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@dilemmatic.bsky.social
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radical constructivist, advanced dog petter, anti-authoritarian, anti-capitalist, nerd, ESL (italian). I post about psychology, philosophy, music, anime and games. [he/him]

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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
My therapist said I need to choose the people in my life. So I ghosted her. After 8 years.
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Feena van @feenavan2099.bsky.social · 07/06/2026
EQUAL RIGHTS FOR OTHERS DOES NOT MEAN FEWER RIGHTS FOR YOU
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Natalie H. "The Cool Natalie" Ironside @natalieironside.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
It's fascinating (and infuriating) to live in an age where almost everyone I know is languishing in Dickensian poverty but social media is slap full of professional computer-touchers who've never known hunger insisting that the economy is fine because their metrics say rich people are rich.
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Ozma @rowyourbot.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
It’s not modeled after the brain. This is a fiction. What happened is that some scientists use computation models FOR the brain. Now they can say ‘look it’s thinking.’ But this is a model so that is a confusion. A ‘pump’ is used as a model for the heart. But a pump is not modeled ON the heart.
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RT @ryankturnbull.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
Finally, a clear repudiation of the brain-dead “it’s just a tool” argument that gets floated cynically about every new technology:
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
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Chronic Illness Humor @chronicillness.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
A sewn diagram

wake up and either do something or do nothing 

if you do something --> Fail --> Hate yourself --> Go to bed

if you do nothing --> feel guilty --> hate yourself --> go to bed

then ---------------> back to wake up
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
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Punished Mace @colophon.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
Actually, fun fact, if you try and fight any battle, you will lose. That's why it's important to kick your own ass before your opponent gets there so that when he inevitably kicks your ass... Wait, wait, I had something for this. Ok... 1. My ass gets kicked 2. He shows up, kicks my ass... hm...
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contains 3 sets of human teeth @iona.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
wild how many people seem to view parenting as a primarily adversarial relationship with their kid.
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Inspirational Skeletor @skeletorinspires.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
Nothing is normal and no one is okay. You're doing great. Says Skeletor clearly losing it.
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Ajediday @ajediday.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
Sunday
Cat lounging next to a 'No Cats' sign on a lawn with text saying "BECOME UNGOVERNABLE."
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Alice Averlong 🏳️‍⚧️ @alice.averlong.com · 13/04/2026
Also please ignore when I said that once someone has a billion dollars they should no longer count as a human but a dragon, and if someone slays them it's not a crime but a reason to have a big feast, the hand of a beautiful maiden in marriage, and for songs to be written about their heroic act.
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K.J. Elphinstone @neurofabulous.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
Are autistic people ‘just making it up’? In a recent podcast conversation, I was asked a question that carried a striking implication: What if increasing numbers of people identifying as autistic are just not coping? 🧵 1/11 #Autism #Neurodivergent #ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
effective altruism
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Kashana @kashana.blacksky.app · 07/04/2026
Armageddon is terrible, but our only other option was diversity trainings at work.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
You are wrong too, there are other countries that elected accused pedophiles.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Posting on social media is just screaming into the void.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
The millennial drive to post song lyrics without any commentary.
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Ann Memmott @annmemmott.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Dear leader of the US, no, you can't just pull out of NATO by deciding it yourself, as you are not actually the ruling King of the US. And, no, Europe doesn't have to do whatever you say and follow you into any horrifying situation, no matter what the damage to us. That's not what Article 5 means.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
I miss when you'd open the internet on April 1st and find April Fools jokes everywhere. Now it feels like barely anyone bothers.
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Quest 64 Official @quest64official.bsky.social · 30/03/2026
Dracula says to Brian 
"I dropped my phone in McDonald's Sprite and that MF started charging"
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
Can I ask about what's the problem with the methodology of 2)? I'm too curious and I can't check myself right now
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
Wouldn't be impossible, since FFT's writing is full of similar quotes.
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Aidan McGlynn @aidanmcglynn.bsky.social · 28/11/2024
I would simply defeat the bear in the marketplace of ideas
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
It's not doomscrolling if I do it on bluesky. Right?
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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 25/03/2026
Sisyphus but every day he unsubscribes from marketing and promotion emails.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
I heard somewhere that having the enemies taller than the player is a design choice by FROM because that makes their attacks more readable. Idk if it's true.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 24/03/2026
I don't understand your position, business school majors are very useful if you need meaningless charts that predict the market with 0% accuracy and that, somehow, end up influencing our politicians decision.
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Existential Comics @existentialcomics.com · 24/03/2026
Kids these days are so lazy. They just do everything with apps. Order food with apps. Socialize with apps. Find girlfriend with apps. Back in my day you had to boot up your whole computer and log into a website to do that stuff.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 24/03/2026
Sometimes I feel so alone I open my LinkedIn account to see if a bot sent me a message.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 24/03/2026
Idk if you want spoilers or not, so I don't want to say too much, but yes, we could say that Shura ending makes a lot of people sad. I believe Sekiro is a masterpiece, and if you are enjoying it as much as I think you do, I invite you to experience the full game and at least try the boss fight.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
Revenge on Genichiro feels really good. How's your NG+ run so far?
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
I'm sorry, I'm just a bit overwhelmed too and sharing to others makes me hard to express what I mean in a clear way. Yes, probably if I take the assesment I'll end up thinking I fouled the expert.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 23/03/2026
Ex-forever DM here, unfortunately experiencing a years-long RPG burnout.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
I have been following your struggle with Isshin ever since you started writing about it. Congratulations. know that from now on this fight will remain written in your mind, and if you face it again it will take you far fewer attempts. I speak from experience.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
My problem is with self-diagnosis. I don't think it's invalid, on the contrary, I'm happy for those who got something from it. On the other hand, I am someone who feels uncomfortable in accepting labels, I dislike risking to be reduced to them. Tbh, I know it's a problem.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
I work as a psychologist and I hava a collegue who works with autistic adults that takes for granted that if I were to start the assessment process I would certainly come out with a diagnosis. Even I work with the autistic population, and it's clear to me I have neurodivergent traits.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
I tried the online versions of the CAT-Q, RAADS-R and AQ adapted for my first language. The only one of the three that came back negative was the AQ, but I scored 31 when the threshold is 32, so I imagine I have good reasons to have some doubts about it.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Thank you again for you time. I still have to read all the resources you sent me, but in the meantime I can say that:
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Thank you for your answer. How do you jump to 4 in your opinion?
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
I'm in phase 3, is phase 4 inhevitable?
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
Is this an alt-right rant written in 2016?
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
Great thread. Today I feel nostalgic for the old internet.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
A good game review can't come out until months AFTER launch. How can I take seriously a review of someone who is in a rush? What if the game has an issue you can discover only when you are 30+ hours in?
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
God, I miss the old net so much.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
Good article, but I think we're missing a piece. Part of the issue for me it's the absence of alternatives. When a child needs a device to stay in touch with a friend, removing the device creates isolation. We can't just set time limits for screentime without designing offline social opportunities.
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fandr @dilemmatic.bsky.social · 19/03/2026
I developed FOJI around the mid to late 10s, probably because the algorithm completely gutted my reach on Facebook, making me invisible for my friends. On top of that, I'm rarely one who speaks his mind, and that's a problem. Let's try changing that.
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