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🌈 Hailey Piper 🌈 @haileypiperfights.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
This is part of what I'm referring to with many people demanding stories that reassure them they're a good person. They want the moral instruction because otherwise, rather than processing the reading experience, there's a thrum of "am I bad? am I bad? what if someone finds out I'm bad?"
Tumblr post by graftini:

stories about abuse are allowed to exist without reducing themselves to moral instruction. i think sometimes when people complain about the “romanticization” of abuse, what they're actually objecting to isn't necessarily the way abuse is being represented, but the fact that the representation doesn't provide them with constant moral reassurance. like, there is a difference between “this story frames abuse as desirable or inherently romantic” and “this story depicts abuse in an erotic/ambiguous/complicated way and doesn't repeatedly tell me that abuse is bad, therefore the depiction itself is irresponsible.”
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
so shencomix is just like. overt transmisogyny now huh. I guess that's a choice you could make
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
boy it is nnnnnoooot comforting to see the UK exactly where the US was in 2021
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
three types of people who read this article: people who read it and move on with their day, people who read it in tremendous pain but struggle through, and people who take enough psychic damage to derail their week
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A hungry woman is easier to dismiss than a well-fed woman | Aeon Essays
From childhood, women are trained to restrict their appetite. And there’s a huge, hidden, cognitive price to pay for it
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
MIL insisted on a surprise birthday party for my husband this year. I acceded, but am now navigating the tricky issue of his parent's divorce, the presence of his parent's spouses (neither of whom my husband particularly likes), and the extra pressure this will put on him to entertain them. shoot me
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
cannot describe how vindicating it was to learn that Rinoa Heartilly was designed and scripted entirely by men
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
late to this stuff but THE DRAMA was a fantastic movie. I might have gotten there faster if you told me Zoe Winters was in it
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
the Ceuta fiasco is so dispiriting. an organized disinformation campaign that ends in dozens of deaths, thousands of photos (the real goal) that were instantly used to stoke tensions and help bolster the world's worst fascist trash, and all of Europe's governments go "hmm yeah they've got a point"
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Olúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò @olufemiotaiwo.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
your apartment, the sport of basketball, and the Republic of Korea are all social constructs. mere recognition of this fact does not actually make the question of whether you are standing in your own apartment, playing basketball, or a Korean national up in the air until settled by op ed editors
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
this is why I have such a viscerally negative reaction to "lore." knowing what questions not to answer is a necessary part of writing. the contemporary trend of answering every conceivable question is part of the ongoing infantilization of audiences and we should resist it at all costs
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
have just received more fic fanart from a different artist and by now know I drastically underestimated the size of the fandom. someone is translating the fic into Russian. I have gotten DMs in Spanish and Polish
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Glenn Tranzig @wheredidjasongo.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
The upcoming reactionary movement is going to be chock full of internet kids who do not understand history, do not understand art, do not understand how to parse meaning out of anything they read, and are aggressively allergic to thinking for themselves
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Shady Inference 🌫️ @blot.city · 20/07/2026
venn diagram meme, three circles

1. no kink at pride
2. the curtains were fucking blue
3. I asked chatgpt and here's what it said:

1-2 intersection: sex scenes in movies are pointless
2-3 intersection: oh you think you're better than me?
3-1 intersection: "degeneracy" is just zoomer slang

