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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

@themidnightthrum.bsky.social
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Ex-Londoner. Current Torontonian. Scientist. Drinker of coffee, lover of walks, mother of twin black cats. Only half British. I keep a journal: themidnightthrum.wordpress.com they/them/she/her

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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
One of the hardest things I've ever had to do is leave the country I called home for 16 years with my husband, who is trans, because the UK decided to remove his rights. All while finishing a PhD. I passed my viva remotely this week - 3.5 hours. And it was such a bittersweet moment.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
my body unweaves as if it were a tapestry, and all I am is the thread balled on the floor. New writing. 🖤 themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/08/24/u... #LGBT #UK #Canada #Immigration #MentalHealth
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Unweaving.
There are some days I miss London so much that I cannot breathe. I walk through the open streets of Toronto, looking up at the skyscrapers stretching north to south in clean lines, and imagine a Lo…
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
I've started half-writing a queer romantasy with fae and alternate worlds. Strong MC who is a genderfluid woman with a transman fae love interest. Somedays, you just need to get through life by imagining you are in a different one. Also, intimate scenes are so much fun to write! 😅🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈✨🖊️
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
Books for the girls, gays, and theys please.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Actual image of me taking notes. This is the way I sit doing anything.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
I've been trying to write about resilience for a long time. This morning I deleted what I had and started over. I'm learning it's okay to say out loud: I'm struggling. We're not okay. But we'll get through this. For ourselves. themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/08/05/r... #LGBT #UK #transrights
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Resilience
I have been trying to write this entry about resilience for a very long time. This morning, I woke up and deleted it. The fact is, I am struggling. Ben is struggling. I’m starting to learn th…
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Oh Count Binface, please save Clacton and then the rest of Britain! 🇬🇧
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
Submitted my thesis. Marched down Yonge Street with my husband in Toronto. Felt seen for the first time in a long time. And yet, we are still adrift. New entry: Taking Up Space themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/07/07/t...
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Taking up space
For the first time since arriving in Toronto, I felt I could breathe a sigh of relief. I submitted my thesis just before the festivities began for the three-day Pride weekend. Finally. It was bitte…
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Tamoor Hussain @tamoorh.com · 03/07/2026
Incredible moment where Fox News puts up a graphic with all the reasons it opposes the DSA and why people should be afraid of them
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Gillian Branstetter @gbbranstetter.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
I'm so thankful to Becky and her mom for their trust, generosity, and strength in front of the Supreme Court. No matter what the Court says, Becky is a hero for standing up for herself and trans girls like her. Doing what's right, even when the odds are against you, is the definition of courage.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Saw Mark Carney on Sunday in the Toronto Pride parade. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️Canada feels like what Britain (or America) would have been if crazed GCs and TERFs hadn't taken over the media, politics, and equal rights organisations. I don't know if Canada will be taken over in future. I hope trans inclusivity lasts.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 27/06/2026
Seen at the Trans March in Toronto last night. It feels hard to be visible when we’ve just had to leave Britain, but Toronto Pride has been very uplifting so far. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Thanks for welcoming us with open arms, Toronto! ❤️
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TACC @tacc.org.uk · 25/06/2026
The Government says it is banning conversion practices. The draft bill does contain important protections, but broad healthcare exemptions risk leaving trans young people exposed to the very abuse it claims to prohibit. This is not a win. tacc.org.uk/2026/06/25/a...
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A ban with a loophole large enough to drive conversion practices through
The Government's draft conversion practices bill includes important protections for trans people, but broad healthcare exemptions risk allowing conversion practices against trans young people to conti...
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
Spite is a motivator. The biggest rebellion one can have is to live one's life, unapologetically, as themselves. New writing: The Solstice. On three months in Canada, Brexit grief, and refusing to lay down. themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/06/24/t... #LGBT #EA2010 #UK #LabourBathroomBan
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The solstice.
We’ve now been in Canada for three months. The snowy days have finally given way to sunlight and warmth, and the long days stretch onwards in such a satisfying manner. Things have been both e…
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Larry the Cat @number10cat.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
Another one bites the dust.
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Susan @artlovergirl.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
We could really use Carl Sagan right about now… #books #reading #history #libraries
A quote from the great Carl Sagan “One glace at a book and you hear the voice of another person, perhaps someone dead for a 1,000 years.  To read is to voyage through time.”
