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Terry Barnes

@terryb72.bsky.social
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Dad, husband, reader, cyclist, camper. Parent to 3 wonderful teens, one with cerebral palsy and two neurospicy. Terrible synth player. Green. Long history in Telco and ISP. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ally & dad. Brighton-ish Profile pic is middle-aged man head shot.

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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Off to Hull tonight. I'm tired before I start the journey. But my Kindle is charged.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
They played the song we had our first dance to at our wedding
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Death Cab For Cutie!
A singer in a red shirt playing guitar on a purple lit stage.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Whoop!
Saint Etienne on stage in Brighton. Many arms are aloft.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Just made dough for naan breads so that it has time to prove for later and then joined a zoom call looking like a particularly careless drug dealer. Presumably it's a real no-no in the drug dealing world to wear a black jumper while flinging white powder around the kitchen.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
We were invited to a Halloween fancy dress party that was then cancelled not sure what I will do now with my fake pearl necklace, kitten heels, long red gloves and green dress. Handy for job interviews I suppose.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Chikd1 has unexpectedly decided to start buying VHS cassettes off ebay so I have dug out my vcr from the back of a cupboard. Fortunately his telly is old enough to have a scart socket.
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Steven (with a PH) @sjksalisbury.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Christening a baby is nothing like christening a ship. I know that now. Once again I can only apologise.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Becky had a broken dualit toaster in the garage. I have spent the morning replacing all the elements (£45 from Dualit) and it now works perfectly. She thinks I am a magician/genius. And now we have a working fancy toaster.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
This never fails to move me. Alison and Vince invent house music in 1982 and it takes everyone else another 6 years to catch up. youtu.be/nhQWt8GVQfM?...
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Yazoo - Don't Go(Rare Live)
YouTube video by andy2058
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Becky has 4 of her old school friends over. I have retired to the bedroom to read so that they can cackle and talk about whatever it is they talk about. All is good in the world. I can hear the occasional shriek.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Today is a free electricity day, so immersion heater is on for hot water and we're charging both the cars. Might smelt some aluminium later.
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Dreadnought Holiday @dreadships.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Losing it at this
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Is it something to do with getting older, or do hand-driers in toilets with the proximity sensors just not work anymore?
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Find someone who loves you like the setters of word puzzles love the word caulk.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Je suis on the way to Hull. The train has obviously switched to winter mode because it is bloody hot on here.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
It's a fortnight or so to the anniversary of my first wife's death. The kids feel it almost like the change in seasons, the weather gets cooler, the light changes and they start talking to me about how that feels. We'll go out for dinner on what would have been her birthday, a couple of days after.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
It is 'look at the weather forecast for Hull and try to decide what things to hurl in my suitcase' time. Luckily the hotel I tend to stay at is a brisk 8 minute walk to the office.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
Becky asked me to fit some lighting to the glasses cabinet thing!
A cupboard with purple lights on the back wall, illuminating glassware.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Saint Etienne in 2 weeks, penultimate gig of their final tour. The band I've probably seen more often than any other, and in a strange twist of fate it turns out when Becky was a private midwife she delivered the kids of one of the band members! youtu.be/2wTGi34p02Y?...
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Saint Etienne - Who Do You Think You Are ? - live on TOTP 1993
YouTube video by marblehead69
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
At a Japanese heavy metal gig in Islington with child3 and her mate. Support act have just opened with Dolly Parton's 9-5 🙂 earplugs ready for when they start proper.
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Alex Winter @alexwinter.com · 08/09/2026
RT if you've never had a tab of ChatGPT open, period.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Cooking Katsu and iistening to this long forgotten Erasure gem - Push Me, Shove Me.
An Amazon echo on a kitchen worktop with a toaster, bowls and tea visible, playing Erasire's Push Me, Shove Me.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
With our EV tariff at home we've shifted all the power hungry devices to run in the cheap period - dishwasher, tumble dryer and so on. You can really see the impact when the usage is displayed graphically.
A screenshot of a daily electricity bill showing the majority of usage taking place during the cheap period from midnight to 6am.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
Got married 10 weeks ago today. Honestly the most amazing, love-filled, joyous couple of months. Being married is fucking brilliant!
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Fifty bloody four...
