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Dax

@wolfwithdances.bsky.social
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Jeff aka Dax. Lindy Hopper. Software Eng. Chinese-American. Furry and fursuiter. @furcon volunteer, AAE board, former chair. He/they/any. 📍: San Jose, CA, USA 🦊💍: @lattefox.bsky.social

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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
This trip was a ton of fun, and the views were really beautiful. Definitely a thing I need more of in my life.
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Ringo! @ringodog.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Furries flying a plane
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
This last few weeks has been tough work wise and somewhat tough friend wise. Built up some trust with some friends, lost a lot with others. Just hoping to find a way to feel safe.
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Latte ☕🦊 @lattefox.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
🐺: "what's the gender-neutral term for She-Shed or Man-Cave?" 🦊: "a Theyve" 🐺: "...asked and answered!"
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Latte ☕🦊 @lattefox.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
You want next game, or Player 3? 🦔 With @wolfwithdances.bsky.social #FursuitFriday
Latte the fox and Boulder the Australian Shepherd in partial fursuits in front of the Sonic the Hedgehog pinball machine
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Bike tire completely deflated and the sidewall shredded on the way home, right when all the local bike shops close. And the earlier part of the evening was substantially worse than that.
A deflated bike tire.
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Simon Fox @simonfox.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
I've been trying to write a response to Gomi's post here... But there's just so much that I could say. I have been involved in cons long enough (10+ years!) that I feel like the burnout cycle is speeding up a bit, I'm seeing people tired after a third of the time I've spent doing it.
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Dwüdles @dwudles.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Oh this RULES youtu.be/2dzqQItDmdg?...
youtu.be
I Killed A Business Model
YouTube video by Elroddd
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
🚗: please be patient, student driver 🧠: count the headlights on the hiiiigh-way 🎶
A bumper with the words "PLEASE BE PATIENT / STUDENT DRIVER"
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
A rough conversation on a rough day in a rough week. Sometimes you do your best for a friend and it's just not enough.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Curiously, mine lists Oregon as the closest state, but it looks like the entire West Coast is about the same and San Francisco is my most accurate city. (I've lived within an hour's drive of SF my whole life.)
My dialect map matches all of California, Oregon, and Washington, but the top reads: "Your dialect map. Redder areas talk more like you; bluer areas least. You talk most like someone from Oregon - about 56% of your answers match a typical Oregon resident."

That said, the cities most like me are San Francisco (55%), Portland OR (55%), and Los Angeles (55%). Least like me are New Orleans (44%), Atlanta (45%), and Houston (45%).
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Was sitting at my desk at work and felt this gal crawling on my chin. 😬 (Noble false widow, as far as I can tell. She survived and is outside now.)
False widow spider, probably a little over an inch from leg to leg diagonally.This spider on a standard issue deli container, before I took her out to the business park greenery outside.
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Mynx @mynx.spacefox.engineer · 01/09/2026
Partial debut of a Brand New ⚡️Jolteon ⚡️at the Pokemon Function! 📸 : @takula.bsky.social 🪡🎨 : @thatsfurredup.com
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Micah @rincewind.run · 30/08/2026
as a reminder, we’ve done this exact thing before under a Dem president, with a much better choice of renaming - should this one have been manually overridden too? the main problem is that we elected a dipshit and the dipshit has the power to order name changes in GNIS
pbs.org
Alaska-bound, Obama makes waves by renaming Mount McKinley
Shrinking glaciers, Arctic temperatures and a mix of messy energy politics await President Barack Obama on his historic trip to Alaska. Even before he departed, Obama was making waves with a decision ...
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Micah @rincewind.run · 30/08/2026
re: everyone yelling about Google Maps - Maps just ingests the official data source for each country, which is GNIS in this case, and most other online maps will follow for American users nobody at Google is making an active decision to go in and change names in Maps directly
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Went out to see Brad Mehldau and Chris Thile (along with a small chamber orchestra) doing their Elliot Smith tribute album. What an absolutely fantastic concert. Thank you and happy birthday @woofybunny.bsky.social!
Paramount Theater in Oakland, showing the Brad Mehldau marquee.Final bows from our seats in the theater.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
these flock cameras don't seem like such a big deal
Birdfy bird feeder cameras, as sold at Home Goods. They are a modest sum off their list price - so, not a big deal.
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🌿 Mimi 🌿 @mimibun305.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
what's a fox doing in the train
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Some days I forgot I learned as much about the world as I did from cartoon animals on multimedia CD-ROMs Maybe that's a little of how I turned out like this youtu.be/CuPIpPFGGMI
youtu.be
Richard Scarry's Busytown: How Things Work Full Walkthrough
YouTube video by Ly203 Productions (Les Productions Ly203)
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Was lucky enough this weekend to be invited into a pool in rubber. I know it sounds easy but was quite a bucket list item, and admittedly I think I'm hooked. 😅 Very very much looking forward to trying again sometime.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Live your life in such a way that all the secrets that come out after your death are heartwarming. (Not the pearl-clutching tabloid headline and article, but the acceptance and grace far before it was common.) RIP Dolly Parton, a true legend.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
If Lake Ontario becomes Lake America, we'll lose the HOMES mnemonic. But we'll have a new one right there: SHAME.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Update: my spider plant was, in fact, root bound.
My spider plant is all roots. I had to take the thing apart to even find any soil.It probably would have been fine just sitting there without a pot.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
I have a lot of the US left to see.
Map of where I've visited and lived. Northern California is the only place I've lived, and some of those visits are pretty narrow. Does Disney World even count as Florida?