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
Come on Britain, you've pissed off the Quakers, you must know you are on the wrong side of history.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
I've heard politicians say that they were 'forced' to throw trans people under a bus because of 'gotcha' questions. No, you aren't forced, you are just transphobic. It isn't that hard, you call out transphobic questions and be the adult in the room. Here is a lesson from James Talarico.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 11/06/2026
'Do you know who you are?' 'No. But I would like to meet her.' New writing, in the Gloaming. themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/06/11/b... #journal #horror #goth #WritingCommunity #ProsePoetry
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Becoming
Do you know who you are? There are days when I have never felt so lost. It is confusing to know where you are in one world, physically, while being lost in another, adrift. I can feel the Sun high …
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 10/06/2026
After many months, I wanted to write again. This is unlike my normal blog, where I try to discuss facts. I've written this as a stream of consciousness, which is how I used to write before life in the UK fell apart. I tend to be more goth/horror. themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/06/10/g...
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Gloaming
There is some quiet piece of me that is unsettled, erratic, thrumming. I can almost hear it, beating against the ground, glinting copper and green like the Japanese beetles of my childhood. This th…
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
I'm listening to the UK Women and Equalities Committee questioning of the EHRC Code of Practice. Part of the issue is the 'civilised' manner, in comparison with Trump and USA Project 2025. British people appear to accept discrimination/transphobia as long as the manner is polite. Spineless.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
If you do anything today, then take the time to fill out this quick form. It will contact your MP to ask them to reject the EHRC Code of Practice, a UK-wide bathroom ban worse than the most restrictive US states. People just want to be able to freely live their lives and participate in society.
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Thrillhouse Goblin 😈 @thrillhousegaming.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
The Supreme Court didn’t give gays the right to marry. Trans women of color throwing bricks at the cops did. Happy Pride Month. Power to the People. Pictured: Ms. Marsha P. Johnson
Ms. Marsha P. Johnson holding a sign that says “power to the people”
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 01/06/2026
Lol @noctesatticae.com
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Mark Grimshaw @markgrimshawtism.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
I don’t think anything sums up how ridiculous the new EHRC guidance is than the fact it describes those protected by the characteristic of gender reassignment to be those undergoing a process to “reassign their sex”, a thing the exact same part of the document says isn’t legally possible. Nonsense.
Gender reassignment
2.36 The Act defines gender reassignment as a protected characteristic (section 7, paragraph 1). People who are proposing to undergo, are undergoing or have undergone a process (or part of a process) to reassign their sex by changing physiological or other attributes of sex have the protected characteristic of gender reassignment.Gender Recognition Certificates (GRC)
2.49 The Supreme Court in For Women Scotland Ltd v The Scottish Ministers (For Women Scotland) [2025] UKSC 16 has ruled that a GRC does not change a person's legal sex for the purposes of the Equality Act 2010. The judgment held that 'sex', ‘woman' and 'man' mean, respectively, biological sex, biological
woman and biological man for the purposes of the Equality Act. The judgment uses the expression 'biological sex' to describe the sex of a person at birth.
The phrase 'biological sex' has the same meaning when used throughout this
Code. This is also referred to as 'sex at birth' in this Code.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
My husband and I were literally forced to leave our home in the UK @bphillipsonmp.bsky.social because of the supreme court EA2010 ruling. The Labour Party have now implemented a bathroom ban more extensive than North Carolina (2016) when the UK gov't advised LGBT people to not travel there.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 21/05/2026
With the upcoming announcement from the UK government regarding a trans* bathroom ban, I feel both vindicated for moving to Canada and incredibly sad. Is there any organisation out there collecting data on the people who have left the UK because of the Supreme Court ruling last year?
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
First entry since moving to Canada is up - it is lonely in a new country, but we are happy to have a new start away from Britain. It is hard to believe we finally made it. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇨🇦 #LGBT #TransRights #Immigration #Canada themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/04/13/h...
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Hello from the other side
Well, the past month has been dramatic, to say the least. I might be talking into the ether, but I want to mark this somewhere: we made it to Canada. With visas. And our two house daemons. Ben and …
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
This is horrible. Having experienced the UK visa system over the past 16 years, I'm so sad to see Labour is extending the hostile environment introduced by the Tories.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 24/03/2026
After meticulously planning for the past 11 months after the UK Supreme Court ruling, we managed to leave terf island and immigrate to Canada! 🇨🇦 #LGBT #transrights #SisterhoodNotCisterhood
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
The past few weeks have been a whirlwind, but my husband and I managed to sign the contract to sell our flat. 😱 Hopefully we'll exchange contracts soon so we can complete within the next two weeks. One step closer to moving to Canada! 🇨🇦✈️
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Screamliner Ontario @mostlyharmless.northsky.social · 10/03/2026
Thread, well worth a read for context on yesterday's NHS HRT ban for under 18s 👇🏻 TLDR: ideologically motivated stitch-up, like Cass but worse
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Pew Research Center @pewresearch.org · 05/03/2026
We asked people around the world to rate the morality and ethics of others in their country. The U.S. is the only place we surveyed where more adults describe the morality and ethics of others living in the country as bad than good. See our full morality report here: www.pewresearch.org/...
