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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 26/08/2026

Damn it, not Dolly!! 😭 She’s pretty much the only country artist I’ve ever given a damn about. Plus one of my few genuinely great childhood memories is of a ride at Dollywood.

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Ashley Barron @alsoashleybarron.com · 08/08/2026

Conservatives spent years warning us that men would pretend to be trans just to get into women’s sports. When that imaginary epidemic failed to materialize, they apparently decided to start doing it themselves and now they’re all high-fiving each other over it. Incredible commitment to the bit.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/08/2026

At long last, one of my favourites is available again! 😁 (Well, it is for Europeans and Canadians, at least… sorry, US-based friends. 😭) But how does this new Fun Factory Tiger it compare to the original model from before the Satisfyer take-over? … Quite well, in fact! 😊 t4toy.com/reviews/fun-...

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Fun Factory Tiger review - t4toy.com

The new Satisfyer-owned Fun Factory is finally back in action, but can the new models measure up to the old? The Tiger vibrator certainly can, making it a top pick at its new low price!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/08/2026

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Fun Factory Tiger review - t4toy.com

The new Satisfyer-owned Fun Factory is finally back in action, but can the new models measure up to the old? The Tiger vibrator certainly can, making it a top pick at its new low price!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 20/07/2026

Lovense released a new toy today, but they sent me one early for a sneak peak… I don’t usually rush out reviews, but I loved this one so much during testing that I wanted to tell everyone about it just as soon as I was allowed to! 😁 Say hello to my first Top Pick of 2026: t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Fizz review - t4toy.com

I love a good air-stim toy. I love a good tapping toy. Fizz offers both with excellent quality stimulation and joins my Top Picks list!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/07/2026

Oh, right. I stopped posting on the sex toys subreddit because Reddit quietly hides my posts when I include links that directly address OP’s question and because OPs keep deleting their posts so no one else ever finds the advice I spent my time writing. 🙄 Apparently I forgot this. Wasted effort.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 14/07/2026

It really pisses me off how the official being quoted moves the goalposts. No one ever suggested that everyone who doesn’t jump through the age verification hoop is going to the SAME alternative unregulated* site! 🤦‍♀️ People are scattering to numerous dark corners of the web you don’t see. 1/4

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Australia's Porn Traffic Drops, VPNs Face Scrutiny

Pornhub and xHamster still dominate Australian porn even after tougher age checks, and regulators now have VPN use in their sights.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/07/2026

I thought Zumio became a zombie-brand, but they’ve launched a new “X2” model! The only apparent difference is that it now charges WAY faster via USB-C — not enough to warrant me buying one, but a MUCH needed improvement. Maybe I should review the original Zumio X from my collection? myzumio.com

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 11/06/2026

And it’s here, a new review finally! Alas, I really wanted to sing the praises of this trans-and-disabled-owned company… but I’ll never lie to you, and this just doesn’t work well for me as my body exists today. But if you have genital dysphoria and still get horny: THIS. 😁 t4toy.com/reviews/cute...

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Cute Little Fuckers (CLF) Starsi review - t4toy.com

Cute Little Fuckers is a trans-owned company, so I really wanted to rave about their Starsi vibrator. But rave I cannot… It isn’t bad, but it misses the mark for my own needs.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/06/2026

I haven’t felt like writing t4toy lately but finally recognized one part of why which *is* within my control… I’ve gotten too formulaic, forcing most reviews into a similar structure. This heading, that heading, fill it out. So I wrote something today that doesn’t. 🙂 Posting once photos are edited.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 06/06/2026

Hey folks. I’m still alive! It’s just tough to keep writing when multiple governments want to invent absurd age-restriction rules that only well-funded corporations could possibly implement, followed by AI machines stealing — excuse me, “learning from” — my work despite my clear non-consent signals.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 01/05/2026

Last night, I dreamed that I was at an all-queer sex party… and no one there would touch me. Talk about a nightmare! 😖 I handle IRL rejection pretty well, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have any feelings about it when it happens. Post-rejection feels when there wasn’t even a real rejection SUCKS. 👎

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Cyra | Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache.com · 11/03/2026

"Let me know if you’re inserted!" —My favorite typo in adult toy marketing correspondence

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/03/2026

Your legal name is NOT your real name unless YOU say it is.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/03/2026

Something new and different on t4toy today… Shall I turn Vibrator Autopsy into a recurring feature? Are any other sex toy fans and/or geeks interested in this? 🙂 t4toy.com/essays/vibra...

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Vibrator Autopsy #1: Heating Tongue Vibrator - t4toy.com

With a collection like mine, you’re bound to eventually have some toys die. Before disposing of it properly as e-waste, let’s see what’s inside and how it’s put together!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 24/02/2026

Ugh, PayPal is the worst. 😖 They’re holding my funds* hostage until I provide them with certain info about my business, but their web page for actually providing that info is broken regardless of which browser I use. 🤦‍♀️ * Fortunately, that’s only one transaction. _NEVER_ CARRY A BALANCE with them!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 19/02/2026

CW: Epstein So apparently it’s all fine and dandy* to sexually abuse children, but telling your co-abuser a bank’s secrets will get even an ex-Prince arrested. Got it. I mean yeah, good that Andrew is facing justice, but it’s not for the truly heinous crimes. * it is absolutely NOT fine nor dandy

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Jene @luckymud.myatproto.social · 18/02/2026

“is there a technology that the left is excited about?” Have you SEEN what vibrators can do now???

