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@bexcommunicated.bsky.social
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Spoonie. Cat lady. Living in Detroit but left my heart in Buffalo. Lawyer. Legal editor. (she/her) I lost my place but I can’t stop this story 🎶

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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 11m
And thank you! It was a huge selling point when I picked the apartment. And the little archway to the hallway.
A dark grey paneled wall with bookcases in front of it and an archway to the left leading to a hallway
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 3h
So should I take down the drapes completely & just put up new sheers? I prefer grey so if I decide to change my pillow cover colors the curtains can stay. But these are reasonably priced enough that I could switch them out if decided. So grey? Teal? Patterned? Also couch for reference
A grey couch with white, grey, and teal pillowsTwo different sets of grey sheet curtains. One with vines & leaves and one with diamonds Two sets of teal sheer curtainsTwo sets of white sheet curtains. One set with an abstract design in blue, the other with teal wavy vertical lines
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 3h
So. Now I need to replace my sheers. I love them so much but they don’t make them anymore. So. Current window set up. Hard to see but long dark grey velvet drapes & white striped sheer curtains. In the summer I like to be able to black out the room. In the winter I don’t care as much
Three photos of the same window showing dark grey heavy velvet drapes with white sheer striped curtainsA photo of a living room with one grey wall and two white walls. You can see two windows along the back wall with long dark grey heavy velvet drapes with sheer white curtains
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 3h
Apple just reminded me that 13 years ago today I took some of my favorite photos I've ever taken at an adoption event. That first one is one of my all time favs
A white hand reaches out and is holding a small gray furry cat paw that is reaching out of a cage. The cat is hidden as the cage is covered with a yellow toweltwo white hands are visible outside of an animal cage with one finger poking in to the cage to boop a small grey torbie cat on the nosea white hand reaches towards an animal cage and a small gray torbie cat appears to be reaching back
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 12/10/2026
Perfect Sunday night. Working but also popcorn & scary movies
A bowl of fresh popped popcorn and a bottle of franks redhot sauce in a lap covered by a grey fuzzy blanket with a laptop visible behind the popcorn bowl
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 11/10/2026
But look at these pretty dresses!! I better get some good dates!
A hot pink mummy wrap dressa hot pink floral lace dressa black dress with pink flower printa pink dress with scallop detail
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 11/10/2026
Ok ok ok. I might have met my match. And this one is taller than me. I normally swipe left on men who ask for CIS women only because it bugs me for some reason. But the ones who say it are usually super disrespectful about it. I think that’s more my problem with it. But he is kind about it
A screenshot of a Tinder profile with a photo of two cats snuggled up & the about me section reads: 

