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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

It really bothers me that people think that bestiality is worse than rape. Yes it’s morally wrong to rape animals, but it’s MORE morally wrong to rape people.

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Lilith Hawthorn • Chicago @lilith-hawthorn.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I promise not to bring you to this place… unless you ask me nicely, of course.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Had a gig with a client and it comes to the end part where he’s trying to come. Now this guy doesn’t let me play music at all, he says it distracts him. So he’s stroking it in very serious silence, and I’m licking his nipples, and omg his STOMACH starts rumbling - like LOUD. Seriously loud.

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Mistress Matisse @mistressmatisse.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

This made me laugh because sex workers are CONSTANTLY begging customers NOT to write down anything incriminating, as in: any talk of sex or money. MANY promising appointments, that could’ve happened, do not happen because the client INSISTED on talking about sex in messages and that’s not allowed.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

It’s hard when someone you love is having a mental/emotional breakdown, you can see it happening, you know what they need (it’s medication) and you’re trying to help them get to that realization, but they’re fighting against awareness every step of the way. But - they have to get there themselves

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

One of those clients who hasn’t done anything bad enough to warrant you firing him completely? but he’s just so weird and annoying and troublesome that you kinda half-ass the 60 minute date with him, hoping that he’ll never come see you again. And yet somehow: it just seems to make him more keen

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

This client today who indicated he wanted to kiss, but turns out, his version of kissing is puckering up and then just - pushing his lips really hard against mine, without any other kind of movement or variation of his lips, and definitely no tongue. Which: well dude if it works for you, okay then

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Adrienne Kay || YVR & worldwide @adriennekay.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

I like them pruned to perfection. ✂️ Photo @vesperalfilms.bsky.social

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

So, I spent about a week being pissed at several of my regulars for being too demanding - so I sat down and wrote each of them carefully-phrased messages indicating I felt stress about finances, and to my surprise: they all responded by giving me more money! I’m slightly astonished but okay, great!

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

@servemisslilly.bsky.social May I ask a favor of you please? there’s an account here @rightlightsub who says he belongs to you, and he keeps adding me to lists and I do not want to be on them, but he doesn’t seem to see me asking him to stop. Can you ask him for me?

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

For Christ sake, people, do not add me to a “domme starter pack” list. I do wish you could lock your account on this app. Miss Twitter for that aspect alone.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Home from my gig and I actually have a mild hangover from the multiple glasses of wine that I didn’t really want but this client, who is SOBER, pressured me into drinking. He’s like “drink it drink it, I enjoy seeing you drink it, it feels like a party when you drink” so I foolishly let him push me

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

On the overnight gig with this client, he’s finally asleep and I just popped an ambien with a chaser of wine because I’m SO READY for it to be morning so I can GO HOME. Omg being *on* with men is so fucking exhausted. Acting happy and interested in him for more than two hours at a time is too much

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Here’s me having to get out of bed at 9:30 AM on a Saturday because this goofy client wants to do a one-night overnight with me, but we have to drive two hours out to this fancy hotel in the ass end of nowhere, so that we can “relax”. Which is always funny because um no sir this is WORK for me

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

True love is real though: all these other men text me paragraphs all about their sexual fantasies and how we need to fulfill them. But the man that I love texts me about MY fantasies of having a big house and chickens and a cat, and how we will fulfill them, and that’s why I will adore him forever

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Why are weirdos and normies following my account? I’m not going to talk to you, I’m not going to reply to you. I’m not going to boost your content and if I see you retweeting my stuff I’m just going to block you. If you aren’t a sex worker or a fmr sex worker? fuck right off from my account please

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Annie Vesper @annievesper.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Sex acronyms are modern-day locker room speak. I'm going to guess 90% of us ladies feel the urge to vomit when we see one. So men, on the off chance you're over the age of 19 and actually treat women like full humans, but still are naively using those terms, just stop. We hate it

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

OK, I was off for 10 days at my mom’s, I turned off notifications for all my clients, and holy cats, they were all just melting down in my text messages because I was ignoring them. Even though I TOLD them I would be unavailable. So tomorrow it’s back to the slog.

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Amber Dream • NYC @dreamofamber.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

Sometimes guys are like “youre being difficult” 🤔 I mean, I could be impossible!!

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Tricky situation with a client. He’s a doctor, and got me an appointment with a specialist, who is hard to see, in his practice. He told this doctor I’m his girlfriend. My insurance is provided to be by my boyfriend. I’m sort of worried my client is going to look at my insurance info and be upset

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

I vent on here, but I saw a client today who has been seeing me for 90 minutes, about every three months, for 24 years. He demands relatively little emotional labor, just wants his kinks, and whenever I see him I’m reminded of: oh right this kind of guy is exactly the reason I used to love this job

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Mistress Matisse @mistressmatisse.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

I do think it’s whorephobia that of all the Dolly tributes I’ve seen on TV tonight, not single one of them has mentioned how she starred in a movie called “The Best Little WHOREHOUSE in Texas” where she lovingly and respectfully portrayed a whorehouse madame.

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Dolly Parton Says Howdy, Boys!

