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Bex

@bexcommunicated.bsky.social
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Spoonie. Cat lady. Living in Detroit but left my heart in Buffalo. Lawyer. Legal editor. (she/her) I lost my place but I can’t stop this story 🎶

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Charles Louis Richter @richterscale.bsky.social · 13h
you are invited to her gallery opening
A very tiny tabby kitten in a black post-surgery onesie that looks like a tight black shirt, very chic.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 15h
Oh oop. When your day job company is actually a highlighted priv term in your night time doc review job…
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Squidward Walajukuevans Looking Nervous Meme
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 15h
So the whole problem with Spravato is that you’re not allowed to drive yourself home after. They don’t want you driving the rest of the day. Which is why I’m paying stupid amounts in uber fees now that they moved out to the suburbs
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Hannah Vardit @hannahvardit.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
i worry that men think being A Good Guy is dramatically and heroically intervening on behalf of an endangered woman and then being publicly rewarded on a grand scale when actually being A Good Guy is just usually saying, “hey man that’s not funny” or “wow that’s fucked up” and there is no reward
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
This thread! Men want so badly to blame women instead of taking a look at themselves & what they might be doing to make us not want to be with them. And this one is so simple. Simply relax. And they still can’t take the constructive criticism
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I thought I was doing so good on watching movies this year. I'm at 61 and I still have the 31 nights of Halloween to go. But then I looked back at Letterboxd and apparently I watched 181 in 2024? How though? What was I doing?!
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Things I guarantee a woman did not design… Sewing the tags on hand towels to be in the front part that would get used most if hanging through one of those loops hand towels are meant to hang from. LIKE WHY?
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I was never the biggest fan of the movie Midsommar when I watched it years ago but I know everyone else loves it so I'm watching again just to see if I was just cranky when I watched it or if it's just not my vibe
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Andrew Schreck @andrewschreck.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
i don't think cis guys realize how much power they can shift in a conversation just by casually telling their friends
"that's fucked up, man" when someone says something
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Ya know what I found interesting about last night? There were way more GenZ girlies there than I expected. And of the girls directly in front of us one was wearing rhinestone denim shorts, one had an Ed Hardy sweatshirt & none of them took out their phones except to use flashlights for some songs
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I just made the appointment to officially move forward on Invisalign 😬😭 I'm so nervous. But I was doing video messages to... the guy? the ex? Idk idk. recently because it was easier than text & I was realizing I really need to get my bottom teeth fixed. It needs to be done
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Last night was incredible. We got a whole festival line up in one concert. I wish the sets were longer 😭 Alt rock phase college Bex was in heaven Hinder was the first opener
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Y’all… I do still have issues with height despite Zendaya making it cool. But like… if there was ever a profile written specifically to attract me this would be it 😂 this feels like a trap 😂
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66 About me
Single cat dad. I work 2 jobs so my cats never have to lift a paw. Trying to provide them a better life then I had growing up.
Lets go on a nature hike and take photos or go thrift shopping
Apparently I need to point out, I don't use A.l. or filters for my photos, just a silly dude taking silly photos with my camera because I think it's fun, that's all.
My friend's girlfriend's review of me:
"Do you ever shut up??"
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26 miles away
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Photographer at Shawn Garrett Photography
Lives in Hartland
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66 My dream job is...
Nature photographer, or opening a cat cafe.
•••A photo of a man in a blue 80s style sweater holding a cat while another cat perches on his shoulder. There are lasers in the background reminiscent of 80s style school photos. There is also a shot of him faded into the background with a cat on each shoulder A photo of a man holding his hands above his head holding was appears to be a laser or a light saber while a cat stands next to him reaching up to his hip and another photo of a cat in a black helmet is faded into the background A man crouched down next to a chair with his head resting on his fist. He is wearing a part hat. Next to him in the chair is a cat wearing a sweater and a party hat making an annoyed face
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Thomas Neville @goobermunch.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The best summary of BlueSky’s discourse today.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
At the Staind, Seether, Hinder, Hoobastank show & I passed the merch stand & saw Divorced Dad Rock merch 😂
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
So did Zendaya officially make it acceptable to date men shorter than you? Asking because I found a really cute guy who is like an inch or more (remember the whole is Bex 5’6” or 5’7” debacle that the nurses have yet to decide on) shorter than me 😩
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
The Choosin’ Texas discourse is funny to me. I was surprised it was so popular but not surprised that it was popular at all. It’s a catchy song. But I get how it’s easy to not hear new music since we stream. Especially of other genres. I often stream the “top hits” or whatever on Apple so I heard it
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Can you imagine being Big Sean and fumbling Ariana Grande and Jhené Aiko??? Like granted, the fact that he even got them in the first place is more than most men can say but to fumble them… like how do you mess up that bad?
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I just swiped right on an attorney. It might be time for someone to take the app away from me now 😭
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Elmo Hiding Shyly on a Balcony
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Chance the Lawyer @chancethelawyer.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
why are people using meta products? why do I have to ask such stupid questions so repeatedly?
