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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 03/03/2026

For trans, non-binary, & gender expansive folks who need a soft place to land for a few hours this month and every month: I host Breathwork for Trans Liberation. Beginner friendly, recording provided, sliding scale (unlimited scholarships by request). www.tickettailor.com/events/thege...

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Buy tickets – Breathwork for Trans Liberation 2026 – Zoom

Breathwork for Trans Liberation 2026 – Zoom, Multiple dates and times - I created Breathwork for Trans Liberation in 2024 so trans folks could have a space where to be free from the burden of cisgende...

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 26/02/2026

There’s no “one way” to come into your identity! You don’t have to fit every stereotype of your gender!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 18/09/2025

Ask The Gender Doula is coming Friday am! 🤔 I’m interested in top surgery…what do I do? 😞 I don’t see my identity reflected around me. How do I process this grief? 🕊️ How can I connect to spirituality as a trans person? 🏳️‍⚧️ My facial hair gives me dysphoria, but I don’t wanna stop T. What do I do?

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 17/09/2025

Surgeons should be required to label BMI requirements as unverified personal gnosis (UPG)

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 04/09/2025

This whole post hit so deep for me. I appreciate Amaya's coeurage and willingness to put this into the world.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 26/08/2025

Transphobia in any form is absolute loser behavior.

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Lane Smith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🤘🏻🖤🔥 @leftlanesmith.bsky.social · 22/08/2025

It's about to be the first of two New Moons in Virgo. Two #Virgo New Moons during a #Tarot Hermit year is significant. Tune out the noise, listen to your body. Virgo is an Earth sign. Mercurial yes, but still an Earth sign. Reality is tangible but not fixed. Whatcha gonna do with a flexible reality?

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 19/08/2025

What I love most about long-form tarot readings is the opportunity to feel into the story that the cards are telling...pulling on various threads but making sure to also weave the tapestry such that the querent received the medicine they need.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 19/08/2025

Damn I didn't realize how much I miss reading tarot.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 18/08/2025

Breathwork for Trans Liberation - where trans folks can gather to breathe, connect to their bodies and one another, and be held in a container of love and support. Happening tomorrow at 5:30 pm PT. bit.ly/TransBreath

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neocolonial malcontent chic @azadirachta-indica.bsky.social · 17/08/2025

"devotion is [...] about knowing the heartbeat of a thing, so that we can still recognize it even as it adapts or adjusts, through different timelines and lifetimes." — @megjoneswall.bsky.social YES and we really aren't taught to understand this double-vision reality of devotion, culturally

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 15/08/2025

Anywho, many things in my life shifted when I realized that so much of what I assumed I "should just know" how to do were actually skill sets that no one had yet taken the time to teach me. After I left my abusive relationship, I learned that "being okay" was actually a skill set. (1/7)

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 15/08/2025

2 weeks into marketing Snake Medicine and I JUST remembered it needs to go on my actual website 🥲 payhip.com/b/n5vVp

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Snake Medicine 2025

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 15/08/2025

@amayarourke.bsky.social is putting out the most incredible info/work right now and I bet you wanna read it!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 08/08/2025

So earlier this year I danced with death more intimately than I have in awhile. It was unexpected, in that my surgery was "totally routine" and "the easiest abdominal surgery" and etc. But while I laid in a hospital bed with ice cold blood dripping into my arm, I remember thinking...

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 07/08/2025

Today is both exciting, generating, fascinating, AND maddening, frustrating, and shitty. I know all the astrology and I expected it to be a rough ride but 😮‍💨!!!!! It's a lot to hold in one squishy body.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 07/08/2025

For all of my classes and workshops, I offer scholarships. This is because 1) I want my classes to be financially accessible and 2) I have benefitted from receiving many scholarships, and have used them for most of my education, traditional and non. But I do things a little different. Here's why.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 05/08/2025

I have been gone but 1) I finished my book (rough draft)!!!!! 2) Snake Medicine is back!!! payhip.com/b/n5vVp

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Snake Medicine 2025

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 04/07/2025

As I continue working on my Gender Rituals book, its starting to feel more and more like a transition grimoire. Which is...making me want to write an actual transition grimoire. 👀

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 24/06/2025

My mutual aid raffle for Jail Support LA raised $426.10!!! I sent the final donation today and notified the winner 🥰 So grateful I could support my community this way, and so grateful for all who donated!!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 23/06/2025

8 chapters written, 7 to go. 41K words down, out of a projected 80k total. I plan to finish the rest by the end of July, with the help of the transcestors and the gods! Draft is due to publisher at the end of August. 🪽🙏🏻

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The Transfeminine Review @thetransfemininereview.com · 19/06/2025

Well, this seems like a pretty topical day to read this essential nonfiction cut from @rikiwilchins.bsky.social

Bad Ink: how the new York times sold out transgender teens by Riki Wilchins

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samantha riedel @samanthawrites.net · 18/06/2025

Here's our rapid response list of orgs to reach out to if you're trans and in need of aid right now (or if you're cis and want an org to support): www.them.us/story/scotus... Not exhaustive, but Quispe, @sal.gay, and I hope you still find it useful

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These Mental Health and Mutual Aid Resources Are Here for Trans People Post-Skrmetti Ruling

Vital resources for trans youth, adults, and their loved ones.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 13/06/2025

Today in the newsletter, part one of my new series, "What Trans People (and Everyone) in 2025 Can Learn From 'Andor'." Part one is: The Methods of Empire Are Both Terrifying & Predictable. With Los Angeles as an object lesson, not only this week, but beginning with colonization.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 13/06/2025

$261.10 donated so far for Jail Support LA!!!! You can join the mutual aid raffle - when we hit $300 I will add another winner!!! Winners get 90 minutes of any service I offer. I'll put details below.

