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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 26/02/2026

There’s no “one way” to come into your identity! You don’t have to fit every stereotype of your gender!

Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 13/06/2025

$261.10 donated so far for Jail Support LA!!!! You can join the mutual aid raffle - when we hit $300 I will add another winner!!! Winners get 90 minutes of any service I offer. I'll put details below.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 11/06/2025

Sent my first $115.55 to Jail Support LA!!! I plan to donate every time I hit around $100 because the work is time sensitive! You can enter the raffle today 🥰 I will post details below!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 11/06/2025

Good morning! I need ONE more entry into my raffle and I can donate a solid $100 to Jail Support LA today!! To enter: venmo @TheGenderDoula with your IG or bluesky handle. Each entry is $5 and you can get multiple entries at once! Winner gets 90 minutes of any service I provide!

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 10/06/2025

Hey ya'll I'm doing a mutual aid raffle for Jail Support LA! Each entry = $5 Prize is 90 minutes of gender doula services, tarot, or breathwork Venmo me @TheGenderDoula with as many entries as you want and your handle (specify if its BlueSky or IG). Random drawing 6/24

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 22/05/2025

Nothing like an afternoon nap in a soft pink bed 🥰

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 05/05/2025

Oh hey look at this 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀 The very first official Gender Doula merch drop! www.bonfire.com/store/the-ge...

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 18/03/2025

Okay so this past weekend I did an in-person event and holy shit!!!! I have been reckoning with some imbalances in my energy and this event helped me realize how much time I waste trying to make social media work when connecting with folks in-person is 10000000% better.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 17/03/2025

here's a pic I snapped today. Ten years later. I had no idea back then what it would be like to fall in love with myself for the first time. I'm so grateful to that younger me. He had so much courage. He was so strong.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 17/03/2025

Happy ten years on T to me!!! This pic was me, 4 days on T. I was honestly terrified! I thought I wasn't trans enough, and I was so scared that I was making a mistake, or doing something I would regret.

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Eli Lawliet, Ph.D., The Gender Doula @thegenderdoula.com · 24/02/2025

Healed my heart with these gentle friends yesterday. I have realized that These Times™️ require regular thawing of my heart, nervous system, and body. Hummingbirds are good allies for this work 🩷