Alexandra IDV ✨💙
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Alexandra Michelle・she/her・digital 3D/2D artist・freelance writer・indie gamedev・trans woman・bi・polyamorous・neurodivergent
Alexandra Michelle・she/her・digital 3D/2D artist・freelance writer・indie gamedev・trans woman・bi・polyamorous・neurodivergent
![demilypyro
Reminder that the "normal" cisgender male amount to fantasize about being a woman is never.
demilypyro
[screenshot of reblog tags: #👀 #*sweats nervously*]
Y'know. I was so totally convinced that all men were jealous of women, like I was... I saw being a man as a horrible burden. An obligation I was stuck with. And on a subconscious level, the scariest thought in my mind was growing old as a man, living my whole life fulfilling my patriarchal obligations, and never once living for my own happiness.
I was so jealous of trans women, too! They knew in their hearts they were women, so they didn't have to be men. They knew they had other options... Not like me... But now I know that it's something you choose. You never get it handed to you, like some kind of permission to be a woman. You just decide you want it, and then you are one.
So if you're reading this, and you relate to this at all... You know you don't *have* to be a man, right?... There are other options open to you...
You're not obligated to be a man if you don't like it.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:fn7gmsrozrf54vvm2ivgkqbb/bafkreidqp7ryv7zq25jev6rh2625c4ma33piowzghjjvimimfebcx5smoa)