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Amy Green @amygreensastrology.bsky.social · 12/06/2025

hello!! 🚨 I'm raffling off THREE Birth Chart readings for our local bail fund post or dm me a screenshot of your $5 and up donation to the Maine Direct Action Solidarity Fund for every $20 spent I enter your name twice venmo: @mainedasf (no hyphen) First drawing Sunday night 🖤 in just 3 days

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 11/06/2025

Sent my first $115.55 to Jail Support LA!!! I plan to donate every time I hit around $100 because the work is time sensitive! You can enter the raffle today 🥰 I will post details below!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 11/06/2025

Good morning! I need ONE more entry into my raffle and I can donate a solid $100 to Jail Support LA today!! To enter: venmo @TheGenderDoula with your IG or bluesky handle. Each entry is $5 and you can get multiple entries at once! Winner gets 90 minutes of any service I provide!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 10/06/2025

Hey ya'll I'm doing a mutual aid raffle for Jail Support LA! Each entry = $5 Prize is 90 minutes of gender doula services, tarot, or breathwork Venmo me @TheGenderDoula with as many entries as you want and your handle (specify if its BlueSky or IG). Random drawing 6/24

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Angus Johnston @angus.bsky.social · 09/06/2025

If you want a certain kind of grassroots resistance to Trumpism, what you do is encourage and participate in that kind of resistance. What you don't do is sit on your hands until people come up with something without you, and then say "no, not that."

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Edgar Fabián Frías @edgarfabianfrias.org · 09/06/2025

ABOLISH BORDERS AND BINARIES

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 09/06/2025

Hey I get why people are pushing the, "it wasn't a riot, it was calm, people had their kids there" narrative rn but it's wrongheaded and I'll tell you why. First of all, yes it was calm in many parts of LA this weekend. LA is a massive city. But that's not the point! (1/5)

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 09/06/2025

So proud of my city, Los Angeles, and everyone who is helping or supporting the people in any way today. If you live somewhere else I hope you’re preparing right now. Watch the tactics that work and iterate on them. Liberation requires all of us pushing from all sides.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 06/06/2025

On hold with my dental insurance and the hold music is giving David Lynch circa Twin Peaks and its really changing the vibe of this whole interaction...

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 04/06/2025

Venus is moving into Taurus and Friday's newsletter is all about pleasure as a means of survival. bit.ly/TGDList

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 02/06/2025

For my folks who read tarot (or want to) but aren't into things like "the divine masculine" or "the divine feminine" and believe that there's more to these archetypes than our toxic gender conditioning! Early Access tickets end 6/7! www.eventbrite.com/e/gender-exp...

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Gender Expansive Tarot: Envisioning the Cards Beyond the Binary

Join us as we reorient our gendered views of the tarot into a more expansive vision, led by the Gender Doula, Eli Lawliet!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 30/05/2025

I truly cannot stress enough how different I feel after having my drain removed. It feels a little too on-the-nose that an abdominal drain was quite literally draining me...my energy, my resources, etc. That thing literally saved my life, and I'm grateful, but good riddance!!!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 29/05/2025

just tried the live chat function for Covered CA since the phone number wasn't working and spent many minutes of my one wild and precious life trying to argue that it had, in fact, been more than 5 business days since 5/19. 😐 (I did eventually get through on the phone, things improved.)

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 28/05/2025

This week in the newsletter: I’ve been having a lot of thoughts lately about how much, as a whole, trans and queer folks have been constrained by the cis/het imagination. Even now, what might it look like for us to imagine something more than fear, pain, and terror? bit.ly/TGDList

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 26/05/2025

One more chapter done on my *current project*. What project? I told that mailing list already 👀 And the signal group 👀 I'll probably keep being coy on here for a bit tho. bit.ly/TGDList

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mady castigan✨ 🏳️‍⚧️ @mady.cat · 23/05/2025

STOP: Don’t panic–organize! @thefreeradical.org and I consulted for weeks with experts about the bill attacking Medicaid for trans people. We find that advocates can still kill the bill or mitigate its impacts through direct action and community solidarity. 🧵👇🏽 www.madycast.com/p/dont-panic...

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Don’t Panic–the Battle Over the Trans Medicaid Ban Is Far From Over. Here’s How To Fight Back.

While confusion and misinformation spreads on social media, advocates offer concrete strategies to stop the GOP’s genocidal attack on trans people’s lives through community solidarity and defiance.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 22/05/2025

Nothing like an afternoon nap in a soft pink bed 🥰

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The Transfeminine Review @thetransfemininereview.com · 22/05/2025

I can feel the stress in the air. If you're struggling today, please reach for community. Turn off your phone and read a trans book. Call your reps. Talk to family, friends, anyone and everyone who can lift their voice for us. We'll still be here tomorrow.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 20/05/2025

Since 3/27: one surgery, one internal bleed, 3 ER visits, 2 multi-day hospitalizations, 5 CT scans, 2 blood transfusions, 3 iron transfusions, countless blood draws, three IVs, one midline, 15 days of IV antibiotics, and SIX WEEKS of having a big ol' abdominal drain attached to my body...

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