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Vagabond Bones

@vagabondbones.bsky.social
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they/he ✨ neurodivergent, queer, disabled, immunocompromised, ethnic minority, converting to Judaism, spoonie 🥄 27yo mess 🧠 doing a Masters in Bioinformatics 💻⚕️

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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
If it’s designed to only be used by ppl in wheelchairs and, say, a cane user can’t use it, it’s not accessible!! I hate those lifts bc they’re specifically NOT designed to be stood on, so I can’t use them despite my reduced mobility, so no, it’s not accessible 🙄
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
I recently moved away from Canada and I honestly don’t understand why people don’t automatically apologize when they bump into each other. Why bring negative energy into it? Apologize - whether it’s your fault or not - and move on. It’s sooo tiny and insignificant!
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
I know we’ve all heard the “Germans are autistic joke”; with that in mind My (ADHD) mom spent yrs of her childhood in Germany. She also spent a few yrs there as an exchange student. Then she married an autistic man and had two very AuDHD children. She REFUSES to believe any of us are neurospicy 🫠
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
Accommodating myself is so much of “yeah, well, doing it *this* way is fine and causes you less pain/distress, so do it this way, it’s okay” And that’s frustrating af
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Ever since realizing that my father has undiagnosed ASD, it’s been increasingly funny to me to watch how much of the personality clash between my parents is really just ASD vs ADHD brain
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
Such a big part of being #trans masc is building your own understanding of masculinity & dismantling toxic masculinity in the process Like, no, men CAN wear skirts and so I, a man, can wear a skirt Or, men DON’T have to like beer, and it’s fine if I don’t Etc ad nauseum
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
One week without ADHD meds and I don’t have the attention span to do… most anything, really. I also have so many thoughts in my head that I felt I needed to return to Bluesky. Hiiii~ 🫠
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BrooklynDad_Defiant! @mmpadellan.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
Folks, this one is PERSONAL to me. Elon Musk said that "Homeless" is a lie. Since I was actually once homeless myself, I know it's not a lie. This Substack article is totally FREE. Please read, share, and subscribe. 🙏💪 brooklyndaddefiant.substack.com/p/homeless-i...
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'Homeless' is NOT a Lie
Take it from a guy who has been there and back
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Dr. Damien P. Williams, dread portent down from a mountain cave @wolven.blacksky.app · 25/04/2024
"Poverty can produce the most deadly kind of violence in this society; violence against poor people and minority groups is routine. I remind you that starving a child is violence. Suppressing a culture is violence. Neglecting school children is violence. Punishing a mother and her child is violence…
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 16/04/2024
Doing my t shot after missing it for weeks (oooops), here are some observations. Mainly to remind myself, but also one more story into the void for anyone wondering what being on t is like. 🧵
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 15/04/2024
My biggest HRT problem is forgetting to take it 😭😭😭
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 12/04/2024
Dealing trauma be like: Am I holding onto this job out of fear of change? Or am I considering changing jobs just bc I’m in flight mode? Am I questioning myself too much? My body is so exhausted and in pain, how do I listen to it??
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 11/04/2024
Mêmes nouvelles au Québec, où notre premier ministre provincial ne croit pas que le racisme systémique existe 🙃
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 11/04/2024
HRT was SO liberating. I was, I am in control. Yes, aspects of this second adolescence *suck*, but every week, I get to CHOOSE to continue. First adolescence was so traumatizing, and part of it was the fact that it was happening to me with no way for me to stop it.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 11/04/2024
And like, it should be 💯 doctor-supervised, but not doctor-restricted If you’re able to understand the consequences and drawbacks, and you want to continue nonetheless? You should be able to (Which btw is true for SO MANY meds)
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 11/04/2024
I THINK my manipulative, ruined-my-life ex is on the bus two seats away and,,, It just so happens I’m coming from a trauma therapy group This is NOT within my window of tolerance, help 😭
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 08/04/2024
I was in my first semester of uni during the last solar eclipse, in 2017 Today, I was sitting with a bunch of people from my minor to watch the eclipse And they were saying how they were 13-14 in 2017 What is time even
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Dawn Can't Feed Cats @daybreakstations.bsky.social · 02/04/2024
PLEASE READ LINKS IN BIO AND WILL BE LINKED BELOW #HelpSky #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #cats #rent #RentHelp #StrikingWorker #KeepDawnHoused
Alright here's what's new and why I need YOUR help. 