centre intersection: upcoming reactionary movement

caption: developments under capital in 2026
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
not saying moms have cognitive superpowers but all of the most incisive editors, readers, and commenters I've ever had are moms
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 19/07/2026
love to discover new things about myself, like "thunderstorms are a migraine trigger"
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 16/07/2026
hate AO3 constantly being like "Don't forget you've muted users! You won't see their works in this list! Don't you want to check your muted users page and give them a second chance???" no, bitch, they're on that list for a reason
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
people are missing that many of these KSA acquisitions are meant to be subtle. they don't want you to notice! yes, more due diligence is always good, but stuff like this is completely forgettable and especially with very old franchises. GDQ deserves a lot of grace here
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 12/07/2026
getting older is great tbh. marriage rules when you love the person you're married to. today my husband is out of town so I spent the day reading books and watching/donating to SGDQ. also being older means you need one (1) drink to get solidly buzzed and can call it quits at 10 PM
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 04/07/2026
LRP no matter how bad it is in the place you are, you have an obligation to make it better. we've all felt "fuck it, hope it burns" but that doesn't solve problems or help anyone. whatever future you long for can't exist unless you start building it
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Boo!-per Lund @cooperlund.online · 04/07/2026
I’m gonna be real with you all, I think that anyone who thinks America’s a shithole that isn’t worth saving isn’t worth listening to. The idea of a purifying revolution-to-come is a fantasy, a terminating piece of cope that keeps you from believing it’s worth putting in the work now.
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fangy @jeannesfangs.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
witnessing the birth of a new all timer post is such a beautiful thing
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Mrs. Detective PikaBOO, Esq. @clapifyoulikeme.favrd.social · 30/06/2026
don't get the discord subpoenaed
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
deltarune ch5 is the best soundtrack of all of them and it's not close. petal dance, pirate dojo, and flower castle are instant classics
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
had a very minor surgery recently and went to the follow-up only to discover I needed additional medication. "it's not a huge deal, you're just a slow healer," she said. somehow this is the worst insult I've ever heard in my entire life
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
get online and see entire crowds of people hypnotizing themselves into deciding "death of the author" means something it very straightforwardly does not. are we sure this isn't tumblr
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beany tuesday @beanytuesday.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
Bullshit Jobs
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Aria Winningson @aria.labeledrude.online · 20/06/2026
34 YEAR OLD WOMAN AT ANIME CON HOTEL PARTY: you sound pretty passionate about that jax character. you know, when i was your age we had similar arguments about a different character, we called it "vriscourse" 22 YEAR OLD WOMAN WHO DIDN'T KNOW SOJU WAS THAT STRONG: could yuo push me down the stairs,,
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 21/06/2026
sciatica is the productive person's disease. want to stay in bed? excruciating pain. sitting down? excruciating pain. basically the only way to function is to walk around constantly and keep your bad leg up on a stool
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 14/06/2026
LRT I don't love the joy-shaming in some circles, like if you were really enlightened you'd be miserable. "Actually, you should hate your country at all times" will win you zero adherents. A real vision for the future is a million people in the streets singing along to Empire State of Mind
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Karen Geier @karengeier.com · 14/06/2026
It’s not hyperbole that part of what kept the queer liberation movement going in the Reagan era was the partying part of the “bury your friends in the morning, protest in the afternoon, and dance at night” schedule. Without joy there is no air left to fight
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
Saturday afternoon nap >>>>>>
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
should go without saying but fanfiction cannot be your only source of pleasure/leisure reading, it just can't
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
The Thirty-Something Weight Lifter and Desk Job-Haver Gets Sciatica
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foppish michael @dryltt3.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
life is at least a little beautiful idk
post from havinganormalone

