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Refuge provides specialist services to survivors of domestic abuse. We run the Freephone 24 hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247

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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Mums know how expensive the back to school rush can be. But what if you’ve just fled domestic abuse, and it's not just replacing outgrown shirts – but starting again from nothing. Help us raise enough for every child staying with us to start their new school: campaign.refuge.org.uk/page/195842/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 13/07/2026
Yes you heard that right, tiny cubes of rubbish from Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's wedding are on sale for $25 each. But what would you rather - a piece of soggy confetti scooped from the floor, or helping a child make new memories after fleeing domestic abuse?
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
When high-profile perpetrators are given a platform, it sends a dangerous message, that violence against women and girls has no consequences. For survivors, it minimises their experiences and makes it even harder to speak out. We must do better. Stand with survivors.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
Abuse doesn’t always show up in the way you expect, it can play in different positions, and it often doesn’t stop at one tactic.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 12/06/2026
Whoever you support this world cup, make sure it includes survivors of domestic abuse. Big matches should never mean fear at home. Put up our poster and start the conversation. Download yours for free: campaign.refuge.org.uk/page/192659/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
Women deserve to feel sale in their own homes and online. Sign our open letter to the Prime Minister to demand urgent change and give women the safety they deserve >> campaign.refuge.org.uk/page/187385/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
1/ 🆕 Proud to support the launch of ‘Out of Sight, Out of Mind’ - Imkaan’s new campaign and research release highlighting how Black and minoritised women are being left out of specialist mental health support. 📑🔗: bit.ly/4bF54ni
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 06/03/2026
Domestic abuse doesn't always look like bruises or a hole in the wall... sometimes it looks like a picture-perfect home. This International Women’s Day we want every woman suffering domestic abuse to know she isn't alone. Support is available, call on 0808 2000 247.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
Take a tour around this picture-perfect house... now look again, can you spot the red flags? 🚩 Trigger warning for domestic abuse. youtu.be/FaYJfFaXz7M
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Home is Where the Hurt is
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 31/12/2025
'I met the devil, but chose to live' Read more from survivor Esther* here: www.lbc.co.uk/article/dome...
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'I met the devil, but chose to live' How New Year’s Eve marked one woman’s end to abuse, addiction and homelessness | LBC
Esther* is clear about one thing: she does not want to be defined by what was done to her.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
This time of year can be extremely difficult for women living with an abuser, but you are not alone. Our National Domestic Abuse Helpline is open 24/7, 365 days a year. If you need support over the festive period, we are here for you. Share for anyone who might need our number 💗
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
Many children in our refuges worry that Santa won't be able to find them this year. You can bring joy to the children waking up in a refuge this Christmas morning and support their mums by donating a toy or vital essentials they may need. Donate today >> donate.refuge.org.uk/page/180210/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 09/12/2025
Join us this February for our four-part event series that will explore how technology shapes trust, intimacy, and control in the digital age. 🚨 Dont miss your chance to get 2 for 1 tickets during the final day of 16 Days of Activism. Sign up today: www.eventbrite.com/e/fashioning...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 02/12/2025
You can make twice the impact this Giving Tuesday! Right now, your donations to our Christmas Appeal will kindly be matched by The Brook Trust, meaning your donation of £10 turns into £20 or give £25 and it’ll be matched to £50. Make a difference this Christmas donate.refuge.org.uk/page/182019/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 01/12/2025
This Christmas, you can give the gift of safety, hope and joy. Many women flee their abusers with nothing but the clothes on their back. They come to our refuges exhausted and scared. Help us make their first Christmas of freedom, one they’ll want to remember donate.refuge.org.uk/page/180211/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
This week the Big Give will be matching our supporters' donations meaning you can double the impact of your donation, at no extra cost to you. Every 2 minutes, someone turns to us for help. You can help make sure that Refuge is there for every woman who needs us: donate.biggive.org/campaign/a05...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
Adaptive technology within the home is a lifeline for disabled women. But it can also be weaponised by abusive partners Too often, disabled survivors who report concerns are dismissed by agencies, who believe their abusive partners over them. Read our latest blog > refuge.org.uk/news/when-te...
