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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 06/10/2026

really thoughtful work 💜

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Ophie Dokie 🌻 @ophiedokie.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

what if the restorative justice we cared about was restorative to the victims and not their rapist? Wouldn't that be a fun fresh new concept?

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Fear Of holding Jacob Gellar accountable, "Restorative Justice" edition

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 06/10/2026

my personal teenage crashout album if that helps

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 06/10/2026

i agree with you and i've amended my piece to address this - thanks for your feedback.

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shaunt @shaunvids.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

it was smart of jacob geller to only post about what he did to his 50k followers on here instead of to his 1.5 million youtube subs or on his patreon. that way fewer people know about it and he limits the financial hit

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 05/10/2026

public, free to read, not paywalled, not grifting - i posted this to my Patreon because i use it as my blog.

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Angela Collier @acollierastro.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I am learning the left version of government mandated girlfriends is "you have to work with that guy. he said sorry."

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 04/10/2026

many great episodes in the early seasons of The Simpsons but "Round Springfield" is probably the one that hits hardest for me tbh

Lisa Simpson playing jazz w Bleeding Gums Murphy

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 03/10/2026

It's actively insanity inducing to be a survivor and a feminist right now because in the face of the sheer ubiquity of sexual assault and the lack of consequences for it, we're all being besieged by demands that we think of the rapist men, forgive the rapist men, cleanse the souls of the rapist men

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Maggie Mae Fish 🐟 @maggiemaefish.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I think what I resent the most is that all of us, especially the women who worked with him, were a part of his rehabilitation (at least image-wise) without us ever getting to choose if that was something we wanted to participate in. He didn't let us or his audience make a choice. How ironic.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 03/10/2026

i was assaulted in 2016 and can tell you with *certainty* that i'm not over it just because it was a decade ago. i can't speak for anyone but me but i can say that when you hop online and say "we should approach with nuance this complicated situation that happened a long time ago," survivors notice.

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Lady Emily ☄️ @ladyemily.nebula.tv · 03/10/2026

“It was a long time ago” “it was a one time thing” “it’s clear he feels remorse” “it’s not worth ruining his whole life over something like this” “what if what he did wasn’t even that bad” “people deserve second chances” these are the same defenses every victim hears about their abuser. every time

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Lindsay Ellis @lindsayellis.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I can’t stop thinking about these (leftist, supposedly) people who in the face of horrific allegations default to “won’t someone think of the rapists” - you guys are telling on yourself.

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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

All of this. I also want to add that, in my research, I found that a lot of “inconsistencies” in a victim’s story actually came from gender bias affecting investigators’ record keeping and interview methods.

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Jessica Luther @jessicawluther.com · 01/10/2026

We live in a society that punishes people who are assaulted. We question them, we shame them, we disbelieve them. Many survivors instinctively do that societal work for us. Survivors question themselves, they shame themselves, they don't believe their own version of events. We've trained them!

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

yep. it's a personal favorite and has certainly influenced why/how i make videos.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

i can't speak for Jane Doe or any of the other victims in the news cycle right now, but before you start calling random survivors online "carceral," "punitive," or "anti-restorative justice" for expressing anger & dismay, get a grip. this is not some hypothetical debate topic for us. it's our lives.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

maybe before asking "should a person be punished for a mistake they made when they were young for the rest of their lives?" first consider that a lot of rape survivors deal with the trauma of being raped for the rest of their lives, *and* are socially ostracized for having been raped.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

personally, i'd give anything to go back in time and prevent what happened to me. it destroyed my trust in other people and institutions. it shattered my mental and physical health. it derailed my education. it changed how i see the world and myself. it made me give up on many of my dreams.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

rape is not an oopsie daisy. it's not a youthful "mistake." it is a life-altering violation of someone's fundamental bodily autonomy. it inflicts intense suffering and psychological trauma. it is torturous to experience and it is often torturous to continue living afterward. it is a big deal.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

i shouldn't be shocked by the amount of people i've liked, admired, and even trusted who've spent the last week trivializing rape via progressive sounding language, but i am.

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Lady Emily ☄️ @ladyemily.nebula.tv · 02/10/2026

I want a world where women can exist without constantly worrying about the violence their peers can inflict on them. It hurts every time this happens

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Maggie Mae Fish 🐟 @maggiemaefish.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I also believe in restorative justice but I don't think that means you get to become a pillar of a community and garner an audience and an income that relies solely on everyone including yourself staying silent about your actions. In the VIDEO GAME SPHERE no less.

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maura quint @mauraquint.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.

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Kat Tenbarge @kattenbarge.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I believe fraternity hazing and military hazing and sports team hazing where men abuse each other is acclimating them into a broader culture of abuse where they will then believe it is their right to abuse other more vulnerable people. It’s so insidious. And that’s also why I think men defend it

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 01/10/2026

survivors are also frequently encouraged to "speak out" and "start conversations" in order to "change the world" but we receive nothing but harrassment, suspicion, and hate for doing so. i grieve so often for the girl i was during MeToo who truly believed that things were soon to get better.

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 01/10/2026

survivors of sexual violence are constantly asked to sacrifice our safety and wellbeing on the off chance that people who've committed literal torture might at some point have had a change of heart. when will our safety, wellbeing, dreams, aspirations, futures, or peace of mind matter?

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Angela Collier @acollierastro.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I just think women should be able to get educations without a constant threat of sexual violence.

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jamie loftus @jamieloftus.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

as always, the answer here is to listen to survivors and then to push for actual, meaningful change. but when that doesn't happen, the focus shifts to pressuring survivors to relive their trauma and share it in public forums, be confronted by it in public forums, and THEN have nothing happen

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Maggie Mae Fish 🐟 @maggiemaefish.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

If you are more angry at HOW you learned someone committed SA then you are at the perpetrator, I don't know what to say

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Princess Weekes @princesmweekes.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Initially, I didn't plan to do a Star Trek video, but while I was in the shower, an idea popped into my head, and here we are. New Video: youtu.be/wmraygqDEx0

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How Star Trek: DS9 Saw 2024 Coming 30 Years Ago

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josh (oldfriend99) @oldfriend99.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

The actor who plays the monster in The Fly is the same guy who plays the scientist at the beginning of the movie. Makes me wish i paid more attention lol. Time for a rewatch

the same actor playing the scientist at the beginning of the movie

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 27/09/2026

is this because you saw my parks are stuffed with as many benches as possible

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 27/09/2026

so beautiful, amanda !! 💜

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 27/09/2026

this is where my wife & i got engaged 😊💜

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 26/09/2026

fashion brand company my beloved (in theory)...

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Lola Sebastian @lola.nebula.tv · 24/09/2026

one of the many books i should not have read as a child that now haunts my psyche

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