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Duncan Waldron @ozalba.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
"Hatred draws itself on your face and it doesn't use nice pens." You have a way with words, my man.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Cooking dinner and listening to The Knife. There was a period where I was obsessed with this band. Deep Cuts was eclipsed by the astonishing Silent Shout, but it's still an amazing album. It showed all the electroclash berks the emotion and human feeling they'd been missing
An Amazon echo playing Deep Cuts by The Knife. A white kitchen worktop is visible, next to a white kettle.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Who'd have thunk that shortly in 2026 you'll be able to buy an actual Amiga endorsed by both Commodore and Amiga, as an official, real thing you can buy ready-made in a shop? Astonishing after the never-ending death throes and dying spasms of 30 years ago.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
At the GO surgery. Amongst the magazines scattered around is a 43 year old model railway magazine. Astonishing.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
If you've never heard this you should treat yourself... Like A Bird - Komputer
Screenshot of a media player app playing Like A Bird by Komputer.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
On my way home from Hull. Train listening to drown on the two separate people having loud obnoxious conversations on handsfree...
Screenshot of a media player app playing The Human League's Life On Your Own from the album Hysteria. The album cover is white with the word Hysteria in blue capital italics and the band name only partially visible so that is says 'Man Gue'.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
Going to try out the 20 Euro raclette we bought in Belgium.
An electric grill on a black table with tiny pans lined up next to it.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
My mother is visiting and is continually misgendering my son. I have started referring to her, loudly, as grandad.
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George Monbiot @georgemonbiot.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
This is what the billionaire press and many politicians were campaigning so hard to destroy. Their freedom to drive took precedence over our children's freedom to thrive. www.theguardian.com/environment/...
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Ulez led to better lung size and function among London children, study finds
Researchers find capacity stunted by pollution restored after introduction of ultra-low emission zone
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Excellent piece of post-bike race self reflection that can be used to optimise his training plan...
Screenshot from cycling weekly of Quinn Simmons explaining his 9th place finish. 'They went really fast and I didn't'.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
Child2 having an adapted ski lesson at the SnoZone in Milton Keynes.
A child in an accessible sled coming down a ski slope assisted by an instructor wearing a green jacket.
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raystein109.bsky.social @raystein109.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
This holiday home is fully adapted and so child2 can fit under the sink and cooker - so here is a pic of 1,2&3 cleaning up after dinner.
Three teenagers, once in a powerchair clearing up plates in a sink.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Holiday in the Ardennes Forest. Beautiful.
A forest scene taken from some decking, with a church visible.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 02/08/2026
Very early in our relationship Becky and I went to Bruges for a weekend. We both took pictures of each other over a drink and a snack, but I'd never seen the photos next to each other until today. We look so happy!
Becky, a blond lady in a green coat  and blue scarf. And Terry, a bearded, balding man in a grey coat. Two glasses of cherry beer are on a table.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Holiday accommodation has a broken hoist (we don't actually go for a week) so having a practice car load to make sure there's no swearing and injuries a week tomorrow.
A wheelchair van with child2's powerchair between two standard seats. A toiletting chair and portable hoist secured behind child2's power chair in his wheelchair van.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Does anyone know anything about hand pumps? House has a big barrel waterbutt in the garden with this pump mechanism. There's no resistance on the handle and when I took it apart (pic) I can't see how this could ever work - so I'm wondering if there's a piece missing? As assembled the
Some dismantled parts from a hand pump.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 30/07/2026
The rower bush is looking beautiful despite all the hot hot.
A pink rose bush in a wooden planter lit by garden lamps.
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👻madeline bOoOoOoOodent👻 @oldenoughtosay.com · 30/07/2026
rape= bad. sex (with the consenting adults taken as given, because otherwise it’s rape) = good. Of course you’re not obliged, no one is ever obliged, But you are obliged not to judge others for doing it.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
The new Arab Strap song, You You You is quite something. Wow.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Some Wednesday Blancmange youtu.be/5HdTN7ZGGJU?...
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Blancmange - Electronic Sound Live Sessions
YouTube video by Electronic Sound
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
I have decided that I like collarless shirts.
A middle aged man selfie. The man is wearing a blue and white collarless shirt.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
The shelf of nerdy items has a new place in our new home, mixed in with our cookbooks. A telephone exchange alarm lantern, a strowger final selector, open reel tape recorder and a Citroen Mehari.
A grey bookshelf featuring cookbooks, a model car and things from a telephone exchange.
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Terry Barnes @terryb72.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Sci-Fi staircase!
A wall next to some stares featuring large A1 size film posters, staggered to match the fall of the stairs. From left to right: Electric Dreams, Silent Running, Blade Runner.
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