Slide 1: Pink and white text on a navy background with the quote “My ex-partner knew that I needed my screen reader and talking aids to help keep me independent. He would often hide them and when I told him I couldn’t find them, he would beret me and tell me I was stupid”, followed by @RefugeCharity and a large arrow pointing to the right 
Pink and white text on a navy background with the quote “I became so depressed and isolated from my friends online. He wanted me to become more reliant on him, and for a while it worked”. – Simran*, followed by @RefugeCharity and a large full stop
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
This #BHM we will be sharing stories of power and pride from survivors, supporters and staff. Both misogyny and racism are deeply-rooted across society, causing unacceptable barriers for Black women reporting abuse. Deeply entrenched misogynoir devalues Black survivors and dismisses their trauma.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
Can we have just 5 minutes of your time? To help our work we’d love to better understand who our supporters are, to ensure our communications are inclusive and representative. All answers are anonymous, take our support survey today >> www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/OwnRefuge2...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
A reminder this World Suicide Prevention Day for anyone who may be struggling: you are not alone. Domestic abuse can take many forms, and psychological abuse and coercive control can be just as destructive as physical abuse. (1/3)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 04/09/2025
This Sunday (7th September) there will be a nationwide Emergency Alert test at 3pm. For women experiencing #DomesticAbuse, a hidden phone can be a lifeline. The Emergency alert this week will trigger a loud siren noise, even if your phone is on silent.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 01/09/2025
"VAWG is an epidemic. It permeates every element of our society and is perpetrated by men from all walks of life." Read more from survivor of #DomesticAbuse, Jane 👇 www.bigissue.com/opinion/asyl...
bigissue.com
I'm a survivor of domestic violence. Asylum hotel protests do not speak for me
The recent protests outside asylum hotels claim to ‘protect women and girls’. But they are not about women's safety at all.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 29/08/2025
The future of tech safety starts here. Join Refuge’s Tech Safety Summit to find out how you could better protect survivors in a digital world. 🗓️ Save the date: 23 & 24 September 2025 🎟️ Get your tickets today: refugetechsafetysummit.vfairs.com
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 21/08/2025
Either as a comfort, source of inspiration, or a means to escape – we know books can have a huge impact. £5 could buy a book for a child staying in one of our refuges, creating bonding moments between a mother and child, and helping them create new memories: donate.refuge.org.uk/page/175627/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 19/08/2025
🚨Vital conversations about violence against women and girls are being hijacked by an anti-migrant agenda. We've joined 200 organisations to urge the Government to address this dangerous weaponisation of VAWG. It is #NotInOurName
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/07/2025
One in five children will have been exposed to domestic abuse in their lifetime. Donate today to help us make new, positive memories for a child staying in one of our refuges >> donate.refuge.org.uk/page/173454/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 10/07/2025
Refuge has repeatedly raised urgent concerns about the devastating impact Crown Court backlogs are having on survivors of domestic abuse. Court delays are deeply traumatic for many survivors, and women often tell Refuge they feel let down by the very system that is supposed to protect them. (1/2)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 10/07/2025
We’re teaming up @lovingmeuk.bsky.social to challenge harmful stereotypes about the LGBTIQ+ community’s experiences of abuse. Loving Me is a specialist by-and-for service providing support for trans+ and non-binary people experiencing domestic abuse 1/4)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 07/07/2025
Together we can make more happy memories for children who have escaped fear and violence. Almost 50% of people in our refuges are children, let's make this summer one to remember Donate a parcel today >> donate.refuge.org.uk/page/173454/...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 04/07/2025
The verdict in the Sean “Diddy” Combs trial highlights the significant barriers and power imbalances survivors face when speaking out – particularly against powerful, wealthy and influential individuals. (1/3) www.stylist.co.uk/news/coerciv...
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“This is what everyone keeps getting wrong about Cassie Ventura and coercive control”
“Survivors can still feel affection for the person who’s hurting them.”
