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Mychel (me-SHELL) Vandover 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 💛🤍💜🖤 @mychelvandover.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I cannot overstate how excited I am for "Reading the Bible Through Queer Eyes" by @thisisbgm.bsky.social and Fr. Shay of @queertheology.bsky.social. I've listened to their podcast, used their devotional "Queers The Word", and been a part of Sanctuary Collective for years. They always have great

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Flux Theatre Ensemble @fluxtheatre.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

YAS the interview between Jason & @thisisbgm.bsky.social just dropped! We've been waiting for this one. LISTEN: www.queertheology.com/podcast/644/ LIVING TICKETS: www.fluxtheatre.org/productions/...

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Prophetic Queer Plays with Jason Tseng - Queer Theology

Brian is joined by long-time friend, Jason Tseng (they/them), @queeriously on the pod this week for a joyful and inspiring […]

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Thomas Ha @thomasha.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

"we need kids to get an early start operating machines that are routinely wrong and may try to coax them into suicide and/or psychosis" is a fun education perspective i disagree with actually

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

Your pleasure cannot wait. Puritanical culture tells us to button up our sexuality. To not speak of it in polite company. That pleasure is for straight men. No. Come back to your body Say yes to your desire. When you fuel your erotic life, your whole life lights up. We need you to shine bright.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

You don't need more sex tips, you need to heal the shame that you're still carrying in your body and spirit.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 25/12/2025

It’s called Snap Roulette: you open up Snapchat and your boyfriend picks one snap from your phone to open while sitting in the middle of the living room with family

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 09/10/2025

Someone I’ve known for years inside the Queer Theology community is facing a really tough time. They’re a survivor of domestic abuse, living w complex chronic health conditions, and in the middle of being evicted. Can you join me in kicking in a few points to help: www.gofundme.com/f/continue-t...

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Donate to Support me as I try to overcome obstacles, organized by Esther Hardman

My legal name is Esther and I am a domestic abuse survivor. I left my now ex-… Esther Hardman needs your support for Support me as I try to overcome obstacles

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

If polyamorous people can figure out how, where, and with who to spend holidays when having 3 partners, I promise you and your parents and your in-laws can work it out.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 28/08/2025

“Waiting until marriage” Monogamy Chastity cages are all different flavors of power exchange play—just with varying levels of consent and coercion

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

Sorting out “do I not like this? or am I ashamed to like this?” is such a thorny task sometimes…

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

Sex and romance are not at odds. Neither are promiscuity and commitment. Nor autonomy and interdependence. You are big enough to hold it all.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 26/08/2025

one of my niche skills is regularly leaving one of the top 2 most liked comments on Instagram reels. the sense of creative accomplishment it gives me!

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 25/08/2025

When listening on AirPods Pro does music sound better with Apple Music vs Spotify? Or am I having auditory hallucinations?

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DreamSinger he/him @dreamsinger.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

It's difficult to estimate just how much pain this man caused, both directly and through others he infected with his hateful perversion of faith and spirituality.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

What Law of the universe is it that all the guys on Grindr want to meet IMMEDIATELY after you give up and get off??

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

“We outlived James Dobson” is little comfort to me as I have a number of dear friends who didn’t outlive him. He’s not the only reason they’re gone, but he made this world a place where it was that much harder for them to survive. May we see the end of fundamentalism speedily & in our days.

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Jordan Emmons @joremmons.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

This is how you do it. Troll tweeting is cute for a minute. Actual action and protection is better. Thanks, gov ❤️🏳️‍🌈

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

After I came out, there was a period where my dad and I were really struggling to talk about it. A few months in, he told he’d bought a book to try to understand better. I looked and saw it was endorsed by Focus On The Family. I told him it wasn’t to going to be helpful and to throw it away…

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

There’s a special kind of joy that comes with playing wingman for your husband

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Jonny Rashid @jonnyrashid.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Live a life where people aren't happy when you die.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Two things can be true: - I want to believe no one is irredeemable - James Dobson made the world a worse place and we are better off without him May those of us still here work to undo all the harm he wrought upon us.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

I would choose to be gay. Over and over and over again.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 14/08/2025

The Confederates never took DC and they’re still made about it. There’s always work to be done to build a more just world, but man oh man is Washington DC precious. My heart with the city whose shadow I grew up in 🫶

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 13/08/2025

Do you love HIM or do you love what he does for you? How he makes you feel? How others perceive you? There’s a big distinction there.