Fanfiction is insane. You can write porn so good you make friends.
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
friend was complaining about WHA in English so I gave it a try and good god it's the worst dub I've heard since 1998. everyone is attempting British accents but mostly they just drop Rs and go back and forth on long vowels. when Olruggio said "DAMN" I laughed out loud
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 01/05/2026
minding my own business doing stuff when it turns out someone drew fanart of a fic I'm posting and I don't understand how I'm supposed to do anything the rest of the day?
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 14/04/2026
have finally started posting this and am having a lovely time. it's a dead fandom (there are like five of us) but it's easily some of the best fanwork I've done in ages. we do these things not because we want kudos, but because we have worms in our brains
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
dismiss this as fringe all you want but the antisemitism on this app (and more broadly) is getting totally out of hand. the "Stop AIPAC" stuff that isn't even tracking AIPAC donations. people calling themselves "J-pilled". the false flag horseshit
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
most of my manuscript notes look like this
Notes in Scrivener that read:
"THE DUKE NEEDS A LOT GOING ON
CLARIFY THE ENTIRE FUCKING SUMMIT
provisional Republic
ADD A MONSTER GOOSE
maybe suggest [redacted] not doing so well?"
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tweety fish oh wow like a chimera or something spoooky @sifu.tweety.fish · 31/03/2026
in my opinion there should also be trans day of audibility where everybody spends all day posting dope experimental music by trans women for me to listen to
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 25/03/2026
Madoka Magica is Evangelion for Gen Z/alpha with trippier visuals and a premise of "what if yuri could be powerful enough to save the universe and also destroy it"
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 21/03/2026
one of the few bright spots of fandom is how fan artists and fic writers can be each other's biggest admirers for the longest time and simply never know it until they work up the nerve to interact
a Tumblr DM chat. user 1: "hi, I apologize for the intrusion, but would it be okay to post a short story inspired by your artwork? I'm happy to let you see it first, or not post it at all; it was just a very beautiful drawing"

user 2: "Hi, yeah, no problem, of course you can post it ^^"A Tumblr DM. user 2: "OK OH MY GOD I READ IT, ARE YOU JOKING, THAT WAS AMAZING HHHHHHHH
I LOVE the gore, love the snippets the description is so vivid ARE YOU JOKING, that is so good
sorry i tend to caps scream when i enjoy something, apologies, i hope i didn' scare you away
but ohmygod yes, i love that"A Tumblr DM. user 2: "thank you for writing it"
user 1: "oh gosh I'm so glad! I'm a huge fan of your work and repost it a lot on my sideblog [redacted], your art is so fantastic!!"
user 2: "okay hold on
you wrote [redacted]
WHAT
oh my dude i am bowing to you, are you serious, that's like the best fanfic i ever read [redacted] in my life"
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
the last like 36 hours on this app have been shockingly antisemitic, it's not just the right wing with a Nazi problem. seen it from center-left, liberals, "progressives", whoever and we need to neutralize this now
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 17/03/2026
I was inspired by this really beautiful piece of fanart and wrote a fic for it, but instead of being sweet and gentle like the art it got kinda gory?? when I showed it to the artist she was like "OMG I LOVE THE GORE" so the lesson is believe in yourself and be a sicko
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 12/03/2026
this is a super competitive process so I'm determined to just forget about it but at least one of the panelists said he likes my work 😭
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
have a job interview with an international org tomorrow. they said it was at 10 AM and did not specify my 10 or theirs. guess who's waking up at 3 AM
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
I cannot emphasize enough that this is a comic book series about jellyfish, and miscellaneous jellyfish trivia become plot-relevant developments. okay but what is the plot, exactly? well---
Inari, furious at everyone charmed by Kuranosuke, vandalizes a public wall with "THEM BOOBS IS FAKE, BITCHES!" Her beleaguered assistant shouts "No! You'll get us arrested!"Jiji is showing off books she's gotten for Kuranosuke. "I bought some books at the bookstore..." she says. She shows off "Intro to the Apparel Industry", another fashion book, and "Older Men." Kuranosuke says "One of those books isn't like the others...but thank you..."Kai Fish holding up a dress. "A model's job is to wear the cheap dresses in a way that lets the poor dream big," he says.Hwa-Young holding up a tablet that says "Don't run. You're a hostage." Tsukimi, unseen, says "Right! Yes, I know! I won't run away!"
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TP @tprika.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
이분들 착하고 웃김 흑흑 #discoelysium
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 13/02/2026
am halfway through this and it is far and away the most difficult fic I've ever done, this is way beyond my skill level but I'm doing it anyway because I'm too invested (read: stupid) to stop now
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tydides @tydides.bsky.social · 03/02/2026
on my tiny account to vent - really love bluesky writ large but cannot stand the number of viscerally unpleasant multitudes who seem to believe any resistance is useless and/or it's better to lose than have cringe normies on your side
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