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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel)

@nicomaramckay.com
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Historian in Tkaronto (Toronto). Likes bats, monsters, sincereposting, alt text, and DEIA. Genderqueer. Trans. Autistic. 40s. 👬 🧛 nicomaramckay.com There will be typos. Subscribe for queer and trans culture and histories: patreon.com/ephemeralrecord

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Thomas Ha @thomasha.bsky.social · 04/03/2026
the two phases of writing: (1) writing and (2) wandering aimlessly like an unmoored ghost and complaining about not writing
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@susanstryker.bsky.social will be at Glad Day Lit on Tuesday, 6 October in #Toronto!! 🌈🗃️ 🏳️‍⚧️
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Susan Stryker's Toronto BOOK LAUNCH for Changing Gender
In a very rare Toronto appearance, legendary trans trailblazer SUSAN STRYKER will join us at Glad Day to launch her new book.
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Gina Murrell @ginamurrell1.blacksky.app · 14h
CALL FOR PROPOSALS (CFP): Archives and Resistance: A Virtual Symposium on Digital Preservation and Publication in the Context of African, African American, and Diaspora Studies, Feb 19-20, 2027. DEADLINE: Nov 20. documentaryediting.org/archives-and... #BlackStudies #BlackHistory #DigitalHumanities
White text against a purple background: "Archives and Resistance: A Virtual Symposium on Digital Preservation and Publication in the Context of African, African American, and Diaspora Studies"
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Comfortably Numb @numb.comfortab.ly · 02/01/2025
What annoys me the most about hashtag resist accounts - they post these flashy images with only text on them, and no alt text whatsoever. Not only it serves no purpose besides clout chasing, it's also ableist.
An image with only text in it: "BIG POMPOUS USELESS WORDS GO HERE FOR EVERY SHEEP TO APPLAUD"
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 03/10/2026
The way Brennan Lee Mulligan looks directly at the camera when he says, "Never obey... in advance" in yesterday's episode of Critical Role. 🫵
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Sandy Ernest Allen @sandyernestallen.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Here’s the link again … www.thebeliever.net/looking-for-...
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Looking for Loren Rex Cameron - Believer Magazine
Lots of trans guys I’ve talked to have had a Loren Rex Cameron story, and this is mine: Some years ago now, when I worked up the courage to confess to my spouse that I wanted top surgery—we were newly...
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Sandy Ernest Allen @sandyernestallen.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
The first-ever I believe contingent of "FTM” folks marching in the 1994 Pride (anywhere?) in San Francisco included Loren Rex Cameron and a few of his buddies … and by a few of their tellings he stayed up all night making this banner, in this now-iconic image. That’s of course him there shirtless.
FTM TRANS PRIDE banner being held by LRC and a friend, with a few others behind
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 02/10/2026
Hybrid, but I couldn't find the conference schedule on the website.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 02/10/2026
My paper was still way too long. I can try to find a way to simplify it for Patreon, if anyone is interested?
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Ephemeral Record | Nico Mara-McKay — A historian's exploration of queer and trans pasts and presents.
Get more from Ephemeral Record | Nico Mara-McKay on Patreon. A historian's exploration of queer and trans pasts and presents.. Support Ephemeral Record | Nico Mara-McKay and get exclusive access to th...
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 02/10/2026
Finishing up the slides.
Photo of laptop with title slide:

This Field is Mandatory:

Genealogies of Nonbinary Marginalization in Canada

Nico Mara-McKay (they/iel), The ArQuives

@nicomaramckay.com
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 01/10/2026
Thanks!
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 01/10/2026
Thanks, but the conference is super packed. Maybe a recommendation for Sunday afternoon? I have a couple of hours to kill between the conference ending and my train departure.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 01/10/2026
Hello, Kingston!
View of a field after stepping off the train in Kingston, Ontario.
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Sippy Spoopy Psycho @sippycuppsycho.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I got an email the other morning telling me "your reports are now being muted" for reporting hate speech. Apparently they think that's offensive and it said if I didn't stop reporting I would be suspended for platform manipulation. I was reporting hate speech suggesting trans people should die. 🤷
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Bruno Dias @brunodias.dev · 01/10/2026
You can't be branding large numbers of accounts as "rude" and defaulting to hiding their posts, suspending people aggressively on tenuous interpretations of posts, and then with the other side of your mouth "well if you're so bothered about transphobia you're welcome to Do Your Own Moderation"
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Bruno Dias @brunodias.dev · 01/10/2026
More generally I think the aggressive conflation of criticism with harassment, and then of harassment with violent threats, is pretty irresponsible to be engaging in. I think whining about lack of resources when you haven't even *acknowledged* problems users care about it pretty pathetic.
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Garth Marenghi's Catbus @catbus.phd · 01/10/2026
it's incredibly unprofessional behavior for a purported "head of T&S" but I for one appreciate not having to see any of his dog shitt posts
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Jacqueline Murray @jacquelinemurray.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Greetings early medievalists. I am wondering if there is an English translation of Gregory of Tours History of the Franks that has superseded Thorpe's Penguin version and is easily/widely available? Many thanks. #medievalsky
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Isabella Lewis @irvlewis.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
On Saturday, 7 November, I will be running a Wikipedia Edit-a-thon around the theme of Byzantine women & genderqueer saints. I hope that this workshop will help to improve the coverage of women and LGBTQ+ history on Wikipedia. To attend, follow this link: www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/wiki-edit-...
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Wiki Edit-a-Thon: Byzantine Women & Genderqueer Saints
An in-person edit-a-thon that aims to improve the coverage of Byzantine women & genderqueer saints on Wikipedia. No prior experience needed.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 01/10/2026
Does this person know you're photographing them and putting their picture on the Internet?
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 01/10/2026
Probably? But is there a reason you're trying to hijack this thread about the ongoing threat to trans rights?
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
We need to demand better of those we elect to office. No one deserves to be sacrificed on the altar of "oh, we'll get it to it later, maybe, if political winds change." No. Be the gale force that *demands* change.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 17/03/2026
I'm reading You Better Be Lightning by Andrea Gibson and, damn. #BookSky 🌈📚 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈
Photo of a poem:

NO SUCH THING AS THE INNOCENT BYSTANDER

Silence rides shotgun wherever hate goes.
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Michael Broussard @michaelbroussard.myatproto.social · 30/09/2026
Important thread. Support true progressives.
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Maggie Astor @maggieastor.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
The 988 suicide prevention hotline's Press 3 option — which provides specialized services to LGBTQ callers — has been restored more than a year after the Trump administration shut it down. Confirmed by HHS and the office of Senator Tammy Baldwin, who led on legislation that forced its restoration
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Debbie Iron Bow @ironbow.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
They are no better today. Elders, survivors of residential schools completed another walk. To ask that funding for residential school survivors be continued when this government is ending it. So much for reconciliation. It is up to you, the voter, to demand better. 🪶
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Anna Mehler Paperny @mehlerpaperny.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
If we're going to talk about truth and reconciliation we should talk about Canada fighting First Nations in court. ijb.utoronto.ca/news/liberal...
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Liberals are playing legal hardball with First Nations over drinking water - Investigative Journalism Bureau
Prime Minister Mark Carney’s Liberal government is playing legal hardball with First Nations fighting for clean drinking water — and First Nations are fighting back. Interviews and hundreds of pages o...
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
We need to demand better of those we elect to office. No one deserves to be sacrificed on the altar of "oh, we'll get it to it later, maybe, if political winds change." No. Be the gale force that *demands* change.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
We need robust moral leadership from progressives who put themselves in positions where they can advocate for change. It's not going to happen unless we demand it of them. To many politicians are cowards determining policy positions through focus groups and spreadsheets over basic human decency.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Candidates who vocally and unabashedly support trans rights are just as likely to vocally and unabashedly support other systemically marginalized groups: Indigenous people, Black people, migrants, Palestinians, disabled people, etc.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
If the systematic removal of our rights and freedoms doesn't matter enough to you to push candidates back towards equal opportunity for everyone to succeed, then what are you even doing here. None of us are free until all of us are free.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Canada, the US, and the UK were once understood to be liberal democracies, (relative) safe havens from systemic marginalization and othering experienced by 2SLGBTQIA+ people in other parts of the world. For a couple of decades, things were looking up.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Seriously... Do you hear yourselves? Liberals or Democrates -- Conservatives or Republicans -- it literally makes no difference if they both want me to have fewer rights and freedoms than I do now.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Every person who supports a liberal "centrist" over a more progressive candidate is simply outing themselves as conservative. Trans people: I have fewer human rights today than I did five years ago. Liberal: But if I don't vote for the transphobic "centrist," *my* rights get taken away too.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Thanks! I had personalized ads turned off and my gender is set to a custom entry (genderqueer), so I'm not sure whether anything will change, but one can hope!
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
I get ads for middle women's fashion, bras, exercise routines. All AI slop. None of it relevant to me.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Would that it were that simple.
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Brian G. aka urbanbohemian 🪩🥂💖 @urbanbohemian.com · 30/09/2026
We're on Bluesky, put the link in your post. Put the link in your post. Put. The. Link. In. Your. Post. Links in posts aren't buried or de-prioritized here. This is one of the last platforms you don't have to make interested users do detective work to find the link. Just put it in the post.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
It doesn't make me feel dysphoric. It's more like I'm a cat person who's only seeing ads for dog food. It's wildly incorrect and therefore autistically irritating.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
I don't even have the body parts to make the things they're trying to sell me even work. It's very annoying.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Is there a secret setting somewhere that I can click that will stop advertising products aimed at middle-aged women to me? It's not my cookie history. I haven't shopped for anything marketed towards women in about a decade. Do other trans people experience this? What did you do about it?
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
This Truth and Reconciliation Day, get in touch with your MP and let them know what you think about how they've failed to meet the plan outlined for them. Be specific and reference one or two Calls to Action that touch on issues that speak to you. Get personal. nctr.ca/about/truth-...
ourcommons.ca
Find Members of Parliament - Members of Parliament - House of Commons of Canada
Find Members of Parliament - Members of Parliament - House of Commons of Canada
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
This Truth and Reconciliation Day, get in touch with your MP and let them know what you think about how they've failed to meet the plan outlined for them. Be specific and reference one or two Calls to Action that touch on issues that speak to you. Get personal. nctr.ca/about/truth-...
ourcommons.ca
Find Members of Parliament - Members of Parliament - House of Commons of Canada
Find Members of Parliament - Members of Parliament - House of Commons of Canada
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
The federal government misrepresents how little they've actually committed to either Truth or Reconciliation by grouping completed tasks with those still "underway" in order to make it appear like they're doing more than they actually are.
rcaanc-cirnac.gc.ca
Delivering on Truth and Reconciliation Commission Calls to Action
Government of Canada's progress in responding to the Truth and Reconciliation Commission 94 Calls to Action.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
The Truth and Reconciliation Commission laid out 94 Calls to Action intended to be undertaken by various levels of government, professional organizations, and settlers across the country. After 11 years, only 14 of the 94 have been fully completed.
indigenouswatchdog.org
TRC Calls To Action Status: September 1, 2026 - Indigenous Watchdog
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
You know about residential schools and the intergenerational trauma they've led to. The last residential school closed 30 years ago. Many of the people on this app could have been peers with kids who were abused under this system.
cbc.ca
How residential school trauma of previous generations continues to tear through Indigenous families | CBC News
The last of the residential schools in Canada closed in 1997, but the abuse students endured within them has lasting physical and mental effects for generations.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
People in Neskantaga First Nation have been without clean tap water since 1995. 21 years. They're not expected to have clean water until fall 2027. 22 years after the advisory was first put in place.
sac-isc.gc.ca
Neskantaga First Nation
Construction of the water treatment system upgrade and expansion is complete, work continues to address wastewater issues
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
Access to clean water is a basic human right. This headline from StatsCan is misleading, there are still: 💧 38 long-term drinking water advisories 🫂 in 36 communities These numbere were last updated 10 September 2026.
sac-isc.gc.ca
Ending long-term drinking water advisories
Everyone in Canada should have access to safe, clean drinking water. The Government of Canada is working with First Nations communities to achieve clean drinking water on reserves.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
As a white settler, it's especially important to make reparations when I can. Truth and Reconciliation Day serves as an annual reminder that we're still not meeting our treaty obligations, and much of this land was colonized without any treaty governing nation-to-nation relationships.
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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel) @nicomaramckay.com · 30/09/2026
I donate when I can to mutual aid and organizations I know are doing important work. Indspire is one I specifically give to every Truth and Reconciliation Day. You can support Indigenous education here: indspire.ca/ways-to-give/ Or click through the thread below to find others.
Screenshot from a successful donation to Indspire.
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