About me
Music fiend. Animal lover. Feminist. Humanist. Washed up, retired ahlete. Fresh out of a four-year relationship as of April. Live music and the outdoors >> Kindness and curiosity are attractive. Bonus points if you have a great sense of humor. My pets are pictured. They're my only kids. LGBTQ ally, but cis women only, please
(Apenas
mulheres cis, por favor.) 9 Brazil: November 12 - 21 So Paulo: 11/12 - 11/15 Rio: 11/15 - 11/21. I won't see your like,
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
And yeah. That's a nope. I gave him more than enough chances to take a step back & reevaluate & he keeps digging in. And over nothing. And if this is how he gets over nonsense, what happens if we ever have a real fight? I'm absolutely not gonna find out. No thank you, sir.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
Part two of #LetterboxdFriday #HorrorSky #FilmSky 🎥 #31NightsOfHalloween Don't Turn Out the Lights ⭐⭐ Alone at Night ⭐ 1/2 Keeper ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Oculus ♻️ ⭐⭐⭐ 1/2 Truth or Dare ⭐ 1/2 Prom Night ⭐⭐
a screenshot of the letterboxd website showing the movie posters for Prom Night, Truth or Dare, Oculus, Keeper, Alone at Night, and Don't Turn Out the Lights
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
Oops. I watched more than 4. In my defense it's #31NightsOfHalloween. See part 2 in next post It’s #LetterboxdFriday. Here’s my #LastFourWatched Night of the Hunted ⭐️⭐ Housemaid ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Soulm8te ⭐️1/2 Nightcrawler ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Follow me: boxd.it/7pQyj #HorrorSky #FilmSky 🎥 #Letterboxd
a screenshot of the letterboxd website showing the movie posters for Nightcrawler, Soulm8te, Housemaid, and Night of the Hunted
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
My annual compliance training buddy fell asleep before the first module ended
A grey torbie cat curled into a ball sleeping on a grey blanket
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
Ok. Trying them both to see which I like
A carton of Silk unsweetened almond milk and a carton of Planet Oat unsweetened oatmilk
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
I said I like it. I didn't say it was good. post yours! LOL This should be the disclaimer on my entire Letterboxd account if we're being honest 😂 But let's go with this one
The cover of the movie Three to Tango
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Friend: you should watch Carrie on Prime Me: ugh. I hate prime. I hate that they have commercials. I don’t like the app *sees @rahulkohli13.bsky.social (did he deactivate??? 😭😭😭) & @ogmatthewlillard.bsky.social in a scene together* Me: dude, you should have just led with this 😍😍😍😍😍😍
A photo of a tv sceeen. The tv is playing the show Carrie on Amazon Prime and is paused in a scene where Rahul Kohli and Matthew Lillard are standing next to each other in a classroom
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Hiiiii!!!
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Pepsi would 100% crawl inside my skin if she could 😂
A black cat laying on a gray fuzzy blanket
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
I mean… or we could not
Let's pretend I said something witty that gained your attention and made you smirk?
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Well damn. That sure is an opening move… can’t say it’s a good one 🥴
Was it your career or personal choice not to have
children
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
First photo is his cat & this is in his bio Also… she’s a calico so yeah we already know she’s an asshat 😂
A screenshot of a Tinder profile that features a photo of a calico catintrovert. My cat is an asshat, but she's my asshat..
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I mean… really (And yes it says Tiny Toons but she was also in Animaniacs)
Elmyra Duff is a 12-year-old fictional human character from the Tiny Toon Adventures series, known for her extreme, well-meaning but destructive obsession with cuddling animals.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
Mine didn’t have anything funny but damn does it know more than it should
Departments
Television Series Collection
Product Preferences
Favors complete television series over individual seasons
Product Preferences
Builds entertainment collections systematically
Interests & Hobbies
Likely collects television series extensively
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
I started using this Downey Unstoppables scent in the scent beads for my bedding & anything on the couch (pillows, blankets). I love it so much I was going to make my own fabric spray with the scent beads but then I found this & people in the reviews said they just used it as a fabric spray
A bottle of Downey Unstoppables Luxe Scent Wrinkle Releaser in the Rose, Honey, Oakmoss scent
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
This is the most Michigan soda selection I’ve ever seen 😭 what is this? This is the entire list of options
Screenshot of the DoorDash app showing the soda options for a Chinese restaurant. The options are Vernors, Faygo Twist, Faygo Orange, Faygo Red Pop, PepsiScreenshot of the DoorDash app showing the soda options for a Chinese restaurant. The options are Pepsi, Orange, Sprite, Faygo Grape, and Mountain Dew
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
It’s #LetterboxdFriday. Here’s my #LastFourWatched Psycho Killer ⭐️ Stir of Echoes ♻️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 ❤️ Midsommar ♻️ ⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Gothika ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Follow me: boxd.it/7pQyj #HorrorSky #FilmSky 🎥 #Letterboxd
a screenshot of the Letterboxd website showing the movie posters for Psycho Killer, Stir of Echoes, Midsommar, and Gothika
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
And so it begins… #31NightsOfHalloween #Letterboxd #HorrorSky Letterboxd List: boxd.it/XG2Zm
