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Tom Farsides

@tomfarsides.bsky.social
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Internet waif. Employed as a social psychologist at the Univeristy of Sussex but my interest in people caring about and trying to help others takes me far beyond the boundaries suggested by my job title.

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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A short You Tube video on how to cope with others' apparent distress: youtu.be/pC82rmozANQ. From Greg Depow (@gregdepow.bsky.social) and cited in his paper journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/...
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Wise Empathy: Responding to Negative Emotions Online
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
A short You Tube video on how to take pleasure from others' apparent happiness: www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_9S.... From Greg Depow (@gregdepow.bsky.social) andcited in his paper journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/...
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Wise Empathy: Responding to Positive Emotions Online
YouTube video by Greg Depow
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Greg Depow @gregdepow.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
My paper with @chrisoveis.bsky.social, Emily Zohar, and @minzlicht.bsky.social about regulating empathy on social media is now out in SM+S doi.org/10.1177/2056.... We show that training individuals to 'share not compare' for + emotions and 'care not share' for - emotions improves their well-being.
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Wise Empathy Improves Well-Being on Instagram - Gregory John Depow, Christopher Oveis, Emily Zohar, Michael Inzlicht, 2026
Two-thirds of the global population spends significant time browsing social media, making it critical to understand how to improve online experiences to support...
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Huge replication finds no evidence of a(nother) ‘foundational’ finding onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/...
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Ryan @ryanwright.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
This is how I remember the order of Henry VIII’s wives.
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TW @twesq.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
this is fantastic and I learned something new
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Kevin Mitchell @wiringthebrain.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
"Consciousness Needs a Subject" - commentary with @cdj.bsky.social on target article by @anilseth.bsky.social. Now published, along with all (50!) commentaries and Anil's responses! 😊 cup.org/4h0wRmg
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Consciousness needs a subject | Behavioral and Brain Sciences | Cambridge Core
Consciousness needs a subject - Volume 49
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another morgan @mheslin.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
imagining a grizzled hardboiled detective saying this while gripping some guy's lapels at a shady bar
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Neil @nudgecloud.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
It is a great piece of writing. Alt-text added
My husband plays the trumpet, which is a sort of loud pretzel originally invented to blow down the walls of fucking Jericho and, later, to let Civil War soldiers know it was time to kill each other in a river while you chilled eating pigeon in your officer's tent twenty miles away, yet some-how, in modern times, it has become socially acceptable to toot the bad cone inside your house before 10:00 a.m. because it's "your job" and your wife should "get up." What a world! If one was feeling uncharitable, one might describe the trumpet as a machine where you put in com-pressed air and divorce comes out, but despite this-despite operating a piece of biblical demolition equipment inside the home every bright, cold morning of his wife's one and only life-the trumpet is not the most annoying thing about my husband.
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Dr Panti Bliss-Cabrera @pantibliss.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
Phew "not satanic"
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
Word of the Day: altruistic www.nytimes.com/2026/05/19/l... “I can think of no other edifice constructed by man as altruistic as a lighthouse,” George Bernard Shaw once wrote. “They were built only to serve.”
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Word of the Day: altruistic
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Nicole Rust @handle.invalid · 18/05/2026
My new @thetransmitter.bsky.social piece. Does Claude AI have emotions? *No*. Does Claude have nontrivial emotion-equivalents? *Yes*. Like your "memory" vs your laptop's; similar but not the same. Here, I unpack why that's interesting. www.thetransmitter.org/emotion/what...
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What can AI teach us about ‘emotions’?
Exploring why Anthropic’s AI, Claude, displays something like emotion could ultimately help us better understand the function that emotions serve in humans.
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 09/05/2026
I love everything about this, except how much it is needed www.theguardian.com/gnm-press-of...
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The Whole Picture: iconic Points of View advert reinvented for the Guardian’s global brand campaign
The Guardian today (Tuesday 5 May) brought its global brand campaign The Whole Picture to the UK, by launching a reinvention of its iconic Points of View advert
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
www.theguardian.com/world/2026/m...