Chart showing in many countries, people see their fellow citizens as morally good.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 05/03/2026
T-minus 2 weeks until we immigrate to Canada because of the UK Supreme Court ruling last April. #LGBT #trans #EHRC #EA2010 ✍️✈️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/03/05/o...
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Once more, with feeling
I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve started writing this entry, only to close the document again. I think I’ve been struggling to find the words to for the past two months, and…
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Aaron Rupar @atrupar.com · 25/01/2026
Walz: "To Americans who are watching this, I've got a question for you: What side do you want to be on? The side of an all powerful federal govt that can kill, injury, menace, & kidnap its citizens off the streets? Or on the side of a nurse at the VA hospital who died bearing witness to such govt?"
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 17/01/2026
When your entire message is one of compassion and understanding, why would you engage in hate and harmful discourse? Report, block and move on is the only way. Trans people are not a debate. We are focused on finding women who feel the same: notinourname.org.uk
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Home - Not in our name
Not In our Name: Women in support of the trans+community
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 13/01/2026
Thank you for sharing @pinknews.bsky.social. This isn’t sentient tech gone rogue, it’s a designed feature that allows users to perpetuate harm, backed up by the platform policy. We are calling for a focus on the real threats to women and girls. This is a clear example
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 10/01/2026
When I saw the video of Ross calling Good a 'Fucking bitch' after murdering her, it reminded me of the times men have called me a 'fucking bitch' for various things. For being difficult. For being opinionated. For being unfriendly. He shot her out of anger. He shot her to put a woman in her place.
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 08/01/2026
Happy New Year! ✨🌃🎇🍾 Thinking about what I want to carry into 2026. I've written down a few plans, hopes, and intentions for the year ahead. #writing #reflection #newyear #lgbt New entry ✍️👇: themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2026/01/08/p...
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Persistent tapping
The start of a new year has always helped me refocus and take stock of what I want in the near future. I’ve been thinking more about my resolutions for 2026, and I’ve managed to come up…
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
First therapy appointment....done! Feeling very positive and uplifted, and looking forward to working towards a better place (mentally and physically) this year. #resolutions #newyear #lgbt
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 31/12/2025
I scheduled my 1st appointment for therapy (starting in January) and received a job offer in Canada. My husband and I are moving in Spring 2026. Lots of disappointment in 2025. But the new job is a good opportunity and Canada seems more open to trans ppl and their families than the UK. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇨🇦
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 31/12/2025
This has been a difficult year, and I cannot say I hate to see it end. Here's to 2026. A few thoughts as this year comes to a close - I'm wishing you all well. #writing #reflection #lgbt #moving themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2025/12/31/g...
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Gardenias
Everything in my life feels so delicate at the moment. When my grandmother was alive, she used to describe going to dances on Friday or Saturday nights in the 1950s. She worked all week to buy a ga…
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 27/12/2025
This made me tear up. My husband and I are leaving the UK because of the Supreme Court ruling and interpretation of the law from the EHRC. We are leaving our home, jobs, friends. It feels so isolating sometimes, but this article really reflected our dilemma. I felt seen. ❤️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
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Jon Cooper @joncooper-us.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
TFW you take a photo at the RVT with your spouse and send the photo to your mum and don’t realise it has an advert for a DILF social in the background. 😂😅 Epic. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
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Good Law Project @goodlawproject.org · 21/12/2025
This is Trans Mission. A Solidarity Concert for one night only, raising vital funds for Good Law Project and Not a Phase 💓 Get your tickets here 👉 www.transmissionlive.uk
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Robin Ince @robinince.bsky.social · 17/12/2025
I love Edinburgh’s Lighthouse Books - such an inspirational space full of magnificent people - their support means the world
Lighthouse bookshop gang in front of a wall that says “look after each other”
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Not In Our Name (NION) Women @nionwomen.bsky.social · 16/12/2025
📢 One of our NION Women collective responds to the exclusion of trans women from Labour's Women’s Conference. Read our latest blog: notinourname.org.uk/trans-women-excluded-labour-womens-conference/
Trans Women No Longer Welcome at Labour Women's Conference

We say 'Not In Our Name'
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Tulia 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 @themidnightthrum.bsky.social · 06/12/2025
⚡Blog entry: About the lives we imagined, and the one we’re choosing now. We have news: I've been offered a job in Canada. My husband and I are leaving Britain in 2026 because of the disastrous #EA2010 UK Supreme Court decision. #LGBT #transrights themidnightthrum.wordpress.com/2025/12/06/t...
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This life.
In another life, Ben and I bought a little flat in Bloomsbury, the heart of London, and we walked down Lamb’s Conduit Street every day for cinnamon rolls and black americanos. On weekends, we…
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Robin Moira White @robinmoirawhite.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
If you are:
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