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/02/2026

New on the blog: Wanna get intense? Zumio may have been the fad a few years ago, but it turns out the Lovense Hyphy is — for me, at least — significantly more comfortable to use and a lot more reliable at taking me to O-town. 😁 t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Hyphy review - t4toy.com

Pinpoint vibrators have a reputation for being buzzy beasts. Lovense somehow managed to make a beast without the unwanted buzz, delivering a fantastic pinpoint for experienced sex toy users.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 12/02/2026

Whoa, is Satisfyer FINALLY doing something with their Fun Factory assets they bought out???? It seemed like they were just killing the brand despite their claims to the contrary. I still haven’t heard anything about North America distribution, but maybe someday? 🤞 www.ean-online.com/distribution...

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Dreamlove introduces the full range of new FUN FACTORY releases

Dreamlove is proud to announce the official launch of the complete range of FUN FACTORY’s latest innovations, now available at www.dreamlove.eu. For Dreamlove, introducing the full range of FUN FACTOR...

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James Betty Butch 🏳️‍⚧️ @bettybutch.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

"The judge found that simply operating a website accessible in Kansas – even one that Kansas residents could view – is not enough to establish liability." I hope to see a lot more of this.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 10/02/2026

Oh hey, this is fantastic news! There are plenty of people who would be willing to take STI prevention more seriously if it were more convenient. (HIV is not the only STI, obviously, but it’s the one with the most significant lifelong consequences.) www.cbc.ca/news/health/...

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Canada’s first oral HIV self test gets the green light | CBC News

People in Canada have a new, less invasive way to test for HIV at home, following Health Canada's approval of an oral self-test.

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Miss Pearl 🍁 @omisspearl.bsky.social · 08/02/2026

Reposting to add: limits are saving you time and making it easier for you, safewords are protecting you from dealing with consequences you don't want.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 03/02/2026

Oh hey, it’s been a while… life has been busy in some not-so-great ways and I’ve been feeling burnt out. Not to mention all the more-awful-than-normal going on in the world lately. But masturbation is self-care for many of us, and I’m finally back with a fresh toy review! t4toy.com/reviews/love...

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Lovense Osci 3 review - t4toy.com

The Osci 3 proves that Lovense CAN design a quality rabbit after all, but how does it compare to other toys with an oscillating motor? And is this the right rabbit to pull out of YOUR hat?

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 03/02/2026

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Lovense Osci 3 review - t4toy.com

The Osci 3 proves that Lovense CAN design a quality rabbit after all, but how does it compare to other toys with an oscillating motor? And is this the right rabbit to pull out of YOUR hat?

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Lilith K. Duat ✍️🔥📽️🔞 @lilithkduat.bsky.social · 01/02/2026

*Innocent whistle* US: a.co/d/16xqn0O CAN: a.co/d/6k5GWO0 UK: amzn.eu/d/0fhnNEs

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 24/01/2026

Too cold to masturbate tonight? 🥶 There’s no rule against cozying up in PJs and wearing a wearable to bed! 😏 t4toy.com/more/tags/we...

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t4toy Review Tags - t4toy.com

Choose a tag. See matching sex toy reviews. That’s all there is to it.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 12/01/2026

1/3 Desperately trying (yet failing 😭) to remember more of the dream I just woke up from. I received a box of sex toys to review and one was a vibrator with the most adorable cartoon kitten face on one end. It was named M.E.O.W.C.A.T., I can’t remember what it stood for except the T was Tactical.

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 09/01/2026

When medical forms ask my sex assigned at birth but don’t in any way also ask for my _actual_ sex or gender, I just lie. 🤷‍♀️ I’m out and loud, I’ll absolutely tell you I’m trans but I will NOT misgender myself. 🖕

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 07/01/2026

Wish I could be going to XBiz Expo tomorrow to see all the newest sex gadgets and chat with brand reps… but as a trans and visibly queer person, no way in fuck am I crossing the border into the US to attend. 🙅‍♀️⛔️ Sigh.

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Evan Greer @evangreer.bsky.social · 03/01/2026

“Our standing” ? The US government has been invading sovereign nations, committing war crimes, propping up murderous dictators, torturing people, mocking human rights and ousting democratically elected leaders for decades, under both Democratic and Republican administrations We have no “standing”

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 02/01/2026

Having a tough time getting into review-writing mode… while the next two in my queue aren’t _bad_ exactly, they don’t excite me either. “Meh” reviews are the most challenging to write, there’s little to rave about and yet the toys don’t deserve to be trashed (neither literally* nor metaphorically).