Anyway, 29 states I've never set foot in. I should fix that.
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Skyler ❄️🦊 @skylerfoxy.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
I'm moving this to open-beta phase. If anyone wants to, feel free to play around with the site, create test listings, and see if it all makes sense. Always looking for more feedback! The testing site is at: www.conroomies.dev
conroomies.dev
ConRoomies
Split the room. Share the ride.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Spider plant desk friend, July 2023 to August 2026. About to take it home for a much-needed repotting. Very lucky to get to have a little natural light and greenery at my work desk - it's done wonders for my mental health.
My spider plant in July 2023. It's a little larger than a softball, curled over the lip of the pot. S'cute.The same spider plant in the same pot in August 2026. The leaves overhang the pot by about 5 inches, which is the radius of the pot in the first place. It's probably about to start singing "Feed Me, Seymour".
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Latte ☕🦊 @lattefox.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
It's still ✨iced coffee time!✨ I ADORE this art of Latte by @crazyfoxlady.bsky.social for #foxgirlsummer!!!
A grayscale drawing of an anthro female fox with long hair, sipping an iced coffee while leaning up against a fence. She has a calm and content expression. There is a sketchy background of trees, water, and a breeze.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
TIL in movies: I don't think we give Joe Johnston enough love. He designed the Millennium Falcon and the Iron Giant; was the art director for Empire Strikes Back, Return of the Jedi, Raiders of the Lost Ark, and Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom; and ...(cont'd)
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Growls Aplenty 🔜 Mexico/BLFC/MFF/TrainCon! @blizzardfox.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
Can't say enough about how much ConRoomies in its original form brought folks together and opened up rooms and friendships folks didn't know were there. This is a fandom created, fandom curated (read: you're responsible for your own experience) platform to help make cons affordable!
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SMBC Comics @smbccomics.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
My first introduction to this actually real phenomenon was Acerfur. Ever after, whenever an online discussion of Lean gets too technical, I realize every avatar is in a fursuit. COMIC ◆ www.smbc-comics.com/comic/fur PATREON ◆ www.patreon.com/ZachWeinersm... STORE ◆ smbc-store.myshopify.com
5-panel SMBC comic update. Two women talk as they walk on a beach. The first asks "why do people say furries run every IT department?" This leads the second to start a passionate explanation over 4 panels, where she states: "that’s an outdated stereotype. The internet is indeed sustained by furries, but your modern furry is also the core user of automated proof solvers tied to machine learning. Furries don’t just run IT. They run math itself. Soon we will open nature’s book, written in the language of god, and only the furries will know how to read!" After the speech, the first woman reacts by saying "woof," as an expression similar to "yikes" or "wow," and the second woman responds "precisely," associating it with the sound of an animal.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Hiked the Coyote Trail in Los Altos today and was not disappointed
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Hello SJC! Was up til 2 packing and working, now about to fly to Seattle in 35 minutes and then dial into a 9am presentation. Looking forward to the Woodland Park Zoo adult event tomorrow, and hanging with some Very Good critters. But first let's see how fast I sleep on this plane.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Life has been pretty chaotic lately. Trying to spend some time getting my house in order and mending friendships, but it's been a lot on my mind. I think I just need some time petting big friendly animals.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
A very well-written description of the background noise I feel when deciding who I can be. I consider myself pan/NB, but from a distance Latte and I look straight/cis and sometimes it makes me feel like I'm intruding—or being told what I am instead—just by searching for the right "me" for me.
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Vector the Glowbolt @micro-vector.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
@malciortrescala.bsky.social checking out his new 100% electric transportation device ;3
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🍊 tsu @tsurudraws.art · 19/07/2026
had this pulled up for my freelancing guide how topical indeed
A screenshot of a tumblr post.

From user radiqueer:
Human relationships are not transactional but they are reciprocal, which I think many of you with your ‘i don’t owe anyone anything’ shtick are too happy to forget.