A screenshot of the Letterboxd app showing a list titled “31 Nights of Halloween 2026” with the movie poster for the movie Psycho Killer
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Ok not quite as cat-centric but it is 2 lines out of his 3 line bio. And he’s taller than me 😂
A screenshot of a Tinder profile. The about me section reads “don’t come over and be mean to my cats. I’ll kick you out”
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And finally Staind
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And Seether 😍
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Of course I have to post The Reason
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Then Hoobastank
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Last night was incredible. We got a whole festival line up in one concert. I wish the sets were longer 😭 Alt rock phase college Bex was in heaven Hinder was the first opener
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Y’all… I do still have issues with height despite Zendaya making it cool. But like… if there was ever a profile written specifically to attract me this would be it 😂 this feels like a trap 😂
Shawn 39
66 About me
Single cat dad. I work 2 jobs so my cats never have to lift a paw. Trying to provide them a better life then I had growing up.
Lets go on a nature hike and take photos or go thrift shopping
Apparently I need to point out, I don't use A.l. or filters for my photos, just a silly dude taking silly photos with my camera because I think it's fun, that's all.
My friend's girlfriend's review of me:
"Do you ever shut up??"
Essentials
Photo Verified
26 miles away
5 ft 5 in
Photographer at Shawn Garrett Photography
Lives in Hartland
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66 My dream job is...
Nature photographer, or opening a cat cafe.
•••A photo of a man in a blue 80s style sweater holding a cat while another cat perches on his shoulder. There are lasers in the background reminiscent of 80s style school photos. There is also a shot of him faded into the background with a cat on each shoulder A photo of a man holding his hands above his head holding was appears to be a laser or a light saber while a cat stands next to him reaching up to his hip and another photo of a cat in a black helmet is faded into the background A man crouched down next to a chair with his head resting on his fist. He is wearing a part hat. Next to him in the chair is a cat wearing a sweater and a party hat making an annoyed face
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Honestly though every time I do even dip my toe back in the apps it’s like a confidence boost & it makes me wonder why I keep putting up with nonsense when I really don’t have to
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I'm not here to solve your riddles 😭
a screenshot of a tinder profile about me section that is full of emojis with very few words
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I… I don’t know how to feel about this. Are doctors taking pictures for their dating profiles while they’re doing surgery on me? 😂
A screenshot of a Tinder profile that has a photo of a man in surgical dressing who appears to be preparing for a surgery. Under the photo it says “about me” and he has put in “I fix broken hearts 💔”
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
It took me a minute to understand it too 😅 Looks like we're in the same percentile but I'm just a smidge to the right. Maybe because I said I wasn't opposed to experts making decisions? But I was more thinking of them advising. I think I answered that wrong in context
a screenshot of quiz results showing that my politics are further right than only 1% of the population
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I guess I'm all about the half stars this week It’s #LetterboxdFriday. Here’s my #LastFourWatched Ladies First ⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Unabomber ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 LifeHack ⭐️⭐️ 1/2 The Rip ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Follow me: boxd.it/7pQyj #FilmSky 🎥 #Letterboxd
a screenshot of the letterboxd website showing the movie posters for Ladies First, Unabomber, LifeHack, and The Rip
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
So I go to LaserAway for my laser hair removal & they keep trying to sell me on a facial even though they said my skin looks pretty clear already. So I randomly did their skin analyzer on their website and an estimated skin age of 28-33??? LOLOLOL I'll take it!!
a screenshot of the laseraway website showing my skin analysis that states that my skin rates a 77 out of 100 and my estimated skin age is 28-33 years old
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Slept with a couple windows open & when I woke up it was 63 degrees in my apartment 🎶 it’s the most wonderful time of the year 🎶 BRING ON COZY SOCK SEASON!! 🙌
A woman’s legs outstretched in front of the camera wearing thick fuzzy socks up to her mid-calf
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Oh ya know. Just listening to Vic Mensa while picking a cute cat to color while I trip on ketamine in my doctor’s office. Totally normal things on a Tuesday 🤷‍♀️
A screenshot of the Lake app on an iPad showing different coloring pages of cats, overlayed by the notification screen of the iPad showing Apple Music is playing Vic Mensa’s song In Some Trouble
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
HAPPY BIRTHDAY @monicacarmean.bsky.social! 🎉🎂🥳
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
It’s against the law to get out of the car before you finish singing this song at the top of your lungs 🤷‍♀️
A photo of a display in a car showing Apple Music and the song playing is Hit ‘Em Up Stylr by Blu Cantrell
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Tried to organize my photos library & came across these gems all from 2016 🫩 @mariel.bsky.social @wstafrican.blacksky.app
@whyofcorso • 7h