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French professor accused of ‘gigantic hoax’ after inventing Nobel-style prize
Authorities investigate Florent Montaclair over award given to himself and others including Noam Chomsky
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
www.theguardian.com/artanddesign...
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Read a book, flip off a Nazi: when reading meant resistance – in pictures
A new exhibition showcases posters encouraging the public to donate and help supply soldiers with reading material
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
The perils of inferring (especially multiple) motives from actions or outputs in restricted situations, #n+1. Smith et al. (2026). The “I” in egalitarianism: Hadza hunter-gatherers averse to inequality primarily when personally unfavorable. PNAS nexus, 5(2), pgaf328. doi.org/10.1093/pnas...
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The “I” in egalitarianism: Hadza hunter-gatherers averse to inequality primarily when personally unfavorable
Abstract. Many economists contend that humans have strong, universal, other-regarding equality preferences with deep evolutionary roots. Indeed, many hunte
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
Paraphrasing Mae West, "Neither goodness nor God had anything to do with it"
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
I hate league tables but... Reranking The World’s Billionaires By Wealth – And [Their Movement Of Money To The Accounts Of Organisations Identified As Charities] www.forbes.com/sites/mattdu...
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Reranking The World’s Billionaires By Wealth – And Altruism
Forbes recalculated the wealth of the richest billionaires to add back in what they gave to charity. Here’s who moves up the ranks.
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Otto English @ottoenglish.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
Mail is running a poll on whether the UK should rejoin the EU. Takes seconds to vote and it's going hilariously well... www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article...
Yes is winning on 58%
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
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Wild chimpanzees recorded waging ‘civil war’ with coordinated attacks between two groups
New study describes what may be the first case of a unified community of chimps turning on itself
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
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cait (and adonis) @cait.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
in 2016 a group of strangers in Kazakhstan saved a dog from drowning by forming a human chain to reach him. they just unveiled a statue commemorating the event and I'm genuinely about to start sobbing
photo showing the rescuers saving the dog, next to the statue commemorating themcloseup on the base of the statue, showing a dog and a man in a ball cap the top of the statue, where the person at the top of the slope has his hand outstretched so the viewer can "help" pull him up
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Deniz Vatansever @neurodenizen.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
New from our @cognizelab.bsky.social in Advanced Science: Beneath the Big Five, personality consistently organises into two dimensions, each with distinct brain signatures. Amazing work by postdoc @kaixiangzhuang.bsky.social and thanks to all our collaborators! doi.org/10.1002/advs...
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Blythe Terrell @blytheterrell.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
OK, I'm obsessed with this study in @science.org It took Reddit "Am I The Asshole" posts & asked LLMs if the poster was the asshole. Aaand (surprise) AI was more likely to tell people they were NOT the asshole ... even when humans said yeah YTA 🧪 www.science.org/doi/10.1126/...
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Sycophantic AI decreases prosocial intentions and promotes dependence
Despite rising concerns about sycophancy—excessive agreement or flattery from artificial intelligence (AI) systems—little is known about its prevalence or consequences. We show that sycophancy is wide...
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Nicole Rust @handle.invalid · 27/03/2026
(And here's a terrific piece of art I was unaware of: 16 faces expressing the human passions, J. Pass, 1821). wellcomecollection.org/works/a4yen3...
16 facial expressions
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Nicole Rust @handle.invalid · 07/01/2026
Excellent Mindscape episode with @neddo.bsky.social and @seanmcarroll.bsky.social - recommended! With a bonus reminder of this must-read scifi story by Terry Bisson "They're made of meat". users.manchester.edu/Facstaff/SSN...
“They actually do talk, then. They use words, ideas, concepts?”

”Oh, yes. Except they do it with meat.”
“I thought you just told me they used radio.”
