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ICE must be destroyed 🏳️‍⚧️🏴 @miawong.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Cw rape I think we can work down from the maximalist, overly bloodthirsty demand of Die as your weakling fathers died. Soulless. Honourless. Weeping. Ashamed. to a reasonable demand that you fuck off and vanish like the average survivor is forced to Moreover, ICE must be destroyed

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 03/10/2026

It's actively insanity inducing to be a survivor and a feminist right now because in the face of the sheer ubiquity of sexual assault and the lack of consequences for it, we're all being besieged by demands that we think of the rapist men, forgive the rapist men, cleanse the souls of the rapist men

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Blackavar @blackavar-inle.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

"there is no such thing as a perfect victim, but every rapist, every abuser, is a perfect case study of why feminists are too hysterical and militant, why cancel culture has gone too far, why we should all be more forgiving."

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Punished Cat Guy (extra punished Cenobite version) @majima.club · 03/10/2026

*record scratch* Yep, that’s me. You’re probably wondering how I got into this situation… (reposted with alt text because this is an absolute treasure. Photo credit: Kevin Lohman @kevinlohman.bsky.social)

Professional photograph of a squirrel leaping down from a branch at a very startled-looking owl. The owl’s yellow eyes are wide as it looks over its shoulder up at the squirrel who clearly has zero regard for his own life, his mouth open as if shouting WITNESS ME, or potentially some sort of justification for this surprise attack, Inigo Montoya style. Whatever the Owl has to say in return is definitely in all caps.

Caption reads:
CALIFORNIA POST
California squirrel's flying attack is finalist in national wildlife photo competition

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Courtney Milan @courtneymilan.com · 03/10/2026

Restorative justice doesn't mean "nothing bad ever happens to you." It means, "in determining what happens from here on out, we center the needs of your victim to repair what happened to them over your own needs."

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Rose Salazar King @rosesalazarking.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I think the most loving thing someone could have told to me during the many years I was trying to make bisexuality work is that sleeping with men was not mandatory. Not that it contaminated me or anything like that but that I was allowed to stop if I wanted to.

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valinde.bsky.social @valinde.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I was already agreeing, and then I got slammed in the head by memory of how men in ministry get away with so much shit because the entire congregation tends to get behind them and I felt pain

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 02/10/2026

That's the blunt truth behind all the philosophical arguments. Men can rape women and face no consequences most of the time.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 02/10/2026

Even before a single cop or barrister enters the equation, most communities protect and shelter rapists from consequence. Cast doubt on victims. Appeal to the rapists' character, beg to consider their futures and potentials, plead for this "mistake" to be overlooked. Victims have nothing. No one.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 02/10/2026

It's true that the "justice" system frequently sides with rapists, lets them off the hook and re-traumatizes victims. And it's true that trusting a punitive carceral system is folly anyway. Effectively, we live in a world where socially and legally, there are no consequences for committing rape.

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Aranock, 4 of Ravens @aranock.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Society is built on the assumption that women should be available to men, it doesn't need your help actually, you aren't doing groundbreaking new work you are repeating the systems message.

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Aranock, 4 of Ravens @aranock.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I think its fucking telling about the patriarchal rape culture we're in that a bunch of people have spent the same week as the Cornell news trying to tell lesbians we need to be more open to being with men and we're evil if we don't.

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Aranock, 4 of Ravens @aranock.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Its actually ok to evolve your understanding of your identity and sexual orientation you dont need to argue for the idea that lesbians want men, something patriarchal thinkers have pushed forever. You sound like every lesbians most homophobic family member asking when we'll find 'the right man.'

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Aranock, 4 of Ravens @aranock.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Had to block a former mutual who was arguing that lesbians disgust at the idea of personally having sex with a man was like straight men being grossed out by the concept of gay sex. The reason we're disgusted at the idea is it would only happen if the man raped us, cause we dont want them.