I don't generally consider myself a mean person, but I legitimately hope Roy Moore is crying.

@GuideStarU... • 44m 

Replying to @shelteringwings

Congratulations @shelteringwings!
Thank you for your commitment to transparency!

@wstafrican • 46m

This administration will burn everyone who is involved with it, and I don't have a scintilla of sympathy for any of them.

@wstafrican • 44m

I hope it was worth alienating friends and family, and destroying your character and reputation!

I really really need 2016 to do less. twitter.com/dennisjansen/s...

@littledanic • 12/20/16

i am going to predict 2017 isn't going to be better. With new prez and all.

@beckalina

Replying to @littledanic

I really can't imagine things getting worse but I think you're right

12/20/16, 3:16 PM

@littledanic • 12/20/16

Replying to @beckalina

I mean. He's not even president yet.
😂 yeah 2017 broke me and I'm too stabby to even be stabby anymore so it's basically just a dog account now
2:07 PM

I miss MCat, but I will settle for constant adorable Waffles pics
So if you get a follow request, that's why
2:09 PM 

there are only so many ways I can say
EVERYTHING IS TERRIBLE OUR PRESIDENT IS INSANE WHY IS EVERYTHING THE WORST
So ya dogs
If I get her request I'll approve
2:10 PM
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE AMAZING @itsmev.bsky.social 🎉🎂🥳
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I feel like I already know based on my mentions just this past day or two 😂 but let’s see
POST THIS AND LET YOUR MUTUALS DECIDE WHAT YOU'RE MOST KNOWN FOR
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I have more than 4 this week 😬 Its’s #LetterboxdFriday. Here’s my #LastFourWatched Strange Darling ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Set It Up ⭐️⭐️⭐️ The Passenger ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Love Guaranteed ⭐️⭐️ The Mummy ⭐️ 1/2 Till Death ⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 Follow me: boxd.it/7pQyj #FilmSky 🎥 #HorrorSky #Letterboxd
A screenshot of the Letterboxd app showing the movie posters for Strange Darling, Set It Up, The Passenger, Love, Guaranteed, The Mummy, and Till Death
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Just nearly crashed my Zipcar coming back from dropping A off at work because I passed this sign. It’s right behind my building. I can’t wait to go pet ALL THE DOGS
A green billboard sign on the Huntington Place Convention Center in Detroit that reads “Free Furfluencer Extravaganza September 26th 12-4pm” with a picture of a couple dogs
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
After, Abbey stood guard at the bedroom & hissed & spit & smacked Lexi for trying to come back in. Pepsi’s little bodyguard. 😂 So they’ve all been on edge for a few days. This morning I finally got Lexi to get back in the bed like she’s been begging to do & she is a happy girl
A light-colored dog lies on a bed covered with rumpled black and red bedding. The dog wears a dark collar and rests its head on a black pillow near the center of the image. Gray pillows, including one with a black grid pattern, line the back of the bed. Two teddy bears are visible: one lies in the lower-left foreground wearing a lavender shirt, and another sits in a storage bin near the upper-right corner beside a blue desk lamp and a white faceted container. A bright window with white curtains is visible along the right side.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
I don’t even know what kind of car this is but I need one 😍
Pink luxury coupe parked outside a storefront with blue floral-patterned windows and a potted tree.
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Bex @bexcommunicated.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
When her foster mom moved, she ended up with me. After sabotaging adoptions by biting potential adopters at adoption events she became my foster fail 10 years ago today Shortly after we found the mass in her chest & the doctor gave her less than a year to live She's been living her best life since
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