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Dex Anderson @dexanderson.com · 11/08/2025

i live in the burnt out husk of minneapolis and when i had hair, it was blue! I'm tougher than you snowflakes!

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 09/08/2025

what if love is bigger, wider, deeper than we ever imagined? let's find out together.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 08/08/2025

I know Cuomo is trying to rehab his image post-primary defeat but honestly... every time he posts, he says something that makes me like him even less

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 07/08/2025

What if all the ways we love—and lay 😉—were special? What if your relationships were expressions of your values? What if you could honor all the people & experiences that shaped you? What if believing in something bigger than yourself mattered? What if friends could be family?

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

yesterday was National Underwear Day (I know because we talked about it on the Poly Possibilities call last night 🤪) Since I find out about it until too late, here's a belated undie pic. Happy Day After National Underwear Day

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

Just found out that the cover of my book got sent to the printer today! Ahhhh! it's happening!

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

New video on sexual health when you've got multiple partners! Whether you're open, polyamorous, or simply dating around, this one is for you: youtu.be/kC5Ndq0vrQA?...

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How to have safe sex in an open relationship

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

New video on sexual health when you've got multiple partners! Whether you're open, polyamorous, or simply dating around, this one is for you: youtu.be/kC5Ndq0vrQA?...

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How to have safe sex in an open relationship

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

Happy Hump Day to all, and especially to everyone who is both an ethical slut AND a hopeless romantic 💙😈

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

I saw a TikTok today quoting the Buddha that said, "If you give me a gift and I do not receive, whose is it?" "It's still mine." "The same thing is true with your insults and anger" that's energy right there, folks.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

you can appreciate science and you can also appreciate awe & wonder. i promise your life will be richer for it.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 24/07/2025

"We should not starve anyone to death" should not be a controversial take.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

If the citizens of Sodom had acted more like LGBTQ & polyam people, the city might have been spared. The sin of Sodom is explicitly named as neglect of the poor and inhospitality to the stranger. LGBTQ ppl fund each others transitions and some of us regularly welcome strangers into our homes 😉😈

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 15/07/2025

Through their work, Andrea helped me see the world with new eyes. Though they never knew me, they inspired me to pay attention to the small details of the people I cherish, to find beauty even in the hard times, and to make meaning with my words. May we all know loves like Andrea knew.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 15/07/2025

the way we queers do relationships and love that blurs lines is truly a gift and it's available to anyone who wants to learn from it

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

VERY NSWF - Himeros is running a Pride sale. $99 for the whole year. I snagged a similar deal years ago and have been paying for it ever since. My only recurring p0rn sub 😈 If you're a queer male, I highly recommend: bit.ly/40l9ElG (the models I know who worked with them speak very highly of it)

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Gay porn that enhances your experience of sex through pleasure, connection and exploration.

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 20/06/2025

One of most frustrating parts of starting or restarting something new for me is that in the beginning… I’m just bad at it. So then it feels like a “waste” of time. I’m trying to get back into making videos about queer and nonmonogamous relationships and OMG it’s a slog

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Brian G. Murphy @thisisbgm.bsky.social · 15/06/2025

Words create reality. Tell the people you love them you love them more often. Try teasing them a little less. See what shifts.

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Kevin M. Kruse @kevinmkruse.bsky.social · 15/06/2025

The Tea Party protests in April 2009 had about a third of a million people involved, and the political media treated it like a game changer for the Obama presidency. The No Kings rallies were AT LEAST ten times bigger than the Tea Party protests. Will the press keep pretending Trump is popular?

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Truthout @truthout.org · 15/06/2025

Connections with caregivers are key for children’s wellbeing, but the prison system is designed to tear families apart.

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Prison Is Designed to Make Fatherhood Impossible

Connections with caregivers are key for children’s wellbeing, but the prison system is designed to tear families apart.

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