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 31/12/2025

Gonna make it my New Year’s Resolution to exercise more. In bed. 😏

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 30/12/2025

I feel like giving myself an Award. What should I call it?

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The Alberta Socialist @voxsocialism.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

DISALLOWANCE!!!!! This is EXACTLY what Carney needs to do. Thank you, Heather!

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 18/12/2025

Between some stuff in my personal life and the ever-escalating attacks on trans people — ESPECIALLY on teens, a period of my life I only barely survived… I just really. fuckin’. can’t. today, y’all. I just fucking can’t. I am SO. TIRED.

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Frost || 3D Models & Reviews @3dfrost.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

I don't want gen AI in my browser I don't want gen AI in my pc I don't want gen AI in my art I don't want gen AI in my games I don't want gen AI in my music I don't want gen AI in my movies I don't want gen AI in my books I don't want gen AI in my cart I don't want gen AI in my life

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Oh Joy Sex Toy @ohjoysextoy.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

@arythusa.bsky.social waited two years after coming out as nonbinary before starting on testosterone because they wanted to look more like a soft anime prince boi than a manly lumberjack. Fortunately, they found a compromise by going on a low-dose of HRT! www.ohjoysextoy.com/low-dose-hrt...

Low-Dose HRT and You by Sage Cotugno published 2025-12-16 on https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/low-dose-hrt-and-you-sage-cotugno

Today’s comic is drawn by Sage Cotugno, an Asian American trans mask non-binary person, with pronouns They/Them, who is depicted as both free and post-HRT in the comic. The comic is drawn with clean, sharp lines and colored in blues and oranges that make the whole thing pop.

Narration - I came out as a non-binary in 2019, but didn’t start HRT (hormone Replacement Therapy) until two years later
We see a younger sage having their hair buzzed from behind. They’re thinking to themselves:
Damn, my head looks like a giant egg.

Next, we're shown two stereotype depictions of different men. One is a lumberjack with a big, giant ax, bushy beard, and huge chest. The other is a elf like woodland creature elegantly holding a hand to their head to dramatic effect with sparkles around them.The Lumberjack has these notes floatinga round them:- Huge Beard and muscles- 24/7 flannel lifestyle- Part-time paper towel model, full-time American hero
The Elf-man has these notes:- Cat-ears somehow??- Deadly cheekbones- Heir to the moon kingdom.
Narration - I hesitated in part because I had never wanted to look like a traditionally masculine man.
I pictured myself as more of a soft, anime prince boy.

Sage shows themselves at the Gender Buffet, picking up different bits of food and adding it to their plate
Narration - I wished I could pick and choose which masculine traits I would end up with…

Suddenly, a huge wave with the label T-Gel Tsunami comes crashing down onto Sage
Narration - But I knew from my research that it was more of an all-or-nothing kind of deal.

Page 2
We see a small sage sitting on top of the hill looking out at the clouds, Lion King style, forming in the clouds themselves, is the Elfish masculine trope that Sage craves.
Narration - I began to suspect my soft boy dreams were some quixiotic fantasy like wanting to be a dinosaur or a wizard. Surely real trans people don’t want things like that!

A doctor springs out of the page, with their hand in the air
Narration- But then my doctor said...
Doctor- Actually, lots of them do!

In this next panel, we see a giant banner with the word low-dose HRT on top of it. It is adorned with needle and pill visualizations. Behind it is the doctor showing off the banner while Sage looks on, and imagines a bull’s-eye of hitting the perfect place for their trans-masc dreams.

Doctor- There's two roots trans folk often take: They either want to go 'all the way' towards one end of the binar, or land somewhere in the middle. People in the secondary category often choose…
Sage interrupts- Gasp! So it’s like a magical soft boy pill??
Doctor - well, not exactly…

A pink ribbon unfurls across the bottom of the page stating, "Read the rest on Oh Joy Sex Toy .com"

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 15/12/2025

Oh goodie, the auto-backup of my (self-hosted, privacy-respecting) analytics data hasn’t worked for several MONTHS. 😮 Luckily I discovered this at a time when I don’t actually need the backup, but now I have to figure out wtf I did several months ago to mess things up this way. Computers are fun. 🙄

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 15/12/2025

All I really wanna do here is shove gadgets in my pussy and talk about it, but the world is being really awful yet again… and it — yet again! — seems distasteful at best against that backdrop. Why, world, why??? 😭

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Denise Dailey 🏳️‍⚧️🔞🇨🇦 she/her @t4toy.com · 04/12/2025

Two new reviews on t4toy today — one was a flop, but THIS one… I didn’t know it was possible to deliver a price-to-pleasure ratio this good. I’ve never had a Budget Pick (best toys under US$50) make it into my Top Picks (best of the best) before, but here we are! 😁🏆 t4toy.com/reviews/luv-...

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Luv Inc. DR42 Double Thumping Rabbit review - t4toy.com

Forget clever comments, I’ll come right out and say it — this rabbit is both a Top Pick AND a Budget Pick. I’ve spent four times more on toys that are just half as good.

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