“They do, but what do you think is on the radio? Meat sounds. You know how when you slap or flap meat, it makes a noise? They talk by flapping their meat at each other. They can even sing by squirting air through their meat.”
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 05/01/2026
Horney (1950) discussed 'the tyranny of the shoulds'. Ellis (1977) talked about 'musturbatory thinking'. I am amazed that no one seems to have used the term 'petty ought-o-crats'!
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Eiko Fried @eikofried.bsky.social · 05/01/2026
Would love to hear expert views on this paper. It appears to show that the operationalization of brain activity the field has relied on for 3 decades—the BOLD response—is not actually a sensible measure of brain activity. www.nature.com/articles/s41...
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BOLD signal changes can oppose oxygen metabolism across the human cortex - Nature Neuroscience
Using quantitative brain imaging, the authors show opposite fMRI BOLD signal to metabolic activity due to variable oxygen extraction across the human cortex. This questions the canonical interpretatio...
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 12/12/2025
"AI can ... mimick" Oliveira et al (2025). Culturally-attuned AI: Implicit learning of altruistic cultural values through inverse reinforcement learning. PLoS One, 20(12), e0337914. doi.org/10.1371/jour... Press release: www.washington.edu/news/2025/12...
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AI can pick up cultural values by mimicking how kids learn
A new University of Washington study suggests that AI could learn cultural values by observing human behavior, similar to how children learn by watching and interacting with adults. Researchers had AI...
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Micah G. Allen @micahgallen.com · 10/12/2025
A jar of pickle beetroot: 2/10 wobble dobble 4/10 jimmy jam My inner cynic says this has about as much construct validity as the average psychological rating scale…
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Scientific American @sciam.bsky.social · 13/11/2025
A surprising diversity of dog shapes and sizes evolved long before the Victorians began making modern breeds
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Dog Skull Analysis Rewrites Evolution of Humanity's Best Friend
A surprising diversity of dog shapes and sizes evolved long before the Victorians began making modern breeds
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
"In 1923, Franz Kafka encountered a distraught little girl who had lost her doll and was inconsolable. Kafka told her the doll wasn't lost but traveling the world having grand adventures! To reassure her, Kafka began delivering letters from the doll ..." www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvNZ...
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KAFKA AND THE DOLL | Read Along Story Time |
YouTube video by Audiobook Story Time for Children with Viola
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
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Two years after 7 October and the kidnap of my parents, hate is in fashion. For all our sakes, we need compassion | Sharone Lifschitz
So many were killed – yet on her release, my mother said ‘shalom’ to her captors. Let’s learn from that moment of grace, says Sharone Lifschitz, London-based film-maker and academic
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Martin McKee @martinmckee.bsky.social · 01/08/2025
In a strange circularity, it seems that all the work I was doing in the early 1990s on concealment/distortion of statistics by USSR & DDR is becoming very relevant now academic.oup.com/ije/article-...
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Commentary: The health crisis in the USSR: looking behind the facade
My first visit to the USSR was in February 1981, by coincidence at exactly the same time that Nick Eberstadt published a commentary on ‘The health crisis i
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 28/07/2025
As I move into the “Recycling the last hard copy of my PhD” stage of clearing my office, it gives me pause to see just how unrelenting my malcontent and snark have been. 🤪
Final part of the contents page from my PhD report, in which I complain about poor conceptual specification in a major social psychological theory.
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Dr Jay Watts @shrinkatlarge.bsky.social · 20/07/2025
Silly psy cartoon for the weekend!
The image is a black-and-white cartoon showing a bull sitting on a couch in a therapist’s office, speaking to a woman therapist who is taking notes. The bull appears frustrated, gesturing with one hand. The therapist is seated across from him with a notepad in her lap. A lamp sits between them. The caption underneath reads:

“I mean, I know it’s coming and I think to myself ‘hold it together, man…’ But then he waves that red cape and I just lose it!”
