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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 05/10/2026

This is directly out of an abuser's playbook. If you don't do the thing that your abuser wants you to do, then you get "punished" Having lived that life: it's a trap.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 05/10/2026

Do you teach classes? I didn't ruin my asshole ex's life hard enough

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/10/2026

So it's not harassment when you do it, but it's harassment when people do it to you Good to know. Bigot.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/10/2026

Yeah, it kinda does. You can't materially support hate and then claim you aren't. People who support Harry Potter are bigots. End of story. If it bothers you, find a better book.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/10/2026

I'm so so tired of all this needless cruelty

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 02/10/2026

Foushee has always worked for whomever brought her the fattest check. Remember the money she took from AIPAC?

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RI DaSēr @sotreu.blacksky.app · 28/09/2026

150/250 of my rent goal 0/2000 of my moving goal #HelpSky #MutualAid

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 26/09/2026

Be careful what you wish for, I drive by your neighborhood at least once a week /s No but seriously, beverage?

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Anna Holmes @annabookwriter.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

This is the last I’ll say of it for a while: disabled people are constantly expected to tolerate people who claim to be on our side using language that suggests they believe one of the worst things you can be is us.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 23/09/2026

The Greatest American Hero had a theme song that makes me twitch every time I hear it Yes I know it was an obscure TV show nearly 50 years ago but the song itself hit billboard top 40 and is still around And then, ofc, the Enterprise theme

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 22/09/2026

Few years back, broke my heart because they used to be my favorite band. Transition has been such a weird time, hugely positive overall, but there's grief involved with letting go of people (and their creations) who would rather you not exist than be happy in your body.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 22/09/2026

I haven't listened to Radiohead since I discovered they're a bunch of TERFs, everything after that has tracked with TERFs generally being terrible people.

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Alex Ip 葉清霖 @alexip718.com · 21/09/2026

Well well well, someone said the quiet part out loud

60 Minutes (@60Minutes) on X:

“This is the first time in my adult life where there's been an issue that's come up that I feel like is going to directly impact me,” says Dave Lowe, a lifelong conservative Republican who lives near a proposed data center in Texas.

A middle-aged white man with a white beard, a cowboy hat, and a shirt stares at the camera

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 17/09/2026

watch, being LGBTQ and/or BIPOC and objecting at all to *gestures* any of this will be labeled as "toxic" because I know guys like this, how dare people have opinions on their human rights that aren't "you're right, we should just die and stop being a bother"

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Better Things Are Possible @internethippo.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Every other headline now is "Huge liar who's financially motivated to lie says"

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 14/09/2026

North Carolina, where I live. Also, I've known you for 20 seconds and you're fucking exhausting. Do your own homework, pal.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 14/09/2026

And almost all of them were accomplished with the support of right-leaning Democrats.

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Alejandra Caraballo @esqueer.net · 14/09/2026

Cis people do not understand how much trans people's rights have regressed in just 5 years. 5 years ago, there were none of these restrictions. 19 states banned legal recognition 21 states have bathroom bans 8 states ban gender marker changes on DLs 25 ban gender affirming care for trans youth

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 12/09/2026

I made small talk with Ray Park at a bar one DragonCon (loooong ago) and when I walked away with my drink, my friend breathlessly informed me that I'd been flirting with m'fing Darth Maul I thought he was just being nice! Dude was probably relieved to have a single normal conversation that day.

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The Onion @theonion.com · 09/09/2026

Experts Advise Against Throwing Laptop Across Office Even Though It Will Feel Incredible theonion.com/experts-advise-against…

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Xero now with 100% more 🎃 @artificer-ind.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Still patiently waiting to be "left behind" by AI rather than it chasing me across every damn space like a slasher in a low budget flick.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 09/09/2026

I'm so tired of all the hype

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 08/09/2026

I used the gluten free dumpling recipe from Woks of Life (highly recommended!). As I was working the dough, I thought to myself, I bet if I enriched this I could get pierogi dough ... So we'll see, it would be nice to have some for the holiday season

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 08/09/2026

I made homemade pot stickers (gluten free dumpling dough and all) and now my belly is full of the best dumplings I've had since going gluten free Lessons learned: quadruple the dough recipe in order to have leftovers. Start at 10am. Put on a couple of movies, you'll be there awhile Next: pierogis

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/09/2026

Clearly a kid of discerning tastes

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/09/2026

Women can't win in this society

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/09/2026

Roko's Basi-lick-my-ass AI people are goofy as fuck, sweating about the racist pile of linear algebra getting its feelings hurt IT'S SOFTWARE, IT DOESN'T HAVE FEELINGS

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 04/09/2026

The racist pile of linear algebra is not a sentient being and doesn't have feelings. Have you tried getting some fresh air lately?

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/09/2026

Bless these folks, glad to see it

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/09/2026

#Drop1Password Material support to fascists means I will never give another dime to your business again.

"Your subscription has been canceled"
A subscription cancellation notice from 1Password

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/09/2026

@1password.bsky.social Congratulations on losing my business permanently, hope your support of fascists like DHH and his Omarchy foundation is worth it.

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Dr. Han VanderHart @hanvanderhart.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

My press doesn’t use substack, or help make content for substack. We just turned down a second press interview hosted on substack—so I want to share this article.

theguardian.com

Revealed: How Substack makes money from hosting Nazi newsletters

Exclusive: Site takes a cut of subscriptions to content that promotes far-right ideology, white supremacy and antisemitism

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/09/2026

oh yeah, damn Wil Stancil, that talentless bootlicking hack, as well

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 03/09/2026

having one of those days tossing my computer(s) into a lake and becoming a full-on Luddite sounds wildly appealing anyway damn a transphobe damn DHH damn ICE and damn every single person who supports and protects fascists

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 26/08/2026

www.instagram.com/reel/Dcei9ka... AND I'LL DO IT AGAIN pick a date! I'm open most evenings save Wednesday and Thursday and usually all weekend

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Jack Jenkins @jackjenkins.me · 26/08/2026

Barber says a church that doesn’t stand with immigrants “being terrorized” should “take church off the sign and put ‘club’ up instead.”

Rev. Barber standing next to a group of activists and clergy.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 26/08/2026

oh ahahahah now a video of me is making the rounds on IG haven't been out of the house for months because of my health ... first day out, get spicy and end up on the medias. Figures.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 26/08/2026

Of all the foolishness 🙄 Three card monte with the fascism machine is not the own these people think it is

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

I have ascended to the crank who gets thrown out of country commission meetings for yelling at the commissioners Be condescending to your constituents again, commissioner Burton. I dare you.

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

Ope someone got up and yelled in session Me. It was me. 😊

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

I dragged my aching bones down to Main Street, I'm gonna be paying for it but totally worth it

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

Sixty three public comments Durham is big mad Well done Durham

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

For my own reference, this was commissioner Jacobs with the foolishness Someone's getting a strongly worded letter

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 25/08/2026

Boy howdy do these county commissioners have a really bizarre idea of what a data center is The IT office on the fourth floor is not a data center FFS

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 23/08/2026

I ... I mean ... We aren't ... Whaaa *splutter* Time, man. The passage of it never fails to surprise me (I got an invitation to join AARP last week)

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Jay Grant @jaygrant.gay · 23/08/2026

They're natural predators of disease spreading insects, one of the best natural controls you can have for mosquitos They have excellent eyesight and avoid humans unless their habitat is encroached upon Bats are awesome! I've put up dozens of bat houses and love the little critters

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