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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 26/08/2026

But she was just so unapologetically HER OWN DAMN SELF no matter fucking WHAT. I didn’t understand the example she was setting until way later in life, nor the importance of that.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 26/08/2026

Damn it, not Dolly!! 😭 She’s pretty much the only country artist I’ve ever given a damn about. Plus one of my few genuinely great childhood memories is of a ride at Dollywood.

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Ashley Barron @alsoashleybarron.com · 08/08/2026

Conservatives spent years warning us that men would pretend to be trans just to get into women’s sports. When that imaginary epidemic failed to materialize, they apparently decided to start doing it themselves and now they’re all high-fiving each other over it. Incredible commitment to the bit.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/08/2026

At long last, one of my favourites is available again! 😁 (Well, it is for Europeans and Canadians, at least… sorry, US-based friends. 😭) But how does this new Fun Factory Tiger it compare to the original model from before the Satisfyer take-over? … Quite well, in fact! 😊 t4toy.com/reviews/fun-...

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Fun Factory Tiger review - t4toy.com

The new Satisfyer-owned Fun Factory is finally back in action, but can the new models measure up to the old? The Tiger vibrator certainly can, making it a top pick at its new low price!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/08/2026

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Fun Factory Tiger review - t4toy.com

The new Satisfyer-owned Fun Factory is finally back in action, but can the new models measure up to the old? The Tiger vibrator certainly can, making it a top pick at its new low price!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 27/07/2026

“I still haven’t received the first parcel, please see my email from [date].” And if they don’t sort it out after this second chance, I’d just ignore anything further from them. 🤷‍♀️

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 20/07/2026

Nice write-up! I absolutely love Fizz too. 😁 I suspected it might be among the better options for transmasc folks, though I’m only speculating and I don’t have a Sila to compare it against since Lelo’s on my shitlist. Would love to hear from @3dfrost.bsky.social or @kelvinsparks.com if they try it!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 20/07/2026

Lovense released a new toy today, but they sent me one early for a sneak peak… I don’t usually rush out reviews, but I loved this one so much during testing that I wanted to tell everyone about it just as soon as I was allowed to! 😁 Say hello to my first Top Pick of 2026: t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Fizz review - t4toy.com

I love a good air-stim toy. I love a good tapping toy. Fizz offers both with excellent quality stimulation and joins my Top Picks list!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 19/07/2026

A strange game... The only winning move is not to play. How about a nice game of chess?

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

Wow, people. New cats don’t and _can’t_ replace beloved cats who’ve passed. They aren’t Lego bricks we can just swap around, they’re a whole new relationship to build and invest in. Adopting a new furball is wonderful, but only when you know you’re ready. 💖 Some people never are again and that’s ok.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

There’s no indication your reply is hidden apart from the single-digit engagement numbers if you happen to look later. Load the same thread while signed in with a secondary account, and gee, it’s nowhere to be found — not even collapsed like negative-karma comments. They DON’T WANT us to notice. 🤬

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

Right?? Like, a site that started out as a way specifically to share and discuss links to other sites now gets grumpy if you provide links… 🤦‍♀️ In my experience, one link per comment is usually (but not always) ok. But two links is no bueno, even if you also give a bunch of context and useful info. 🙄

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

So frustrating how I get caught in spam filters despite putting genuine thought and effort into my comments, but the spammers and scammers have long since figured out how to sidestep those algorithms. 🙄

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

Oh, right. I stopped posting on the sex toys subreddit because Reddit quietly hides my posts when I include links that directly address OP’s question and because OPs keep deleting their posts so no one else ever finds the advice I spent my time writing. 🙄 Apparently I forgot this. Wasted effort.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 14/07/2026

Don’t even get me started on all the security problems with “age verification”. 🤦‍♀️ Even if I didn’t demand privacy, it’s still a terrible idea to participate. 4/4 * “unregulated” is shorthand for “not following the regulations they’re subject to, but small enough to go unnoticed by the regulators”.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 14/07/2026

[CW: rape] I do not want to visit unregulated* alternatives. It’s already so hard for performers to get paid on the “regular” platforms. And I damn sure don’t want to risk EVER accidentally seeing a real rape video again, it disturbed me for YEARS. But if it’s the only way to have any privacy… 🖕 3/4

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 14/07/2026

I use a VPN for _all_ my web usage for privacy reasons. Canada hasn’t implemented its deeply flawed idea of “age verification” yet, but I’m damn sure not going to share my ID with porn sites when it eventually happens. Closing the VPN “loophole” (as they’ll call it) won’t change that. 2/4

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 14/07/2026

It really pisses me off how the official being quoted moves the goalposts. No one ever suggested that everyone who doesn’t jump through the age verification hoop is going to the SAME alternative unregulated* site! 🤦‍♀️ People are scattering to numerous dark corners of the web you don’t see. 1/4

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Australia's Porn Traffic Drops, VPNs Face Scrutiny

Pornhub and xHamster still dominate Australian porn even after tougher age checks, and regulators now have VPN use in their sights.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 12/07/2026

Oh hey! How did I miss that you’re enby and queer? Into my site’s sidebar list of other trans and genderqueer reviewers you go! 😁

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/07/2026

I thought Zumio became a zombie-brand, but they’ve launched a new “X2” model! The only apparent difference is that it now charges WAY faster via USB-C — not enough to warrant me buying one, but a MUCH needed improvement. Maybe I should review the original Zumio X from my collection? myzumio.com

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 11/06/2026

And it’s here, a new review finally! Alas, I really wanted to sing the praises of this trans-and-disabled-owned company… but I’ll never lie to you, and this just doesn’t work well for me as my body exists today. But if you have genital dysphoria and still get horny: THIS. 😁 t4toy.com/reviews/cute...