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Prof Sarah-Jayne Blakemore @sjblakemore.bsky.social · 16/07/2025
I was explaining to my Ukrainian colleague the phrase ‘There’s no such thing as a free lunch’. She told me the equivalent in Ukrainian is ‘The only free cheese is in the mousetrap’ - which is so much better
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Micah G. Allen @micahgallen.com · 13/07/2025
Modern theories of emotion (especially “interoceptive inference”) often cite William James as a key inspiration. But what did James actually say about emotion, and is it supported by the data? Here’s a brief look at the core arguments and classic evidence. 🧵
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 10/07/2025
Is it “brash” to be concerned if societies foster freedom of thought or insist on the “narrow, mean, intolerable and brainless prejudice of soulless … maniacs”?
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 10/07/2025
What a wonderful book review!
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Institute for Replication @i4replication.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
GiveWell sought an independent check on the evidence supporting >$1 billion it has granted to its top charities. This fall, Alex Cohen asked whether we could obtain the datasets needed to reproduce the underlying RCTs. We said yes; charging only a modest fee to cover our time. 🧵 + 🐀 + blog post!
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B. Ricardo Brown, PhD @node801.bsky.social · 06/09/2024
[Blog Archive] Excerpt from the Introduction to Until Darwin: Science & the Origins of Race (2010) [UNCORRECTED PROOF] "Introduction: Ecce Homo or Slavery and Human Variety" #UntilDarwinBibliography #HistSTM #HistSci #CharlesDarwin
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Excerpt from the Introduction to Until Darwin: Science & the Origins of Race
Classification Species Darwin Degeneration Evolution History of Science, Sociology, Sciences of Life, Human Variety, Natural History, Ecology
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 12/06/2025
Today I learned about the empiricist's moustache. Steinmetz, G. (2004). Odious comparisons: Incommensurability, the case study, and “small N's” in sociology. Sociological theory, 22(3), 371-400. doi.org/10.1111/j.07...
A drawing of a moustach as seen from the viewpoint of the artist looking down at it
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
I like this framing a lot. Whether intelligence is a thing, various things, a combination of things, or different things to different people, what do we mean and what are we trying to say when we use the label?
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
On the difficulty of inferring motivation from behaviour and the risks of inferential biases, e.g., anthropomorphism. Arakawa, H. (2025). Interpreting mouse’s intention from analysis of prosocial behavior. Lab Animal. doi.org/10.1038/s416...
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Interpreting mouse’s intention from analysis of prosocial behavior - Lab Animal
Recent research provides evidence of potential altruistic social behavior in mice. Laboratory mice appear to attempt to rescue an unconscious cage mate by investigating its mouth and pulling out its t...
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
People’s ‘moral circle’ sometimes shrinks, including standardly during some stages of development. Marshall, J., Wilks, M., Caviola, L., & Nelder, K. (2025). When development constricts our moral circle. Nature Human Behavior. doi.org/10.1038/s415...
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When development constricts our moral circle - Nature Human Behaviour
Although many believe our moral circles expand with age, this Perspective discusses an early-emerging tendency to care for others.
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Daniel Lakens @lakens.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
K. Ring, 1967, doi.org/10.1016/0022...
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Redirecting
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Nick Holmes @thehandlab.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
"There is also a self-righteous aspect to whistle-blowing, so that some people - even whole university departments or academic sub-fields - seem to relish challenging the integrity of the procedures and conclusions of others." Abelson (1995/2009, p103) on #p-hacking ("fishiness") and #metascience
A one page quotation, including the skeeted text
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Tom Farsides @tomfarsides.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
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Philanthropy: The Art of Giving Art
Throughout the history of philanthropy in the arts, the motivations the wealthy can generally be grouped into status, altruism and access
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Erin Westgate @erinwestgate.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
Since 1954, "The Handbook of Social Psychology" has been the field’s most authoritative reference work, and today is the launch of the 6th edition. Best news? The HSP is now open-access—free to read, download, and share. the-hsp.com
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