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Friends… someone just asked me when I moved to Michigan & I said 2006 & realized I’ve officially been here TWENTY YEARS 😭😭😭😭 HOOOOWWWWW??? I still don’t claim to be a Michigander. I would claim to be a Detroiter at least but I feel like a fraud since I’ve only been here 8 years I’m a New Yorker 😭
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I… I don’t know how to feel about this. Are doctors taking pictures for their dating profiles while they’re doing surgery on me? 😂
A screenshot of a Tinder profile that has a photo of a man in surgical dressing who appears to be preparing for a surgery. Under the photo it says “about me” and he has put in “I fix broken hearts 💔”
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
So my relationship has been very up & down. I've opened the apps a couple times when things were bad. But I think it's time to move on for real for real this time. So I'm trying to actually use the apps again. I feel like I was in a much better headspace to flirt last time. This time I'm struggling
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
It took me a minute to understand it too 😅 Looks like we're in the same percentile but I'm just a smidge to the right. Maybe because I said I wasn't opposed to experts making decisions? But I was more thinking of them advising. I think I answered that wrong in context
a screenshot of quiz results showing that my politics are further right than only 1% of the population
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Just heard a pedal pub go by my apartment full of women singing to Get Low & nothing brings me more joy than women vibing out to millennial music
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I would probably ask the cat's name before I asked yours and just hire you immediately without further questions
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I guess I'm all about the half stars this week It’s #LetterboxdFriday. Here’s my #LastFourWatched Ladies First ⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Unabomber ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 LifeHack ⭐️⭐️ 1/2 The Rip ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Follow me: boxd.it/7pQyj #FilmSky 🎥 #Letterboxd
a screenshot of the letterboxd website showing the movie posters for Ladies First, Unabomber, LifeHack, and The Rip
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK. Why do y'all still deal with this shit? That website really has people locked in & I have no idea why (please do not use this as an opportunity to tell me why you specifically have absolutely no choice but to use the site because otherwise you might die 🙄)
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So I go to LaserAway for my laser hair removal & they keep trying to sell me on a facial even though they said my skin looks pretty clear already. So I randomly did their skin analyzer on their website and an estimated skin age of 28-33??? LOLOLOL I'll take it!!
a screenshot of the laseraway website showing my skin analysis that states that my skin rates a 77 out of 100 and my estimated skin age is 28-33 years old
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Jaya Saxena @jayasaxena.com · 25/09/2026
Wait you guys are getting job interviews?
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Me: I liked having A around but I’m not used to someone in my space so I think it was overstimulating Therapist: *says something about Pepsi sitting in my lap* Me: I think she was overstimulated by the dog Therapist: so she feels the same as you & is needing comfort from you 😭 she is my soul cat
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Diversity in Horror (they/them) @diversityhorror.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
A photo of a gray cat in front of a pink pie chart. On the top it says “Things that bring me joy.” The pie chart is divided into five sections that say: Going home to my cat, thinking about my cat, watching my cat enjoy a treat, rotting in bed with my cat, and talking about my cat.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Ok. I’m okay with that woman’s sleeveless shift dress in court, but I’m not for an iced coffee in an interview. A bottle of water? Sure. An iced coffee feels far too casual & comfortable for a first interview to me. I wouldn’t use it as a reason not to hire someone, but it would weigh in my mind
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I absolutely would have lost a hand that day because I would be baby talking & then reach for a pet 🤷‍♀️😂
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Intrusive Thot @apricity.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026
Ok, which Greek god did he piss off, because this is 🤌🏾. He destroyed his reputation and alienated every musician on his tour to avoid cancellation at this stadium. Now it's canceled anyway because of weather. This is what Tracy Chapman meant by "all that you have is your soul."
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
El-oh-el
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Love waking up to find that the nominee to run the FDA refused to agree or disagree with an admin statement that IUDs and birth control are abortifacients
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Carl Wheezer: Stop The World I Wanna Get Off!!!
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Ann M. Lipton @annmlipton.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
i remain absolutely delighted that china can get diplomatic concessions by sending other countries cute bears and we all willingly go along with it because the bears are just that adorable.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
This is absurd
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
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Jewels Sparkles: Somebody Is Lying
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I mean what do you expect him to do? He can’t be expected to lay on the floor like a commoner. Ugh. Cc: @mariel.bsky.social
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shauna @goldengateblond.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
so i’m on the train this morning and a guy gets on with a little dog and pops open a tiny folding chair and THE DOG SITS IN IT
a small grey folding canvas chair with a fluffy off-white dog curled up in it like a perfect lil angel close-up of the previous photo of a small grey folding canvas chair with a fluffy off-white dog curled up in it like a perfect lil angel
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
STAAAAAHHHHHPPP leave @letterboxd.social alone 😭 we like it how it is now
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
So while I would also throw a jacket on, or at very least a cardigan since it was just an appearance, I do think it’s a little bit dumb. Women have arms. It’s not scandalous. I can understand the frustration of younger attorneys with following such outdated dress code rules
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
So I know a couple people were relying on me to update them on the adorable cat who demanded a new home & screamed until she got one. 😂 Well she was successful. It’s official. 🎉❤️
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
So after 2 weeks with A’s dog I have confirmed that I need a small dog if I get one. I’ve always said I would get a pitty & nothing else. But damn are dogs strong when they want to walk a different way or don’t want to walk home after pooping
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Slept with a couple windows open & when I woke up it was 63 degrees in my apartment 🎶 it’s the most wonderful time of the year 🎶 BRING ON COZY SOCK SEASON!! 🙌
A woman’s legs outstretched in front of the camera wearing thick fuzzy socks up to her mid-calf
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
What makes my eyes light up & gets me excited? When someone who has never really seriously delved into horror tells me a couple horror movies they enjoyed & asks me for recommendations of where they should start #FilmSky #HorrorSky
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Charlie Day Explains Pepe Silvia Conspiracy
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
😭😭😭😭
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
This is an interesting point
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