For the past 7 months I've been living with a really shitty person. He's been lying, stealing, and being really petty about stupid things. 
Yesterday he emailed the property manager saying he was going to be breaking the lease and getting out by the end of the month. That's the good news.In addition to that I am trying to start a new job while on strike with my current job and returning to school. Because I am disabled I really need help financially for the upcoming month, I have an internet bill at 120 and rent is 2950 which I will have to cover on my own without new roommates lined up. The PM has offered a grace period because he understands the situation is unfair to me but I would prefer to start my new living situation on time.I also need to feed my cats and get them new litter by the end of the month, that usually runs me around 70 dollars.
If you can help by boosting this, sharing it, or if you know someone in the Bay Area willing to meet with me and potentially rent one of the two rooms available that would be amazing. 
My discord is dawnofdaybreak and my messages are open.But what I really need is to know I won't have to move out. Financial donations via cashapp are best ($daybreakstations) as there's no fees but there's also venmo and kofi @/ daybreakstations (they are business accounts so they take fees)
Please help how you can afford to, even if that's checking on this post and pinging me with good luck or like casting a spell, saying a prayer, anything.
That's all for now and I will keep you posted. Thanks again.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 01/04/2024
Be compassionate with my living expenses and raise my salary ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 01/04/2024
You’re trans enough, okay? “Trans” isn’t about “transitioning”, it’s not about a travel from One Gender to Another. Trans just means that you didn’t let the length of your cl!t/ph@llus at birth determine how you Feel, Present, how you Are.
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Anonsee Storyweaver 🕸️ @anons.ee · 31/03/2024
🏳️‍⚧️ This trans day of visibility, add some ⚧️melanin⚧️ to your feeds. Below this post is a (lazily and non-comprehensive) list of trans BIPOC accounts. Follow them and share this post. Add yourself too if you both!! Don’t start drama or I’m shootin you. ~ I’ve been out as trans for 5 years, on HRT 3.
Anonsee trying on a friend’s dress for the first time post-“most abusive relationship” in 2019.Anonsee in 2024 wearing a crop top that reads “knife wife” and green jeans.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 26/03/2024
I push against “femme” definitions being applied to me because of my desire to be recognized within my gender identity and not within the limits of my AGAB. But there is so much “femme” within my gender identity and experience. I think I often lose its golden thread and that’s quite sad
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Anthony Moser @anthonymoser.com · 18/03/2024
Predictive text models do not ever "answer your question" They predict what an answer to your question would probably look like. Which is very, very, very different
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 18/03/2024
I have a joke about arthritis but my hands can’t handle the typing right now…
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 18/03/2024
“The stories I’ve told here and elsewhere will be used against me eventually. It’s not a matter of “if” but “when”.” I’ve been thinking about this line, and quite a few others, from this article for two weeks now…
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Ebony Elizabeth Thomas @ebonyteach.blacksky.app · 12/03/2024
A dear professional friend contracted walking pneumonia a few weeks ago. So much is going around in addition to Covid. And so many are just lolshrugging it all away. In some ways, it's worse than pre-2020. Because it all feels so willful.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 09/03/2024
I can’t do it anymore. I hate being misunderstood. I hate it. I hate being seen as manipulative. I hate it. I don’t know what’s going on.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 04/03/2024
I’m obsessively counting the pills I have left of the sample of my new med. idk what happens in 11 days when I have none left. I’m scared of my flare ups. I have little trust in the insurance. Everything feels big & scary. I also have two midterms w/in this time. +things at work have been explosive…
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 04/03/2024
Handing masks to patients who come in with coughing/pneumonia/bronchitis, etc. like “Please don’t kill me 🥺”
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Burrow erupted feral from the woods $30/200 @burrow.northsky.social · 04/03/2024
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Anonsee Storyweaver 🕸️ @anons.ee · 04/03/2024
I want to tell y’all a story. This aint fun, aint easy, but it’s mine. But it’s not just mine. I’ve heard it so many fucking times from other Black folks, from other transfemmes, whispered behind doors because they’re scared it’ll happen again. We deserve to tell our stories.