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

i just feel like with Male Queerness i feel way more allowed to be gay and say gay shit, but if lesbians get too lesbian with it, everyone grabs their torches and pitchforks and now we get to have 2 week long inter community discourse about the same topic for the billionth time lol

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

like going from lesbian culture to gay culture is pretty jarring in general. like of course homophobic pressure exists, but like, i genuinely truly do not encounter anything akin to things like "bi lesbian discourse" or anything like it on any level as frequently as lesbians do

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

whenever these discussions come up again, as a former lesbian turned bisexual-maybe-gay man, i reflect a lot on how in the gay spaces i frequent there are barely gay men arguing with each other about how we need to include women and attraction to women more in our spaces and discussions lol

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Maddie Chthonia @maddiequestions.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

you know I don't think it's a real social problem that people don't care enough about men or that people don't acknowledge that it's okay for women to have sex with men enough like I don't think these are real things to worry about especially with Cornell being a topic and everything around it

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Dr. Ivo "Eggman" Robotnik @hatethathedgehog.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

you arent a burden. you are a human being with wants and needs. having desires does not make you selfish. unless you are sonic, in which case you are not human and everything you do sickens me.

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Cow Piss @abductedcow.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Till i transitioned i was generally very much afraid of being in the company of solely men cos i knew that i was nowhere on their hierarchy and so did they once they interacted with me.

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Coureur de Fembois [Big Bad Bæddel Borg]🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🐔 @droctorock.northsky.social · 30/09/2026

nearly every trans woman, if not literally all of us, have seen this. we've seen men in groups, what they say about women and queers, how they treat *each other*, and it's horrifying! it's no wonder why the few I trust personally were never there plenty of men who seem fine become beasts in private

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Andrea Grimes @andreagrimes.com · 01/10/2026

If you ruin the ~ bright futures ~ of Ivy League rapists, who will you rely on when you need a wet signature for state-sanctioned murder?

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Andrea Grimes @andreagrimes.com · 01/10/2026

i am having trouble articulating this but a system that excuses gang rape as a youthful error on behalf of college men with ~ bright futures ~ does so because it is served by producing older men who are comfortable with, even enthusiastic about, torturing people at the system's behest

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

That politicians feel empowered to so brazenly assist institutions in covering up and getting away with sexual abuse is an indictment of our society and culture, and how badly they continue to fail women.

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Elizabeth Cronise McLaughlin @ecmclaughlin.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

This is premeditation.

Claire Ting, who graduated last year and served on student government, said she has long worried about the practice of fraternity brothers putting away the phones of inebriated women attending their parties.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

Don't be so rigid. Insisting on how gay you are just reifies the hetero-homo binary. Isn't it transphobic to say you don't date men, since trans women are basically men? Not dating men as a woman basically makes you a conservative queerphobe.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

We have gone long enough pretending the institutionally sanctioned rape clubs are something legitimate and worthy of continued existence.

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

evergreen

love when people become so online in spaces like this where marginalized people are actually the ones dominating the conversations, that they forget what its like in the real world and start making positivity posts for things that are literally 100% unchallenged and normalized irl. let men be masculine.

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xfilesenjoyer69 🛸 @mothpiss.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

we are morally obligated to limit our queer expression, to prove that it's ok for people who AREN'T as queer as us to be less queer <3 /s

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xfilesenjoyer69 🛸 @mothpiss.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

that one tumblr post about how "it's actually super progressive for trans women to keep their facial hair and present masc and not take HRT, because it proves women don't owe you femininity!"

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Amaranth M @jazzelves.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I think there's also overlap with the Theoretical Femboy that people love to defend, and predictably, all of those hit the same anger button for me.

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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @ Persephone Effect out now @benjanun.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

'It's okay to sleep with men' is like telling a trans woman haha you don't have to transition.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

The reason most lesbians are so fucking cagey and angry about this topic is because all of society is gagging to tell us how much more enlightened and moral and inclusive it is for us to include men in our sexuality, and refuses to take no for an answer. So take the hint.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

If the lot of you spent half as much energy telling men to stop harassing, pursuing and committing violence against lesbians as you do in telling lesbians how accepting and understanding you'd be if a dude fucked us, maybe we our lives would actually be easier in a meaningful way.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 01/10/2026

You don't need to trip over yourself to tell lesbians that "it's okay to sleep with men!" Every institution, cultural norm and social pressure is constantly telling us it's okay to sleep with men. Most of our families would be ecstatic if we slept with men. We got the message. It's fine. Shut up.

