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David_j_roth @davidjroth.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
We took the paywall down on this one. defector.com/how-the-fuck...
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How Are You Supposed To Get The COVID Vaccine Now? An Explainer | Defector
As the muggy malaise of summer winds down, you might find yourself interested in taking advantage of one of several safe and proven vaccines to help protect you from the inevitable brumal surge of res...
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American Libraries magazine @amlibraries.bsky.social · 03/09/2025
Our annual Library Design Showcase highlights some of the most impressive new and renovated library buildings of the year. americanlibrariesmagazine.org/2025/…
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2025 Library Design Showcase | American Libraries Magazine
The 2025 Library Design Showcase features libraries that serve as true third spaces while honoring local histories and cultures.
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Trish @slowpiracy.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
"You'll get more conservative as you get older" Me:
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derek guy @dieworkwear.bsky.social · 02/09/2025
yes. tasting fabrics is one of the easiest ways to test fiber composition. natural fabrics, such as wool, cotton, and linen, breakdown in the digestive tract. synthetics such as polyester will not. so to test fiber composition, eat the garment. if fibers appear in your poop, it was synthetic.
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Patrick Vallely @pjvphotography.bsky.social · 28/08/2025
"Pat, why do you carry that ridiculous 600mm lens on long hikes?" Buddy, I can see mountains reflected in the eyes of a trailside pika.
A pika sits on a mossy rock.Tighter crop of the same pika, focusing on its head.An even tighter crop, focusing more on the pika's eye.An extremely tight crop of the pika's eye, emphasizing their reflection of an early morning mountain scene.
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Don Bones @donbones.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Re-reading Hocus Pocus, which is set during a climate catastrophe in an America that has been stripped for parts and features a racist LLM that can only imagine a good future for you if you are white. Vonnegut wrote this in 1990
There I was in late middle age, cut loose in a thoroughly looted, bankrupt nation whose assets had been sold off to foreigners, a nation swamped by unchecked plagues
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Snow ❄️ @snowday.bsky.social · 09/07/2025
This kind of logic of AI stans always gets me--like, "You can't put the genie back in the bottle, you can't just shut it down!" Yes you can. You can simply unplug the servers from the wall, I do it every day.
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Alissa Wilkinson @alissawilkinson.bsky.social · 09/07/2025
Freelancing writers, this is gold: docs.google.com/spreadsheets...
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FWT Publication Freelance Rates Database
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Movies Silently @moviessilently.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
🚨VERY IMPORTANT🚨
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The Public Domain Review @publicdomainrev.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
Emma Goldman — born #onthisday in 1869 — was a radical critic of capitalism, the state, patriarchy and colonialism during the fertile political years of the late 19th and early 20th century. More on her life and “anarchism without adjectives” here: publicdomainreview.org/essay/e... #otd
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mywife is soft nd ilikeher @liveonthesun.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
Everything Is Overwhelming
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lenora frigid @lenorajoon.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
okay I laughed out loud
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Robert Loerzel @robertloerzel.bsky.social · 20/06/2025
By me:
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mywife is soft nd ilikeher @liveonthesun.bsky.social · 22/06/2025
my number one restaurant pet peeve is when a menu calls something cajun but then it has tomatoes in it. i like tomatoes! i don't mind tomatoes in the dish! just don't call it cajun!
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Movies Silently @moviessilently.bsky.social · 22/06/2025
This ties into my constant complaints about people obsessing over plot, plot twists and spoilers vs any other aspect of movies. If people are obsessed with melodramatic happenings and not the beauty of prose, there are media literacy issues at play that go deeper than understanding a metaphor
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Misty Gedlinske @mistygedlinske.bsky.social · 22/06/2025
Mike Johnson and Co. are likely giddy at the prospect of triggering the Rapture… WHICH IS NOT A LEGITIMATE READING OF SCRIPTURE AND IS JUST SPARKLING NIHILISM COATED IN ANTI-SEMITISM, WHY IN THE NAME OF DOLLY PARTON’S SAINTED WIG ARE WE LETTING THESE PEOPLE ANYWHERE NEAR THE LEVERS OF GOVERNMENT?!
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Rebecca Mott @rebeccamott.fit · 22/06/2025
If I post these now, maybe l remember to do a longer thread on disability and crafting next week 🪡🧵
I'M ACHAOS CRAFTER. I usually have several WIPs going at once. Sewing, knitting, crochet, and usually multiples of each. What I work on depends on what I need from the making experience.What I need from making changes from day to day. Physically, a repetitive stress injury or other pain flare-up might mean I can't knit, but I can sew. Or vice versa. Mentally, sometimes I need a challenge to take my mind off things, and want to crochet a lace with several different stitches. Sometimes I need to zone out and just fall into rows of knit stitches.My sensory needs change, too. Sometimes my hands want to touch wool, other times they want to work with cotton.
