer To The Stars Who Dressed Cher And Madonna And Defined '70s Glamour, Dies At 87
When Marilyn Monroe delivered a seductive take on “Happy Birthday” to President John F. Kennedy, she did it in a gown that Mackie dreamed up.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Bob Mackie 😭
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The Slow Music Movement @theslowmusicmovement.org · 13/09/2026
A must-read article laying bare the struggles of being an indie artist in today' music industry. It lays out very clearly how the industry has changed, now operates & how AI is compounding the difficulties for the little (wo)men: futurefilter.substack.com/p/the-death-of-leverage-how-artists
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How Artists and Fans Became Powerless
Scale has become the new currency of the music industry
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
I banged my elbow so hard into my couch's armrest that it immediately bruised. It's been two hours and it hurts to make specific motions 😬
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Britt Julious @britticisms.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
My free event, “Vulnerability as Legacy,” takes place tomorrow at UChicago’s Green Line Performing Arts Center. It’s a listening session! It’s a panel! It’s a dance party! And we’ll be discussing how vulnerability in music secures artistic legacy. RSVP: artsandpubliclife.org/apl-events-c...
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Vulnerability as Legacy — Arts + Public Life
Explore how vulnerability in songwriting creates lasting artistic legacy.
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Faith @faithschaffer.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Happy #swordtember⚔️
Ink drawing- a woman sits in a tree with a sword on her hip. She is eating an apple from the tree. There's a face in the tree!! Woah!
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A.J. Wilden🏳️‍⚧️ @wcwit.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
"They're not misunderstanding the film; they're co-opting a message"
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Marlow Stern (the interviewer):  You have one of the most renowned replies in Twitter history. Elon Musk tweeted out, “Take the red pill,” then Ivanka Trump enthusiastically wrote, “Taken!” to him, and then you replied, “Fuck both of you.” I’m curious how you feel about the co-opting of “The Matrix” by those on the right who don’t really seem to understand its messaging.

Lilly Wachowski: I mean, I can’t sit in a room and explain the movie to every single person who watches it. Even if I did sit in a room with Elon Musk and Ivanka Trump — yikes — it doesn’t matter. They’re not misunderstanding the film; they’re co-opting a message. And that’s what fascists do: They co-opt the messages of progressives and use it to their benefit to confuse and obfuscate what is going on and the intention of their ideology. They do it with everything. They do it with Martin Luther King Jr. Look at how they’ve changed the idea of what antisemitism is.
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Rupa Jogani @rjogani.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
A friend is coming over tonight to hang out so this is a good opportunity for me to make Sohla's apple cake recipe
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Ed Burmila @edburmila.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
The political and cultural response to 9/11 was to briefly mouth some "Islam is not to blame" platitudes and then declare total war on Muslim people and the Muslim world and we're entering the 25th year of it with no end in sight.
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Puff the Magic Hater @mskellymhayes.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Two things it’s hard to convey if you weren’t alive back then: the extremity of hysteria, nationalism and Islamophobia the attack prompted, and how efforts to capture this can inadvertently obscure how Islamophobic things already were.
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Manisha Krishnan @manishakrishnan.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
This is exactly the type of story I dreamed of when we hired @milesklee.bsky.social. A profile of one of the few lifetime Olive Garden Pasta Pass holders in the world, who has created a dashboard of all his meals and is letting fans vote on his next dish: www.wired.com/story/this-m...
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This Man Has a Cult Internet Following Over His Olive Garden Lifetime Pasta Pass
Braden Sinclair is one of just 50 people in the world who can have unlimited pasta at the chain for life. Now, fans are deciding what he should eat next.
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Imani Gandy @angryblacklady.blacksky.app · 10/09/2026
It's always a good time to share this.
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