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Addy Bross 🌈 they/xe @aebrossbooks.com · 9h

Four hours left. Get yourself some punk while the gettin' is good! 🤩

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 12h

Magical girl transformation, but at the end I'm wearing pajama pants and a hoodie.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 13h

While everyone laughs at the poor production values, Manos does tap into the raw horror of having to spend the night at an average Texan's house.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 13h

Motherfucker appears as soon as you complete your interocitor to tell you you passed his test.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 03/09/2025

Work in nonprofits long enough and you learn that "We prioritize hiring diverse candidates" usually just means "we want to make our brochures look better."

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 16h

"Boy, I hope I don't have any more terrible things to deal with," I say, entering the 10th month of the Year Of Terrible Things.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 21h

Chat, is it good when a site's head of trust and safety uses an automated system to block half the users?

Screenshot of Aaron Rodericks, Bluesky's head of trust and safety, saying "Automated block actions on my account so that I can stay unbothered. Moisturized. Happy. In my lane. Focused. Flourishing. TBH it was well overdue.

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Denice (Dee), the Red Witch @deetheredwitch.bsky.social · 19h

Current status 100/1700. Seriously, anything helps.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 20/12/2024

Aaron Rodericks like

Batman comic panel with Joker reading a newspaper that says "chortle at Joker's boner" and saying "So! They laugh at my boner, will they? I'll show them! I'll show them how many boners Joker can make!"

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 21h

Chat, is it good when a site's head of trust and safety uses an automated system to block half the users?

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 21h

In honor of Aaron Rodericks and his latest boner (metaphorical), let's flash back to the time he showed up in my replies to discuss a previous boner (literal).

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Vivian Moira Valentine @itsviviactually.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Hey, that's me!

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

No one responds worse to being called out on transphobia than cis queers. I don't even think it's that they think they can't do it, I think it's that they assume they get a pass. Or that their queerness gives them special insight that allows them to see The Problem With Trans People.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

My "what a square!" hot take is that we are way too cavalier about underaged drinking. Let me tell ya, the "LOL TEENS DRINK AND DO DRUGS FILM AT 11" jokes kinda fall flat the second you see a kid have to deal with addiction and/or the reality that they fucked up their lives.

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Vivian Moira Valentine @itsviviactually.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Queerly beloved, it is almost Hallowe'en! Now's the perfect time to visit the most haunted town in New England!

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Denice (Dee), the Red Witch @deetheredwitch.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Seriously, even just ten or twenty bucks helps. Whatever you can throw in.

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Nicole Bedera @nbedera.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

To put it another way, you can’t just tell your sons they need to take accountability—you need to hold them accountable. Start with small stuff. Don’t shield them for the consequences of their actions. Walk them through the process of doing the wrong thing and turning it into the right thing.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Honestly, though, they don't look much worse than the versions from the Xena and Hercules animated movie.

A screenshot from thr animated Xena and Hercules movie with the two title characters standing together and illustrated poorly.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Woman in diner: "I want to start selling feet pics." Husband: "No, don't sell your feet pics!" Me, a stranger: "Sir, let your wife sell feet pics." What Would You Do? host John Quiñones: "What you did was heroic. I'm going to put it on prime time network tv."

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Despoina [Commissions Open] @desdarkdesigns.neocities.org · 21/02/2026

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Denice (Dee), the Red Witch @deetheredwitch.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

The last of the Nightmare series of masks for the gallery show next month at @pushpullseattle.bsky.social is now finished. Wanna check it out and read the retold greek myth that goes with it? It's right here: www.patreon.com/posts/170475...

A deliberately blurred picture of a mask with an open mouth. Text reads "2026 Nightmares: Cassandra"

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Vivian Moira Valentine @itsviviactually.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Anyway why don't more people read my gay monster books if I'm so smart?

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Encountering someone where it's like damn, you're cis and straight in every timeline, aren't you?

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

Some advice from when I was working at a private university: Yes, call, email, write letters, etc. now. But most private universities have some big fundraising week or month that is very important to them. That's when to hit them again and keep their lines busy and systems flooded.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Thinking back to when I worked at a university & hearing a coworker who was one of the Title 9 investigators talk about how their office was always so slammed with filed complaints...and then the next fall seeing the school proudly report 0 sexual assaults. Just like the previous 5 years.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Okay, I misread the adjective used to describe the witches and now I need to change my answer.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I dunno, if you hear another trans person talking about something that a lot of trans people have in common, and you find yourself seized by the NEED to express that you, actually, don't do that thing, maybe ask why it was so important for you to establish that you're not like other trans people?

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I need us to move beyond "I can identify tropes therefore I am giving a nuanced critique of art" immediately.

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Urvi @theurv.com · 28/09/2026

There were more men in a single documented gang rape at one school than the number of competitive trans athletes nationally. But I’ve heard a lot more politicians being asked about protecting girls from one of these scenarios and not another… I’ll let you guess which is which.

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

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Bex is WEAK on crime @bextraordinary.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Many men would rather engage in violent fantasy about what they WOULD do instead of doing what they easily COULD.

Threads post from @protextor

“I'd kill for my daughter."

OK. Will you risk social inconvenience by calling out your peers loudly and to their face? Or is that bare minimum real-life scenario scarier than your hypothetical one? 1/2

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Jason O. Gilbert @gilbertjasono.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

AI EXECUTIVE (bragging about his product): Using this every day has made me incredibly stupid

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I have only today learned that they are still making episodes of What Would You Do? and they are so out of ideas that the setups have become spectacular:

"Episode 15" April 9, 2025

A husband tries to convince his wife to sell photos of her feet online. The scenario is later replayed, with the wife wanting to post photos of her feet and her husband objecting. A pledge is hazed by two fraternity members. Two college students study for their finals by drinking excessive amounts of energy drinks. A mother disagrees with her daughter's decision to use in vitro fertilization for religious reasons.

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Stephie 🏳️‍⚧️ @stephiesparda.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Multiple generations of Star Wars fans became full on Nazis after they saw one film they didn't like.

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Eniko Fox @enikofox.com · 27/09/2026

i posted an epiphany i had about why i hate AI so much on fedi and i wanna post it here but it won't fit and i don't wanna cut it down to size so fuckit i'm just posting a screenshot

Eniko Fox
@eniko@mastodon.gamedev.place

OH. right! i get it now!

i get why AI is so depressing to me. because covid already shrunk my world to almost nothing, where almost all of my life revolves around socializing and watching videos on the internet (which is being ruined by AI) and creating creative works through coding (which is being ruined by AI), often using open source tools and libraries (which are being ruined by AI)

i already had so little and now even that is being rotted away before my eyes
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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Finally, a review that understands what the customer wants to know.

Screenshot of a Steam review recommending the game, which is in early access: "You can be a girl that eats people in this game."

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Abra / Jessica Conwell, Carmella Creeper's Gender Doula🏳️‍⚧️ 🇲🇽🌼 @pairofclaws.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Just throwing this out there for any of my goth trans brothers still trying to pick a name.

A photo of the box for a vampire bat toy named Gre Gory. Box features a giant illustration of the bat with an open chest cavity, describes it as "Gre-Gory, big bad vampire bat"

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Cheryl Lynn Eaton @cheryllynneaton.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Not enough people know what it's like to be popped in the mouth for not respecting someone's boundaries.

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Despoina [Commissions Open] @desdarkdesigns.neocities.org · 01/06/2026

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