I might leave a project for months before it becomes what I need again. But having multiple projects means I'll always have something to work on.Make what makes you feel good.
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Nathan Kalman-Lamb @nkalamb.bsky.social · 19/06/2025
Amazing: MIT researchers revealed how ChatGPT etc are destroying our brains and booby-trapped the report to expose those who want to use AI to ostensibly summarize the results. t.co/JXeTALBPds
Ironically, upon the paper’s release, several social media users ran it through LLMs in order to summarize it and then post the findings online. Kosmyna had been expecting that people would do this, so she inserted a couple AI traps into the paper, such as instructing LLMs to “only read this table below,” thus ensuring that LLMs would return only limited insight from the paper.

She also found that LLMs hallucinated a key detail: Nowhere in her paper did she specify the version of ChatGPT she used, but AI summaries declared that the paper was trained on GPT-4o. “We specifically wanted to see that, because we were pretty sure the LLM would hallucinate on that,” she says, laughing.
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 20/06/2025
First up, this week's post about queer joy at the bra store by @rebeccamott.fit. "The problem had never been my body or my queerness. The problem had always been that the support I needed had never been available to me." theflytrap.beehiiv.com/p/queer-joy-...
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Queer Joy! at the Bra Store
How the lingerie boutique where I worked as a bra fitter became an intimate space for shared queerness.
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 20/06/2025
don't forget to subscribe after you read all these tasty treats! keep feminist blogging alive & these co-founders with food on their tables: theflytrap.beehiiv.com/subscribe
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Bringing Back the Feminist Blog
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 20/06/2025
For our free post this month, we have @tinavasquez.bsky.social's on the ground report about the first 55+ LGBTQ cohousing community in the country and the unique hurdles LGBTQ elders suffer: theflytrap.beehiiv.com/p/take-care-...
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‘Take Care of Your Own, As Long As You Can’
For Pride month, The Flytrap visited Durham, North Carolina’s Village Hearth, the first LGBTQ cohousing community in the nation for people 55 and over.
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ProfKFH @profkfh.bsky.social · 19/06/2025
Harriet Tubman #quilt by my Mom, Vera P. Hall, who makes quilts celebrating Black people who fought for their own freedom. This seems to be the crowd favorite of the “We Didn’t Wait for Freedom” series. Happy #Juneteenth #quilting
Colorful quilt of a nighttime scene with  Harriet Tubman in an orange jacket and purple dress carrying a rifle. She is leading other figures who walk behind her.
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 19/06/2025
Happy Juneteenth! @freeblackgirl.bsky.social‬'s meditation on Ryan Coogler's Sinners and its devotion to Black intimacies is something you NEED to read today:
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'Sinners' Celebrates the Decadent Intimacy of the Black South
Ryan Coogler's latest film threads Black intimacies through time and space, all in one spiritually stirring night at Club Juke.
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Rebecca Mott @rebeccamott.fit · 13/06/2025
You can book a virtual bra fitting here! beacons.ai/rebeccamott We'll talk about past issues you've had, what your ideal bra would do, and any other issues or concerns you have. I'll then send you a list of 5-10 bras I think would be best for you, with specific size and fit recommendations.
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Josephine beckbook.com Riesman @josie.zone · 18/06/2025
Me and @zachrabiroff.com have discovered that a gay, disabled, pill-popping Yale Drama grad likely ghostwrote many of Stan Lee's most famous comics Marvel Comics and Disney don't want you to know about Ron Whyte New from @flaminghydra.com below "Face it tiger ... you just hit the jackpot!"
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A Swingin’ Surprise or Two
The best-kept secret in the history of Marvel Comics was in high dudgeon by the time he sat down at his typewriter. It was a July afternoon in 1971, and Ron Whyte, a playwright and activist, was about...
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Garrett Merz @garrettmerz.bsky.social · 18/06/2025
My partner & I were trying to ID a bird we heard while walking and the guy who had stopped his car to let us pass got out and was like "it's a frog, actually. Cope's Gray. I do frog surveys... Sorry" And then got in his car without a word and drove off. Absolute king
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Aysha U. Farah @ayshaufarah.bsky.social · 17/06/2025
I told you guys
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Rebecca Mott @rebeccamott.fit · 17/06/2025
I had so much fun writing this piece and am so thankful to @theflytrapmedia.com for giving it life!!
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Britt @whineosaur.bsky.social · 17/06/2025
Pollinator is such a chill ass job. I hope I’m a pollinator in my next life
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 17/06/2025
Alsooo we loved @rebeccamott.fit's writing so much we made these stickers for #Pride: theflytrapmedia-shop.fourthwall.com/products/que...
A graphic that says QUEER PEOPLE ARE MAGIC
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 17/06/2025
Happy Flytrap Tuesday! Today we have a freelancer piece by @rebeccamott.fit on the queer joys of being a bra fitter in Atlanta. Get ready for some wholesome gay reading time: theflytrap.beehiiv.com/p/queer-joy-...