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Callisto Khan @Persephone Effect Out NOW! @callistokhan.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Queers raised on tumblr and early queer theory genuinely think masculinity/men are the pathway to enlightenment when that couldn't be farther from the truth. No, it's not enlightened or interesting for someone to call herself a lesbian while seeking out sex with men. That's just lesbophobia.

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arys 🌻 comms open @arysdraws.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

she looks so princely #prsk_fa

redraw of ena in 4koma number 382, from the event side by side, our ways!

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 30/09/2026

I'm kind of tired of pretending that "sense of brotherhood" is a real, meaningful term and isn't just a euphemism for men's spaces where they bond over misogynistic humiliation rituals and coach each other on how best to commit sexual assault.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 30/09/2026

"Institutes of higher education harbour known rape dens where men foster a culture of apathy and contempt towards women and are enabled to commit sexual assault" is perhaps something we should consider more objectionable than we currently do.

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ICE must be destroyed 🏳️‍⚧️🏴 @miawong.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Cw rape Look it is not guaranteed that when you see media guys doing hatchet jobs on survivors that either they've abused someone or their friends have some guys are in patriarchal ideology for the love of the game but god damn are they bad fucking people Moreover, ICE must be destroyed

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Moira Donegan @moiradonegan.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

You know when public attention can reverse a prosecutorial decision like this you almost get the sense that the decision to shrug it off in the first place was not based on an assessment of the quality of the evidence so much as an assessment of the seriousness of the crime.

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 29/09/2026

The story that did not textually deliver on its sapphic themes is not making a comment on "amatonormativity" come on now

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Talia "ATTACK DOGS is out now!" Bhatt ⚢ @taliabhatt.itch.io · 29/09/2026

What the actual fuck

People involved include:

Thomas K. Hubbard, President and Executive Director
Ryan Conrad, Director
Michael Shimkin, former vice chair of National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws
Shawn Rolfe, sex offender registry reform advocate
former directors include:
Harris Mirkin
Gert Hekma
Beert Verstraete
Thomas Waugh
James Dubro
In October 2025, “Isaac Q” of the William A. Percy Foundation announced funding for “The Autogynephilia Project,” writing in part:

When contacted by Chron, Hubbard said the Epstein foundation had a "long record of supporting various academic interests."

"I was not then and am not now aware of any evidence that Jeffrey Epstein was a 'pedophile' in the technical sense; his sexual preference appears to have been for young women aged 16-22, which would at most reflect partial ephebophilia," Hubbard told Chron in an emailed statement. "Although most of the women who were involved with him at that age retrospectively regret it, I am unaware of any evidence that the contacts were non-consensual at the time."

"Some were self-conscious sex workers who recruited others into his orbit and are now making cynical claims of victimization to cash in on his estate and business partners, as reported by Michael Tracey and other credible journalists," Hubbard added. "Like over 1,000,000 Americans, he did have a conviction for a sex-related offense, but from what I could see in 2015, it was for something that would not even have been illegal in most European countries and resulted in a very short sentence."

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Katie Tightpussy, Editor-In-Chief @katie.bzky.team · 29/09/2026

i'm being slandered and attacked and libeled

signal conversation

fern: "catgirls who are too proud to engage with the fact that they're very obviously cats" support group
me: i'm katgirl
me: very different
fern: yeah bestie whole different thing for suuuure
me: things i like doing:
- annoying everyone around me
- being the center of attention
- obstinance
- smugness
- dumb puns
me: would a cat do that?
me: no, a kat would though
fern:
-cat trait
-cat trait
-cat trait
-cat trait
-cats can't talk but if they could, cat trait
me: impossible to know this
me: this is fake news
fern: have you ever seen the pokemon cartoon
me: as a child
fern: because you're just meowth

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cya❤️‍🩹cagliostro's wife @cagayc.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

no i get you caesar Craig.......dog boyfriend* solidarity #cagayc #darycaesar

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the story is true @dcellgames.com · 28/09/2026

unbeatable is a video game that tells a story that can make you feel things. but also consider that i think people are more emotionally devastated by the minigames than anything that happened in the narrative

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togekk0💜 @togekk0.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Karaoke date night⚡️

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Kati Knitt @katiknitt.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

happy coming out anniversary to meee

A drawing of the artist Kati Knitt holding a megaphone, screaming "You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the magnificent evil lesbian you always meant to be!"

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