Alt: gif of “Dolly Parton Says Howdy, Boys!” As she walks down stairs in a tight silver gown, smiling and shaking her hips

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

So I have this ONE client who is MAGA (even tho he is an immigrant???) and I hate it but I figured out how to deal with him talking about all the MAGA types he does business with. I say “oh babe it’s so great that you can handle those scumbags so well, it must be gross to be around such evil morons”

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Laura Chapin @laurachapin.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Again, this is very personal, but Dolly was also living proof that a woman choosing not to have children - and to have a career - is a valid choice equally full of love, compassion, and generosity.

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DeLaine ✨NSFW 6’1 Giantess @delaineinla.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Paying $140 for a SW isnt a problem. Being ultra wealthy and then paying your SW only $140 is a huge problem & immediately tells me you’re a massive asshole who enjoys the unequal power dynamic. 100% guarantee this guy haggles no matter what the rate is.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

I have this client coming over and I have to remember that, even though he’s a good client, I have to treat him like I’m a little bit mad at him all the time, because he gets very anxious if women are nice to him. I figured this out listening to him talking about a) his mother and b) his wife

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Ah home sweet home with a nice fat stack ❤️ 💵

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

That very last hour of 3 day gig where client is lying on the bed next to you with his eyes slipping down down down and you lie very still and quiet and inside you’re like: that’s right big fella you just drift on off to dreamland…. Have to wait for the deep snore though so you know he’s REALLY out

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

This guy is great but just can’t get him into the idea that we should do the kink part FIRST, in the afternoon, and then go out to a huge 2 hour ridiculous dinner with wine and dessert because all I want to do is go to sleep after that. It’s the one time I miss coke. It’s been years since I did but

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Starting a 3 night gig tonight. I started seeing this client in 2001, so at 25 years he’s my longest whale-type relationship. In his day, we did some intense stuff, but he’s 76 now so it’s milder BDSM. And its just my company and the symbol of it, because at 59, I’m still “a younger woman” to him

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Phoenix Calida @phoenixcalida.latinsky.app · 20/08/2026

Tbh one of the most radical things you can do is listen to sex workers

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Valet Parker * Las Vegas @valetparker.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Sex work is sex work. Trafficking is trafficking. If you can’t grasp that, maybe don’t speak on the topic.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Saw one of my regulars today, he does this thing he loves to do: he booked a duo, texted us elaborate plans all about what he wanted us to do. And then - he got so overwhelmed by all attention and the action that he got too much in his head, he couldn’t finish, and was sad. He does this every time.

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Annie Vesper @annievesper.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

3 yr old thread, still a banger

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

So I’ve been wanting a little more business. But I do not want to put ads up or deal with processing new clients! so I prayed to Whore Goddess to please send me one of my old clients back, someone I know is OK, who wants to spend some money? And: She obliged me. One of my old whales has returned!

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

So: no offense, but if you’re not a sex worker or former sw’er, I’d rather that you did not follow me. If I could lock this account, I would. Preemptively blocking people who haven’t done anything wrong seems rude, but I really don’t want your attention here, and I will not be giving you mine.

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

So I’m bisexual and I’m going to a women’s kink party tonight, obviously without my male partner, which he is fine with. But he said to me “you dress very differently for women’s parties than you do for the mixed gender parties” and I said yes, there are queer girl dress codes! He was amused by this

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

So I went and got new extensions yesterday, which means that my hair is now like 3 inches longer than it was on Tuesday. I’ve been wearing them for years. Do any of my clients ever look at me and say “huh you look different?” No. Do they not notice or they’re afraid to ask? IDK but it’s funny to me

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Socks the Plushy ✡️ @rainbowsockscat.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

Panicking over fetishes and fetish art is basically just going "Noooo if you play pretend too weirdly you go to hell!"

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

So I’ve been trying to sort of gently introduce my clients to the idea that I might be retiring soon. And the same thing has happened with three of them now: they all say “oh of course, I understand. I can see why you feel that way.” Pause. “But you’ll still see ME right?”

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Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦 @lexcisterling.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

I’ve put together a private resource library for sex workers featuring screening templates, booking guides, safety notes, cancellation policies, privacy basics, resources + more. Ask me for the password. Sex workers only. lexcilust@gmail.com

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

So, over on the public Sexworkers forum, there is an interesting thread about the way that sex workers tend to talk to each other. In this case, how we tend to be a bit - brusque. Like not always? And I mean: it’s Reddit! But: why is that? Some interesting comments www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers...

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[Mature Content] From the SexWorkers community on Reddit: People in this sub are unnecessarily condescending and rude! Why??

Posted by hotuglyqueer - 83 votes and 74 comments

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Omg I have a client arriving writing in 15 minutes and I’m sprawled on the couch with deep fatigue. Whore goddess come to me please and give me the strengths to get through this

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Y’all I keep taking little breaks from work and thinking that will reset me to come back to it and every time I come back to it I’m like: oh my God I really need to retire. I stg my clients can feel me trying to just edge gently away from them and it just makes them CLING HARDER.

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Mistress Matisse @mistressmatisse.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

THIS is so true, never forget this

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Isys @isysmeows.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

So much of the stigma sw face comes from people‘s negative views towards their own and other peoples sexualities and thinking there’s something dirty and wrong with sex. I really feel like society would change so much if we let go of this shame

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Faye Valentine @fayevalentine99.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

My front door IS visible from the street, so I don’t stand in the doorway in all my whorish glory when clients arrive. I stand behind the door and open it for them. Why today did my client arrive at my door but then stand outside and refuse to come in because he couldn’t see ALL of ME from outside?

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