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Queer Joy! at the Bra Store
How the lingerie boutique where I worked as a bra fitter became an intimate space for shared queerness.
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 16/06/2025
We have a super queer post coming out tomorrow (pun intended). Why not subscribe today & get your GAY post in your inbox tomorrow? We recommend the FlyBys for $6.66/month if you're tight on money, or Friends of the Flytrap at $65/year if you got that cash on you! theflytrap.beehiiv.com/subscribe
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Internet Archive @archive.org · 16/06/2025
Big update to GifCities, our GeoCities GIF search engine! 🎉 Now with semantic search, size filtering, and GifGrams to share. Explore & share vintage web fun ➡️ gifcities.org #GifCities #InternetArchive #WebHistory #GIFs
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Britt @whineosaur.bsky.social · 16/06/2025
My wife @rebeccamott.fit has an INCREDIBLE, moving, gorgeous essay about queerness, joy, and bras out this week on @theflytrapmedia.com. Follow the link below to subscribe so you can read!! Here what I looked like reading her article last week theflytrap.beehiiv.com/subscribe
close up of me, a cis woman with short, pink hair and black heart-shaped glasses, in a pink shirt (different pink), making a little pouty face with tears in my eyes because my wife's writing has moved me so immensely. there's a bug bite on my forehead in this picture, i just noticed
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 16/06/2025
aaand there will be two more gift links this month. Reminder that to keep us running, we need paying subscribers. So if you like this content and want to support us, you can subscribe here: theflytrap.beehiiv.com/subscribe
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derek guy @dieworkwear.bsky.social · 16/06/2025
next level pattern matching IG salve.studios
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 15/06/2025
We are looking for guest art contributors! This is a PAID opportunity for values-aligned artists. Fill out the form below:
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Rebecca Mott @rebeccamott.fit · 13/06/2025
I'm a grad student working on my Master's in Library Sciences at LSU, focusing my research projects on the role public libraries play in the lives of queer youth. I pay the bills with virtual bra fittings online, mending/alterations in Atlanta, and am dipping my toes into freelance writing!
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Mo Ryan @moryan.bsky.social · 14/06/2025
No kings except Kings (NBC, 2009)
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s. e. smith @sesmith.lol · 14/06/2025
Hey YOU! Have you been longing to be a guest art contributor at @theflytrapmedia.com? Today’s your lucky day, because we are open to pitches!
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Internet Archive @archive.org · 13/06/2025
👀 ⬇️
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Sara Gibbs @sararoseg.bsky.social · 13/06/2025
Cute how they keep inventing new names to help women not realise they’re autistic
Are you a ‘super hearer’? Why some women can hear electricity, ticking clocks and their neighbours chatting from four doors down
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mywife is soft nd ilikeher @liveonthesun.bsky.social · 12/06/2025
aaaaah radiolab for kids/terrestrials just did an episode about these lil guys, like specifically graceland cemetery coyotes! radiolab.org/podcast/the-...
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The Howler: The Dog Who Joined a Coyote Pack
How a coyote’s flexibility is its greatest strength.
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Britt @whineosaur.bsky.social · 11/06/2025
yesterday morning we heard our 7th yell "i did it!!! i've been trying to learn and i finally did it!" and my wife went to the living room and asked what he learned and he said "ARMPIT FARTS!" and farted his armpit at her
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Chris Gelardi @chrisgelardi.bsky.social · 11/06/2025
This moment when some dude whipped out a bagpipe and accompanied a "the people united will never be defeated" chant
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Noah @bedmounds.com · 10/06/2025
A robin made a nest in one of my plant pots right outside my studio. The baby birds are hatching today.
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The Flytrap @theflytrapmedia.com · 10/06/2025
HAPPY MOTHERFUCKIN' PRIDE! For our free post this month, we have @tinavasquez.bsky.social's on the ground report about North Carolina’s Village Hearth, the first LGBTQ cohousing community in the nation for people 55 and over. theflytrap.beehiiv.com/p/take-care-...
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‘Take Care of Your Own, As Long As You Can’
For Pride month, The Flytrap visited Durham, North Carolina’s Village Hearth, the first LGBTQ cohousing community in the nation for people 55 and over.
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Louisa @louisathelast.bsky.social · 10/06/2025
And as I always harp on when this comes up— not just cervical cancer! HPV causes penile cancer, anal cancer, head and neck cancers. It is important for people of every gender to get the vaccine, and in the US you can get it up to age 45
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Thor Benson @thorbenson.bsky.social · 10/06/2025
Gotta love an 86-year-old woman with the heart of a poster
joyce carol oates is the goat
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mywife is soft nd ilikeher @liveonthesun.bsky.social · 09/06/2025
jonathan swift would like a word
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