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Cute Little Fuckers (CLF) Starsi review - t4toy.com

Cute Little Fuckers is a trans-owned company, so I really wanted to rave about their Starsi vibrator. But rave I cannot… It isn’t bad, but it misses the mark for my own needs.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/06/2026

I haven’t felt like writing t4toy lately but finally recognized one part of why which *is* within my control… I’ve gotten too formulaic, forcing most reviews into a similar structure. This heading, that heading, fill it out. So I wrote something today that doesn’t. 🙂 Posting once photos are edited.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 06/06/2026

Hey folks. I’m still alive! It’s just tough to keep writing when multiple governments want to invent absurd age-restriction rules that only well-funded corporations could possibly implement, followed by AI machines stealing — excuse me, “learning from” — my work despite my clear non-consent signals.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/05/2026

Last night, I dreamed that I was at an all-queer sex party… and no one there would touch me. Talk about a nightmare! 😖 I handle IRL rejection pretty well, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have any feelings about it when it happens. Post-rejection feels when there wasn’t even a real rejection SUCKS. 👎

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 21/04/2026

I did it. It was the only successful way I found to get through all the anger. I’m not “over it”, it’s still there, but it hasn’t consumed me for several years now. I don’t know your specifics but if you decide to try it, I hope you gain what you need in due time. ❤️

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Cyra | Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache.com · 11/03/2026

"Let me know if you’re inserted!" —My favorite typo in adult toy marketing correspondence

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/03/2026

Your legal name is NOT your real name unless YOU say it is.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/03/2026

Something new and different on t4toy today… Shall I turn Vibrator Autopsy into a recurring feature? Are any other sex toy fans and/or geeks interested in this? 🙂 t4toy.com/essays/vibra...

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Vibrator Autopsy #1: Heating Tongue Vibrator - t4toy.com

With a collection like mine, you’re bound to eventually have some toys die. Before disposing of it properly as e-waste, let’s see what’s inside and how it’s put together!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/03/2026

I’ve gotta differentiate it from my Dremel oscillating tool, you know! 😉😁

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 24/02/2026

Ugh, PayPal is the worst. 😖 They’re holding my funds* hostage until I provide them with certain info about my business, but their web page for actually providing that info is broken regardless of which browser I use. 🤦‍♀️ * Fortunately, that’s only one transaction. _NEVER_ CARRY A BALANCE with them!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 19/02/2026

Makes sense to me. 🙁 Here’s hoping the spin cycle ends soon for you.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 19/02/2026

CW: Epstein So apparently it’s all fine and dandy* to sexually abuse children, but telling your co-abuser a bank’s secrets will get even an ex-Prince arrested. Got it. I mean yeah, good that Andrew is facing justice, but it’s not for the truly heinous crimes. * it is absolutely NOT fine nor dandy

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Jene O'Ween @luckymud.myatproto.social · 18/02/2026

“is there a technology that the left is excited about?” Have you SEEN what vibrators can do now???

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/02/2026

New on the blog: Wanna get intense? Zumio may have been the fad a few years ago, but it turns out the Lovense Hyphy is — for me, at least — significantly more comfortable to use and a lot more reliable at taking me to O-town. 😁 t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Hyphy review - t4toy.com

Pinpoint vibrators have a reputation for being buzzy beasts. Lovense somehow managed to make a beast without the unwanted buzz, delivering a fantastic pinpoint for experienced sex toy users.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 13/02/2026

Nah, it’s past the statute of limitations. 😉

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 12/02/2026

Whoa, is Satisfyer FINALLY doing something with their Fun Factory assets they bought out???? It seemed like they were just killing the brand despite their claims to the contrary. I still haven’t heard anything about North America distribution, but maybe someday? 🤞 www.ean-online.com/distribution...

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Dreamlove introduces the full range of new FUN FACTORY releases

Dreamlove is proud to announce the official launch of the complete range of FUN FACTORY’s latest innovations, now available at www.dreamlove.eu. For Dreamlove, introducing the full range of FUN FACTOR...

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James Betty Butch 🏳️‍⚧️ @bettybutch.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

"The judge found that simply operating a website accessible in Kansas – even one that Kansas residents could view – is not enough to establish liability." I hope to see a lot more of this.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/02/2026

Oh hey, this is fantastic news! There are plenty of people who would be willing to take STI prevention more seriously if it were more convenient. (HIV is not the only STI, obviously, but it’s the one with the most significant lifelong consequences.) www.cbc.ca/news/health/...

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Canada’s first oral HIV self test gets the green light | CBC News

People in Canada have a new, less invasive way to test for HIV at home, following Health Canada's approval of an oral self-test.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 08/02/2026

Reposting to add: limits are saving you time and making it easier for you, safewords are protecting you from dealing with consequences you don't want.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 06/02/2026

Indeed. There are appropriate levels of depression relative to The Shit Going On®, and then there’s whatever MY brain does sans meds. There’s zero way I could be there for the people most important to me without. ❤️ I’m glad you seem to be seeing the results you need. 🙂

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 03/02/2026

Oh hey, it’s been a while… life has been busy in some not-so-great ways and I’ve been feeling burnt out. Not to mention all the more-awful-than-normal going on in the world lately. But masturbation is self-care for many of us, and I’m finally back with a fresh toy review! t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Osci 3 review - t4toy.com

The Osci 3 proves that Lovense CAN design a quality rabbit after all, but how does it compare to other toys with an oscillating motor? And is this the right rabbit to pull out of YOUR hat?

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 03/02/2026

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Lovense Osci 3 review - t4toy.com

The Osci 3 proves that Lovense CAN design a quality rabbit after all, but how does it compare to other toys with an oscillating motor? And is this the right rabbit to pull out of YOUR hat?

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