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Position of Guilt: Black Hot Allostatic Load – Anons.ee
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 03/03/2024
I want to email a company about a summer #internship in #tech, even though they haven’t posted an opening… they’re doing tech for pharmacy and I think I would be a perfect fit given I’ve been working as a pharmacy assistant for 2.5 years… any #advice?
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 03/03/2024
I did laundry today. Despite the 2 machines in the building being broken, I convinced myself & brought my laundry to the laundromat. And then I put it away. I also gathered a few bags of trash. And cleaned the bathtub. And it feels like I still somehow… failed. Trying to cheer myself on. It’s hard.
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Dex Anderson @dexanderson.com · 27/02/2024
How much you wanna bet that assessments of behavior are based on neurotypicals? Cause as a person with (probably) AuDHD, I fidget, I don't make eye contact, I draw in the margins, and I generally *look* like I'm not paying attention when I'm actually listening very closely.
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Rua M. Williams @fractalecho.bsky.social · 27/02/2024
Fucking yikes. No. Nonononono
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 27/02/2024
Today a patient who is an MD handed me a prescription for their treatment-resistant pneumonia without wearing a mask. Without. Wearing. A mask.
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Bad Medical Takes @badmedicaltakes.bsky.social · 25/02/2024
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 23/02/2024
Turns out a coworker was bitching about me at work WHILE texting and calling me acting super friendly. I don’t understand it. Like, I think my autistic mind literally has trouble comprehending how and why someone would do that. I get being pleasant with me at work, but reaching out outside???
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 23/02/2024
bites as a sign of affection picrew.me/share?cd=riT...
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hello! this is my first picrew so see it as a work in progress more than a finished one. thank you for using it! ★ for personal use and non-commercial use only! check out my socials (and let me know...
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Christophe Veltsos @drinfosec.bsky.social · 22/02/2024
Important 🧵 from Drs. @erictopol.bsky.social & @zalaly on their most recent LongCovid paper: Solving the puzzle of #LongCovid threadreaderapp.com/thread/17607... #Covid #LongCovid #MultisystemicDisease
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@zalaly: 📣 New in @ScienceMagazine I teamed up with @EricTopol to write this #SciencePerspective on Long Covid Solving the puzzle of #LongCovid A long 🧵 science.org/doi/10.1126/sc… First, what is Long...
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Sexuality at the Chronic Illness Store @morgan666.bsky.social · 23/02/2024
This is even more crucial with the makings of major measles outbreaks brewing alongside the ongoing COVID pandemic and the intensified respiratory illness pressure. Measles fucks up your lungs and immune system too. #MaskUp #NEISvoid #FilterTheAir
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 22/02/2024
I am trying to get the pdf of the research article, but in the meantime, let me tell you why this is absolutely groundbreaking with my personal story. When my GP referred me to a rheumatologist, I knew that whatever autoimmune condition I have, it’s for life. Autoimmune conditions have no cure. 1/🧵
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Loish @loish.bsky.social · 22/02/2024
hello bluesky! it's been a while! here's my latest painting featuring nondescript mysterious blobs ~
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Carli Boo-locci 👻 @carlivelocci.com · 22/02/2024
So... if you ever wrote anything for Vice, today might be a good day to start saving those PDFs
A tweet from @janusrose that says: "VICE has shut off our ability to download our emails after we received an anonymous tip that they’re going to be deleting our entire website today. 

fun times in the media death spiral!!! will update once i know whether or not we’re all fired"
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Randall Munroe @xkcd.com · 22/02/2024
I recently made a comic complaining that NASA refuses to listen to my good ideas for improving the Solar System (xkcd.com/2750). To my delight, NASA’s Science Mission Directorate has sent me an actual expert panel evaluation of my “flatten the planets” proposal! Sadly, they decided not to fund it.
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Vagabond Bones @vagabondbones.bsky.social · 22/02/2024
TW: r*pe, SA, sexual harassment Adding my own experiences for whatever it’s worth… I was first sexually harassed as part of my “bullying package” around/during ages 9-10. My first seggsual relationship was when I was 15. I had vaginismus, but ofc I didn’t know what it was.
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Mike Fragassi @refrag.bsky.social · 15/02/2024
! "in a lab setting can stop autoimmune reactions which attack a person’s healthy tissues, as seen in diseases multiple sclerosis, type I diabetes, or rheumatoid arthritis". "The new “inverse vaccine” does just the opposite [of a vaccine]: it removes the immune system’s memory of one molecule."
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