From user aromanticduck:
Transactional: everything has to be exactly 50/50 all the time, pay me back for the £5 sandwich or buy me something worth exactly £5, I refuse to make an effort for you if there’s nothing in it for me

Reciprocal: you were there for me when I needed help, and I’m going to do the same for you, it doesn’t matter if one of us needs more or is capable of less, because the point is not equivalent exchange but mutual care
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
An excellent and accurate read, at least for most of the situations I've seen the private side of.
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🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🔜 BLFC @hella.ser.gl · 17/07/2026
Hello there, is this seat open? #Sergal #Caltrain #FursuitFriday 📸: @wolfwithdances.bsky.social
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
A few pictures from our hike last night! It was warm, but a really nice trip.
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
One of the things I've found myself missing lately is photography, either fursuit photography, wildlife, or just a walk in a city. It's a hole I very much need to fix. 🐾 @auzbuzzard.bsky.social 🪡 @reddemon2333.bsky.social 📅 Memorial Day Caltrain 🖼️ www.furtrack.com/user/wolfwit... 🏷️ #furry #fursuit
A portrait of fursuit character Auzbuzzard, tongue at full blep, in frony of a Caltrain station.
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JD Puppy 🔜 Michigan Anthro Weekend, BLFC, Confuror @jdpuppy.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
It's time to get RAWW!! Welcome to Forgotten Island at AC! (It's certainly warm enough to be!! 🥵🥵🥵)
Jd puppy cosplaying as Raww from forgotten island
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 04/07/2026
A few pics (gallery of 6) from last week's backpacking trip to Eastern California! I'm very grateful to @tavfox.bsky.social for taking us out there and leading the way.
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Ringer @mmmatch.es · 22/01/2026
I heard this quote on Instagram yesterday and I can't stop thinking about it 🎯
A coyote dressed as a chicken, alongside text that reads:

"If I can't pull up and be peculiar, don't even send that invite. If commoners are in attendance, they will be rubbed the wrong way, and I make no apologies for my whimsy."
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Latte ☕🦊 @lattefox.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Oogh oogh, AC FOMO is kicking in! Here's one of my favorite pix *ever* of Boulder and Latte, from AC2022 ♥️ 🐶: @wolfwithdances.bsky.social 📸: @raitobimu.bsky.social #FursuitFriday
A nighttime shot of Latte the tan fox fursuit and Boulder the Australian Shepherd fursuit looking out over the Allegheny River from a balcony at Anthrocon 2022. A suspension bridge spamming the river is in the background (I forget which one!)
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Dax @wolfwithdances.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Thank you Hours for putting together the game and commissioning this fun art! 🧡
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Croc (and Foster!) @audiodile.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
As you get older & wiser, two things happen. You understand yourself & what matters much better, but also feel more confused about why the world isn't what you thought it'd be. Dear friends can become old melancholy photographs in a blink. So speak your heart, live your truth and love fearlessly.
photo, Croc's 42nd birthday party group fursuit photo in 2014.  Not sure if all of these are 100% accurate but most of it is:

Malie (@maliepono.bsky.social)
Tuft (@raincoug.bsky.social)
Russ (@fizzle.dog)
Nougat (@chairo.bsky.social)
Vesper (@vreahli.bsky.social)
Baron (@yipcoyote.bsky.social)
Quarks (@quarkscoolf.bsky.social)
Doryuu (@doryuuz.bsky.social)
Crygus (@crygus.bsky.social)
Boulder (@wolfwithdances.bsky.social)
Latte (@lattefox.bsky.social)
Charr @torrle.bsky.social
Dirt (@dirtcoyote.bsky.social)
Kona (@collings.bsky.social)
Diggy (@diggyroo.bsky.social)
Roofus (@roofus.bsky.social)
Avery (@furahi.cc)
Geronimo (@rakune.bsky.social)
Croc (@yotie72.yiffy.com)
Brawl (@brynkbunny.bsky.social)
Tsuyoto (@tsuyoto.bsky.social)
Bacon (@baconcoyote.bsky.social)
Some dork
Dew Shep (@groggy.catshark.dad)
Howee (@howeehusky.bsky.social)
Teh (@sohybrids.social.bsky)
Godric (@strawbs.tv)
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Heather Hogan @heatherhogan.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
Older lady peeped the rainbow flag on my bike, asked in a thick Russian accent “It’s your Pride?” She told me her youngest grandchild is “not she berry or he berry but no berry.” I said “Nonbinary?” She got so excited. Yes! Yes! And “Is a secret, but they are my“ *looks around, whispers* “favorite.”
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Joaquín Baldwin @joabaldwin.com · 23/06/2026
fuel to the fire
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Latte ☕🦊 @lattefox.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
One day I may do an encore of my 5-min presentation. I'm still proud of the line "what if Party Rock wasn't just in the House...but in the Senate?"
The title slide of a presentation titled "EVERYTHING STARTED GOING DOWNHILL WHEN LMFAO BROKE UP IN 2012". The word "LMFAO" uses colorful letters with a leopard-print effect on them.
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Regy @theregyman.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
Thanks for the Adventure ❤️💜💛💙🤍🧡 #tadc
The cast of Digital Circus as humans, waiting for the bus.
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