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 30/06/2025
Abuse can happen to anyone, but LGBTIQ+ people often face unique forms of harm, stigma, and silence. @galopuk.bsky.social
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
Abuse isn’t always visible, but support should be. LGBTIQ+ people, especially trans individuals, face higher risks of domestic abuse, and often, greater barriers to getting help. (1/3)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
What an incredible moment at #Glastonbury! Huge thanks to Refuge Ambassador, producer & director Rosemary Reed on hosting this vital discussion on ending violence against women and girls. The panel was joined by our Chair Hetti Barkworth-Nanton, ambassador Zara McDermott, and Eni Aluko 💗 (1/2)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
Planning your weekend schedule at #Glastonbury? Don’t miss this powerful moment. "How to Create Societal Change: Tackling Violence Against Women and Girls" Thursday 26th June 1:15–2:15pm Information Stage, Silver Hayes
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/06/2025
Experiencing abuse can be extremely isolating, and it can feel like there’s no way out. But Refuge is here to support you, in whatever way you need. (1/2)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/06/2025
Heading to #Glastonbury? Don’t miss this powerful panel discussion on tackling violence against women and girls. Rosemary Reed is bringing her powerhouse voice to Silver Hayes tomorrow. Alongside Refuge Chair Hetti Barkworth-Nanton, Zara McDermott and Eni Aluko. 📍Information stage 1.15pm
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MSI Reproductive Choices @msichoices.org · 18/06/2025
Last night, MPs voted to ensure women in England & Wales won't face criminalisation for having an abortion. This is a huge win for reproductive rights, and we're so proud to have been part of it @bpas.bsky.social @fsrh.org @cosmopolitan.co.uk @evawuk.bsky.social @refugecharity.bsky.social
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 19/06/2025
The behaviours depicted in violent pornography are not confined to the online space. Misogynistic content has real consequences for the safety of women and girls, and is a disturbing reflection of the experiences of many domestic abuse survivors. www.bbc.com/news/article...
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Minister pledges ban of strangulation and suffocation pornography
Dame Diana Johnson told MPs harmful content online was "fuelling violent sexual encounters".
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 12/06/2025
This week, the Government announced how it plans to spend public money over the next year, but there was no mention of domestic abuse or violence against women and girls, even once. There is an estimated shortfall of £307 million in current spending on tackling violence against women and girls
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 02/06/2025
This #VolunteersWeek, we’re celebrating all our incredible volunteers. Over the last year, you’ve spent 6,831 hours answering 5,995 calls, live chats and webforms – all in support of those who have needed it most.
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
For anyone experiencing domestic abuse - you are not alone. We see you, and we're here to support you - including your mental health. Our National Domestic Abuse Helpline is available 24/7 on 0808 2000 247. #MentalHealthAwarenessWeek
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Woman's Trust @womanstrust.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
> 90 organisations inc @womensaid.bsky.social @sbsisters.bsky.social and @refugecharity.bsky.social fugecharity.bsky.social working across #vawg #domesticabuse and #mentalhealth joined our call to ministers to fund specialist counselling and #GiveSurvivorsHope womanstrust.org.uk/give-survivo...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 15/05/2025
1 in 4 women will experience #DomesticAbuse in their lifetime. Save for a time you might need to know what to do. If you know someone experiencing abuse, encourage her to contact us >> www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
If you’re scared to say no to your partner, or they coerce you into sex, it’s abuse. #Consent should be given freely and enthusiastically. For support call our National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247 or contact us online > www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 16/04/2025
Today’s ruling by the Supreme Court will not change the way Refuge operates. We remain firmly committed to supporting all survivors of domestic abuse, including trans women. (1/3)
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
Relationships aren’t always the picture perfect you might see 📸 You never know what goes on behind closed doors. If you’re experiencing any signs of abuse, we believe you. Our National Domestic Abuse Helpline is here to support you, chat to us online www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/Chat-to-us-o... 💖
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 14/04/2025
“For many women and children, our service is the difference between fear and safety, despair and hope” - Anya* Every two minutes, someone turns to Refuge for support. If you need support, our staff such as Anya* are here for you. Call 24/7 on 0808 2000 247 or visit nationaldahelpline.org.uk
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The Independent @the-independent.com · 11/04/2025
🏠 The house the Independent built: First safe haven for women fleeing domestic abuse is finished Construction of the first purpose-built safe house was completed this week, after the hugely successful campaign launched in partnership with leading domestic abuse charity Refuge.
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First safe house for women fleeing domestic abuse is built in Independent’s campaign
An all-female team of decorators will add the last touches to the property which was built using funds raised by The Independent’s Brick by Brick campaign, in partnership with domestic abuse charity R...
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 25/03/2025
This Mother’s Day, mums in our refuges just want their child to be safe and happy. Often they’ve had to leave everything behind, including their favourite books and toys. £5 could buy a children’s book they can enjoy together in a one of our refuges > donate.refuge.org.uk/page/166992/...
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Support women and children experiencing domestic abuse
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Refuge @refugecharity.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Economic abuse is a devastating form of domestic abuse that can leave survivors feeling trapped. If you’re experiencing economic abuse, Refuge is here to support you. Visit www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk inews.co.uk/inews-lifest...
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'I ended up bankrupt, my partner ruined me': How to recognise financial abuse
A report estimates 1.6 million people were coerced into debt in the past year by their partners - a form of abuse on the rise due to the cost of living crisis and can have catastrophic consequences on...
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